so lemme give you a little background first.

My grandmother on my dads side has known this guy for 20 years and dated him on and off, now he is a raging alcoholic, drug addict, compulsive liar, child abuser (me in junior high and high school), and criminal to the point of defrauding the state of california, and having my grandmother send him drugs through the mail to texas (federal law broken). just as a brief few reasons not to want him to be around any of my family members.

right now im living with my grandmother on my moms side taking care of her in riverside while my parents are with the grandmother above along with my sister and i was there until recently. so friday i go to my parents to help them out with a community sale saturday morning and a friend comes to help and sell some of his things as well. i get there in the late morning only to find out that the man above is coming back from texas and will be staying in my grammas' (dads side) rv! well my friend and i were going to stay there friday night for the sale that started super early but as he is allergic to animals and the guy was bringing his dog with him, friend decided to stay home and just come down super early to set his stuff up.

so the guy shows up friday night at 1am as im getting ready to go to bed on the couch in the living room. since i didnt want to stay in the rv with him. only to find out he didnt take his dog on the plane in a travel safe cage so she freaked out and got super injured. so my mom is trying to help clean the dogs wounds a little, and the dog is freaking (obviously) and everyone else is being super loud as well. some of which wasnt deserved after they finished he decided to talk with my gramma in the same room i was trying to sleep in. instead of just doing some like going to her bedroom to talk. so i got 2 1/2 hours sleep before my friend shows up at the door at 6am ready to set up for the sale.

during the sale the guy kept coming around and being annoying, we ignored him for the most part and continued welcoming customers. then after tearing down our booth and everything getting put back in my friends car that he didnt sell, we got ready to go to the ps. got my moms stuff loaded in my car had my friend go ahead of us to get his stuff ready for the ps while we ran over and got a few bday presents finished up at kinkos. had a great time at ps then went home and passed out on my sisters bed around 2am, cause she wasnt going to be home that night.

day 3 at 730am im woken up by a scream from the living room. now my thought is, oh great the man just stabbed my father. only to find out, he overdosed in our living room instead and was seizing from it. so we called 911 and all that fun jazz, and when the emts get there and are asking what medications he is taking my gramma tells them 2 and leaves it at that. so my mother chimes in and tells them the other like 8 my gramma was trying to hide from them. now that was our last straw with him and we called my uncle (dads brother) and told him where to pick my gramma up at and the situation and that we need to deal with her. so he picks her up and both her sons and her only grandson tell her we need to talk. so we had an intervention with her and told her she has to choose between him or us because adding the extra stress of this is going to literally kill my mother whom already has a bad heart. so she tells us she is taking him to the bus station the next morning and he is gone. so the rest of the night goes fairly well and i finally get good sleep.

next day i drive home to riverside with no incident.

so the day after my sister has stayed home from work while my mother uses her car to go to a doctor appt. no big deal, so we thought. so my grandmother is on the phone thinking my sister is sick and sleeping in bed when she is actually working from home for the day. my sister overhears her talking to the guy on the phone that she is going to bring some food and stuff out to him in the afternoon! so she messages me keeping me updated on the situation and my gramma leaves in the after noon and my parents are coming back from the appt only to find the rv is missing and she hid him in a state park from us instead of doing what she said she was going to do. so my sister tells me, and i come down again. so i can get my stuff out of the rv that has any value when she goes to get her snowboard, and wedding dress. so that night, im told by my mother, that she was told a few minutes earlier by my gramma, that he is supposed to be gone; and the rv back by friday. so now im waiting on updates from then to find out if she just lied again and is trying to hide him while he leeches as much money as he can from her (this whole week she spent over $500 on him so far when he already owes her over $50,000) at which case she made her choice of him over us and im done with her.

if you read all of this then your insane! i cant believe i even wrote all of it X3 so we shall see what happens friday