Wha???
14 years ago
I don't get it. Everyone I have tried to chat with today via IM or IRC ir even with notes recently is very short, curt and direct in their responses. I just want to converse anit, tty and be social.
Yet in my attempts to do so I keep getting basic responses thar don't leave much room for followup interaction. While nothing is said overtly it feels like the implied message is "leave me the fuck alone."
I am starting to feel like it is wrong for me to try and socialize given these responses. Am I wrong for thinking that when I get basic, uninvolved responses from more than one person something is wrong with me?
I just want to be friendly and get to know people a little more. Though it seems I am lacking something that makes other people want to talk.
Also just for the record everyone says I am fine too, but when everyone is being frosty and saying nothing is wrong; it makes me wonder why I should bother trying.
PS: This is not aimed at anyone specifically; I am just using my own journal to express what I am feeling st the moment.
Yet in my attempts to do so I keep getting basic responses thar don't leave much room for followup interaction. While nothing is said overtly it feels like the implied message is "leave me the fuck alone."
I am starting to feel like it is wrong for me to try and socialize given these responses. Am I wrong for thinking that when I get basic, uninvolved responses from more than one person something is wrong with me?
I just want to be friendly and get to know people a little more. Though it seems I am lacking something that makes other people want to talk.
Also just for the record everyone says I am fine too, but when everyone is being frosty and saying nothing is wrong; it makes me wonder why I should bother trying.
PS: This is not aimed at anyone specifically; I am just using my own journal to express what I am feeling st the moment.
I know some of my friends are feeling like that with me cause I sometimes jump away from the computer for undetermined amounts of time without warning. I have a 3 year old who often pulls my attention. As for the friends you are speaking of, I can't talk for their sake, but maybe they're busy with stuff too.