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How many people have you had sex with?
18 years ago
Idea Stolen from 
Sharra from her journal here.
What's the total number of people you've had sex with? How old are you? What do you WISH your number was? (that one I'm adding in for fun)
(optional if you want to include relationship status and whether or not you have kids)
Mine is 3.24.1
Personally, I'd only want to have sex with the one person who is my one true love.
I know it's loaded with cheese, but it's true anyway. =3
1, thought he loved me, but learned he was a liar.
2, thought sex could make him love me. Doesn't work.
3. I love him, and he loves me. I hope he's the last. <3
Sharra from her journal here.What's the total number of people you've had sex with? How old are you? What do you WISH your number was? (that one I'm adding in for fun)
(optional if you want to include relationship status and whether or not you have kids)
Mine is 3.24.1
Personally, I'd only want to have sex with the one person who is my one true love.
I know it's loaded with cheese, but it's true anyway. =3
1, thought he loved me, but learned he was a liar.
2, thought sex could make him love me. Doesn't work.
3. I love him, and he loves me. I hope he's the last. <3
I have found my 1 but I am staying at 0 untill the honeymoon! ^^
Dosn't mean we can do alot of other stuff until then! hehe ^^
Love is always the most important part of the relationship anyway. =3 If you are loved enough to wait, then love must be pretty strong! It's hard to hold back those urges. Those who do should be respected for it. ;3
Many believe that when someone says sex is for married peeps. That they are not with the times. But there was a reason for that. Not to rush into something.
Glad your in love hopes all the best for you.
>^..^<
I understand your point, and respect it. =3
Oh, I like to ignore society. Some say you're not with the times if you refrain from sex until marriage, other say you're a slut if you do have sex prior to.
I decided that I wanted to use that act of sex as a way I express my love for my mate. My body, my love, my expression.
I'm an a deep lover- I fall in love hard. I'm loyal to a fault.
I just need to find someone who falls just as hard as I do. I believe I've found him. Only time will tell.
Of course sex is not my main focus in my relationship. I simply choose to make it a part of it. I would never try to convince anyone to make either choice- I might help someone consider the pros and cons of each, to try to help them decide for themselves... but I would never say one way was better than another.
But I also will never cave and say that I made the wrong choice- it was my choice, and mine alone. What is done, is done, and I do not regret it.
My warmest hopes for dreams to come true! =3
Ooooh, I'm a ho ho ho apparently. I've had a few semi-serious relationships, two really serious ones, a couple partners who were important to me and only 1 or 2 who weren't. But you know, I have few regrets, live and learn, everything that happens shapes the person you become (:
1: My first boyfriend, kinda pressured into it, both by peers and him, I was young.
2: My first love, we were engaged young and he ended up cheating on me.
3: He helped me get over the previous guy, I really liked him, but we were drinking and he just wanted to get laid. That sucked, but honestly, without him I may have suffered through a terrible relationship way longer than I needed to.
4: Met one guy who was pretty cute, had a few dates but he was WAY too glued to his computer for a relationship to work, LOL.
5: One regret, a younger guy who was kind of a family friend, turns out he was seeing someone else he didn't tell me about. There was no way I wanted to be the 'other woman'.
6: A boyfriend of mine of about 6 months. We just weren't compatible as boy/girlfriend, but we're great friends now :)
7: A friend of mine that I'd known for years. I was in town visiting him for a couple weeks, it was mostly just sex for the sake of having sex.
8: Another friend that I'd known since the beginning of high school.. It didn't take off from the beginning because I was falling in love with Chris.. The only reason we even started dating was because I was reluctant to get involved with Chris who was 2000 miles away at the time..
9: And lastly love prevailed over distance, Chris, my husband who I lurve very much ;3
I'm so very happy for you and Chris. That sort of thing just makes me all sappy and melty. =3
<3
My problem was that the person who got the 1, wasn't the 1 I wanted it to be. At the time, yes, but because things went the way they did, if I ever choose to someday get involved with someone again, it'll boost my 1 to a 2, when my lifes goal was to only ever have it be 1.
You're right that I shouldn't dwell in the past though, and out of that 1 I got my son, so I can't ever completely regret it. But even so. We're always left to wonder how life would be if we didn't have those blunders
I thought my first was going to be my last, I was with him for seven years and we were engaged for three. But it seems that the last year we were together he just could keep up the facade, and soon his exterior melted away to reveal his true intentions: His goals in life were to find a woman who would be his little house wife to pop out babies and also to get disabled on-the-job so he didn't have to work ever again and have his little house wife dote on him.
I mean, WHAT? What kind of life is that? My father was disabled, and his mother was too. Seeing their pain and suffering for so long... who could ever want that for themselves?
And since I wouldn't bow to his will it seems his latest goal is to become criminal enough to jail.
Insane how hard someone is willing to work for the sake of laziness.
I suck, apparently. :-P j/k, lol.
There's been a few that I would have been willing to... try... it with, under the right circumstances. Thankfully, they never came around. ;)
Hopefully, the '1' on that list will be the only one I'll ever be involved with (my mate,
1, thought he loved me, but learned he was a liar.
2, thought sex could make him love me. Doesn't work.
3. I love him, and he loves me. I hope he's the last. <3
1 - heh, yeah most people are, sadly enough...
2 - lol
3 - *wishes you luck* :)
It must feel right, and your mind must agree with your heart and body. ;)
In spite of what others believe, I believe that virgins are probably the most desirable kind of mate because they obviously have enormous self-worth. (not that non-virgins don't)
Of course you want your first to be special, and damn it, it should be!!
That is so sweet!! I really like Salem, he is a good man. I hope the best for both of you!!
1- I tend to be honest to a fault, so of course expected everyone else to be the same! Ah, naiveté!
2- I lol'd cuz you lol'd! (smart girl!)
3- *hugs* thank you, I wish you luck too!!
*agrees* Yeah, the body not agreeing with my mind and nothing agreeing with my heart was my main problem from before, lol. 'Course, now I'm kind of (okay, really) happy that nothing happened with the others. Wasn't so happy then, but... :-P
And awwww....
lol, yep. ;)
*nodsnods* He is, although very few actually get to see that goodness. I'm glad I'm one of those people. :) And thank you. *grins*
1 - XD, yeah nothing quite like it. :-P
2 - :-P
3 - *hugs back* :D
*nods*
Salem is true to himself, and not a lot of people can handle that. It seems like people tend to misunderstand him too.
Chaos_Jaguar wrote:*nodsnods* He is, although very few actually get to see that goodness. I'm glad I'm one of those people. :) And thank you. *grins*
I'm glad you are too. =^_^= *hugs*
1. Was a first GF...that cheated on me...several times, Bleah!
2. Was some one that we were hoping it would work out with each other...but we were way to different.
3. We were drunk, we were in a pool, we were alone(for the most part) What more can i say? Other than pool secks is awesome! ;3
As for finding the 1 that will be the last 1, that prolly won't be for a long time, as i plan on moving back home(the coast of Washington), very few ppl around here want anything to do with the city! I can't afford to live there untill my car is paid off...4 1/2 years left on that! =(
1, thought he loved me, but learned he was a liar.
~that sux! Why are ppl like that~
2, thought sex could make him love me. Doesn't work.
~making some one love you isn't real love, so in the long run it was good for you~
3. I love him, and he loves me. I hope he's the last. <3
~good luck! :3~
2. *nodnods* Totally understand.
3. *turns red* I'm Jealous. I've heard about that kind of stuff!! Just wait till I get Ralynxi near some water! LOL!!
Well, as far as that goes, I find that once people get out of the rut and visit a city, it's quite addictive. Convincing someone to go with you is difficult, I know. but i wish you luck on all accounts.
*shrugs* I met Ralynxi online at OkCupid. It's kind fun, and you can just look for friends too. (I tell everybody about this site, lol!)
1. It just seems like honesty is not very highly valued over instant gratification or desire satisfaction. *shrug*
2. I agree. I'm so glad it didn't work out. It would have been uber complicated- He was Indian, so I would have to be totally submissive to his family to be accepted, even though I doubt they would ever accept me from what he told me of them. That's not why it ended (I think), he just stopped calling me, and then called me the day after Valentines (I send him flowers and 2lbs of chocolates and a laminated drawing that doubled as a magnet) and told me he didn't think it would work out.
Two months later, he called me all mad because I had met Ralynxi and fallen quickly in love with him. Too bad, so sad.
3. Thank you!! Good luck with love to you, the one is out there! *hugs*
and good luck on my #3 ;3