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Why I, MYSELF, call MYSELF a cuntboy
14 years ago
I swear to fucking God if this shit erupts into a massive shit slinging dramafest I will delete this journal so fast it will make your goddamned head spin. I will start with hiding comments. If that gets out of control, I WILL DELETE IT. So please keep this shit civil. kthnxbye
First off, I label MYSELF and not others. Key note the massive amounts of caps in the title of this journal, EMPHASIZING this fact. Now that we have THAT out of the way too...
I understand why most of the trans* community hates the word, I do. Like, I really really do. It is a gross, pornographic term. I mean, the word cunt is used as an insult most of the time, no? However, SOME people (such as myself) do not see it that way. Just like some people see the word faggot as offensive and some don't. It's all a matter of PERSONAL preference.
I tend to take the word literally. I am a boy with a cunt. I identify as such. I, at the current moment, do not want bottom surgery. I just don't. I'm quite happy with my bonus hole. Thus, there is another reason I like cuntboys. As I stated before, I identify with them. Seeing a cuntboy in porn, I can see MYSELF. Yes, I do it with gay porn as well but I can't quite identify with the...feelings I guess you could say that come with having a penis. I can't cause well, I've never had one! C'est la vie.
Just because I call MYSELF a cuntboy doesn't mean I call every other FtM or transmasculine, etc. person a cuntboy. In fact, I never have. Knowing the issues and drama that always surrounds the word, I would NEVER call someone a cuntboy unless they referred to themselves as such or stated they were cool with the word/label. Just because a handful of trans* people consider themselves cuntboys does not mean they ALL do. Stop labeling people, ESPECIALLY for your fetish fodder. Labeling an FtM person who does NOT want to be labeled as such for your porn folder isn't right at all. Got it?
So uh...Moral of the story is don't get pissy at my labels and I won't get pissy at yours. Also, don't label others. That's just not nice.
I swear to fucking God if this shit erupts into a massive shit slinging dramafest I will delete this journal so fast it will make your goddamned head spin. I will start with hiding comments. If that gets out of control, I WILL DELETE IT. So please keep this shit civil. kthnxbye
First off, I label MYSELF and not others. Key note the massive amounts of caps in the title of this journal, EMPHASIZING this fact. Now that we have THAT out of the way too...
I understand why most of the trans* community hates the word, I do. Like, I really really do. It is a gross, pornographic term. I mean, the word cunt is used as an insult most of the time, no? However, SOME people (such as myself) do not see it that way. Just like some people see the word faggot as offensive and some don't. It's all a matter of PERSONAL preference.
I tend to take the word literally. I am a boy with a cunt. I identify as such. I, at the current moment, do not want bottom surgery. I just don't. I'm quite happy with my bonus hole. Thus, there is another reason I like cuntboys. As I stated before, I identify with them. Seeing a cuntboy in porn, I can see MYSELF. Yes, I do it with gay porn as well but I can't quite identify with the...feelings I guess you could say that come with having a penis. I can't cause well, I've never had one! C'est la vie.
Just because I call MYSELF a cuntboy doesn't mean I call every other FtM or transmasculine, etc. person a cuntboy. In fact, I never have. Knowing the issues and drama that always surrounds the word, I would NEVER call someone a cuntboy unless they referred to themselves as such or stated they were cool with the word/label. Just because a handful of trans* people consider themselves cuntboys does not mean they ALL do. Stop labeling people, ESPECIALLY for your fetish fodder. Labeling an FtM person who does NOT want to be labeled as such for your porn folder isn't right at all. Got it?
So uh...Moral of the story is don't get pissy at my labels and I won't get pissy at yours. Also, don't label others. That's just not nice.
I swear to fucking God if this shit erupts into a massive shit slinging dramafest I will delete this journal so fast it will make your goddamned head spin. I will start with hiding comments. If that gets out of control, I WILL DELETE IT. So please keep this shit civil. kthnxbye
NOTE:[/b I call myself a cuntboy. [b]MY. FUCKING. SELF. Personal preference and opinion dubs this acceptable.
Words are what you make them when it comes to labeling yourself.
I'm just sick of getting flack and seeing flack people get for calling themselves such.
Really, I think it's okay for someone to refer themselves as something that's "personal", but I would NEVER refer to them as such, even if they were okay with it.
Because well, that can be sensitive towards others, and I don't want to be that kind of guy, y'know? Even if I/someone was joking, I wouldn't feel right after I have said it. :/
I sound like a wimp, do I? xP
And I have a history of not caring over specific words used.
All this just reminds me why I'm so nortoriously lazy with labels, Haha. Spretty much easier to just be like IMMA GURL than go through the whole androgynous spiel. IRL its pretty obvious I'm a chick anyways cause of military guy hair.
I should switch it up sometime and refer to myself as 'he' just to throw people off.
Actually maybe that's how I should refer to my roosona.
I wouldn't call her bitch I'd call her cunt. So I think they need to make a nicer sounding word for
"cunnybois"
but yeah I think the BEST "cuntboy" on here is
And I'm good would the word cuntboy, cboy, etc. kthnx.
thanks for this!
DJ
Homme = French for boy
Veens = ???
So really, none of them quite mean boy with a vagina.
Your ideas?
You just made me suddenly be able to relate 100% to the word.
Also I told my doc at my first appointment(regarding transitioning) that I didn't plan on getting bottom surgery because I like my bonus hole. She burst out laughing at the word, and was happy that I am so at ease to talk to her about what I need.
Also, sorry for creeping on your journal. :P
I would never call another person something unless they identified that way or were ok with it. Labeling others and putting on labels they don't want is fucked.