A tribute to fatherfurs (belated fathers day journal) (edit)
14 years ago
Edit: so it seems fathers day is june 19? wonder how I got that turned around, oh well, the below is still true
Well this was ment to be realeased on fathers day but I forgot yesteday was the 17, so anyways here is something about those that are the fatherly figures to parts of the fandom.
All around the fandom there are furs of every size, shape, collor species and age. And all of these come with there own needs, wants and desires that have come about through anything from fasination to traumatic events or other hardships.
For many babyfurs/lilfurs and even some diaper furs one of the desires is to be cared for, agian this could come from merely intrest but often when dealing with babyfurs you will find that in one way or another this is the result of well... damage, just as many furries don't feel 100% secure in regards to reguelar humans for instance, somehow these furs have ended up desireing for someone who will care for them as a typical parrent would there own young.
Now while some from this group do double as caretakers there is a group that seems to really specailize in gathering and careing for cubs to try and fill these needs. Tavonwulfe, shoogy, raikan or threeinone are a few of these furs.
Father furs can be a hard bunch to find, and if you do find one its hard to find one that doesn't already have there hands full. It does take a special person to fill these roles after all considering the title "father fur" isn't just a title as some might think, yes the little ones they take care of are in body usually (though not always) able bodied adults who techniqually know how to take care of themselves and have the mental capicity of adults.
However there is one little issue, the issue of the affore mentioned damage or needs. Many babyfurs don't just want someone to call father or such, what they want is "replacement" or stand in parrents.
While most babyfurs do desire to be taken care of physically to re-affirm the bond and also feel loved and to just be plain old cared for the bigger job is usually the emotional side of things in my experiance.
What most cubs want most is someone to confide in and talk to about there problems just like real parrents and who will comfort them when they feel scarred, sad or angry for whatever reasons, As a father fur myself I have found this to often be the hardest part, to try and put together a person who is still partly child and easily troubled, while at the same time often adult and more difficult to teach new tricks.
I guess thats a good part of why babyfurs are baby furries. After all how many wouldn't love to at least show concern for small childern? or perhaps animals? Or of course, little children that are part animal. Soft fuzzy features with wanting intellegent eyes looking for someone to love and care for them.
Many babyfurs have needs such as these, but at the same time father furs can be a bit sparce, after all furries as a whole know that there a very diffrent body behind the "mask" of a fursona, how many people would want a possibly teenaged or maybe even middle aged man (or woman) with emotional troubles crying onto your shoulders? Not to mention that the physical aspects can come into play.
So to those that are the father furs or even those who are the rare mother furs out there that tend to much the same needs, thankyou for being there.
Well this was ment to be realeased on fathers day but I forgot yesteday was the 17, so anyways here is something about those that are the fatherly figures to parts of the fandom.
All around the fandom there are furs of every size, shape, collor species and age. And all of these come with there own needs, wants and desires that have come about through anything from fasination to traumatic events or other hardships.
For many babyfurs/lilfurs and even some diaper furs one of the desires is to be cared for, agian this could come from merely intrest but often when dealing with babyfurs you will find that in one way or another this is the result of well... damage, just as many furries don't feel 100% secure in regards to reguelar humans for instance, somehow these furs have ended up desireing for someone who will care for them as a typical parrent would there own young.
Now while some from this group do double as caretakers there is a group that seems to really specailize in gathering and careing for cubs to try and fill these needs. Tavonwulfe, shoogy, raikan or threeinone are a few of these furs.
Father furs can be a hard bunch to find, and if you do find one its hard to find one that doesn't already have there hands full. It does take a special person to fill these roles after all considering the title "father fur" isn't just a title as some might think, yes the little ones they take care of are in body usually (though not always) able bodied adults who techniqually know how to take care of themselves and have the mental capicity of adults.
However there is one little issue, the issue of the affore mentioned damage or needs. Many babyfurs don't just want someone to call father or such, what they want is "replacement" or stand in parrents.
While most babyfurs do desire to be taken care of physically to re-affirm the bond and also feel loved and to just be plain old cared for the bigger job is usually the emotional side of things in my experiance.
What most cubs want most is someone to confide in and talk to about there problems just like real parrents and who will comfort them when they feel scarred, sad or angry for whatever reasons, As a father fur myself I have found this to often be the hardest part, to try and put together a person who is still partly child and easily troubled, while at the same time often adult and more difficult to teach new tricks.
I guess thats a good part of why babyfurs are baby furries. After all how many wouldn't love to at least show concern for small childern? or perhaps animals? Or of course, little children that are part animal. Soft fuzzy features with wanting intellegent eyes looking for someone to love and care for them.
Many babyfurs have needs such as these, but at the same time father furs can be a bit sparce, after all furries as a whole know that there a very diffrent body behind the "mask" of a fursona, how many people would want a possibly teenaged or maybe even middle aged man (or woman) with emotional troubles crying onto your shoulders? Not to mention that the physical aspects can come into play.
So to those that are the father furs or even those who are the rare mother furs out there that tend to much the same needs, thankyou for being there.
fatherfalcon
~fatherfalcon
OP
aww, thankies, so you do get to see him still though right? your father?
Claus_Cubone
~clauscubone
wow daddy........that is beautiful. *huggles you and kisses you lovingly* happy (late) fathers day.
fatherfalcon
~fatherfalcon
OP
awww, thankyou little one *smooches your head*
SonXgal
~sonxgal
I take it Father's day is on a different day and month where you are.
fatherfalcon
~fatherfalcon
OP
oh, um don't know, I guess if that wasn't fathers day in your area it must be
SonXgal
~sonxgal
Yeah cause Father's day here is in June.
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