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How many people have you had sex with?
18 years ago
Guaranteed to put you to sleep faster than Ben Stein reading the periodical table of elements!
Inspired by two posts to a livejournal community, I'm asking the same question on here for fun.
What's the total number of people you've had sex with? How old are you? What do you WISH your number was? (that one I'm adding in for fun)
I'll start the bidding off! 1. 23. 1.
(optional if you want to include relationship status and whether or not you have kids)
Nice mine is: 0. 29. 1
Glad to help your hunger :)
0, 22, 1
6. 23. ...6? I'm not a regretful type of person, I guess.
zomg 2x3 = 6 making my answers 666!!1 *runs off to sleep with someone else* xD
And your icon would make me think you'd enjoy having your number factor in to be that! *throws random person at you to boost it with* XD
*looks at other answers* lol wow I'm a slut :D
But no one's admitted to more than 30 in either place yet =x
Always understanding of others and never judgmental of anyone am I.
1,22,1 Yaaaaay! XD
I WUBBLES HIM! <3<3<3 :3
I wish you a prosperous future of monogamy and love!
1.5/32/1 tho not the one listed.
*runs off embarrassed*
I just never trust anyone to get close
which sparked the habit of trying to give guys what they wanted so they'd love me...
I'd rather have kept my virginity till I met certain people, I wish i hadn't had sex with a few, And the 8 I do feel good about having sex with, the sex was fine... it was the relationship that I wish I could have held onto. I know theres a few more people out there I would love to be one with other than the one I'm with... but that is if the relationship I'm in now wasn't of both HEART and SOUL and BODY.
I dont mind relationships that are heart and body. but when someone shares their soul with you... its becoming more one than anything else.
Sex is the act.
making love is what its all about.
I could never do that. I would regret and I dont sleep with anyone unless I have feelings for them.
I want to experience more, but I don't want to just have sex with any random person. Didn't even have sex for the first time until after I turned 19...so I think I'm doing pretty well xD
If I see the people so short before xmas ... like they went in pairs through the city. Cold and dark ..
0. 22. 0.
*kicks fir tree*
Yeah, I'm still a virgin at 22 (23 in January). Oh noes! I am untainted by the aw4esomness that must be sex!!!! O.O XD
As for how many I would like, I have no clue. Granted, I consider myself Pansexual, so, ones gender, at least in my mind is irrelevant. BUt in real life, I don't find myself thinking,
"Man, that person is hopt and one I'd like the pleasure of sleeping with", you know? XD
Well, maybe I consider it "weird" as due to partially from the brainwashing the media does to us as well as hearing people say, who are like in High School, seem to think that "getting laid" is "cool" and if you don't do it before time X, you are a loser.... or some crap like that.
I guess my way of thinking is... different. On one hand, I have a part of me that at times just wants to fuck/be fucked like crazy and be able to experiance what must be this godly feeling of pleasure, yet at the same time, another aspect of me is like, why is it everyone seems so hellbent on fucking, you know? Almost like, do I really need to be doing this, and whatnot? My mind seems to always see both sides of thigs and as such make me not do things as it can't make up it's mind, you know?
And, if it were to happen in real life, chances are, I'd be so nervous, it might be "not fun" or something, you know?
YThen again, I do tend to overthink/overanalyze things also. >.<
Then again, again, I at times think it better to fnd someone whose "inside" is better then their "outer shell" as I sometimes call ones outward appearance, of gender, race, apearance, you know? To me, I would want to be with someone that makes me feel happy all the time (And for me I am one who is 99% of the time in a "hyper happy" mode, almost making me seem "crazy" sometimes with a ear to ear smile and making people laugh. XD) instead of being with someone people would consider "Drop dead beautiful" and them making you want to hurt yourself all the time to to thier "incompatible" personality, you know? Granted, in this day and age, people look at the outer shell before going to look at the inner essense of a person. To me, in one aspect, the internet can be good, as one can get to know the inner being of a person, before ever knowing the outer part, you know?
But, that's just me and it seems in my semi sick from cold mindset I have started to ramble. I do apologize for that, and should stop typing now ok? Talk to you later. ^^
*Climbs back under the covers to try and get some rest.... or something*
Anywho, I should go and rest to try and kill this damned cold I have. And, thanks again for the early birthday wish thingy. XD
Well let's see...
7, 30 and well, hmmm infinity +1
(not that i wana have sex with everything that moves, but i enjoy it and i like Fun (but safe) Sex... also, having a partner thats open helps ^_^ . pint is: i am VERy happy. maybe one day i'll have a family, but for now, personally, i'm living it =D )
now i press on was =P
e.e;; murr- first time was REALLY bad, wish it never happened.
^_^ yes, not im with someone wonderful. <3 I sure hope I can stay with him forever <3 ^____^
These sound like Lotto numbers, if you think about it. XD
I'm surprised at how many other virgins there are on this board. But, yup. Never even been kissed. Haven't met the guy yet I want to be kissed by.
Sexual desire is non-existant in me. *sigh*
....now the desire for COMPANIONSHIP and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, of course that's through the roof :)
Happened quite recently.
It really feels like the right person, but current circumstances make the situation a very difficult one.
There are a lot of things that needs to be explained to understand how it goes together, but I don't really want to do that openly.
If you want i can try to explain it all.
23, 18, 4.
oh and do I have your adress? I am giong to send one out too! (as soon as I find someone with a color printer! might get it alittle late) note me your adress! I don't think I have it!
You can't let yourself get buried in regret- you'll be a miserable person if you do. You have to pick up what you've got and figure out how you can use it to improve your life, rather than let it consume you in self-guilt.
My lessons are as follows:
1.) Don't ignore red flags, and sometimes your family IS right.
2.) Nothing you can do will make someone love you, not matter how much you want them to.
Besides, you can't beat yourself up for doing what you thought was the right thing at that time.
<3
And I'm gonna swipe this idea and put the question up to my watchers. XD
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/259117/
And I'll include the 3 times I was offered just for the heck of beng specific.
Beauty can be such a curse sometimes huh?
Only 2 of them really ever mattered to me. I wish I wouldn't of with the one. But I WAS seeing each of them at the time, so I don't feel whorish lmao.
0|24.5|0 (for right now)
As per your definition of sleeping together, however, only anal or vaginal penetration matters. I think that's a silly definition, honestly (what about girl/girl? penetration isn't a given)
V.
V.
...wait...are we talking all types of sex? O_o;
HA! HA! HA!
3.23.2
I'll tell you the story behind that if you're interested but you gotta note me for that one.
I'll note you though
*fap fap fap* Huh?
4.23.3
People do tend to remember bad sex more easily than good sex, haha
1, 25, 1.
If yer going for like.. oral and stuff to? Then..
2, 25, 2.
:)
2.23.2
Nobody will ever agree on what exactly constitutes sex, so I'm not even beginning to try to define it on here, lol
(incidentally, I know who your 2 was ;D)
But yeah, I know. Ask ten different people what constitutes sex, and you get ten completely different answers. :D
The whole oral thing with someone other than Wuf was actually really recent. And yes, Wuf knows about it, he was there.
Nope, not the SA trip. We went to Arkansas in mid November with the same friends, though.
And I bet he made it up. He HAS made up alot of things
Mm, probably not. We met them on Tapestries, of all places (yes, scary, I know) but they tend to hide from the local furry scene (they're in SA). BrightSpot and Ule are their furry names. :)
0.5 because actually sexual penetration has never taken place, at least the kind that qualifies as a reproductive act.
7.21.7 - I have no regrets, sex is sex 8D
...I should have taken a picture of the vomit and then posted it to tmi pix and been like, look what you made me do, LOL
BTW, dropped a package for ya off at FedEx today. Should go out ground on Monday, arrive yer 10-20 EOweek.
LOL, seriously though, awwww!!!!!! You are FAR too sweet to me *gushes*
Awww, shucks.
I also wouldn't have answered this had it not been you thst asked XD
Also! Did you get one of your boxes from me yet? *bounces*
And you should try to explain if you ever have the time, all my situations have been incredibly complicated also. But if it's too complicated, you shouldn't give yourself away, because those kind of things quickly turns into messes, and you need to be with someone who deserves you
Boxes? Not any since the bat. And boxES??? Are you spoiling me again? :3
I'd explain it to you of course, but I might take it to notes since the person frequents FA and I'm not sure if I want to admit it so publically yet you know?
And yeah, I'm perfectly fine with waiting. I'm not dumb enough to buy into the stigma that you are less of a person if you haven't had sex, and I also know that one should wait for the important feelings to be there too not just doing the deed. :3 So yeah, I'm fine with waiting for someone good enough for me
Also, now that I reread that, dumb is not the right word. I meant I don't have low enough self esteem to buy into that. I'm sure you already understood that but I had to fix it or it would drive me nuts.
AGE: 22, going on 23
how many i'd LIKE to have had, i dunno. prolly 1 >>;
Personally, when I think about having sex without the serious emotional attachment and love, I get sick, so I don't think I could slut around.
and that 1 barely happened before I become the 23 *dies*
Only the emotional aspect of sex really interests me. I'm actually quite prudish in real life, both sexually and socially. I'd want to know someone for several months, first.
The only offer I ever got was from a gay guy. I believe he was tipped off by my boss that I'm gay, which I definitely am not. So many people in real life think I swing that way! I was also amazed that even though I had only known him for a week (as a customer), when he told me he was gay an interested in me, the subject of sex came up immediately. That bothered me. Forget about treating someone else like a piece of meat -- how can someone even WANT to have sex before getting to know the other person? So, if he were a girl, it wouldn't have made a difference.
I'm a horribly old fashioned girl. I believe that sex is the ultimate expression of love and devotion, the thing that two people share as the pinnacle of committment, a bond given only to that other partner as physical representation of that deep and abiding love. Now it's like, at cons, "Hai guyz, wanna have sex?" or even with gay men who claim to be romantic, old fashioned gentleman. One date, then "Hai, wanna have sex?" etc.
Now, not ALL with that preferred sexuality are like that, but a large number I've encountered are. Or like my lesbian friend, who thinks that sleeping around with men doesn't count since she's a lesbian. Lol..
As to how someone can WANT sex with a stranger? It beats the HECK out of me.
Now, let's see. Would that be "sex with a stranger", or "sex with the strange?"
There is a difference, mark you.
1 - I'm very clean and organized at work. Seriously, I'm about the only one who doesn't make a mess of everything. Obviously, that fits the stereotype.
2 - I make disapproving faces when people talk or joke about sex in public. Since most of the time that involves talking about sex with women, well...
It's annoying. I was under the impression people went to work to, you know... WORK.
Now, if I could get hit on by 2-3 GALS per con.... Ah, well. :)
Right now I'm prolly single again, even if I'm trying to mend the situation, and I'm kids-less.
Interesting question you ask, simple but it's made me think and I suppose I dont regret anything. In fact I dont think I have anything to regret. XD
The rest of it, guilty, Yer Honor. I throw myself on the mercy of the court. Or the District Attorney, if she's cute.
Been with him for four years, and we have a two year old
0, 28, 1
Heh, dated only once. Oh well, someday, I'll find Ms. Right.......someday, someday....maybe........if I quit setting off everyones gaydar.....bah.
Heh, oh well, maybe I should start posting in my profile, "Women, please." :-P I don't know. I wish I knew WHAT I am doing wrong......or what wrong signals I am giving off.
OH well, but yeah, this job does get me to interesting places. And so far I met a couple of nice people. Unfortunately most of them are men with some "taken" women. But then again, I don't have the thought of being "hooked up" in my thoughts when I visit people......at all. Oh well..........I guess. :-/
I'm sorry for the gaydar thing though, maybe you SHOULD post that you're a straight male in your bio? XD
OH well, hehehe, I guess I'll put that in my Bio then once I get it updated.
Dude, seriously!
At this point I've had sex with partner number 2 several hundred times, though, so I ain't complaining.
Yeah, if you want to count how many times you've done it with a person, rather than how many people..Boy, my numbers would be *Ahem*
I would have enjoyed that movie so much more if I were gay.
Anyway, the 300 is sort of the number of people I wish I'd had sex with. Only not really. The wife is pretty much perfect, but everybody was saying "1" as the wish number, and I gotta be different. ;)
The .2 was a prostitute I was peer pressured into by a navy buddy. Although I had penetrative sex, to this day I couldn't tell you what a vagina feels like because I felt absolutely nothing. I couldn't maintain an erection for very long even. It was so utterly wrong to me.. it's been 13 years and I still can't wash out the smell of cheap perfume and cigarettes. There is no possible way I could do casual sex and any woman I had a relationship with would have to have a great deal of feelings toward me and vice-versa for sex to even take place. Thing is, I'm not too terribly worried about it as I have all the makings of a hermit anyway.
I dunno, "repeated circumstances" usually means they enjoyed it enough to do it again. In my case, you would have had to put a gun to my head. Or, at least it is a pointless exercise, waste of money and a reason to take a long, burning hot shower to wash off the funk. Not that I have a problem with prostitutes or selling sex in general, it just isn't for me.
There is only Three persons I have had sex with that I regret.
Even with that reret, I wouldn't undo it. I learned to may important
lessons from them.
But there is Seven that I regret saying "No" to and would change
that if I could.
O'course now that I am with Milady, the option is no longer available.
*grin*
She is number 17, so I would be surprised if the first number ever
changes. The last may go up a bit though. *Wink*
>^..^<
I never gave it much thought. My first lover was a complete train wreck. But it's one of those things that teaches you very valuable lessons on how NOT to run a relationship. Without that, I might still be completely clueless.
I sort of wish it had been someone else, but I don't think that would have turned out either. It's that "first serious attempt at a relationship" thing, but without a clue.
I'm in a polyamorous relationship right now. I am completely happy as things stand. Meaning I love my mate to pieces, and couldn't ask for anyone more awesome. There is some curiosity, but I will still be an incredibly happy man if that first number never changes. :) (And even if it does, it doesn't mean I'm giving anyone up! =) )
And it's not really about the numbers, but the kind of relationship things just blossom into, you know? :)
Before we even started dating in 2001, Mistletoe was already Daliwolf's mate. Dali is married to her husband Rick (and still are) long before Dali dated Mistletoe. Mistletoe wanted a man in her life, so Dali allowed her to date. Dali and I, as well as Mistletoe and I had very strong friendships going back before Dali and Mistletoe started dating, all developed independent of each other. :) So we all really had a strong foundation. :)
Mistletoe and I had these HUGE crushes on each other for the longest time! I wanted to date Mistletoe when I first met her in 1997, but she started dating a high school sweetheart who was also a furry, then. After they broke up in late 2000/early 2001, our mutual crushes were free to run rampant, and well--there you have it!
The relationship sort of looks like this:
Tremaine <===> Mistletoe <===> Dali <===> Rick
Polyamory isn't for everyone. Lots of jealousy issues we had to master, we had to be very open about communication, very honest, and we all had to learn to compromise. And that I can't assume anything. All good things in any relationship, really, just a lot more. =P a LOT more. =P
So Dali, Mistletoe and I talked a LOT before Mistletoe and I got married. Dali wasn't sure at first, but we all aired our concerns, and listened, and worked things out. In the end, we figured it was the best thing we could do. :)
But as far as poly goes--in a way, it can be nice to romantically love more than one person, each on 100% of their own merit. ^_^