Put a new light to saying "Act like a MAN"...
16 years ago
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Original journal here: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/1074837/
Reposting because I am tired of being a scapegoat... Tired of being under appreciated and taken for granted and being told that "the work you do isn't as serious or taxing because its not physical labor" basically because its not a MAN'S job or not being given credit for being as smart as I have proven to be.... when I've been moody and its been blamed on the fact that I am a woman...
The whole phrase is from the book Celtic Women's Spirituality by Edain McCoy.
"Our ability to function in the world has been called into question as well. In many cases we hae been deemed to hysterical and emotionally unstable to hold positions of responsibility. Yet studies show that it is men who are right brain oriented and the right half of the brain is the hemisphere that rules the emotion side of human behavior. Women tend to be ruled by the left brain, the hemisphere of logic and reason. Women also have more connectors between the two halves, a substance known as corpus callosum, which allows a greater exchange of information between the two spheres. Think about it. When was the last time you hear a report on the evening news about women whose bar fight got out of hand to the point they resorted to shooting each other? When is the last time you heard about a woman so upset over the breakup of her marriage that she killed her husband, her kids, and then herself? When is the last time you heard about a woman serial killer, or pedophile, or rapist? (It does happen but think in numbers about which sex does it more?)
Our natural cycles, the very cycles that enable human life to continue, have often been blamed for our supposed irrationality. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) takes a lot of bashing in the media. It is true that many women become more aggressive during this period, though they are rarely out of control. What they are is under the influence of the male hormone testosterone which, although it remains only in small quantities, increases during the premenstrual phase. Modern medicine has documented the male phenomenon know as the "testosterone rage," a violently irrational outburst caused by sharp escalations in this hormones production, usually due to the ingestion of bulk-building steroid drugs. Testosterone increases aggressiveness. Testosterone is the defining male hormone, as estrogen is the defining female one. Therefore, any PMS symptoms that are perceived as unstable are due to the fact that women act more like men during this phase than at any other time in their cycles. Aggressive behavior in men is applauded-in women it is feared."
So think of that the next time your nagging about your girlfriend or spouses behavior during her time of the month, she's just acting more like a man :|
If anyone is unstable and should be ridiculed for something they can't help it defiantly should be the males of our society.
So, to all my guy watchers out there, I am NOT bashing, but having my say over personal experiences.
If you liked this or even have been in a similar position of feeling, repost and share with others!!
Reposting because I am tired of being a scapegoat... Tired of being under appreciated and taken for granted and being told that "the work you do isn't as serious or taxing because its not physical labor" basically because its not a MAN'S job or not being given credit for being as smart as I have proven to be.... when I've been moody and its been blamed on the fact that I am a woman...
The whole phrase is from the book Celtic Women's Spirituality by Edain McCoy.
"Our ability to function in the world has been called into question as well. In many cases we hae been deemed to hysterical and emotionally unstable to hold positions of responsibility. Yet studies show that it is men who are right brain oriented and the right half of the brain is the hemisphere that rules the emotion side of human behavior. Women tend to be ruled by the left brain, the hemisphere of logic and reason. Women also have more connectors between the two halves, a substance known as corpus callosum, which allows a greater exchange of information between the two spheres. Think about it. When was the last time you hear a report on the evening news about women whose bar fight got out of hand to the point they resorted to shooting each other? When is the last time you heard about a woman so upset over the breakup of her marriage that she killed her husband, her kids, and then herself? When is the last time you heard about a woman serial killer, or pedophile, or rapist? (It does happen but think in numbers about which sex does it more?)
Our natural cycles, the very cycles that enable human life to continue, have often been blamed for our supposed irrationality. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) takes a lot of bashing in the media. It is true that many women become more aggressive during this period, though they are rarely out of control. What they are is under the influence of the male hormone testosterone which, although it remains only in small quantities, increases during the premenstrual phase. Modern medicine has documented the male phenomenon know as the "testosterone rage," a violently irrational outburst caused by sharp escalations in this hormones production, usually due to the ingestion of bulk-building steroid drugs. Testosterone increases aggressiveness. Testosterone is the defining male hormone, as estrogen is the defining female one. Therefore, any PMS symptoms that are perceived as unstable are due to the fact that women act more like men during this phase than at any other time in their cycles. Aggressive behavior in men is applauded-in women it is feared."
So think of that the next time your nagging about your girlfriend or spouses behavior during her time of the month, she's just acting more like a man :|
If anyone is unstable and should be ridiculed for something they can't help it defiantly should be the males of our society.
So, to all my guy watchers out there, I am NOT bashing, but having my say over personal experiences.
If you liked this or even have been in a similar position of feeling, repost and share with others!!
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No but really, I don't know what a guy would do if he wanted to spread the love, speaking from a girls pov and all ^^
Important journal and I'm glad you posted it
But I know how you are trying to put this... but not ALL of my experiences have been from these type of people either.
you know how mad some people get without their chocolate, or cookies, everyone loves cookies
oooh or cake, i do love a bit of cake =3
however i do have a few twix lying around and lots of cookies too X3
-Male
^^ lol j/k I know you treat your lady well <3
lolwut?
I have known a number of gay men myself without a problem, I don't hate gays either. It was just the principle of the post, for a woman ever put down by any kind of man, because of being a woman. But yeah, your last statement there would be included.
Its a bit annoying to hear the women belong in the kitchen thing to. A bit odd seeing as I want to learn to cook and possibly become a chef. I never do get any of the things that are to be funny for making a certain group look bad but I was always the odd one around town but I like that fact.
And he last thing anyone wants to do is make someone feel bad when they don't feel all that well in the first place
Haha and actually I am a terrible cook :S... Well, maybe not terrible, but Im not as Diverse in the kitchen as most men I know/knew. But I can, I am damn proud of something when it turns out the way its supposed to X3 But yeah, Not because I am "supposed to"
I know what you mean too, I always liked being the "odd one out" regardless of some of the ridicule it got me, at least I have morals!
Well... I wouldn't give "everyone" the same belief, some would like nothing more than to kick you when your down just because they could... But thankfully not Everyone is like that... it really is nice to know that there are still good folks left.
And yeah sadly some to just pleasure from doing things like that. Though some I do think is raising, I will give a lot of my thinking due to my mother and sister. I learned my morals and I treat a lady right or really anyone for that matter. Most if not all I will assume like to be treated with respect and kindness when offered.
Yeah I can agree with that too, but thats mainly where it all comes from, like I was saying about certain generations, but even the generation of kids growing up now a days... they behave so ignorantly, I just want to throw a shoe at their head or something >:/
And ya know... I would like to say the same as well, because once in a blue moon (and it happened pretty recently to
Oh I know that feeling. Maybe I am just a tad to optimistic lol. Even a few bad things happen not one to change because of it. Should pay off at some point in the future for being the nice guy. Saying that hoping not to be like the phrase Nice guys finish last.
Well, I try to be... I just dont have it in me to become a total cold-hearted wench, I have my up and down days like everyone else. I think karma took a sabbatical, but when she gets back hopefully there will be a nice dosage of people getting what they deserve, good or bad...
One of my biggest peeves ever is people that can have that kind of attitude with little to no disdain about it.
Rather men not act like testosterone driven animals and have feminine qualities as well, ultimately that is the true yin and yang.
And that is why we (in broader terms) need one another... there NEEDS to be that balance and (for the most part >!V ) we balance each other out.
The loudest most obnoxious tend to be the most insecure.