I may have a roomate before the year is out.
A good friend of mine  addik has expressed a desire to leave his current place of residence.
Since i am tired of always being alone,having no one to talk to or hang out with i told him he was more than welcome to move in with me and i wont even charge him rent...he said he may eventually take me up on that offer.

Ok...personally id prefer living with a mate...but since that isint very likely to happen any time soon, a good friend is the next best thing...and who knows....if im lucky our friendship mite eventually evolve into something more...i already know he possesses the primary quality i seek in a mate....a kind and compassionate heart.

Pluss he has a few other qualities i find attractive...like a energetic and friendly personality as well as an appreciation for good herb.

Am i gonna get all excited and hopeful?
No....ive learned my lesson from my last failed relationship...0 hope = 0 disappointment&pain

Should my friendship with him evolve into love will it change how i feel about  mudpaws  yaegashi and  feathery ?
HELL NO!!
Mudpaws will always be my mate till the day the heavy metal poison in his blood takes him away from me(may that day be years in the future...despite what docs say).

As for Yaegashi and Feathery...i will always love them very much i will always want to be with them...i will always encourage them to pack up and move in with me.
I am both a hippy and a mouse furry...2 things that are known for their capacity to love...within my heart is an inexhaustible supply of love...so much love that it makes the Q Continuum seem smaller than an atom.
I seek the acquisition of love like the Ferengi seek the acquisition of wealth...the more love i receive the more stable and happy i will become.