my sister and her boyfriend and her 4 dogs were hit by a car
13 years ago
At around 10 pm on July 16th my sister and her boyfriend and her 4 dogs were hit by a car
the dogs are dead, my sister is seriously injured, her boyfriend is critically injured
news reports
http://www.news10.net/news/article/.....pnews|bc|large
http://sacramento.cbslocal.com/2012.....l-hit-and-run/
http://www.news10.net/news/article/.....el-hit-and-run
http://www.kcra.com/news/local-news.....n/-/index.html
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lan.....destrians.html
This is insanity..
I'm so sorry :(
How could the car have fled too D:< what's wrong with people!
I hope they can't sleep at night and it eats them alive.
Stay strong for them <3
I cant imagine what it's like to see your dog get hit..
I'm glad your sister and her bf are alive though.
I hope the person who did the hit and run gets caught. Thats absolutely awful..
My heart is absolutely breaking for what Gemily has had to witness in that horrific type of loss. It brings back a lot of agonizing memories. I pray with all my heart that she's strong enough to work through the trauma, find peace within tragedy, and truly heal. Without the crippling emotional scarring that can result.
There's a special place in hell for whatever son of a bitch caused such a horrendous tragedy. There truly is. And I hope someone speeds his or her way there. VERY soon. Prison's too good for scum like that.
I really hope everyone can cope with this and I hope everyone recovers well. I'm so sorry about your dogs, though. ;A;
Im really sorry to hear this, read this i gasped and almost started crying.
I hope they heal fast, and im.. so so sorry...
This just isn't fair. And..i'm sorry..so so sorry it happend. -hugs again-
I don't even know what else I could say... except this.
It's just... ugh.
You know all our prayers are going out to them ,
And that the A-hole that hits them gets caught and thrown in prison as roughly as possible
I hope everything ends up okay, and they catch that sorry asshole who fled after doing so much damage. I dont understand how some people can have such little regard for life.
I hope your sister and her BF are doing okay, shame about the dogs though :/ at least the humans in your life survived.
Poor Winry... she was the sweetest dog....
I'm glad Gem is alright.... but i can't say anything except that i'm so sorry...
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My prayers are with Gemly and her bf. I hope the dogs go to a good place...
i just
oh my god my heart really does go out to you and your family
im so glad your sister is all right though and I'm truly sorry about her dogs. they are family to anyone thats owned one.
i really can't do anything and i hate that
but you all have a great deal of support coming from us and i want to make sure you know that
I . .Wish I knew more to say, thats such a tragic situation, i am glad that your sister and her boyfriend are relatively ok though. But the emotional impact. . I am very sorry
I hope that things aren't as bad as they seem, and that things heal up quickly. I am can only wish you all the best. Stay strong, they are going to need you. <3
she lost all 4, her boyfriend is badly hurt, and she herself is hurt
this is astronomical
It is. But you can't sit on the what-ifs. Be there for them when they need you, and we will be here for when you need us. <3
Barbaric...oh my god...I am so so sorry to hear this...*hugs* ;___;
Please keep us updated, if you can. I hope the best for all of you. </3
My brother was in a hit in run when i was in high school. I hope justice is brought to you, as well as your sister and her boyfriend. My prayers are with you, your sister, and her boyfriend
Driving off like that they need the book and more thrown at them.
I wish a speedy recovery.
sends hugs and a shoulder to cry on.
hopes all dogs are happy on the rainbow bridge chillin with my recently lost bunny
can also send $$$ if you need help with medical bills. feel's horrible wishes I could come over and help.
Hope they catch the driver...major charges coming their way, especially since it was in a crosswalk (some places double the fines/charges, dunno about where yall live). I don't want to sound insensitive, but sue the bastard. Medical expenses, stress, trauma, commuting to and from the hospital, lost incomes, the monetary and emotional values for each of the animals, the emotional trauma caused by their deaths, as well as any "fuzzy funeral" costs... And frankly, I wouldn't care if it was a frightened single mother that didn't know what to do. It's better to be humble than humiliated, and the charges would have been far less severe. And to hit them hard enough to kill four animals and severely injure two humans...that's unacceptable. The speed limit couldn't have been more than what, 35? 45? More than enough time for a driver to slow down if they weren't doing something stupid or speeding. Any lawyer would take this case in a heartbeat and their costs would be included in the court awarding.
I do not know if you are religious or not but this poem has always helped me greatly:
I'm Still Here Friend,
please don't mourn for me I'm still here,
though you don't see.
I'm right by your side each night and day and within your heart I long to stay.
My body is gone but I'm always near.
I'm everything you feel, see or hear.
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart as long as you keep me alive in your heart.
I'll never wander out of your sight-I'm the brightest star on a summer night.
I'll never be beyond your reach-I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach.
I'm the colorful leaves when fall comes around and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond,
The clear cool water in a quiet pond.
I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring,
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine, and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.
When you start thinking there's no one to love you, you can talk to me through the Lord above you.
I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees, and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I'm the smile you see on a baby's face.
Just look for me, friend, I'm everyplace!
I am stunned that someone was going so fast and so quick in a residential area as to kill the dogs and cause terrible injury to the people involved. I hope that they catch the person fast, because anyone who doesn't stop after hitting anything (human or animal) under these circumstances needs to be off the road now before they create more tragedy.
If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know. Again, I am so, so sorry.
I'm glad your sister and her bf are okay... I'm so sorry for your loss. This is very horrible... ):
Just... take one day at a time. That's really all you can do at this point. ;;
i am sorry to hear about her dogs. it's hard losing someone or something you enjoy and love deeply. i'm so very sorry. please also give her my condolences for them.
please keep us updated.
I'm so very sorry. :(
and text never evokes this kind of response from me, but here I am,
tearing up. I feel for everyone involved. I hope for peace of mind
for all of you, when time has had its chance to heal wounds.
Everyone has it in them to be strong in times like this,
even when it feels impossible to be. You all can persevere.
Good thoughts go out to you and to everyone effected by this event.
I will not stop thinking of all of you.
Try not to think about how you could have avoided the situation. Truth is, you couldn't, the only one who could have avoided it is the person behind the wheel of that car. It is their fault and their fault only. Remember that this is fate (I don't know if you're religeous) and the worlds way of reminding you that you still have time with your sister.
Don't do any work to try and distract yourself it'll just remind you of outside stress which will make the it more painful when reality hits. Watch a movie, play a game, do something you genuinely enjoy to help yourself ease into waking up so it doesn't just hit you suddenly.
I am so so so sorry this happened to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with your sister and especially her boyfriend, and I give prayer that the person who hit them will be caught. When something this serious happens the police always put extra effort into catching them, and lets be real, the fines and sentences here will be insane. You guys'll probably get pain and suffering too. This person will be fully punished for their recklessness.
Me and my bunnies will pray for you (TTyTT).
I don't pray, and I'm not religious, but I wish you the best, and hope he comes out ok.
I pray for her boyfriend's recovery as well
and.. may I ask was it all four dogs that were killed? or was it one?
My condolences and best wishes to you and those you love.
animal feeling closer than just a normal pet.
Sending all the love, good thoughts, and prayers in the world. youll get threw this.
I was sitting here, petting my cat as I read this.... and I just pulled him into my lap and held him....
I can't imagine the pain you are feeling....
I am so sorry..... I hope to god you do not loose any more... I'll pray with all my might that he pulls through.....
Stay safe, try and stay sane, try not to let sorrow consume you.
*hugs tight* be strong for your family and for yourself
I wish for the swift recovery of the boyfriend and your sister.
I hope the driver is caught soon. Such a menace doesn't belong on the road.
as bad as some of the injuries are lost lives cannot be replace
I mean I keep thinking of how hurt Hari is and how that should matter more than the dogs, but he is alive and not paralyzed so right now the loss of the dogs is the worst
hell if I had to choose between losing the house to a fire or Winry dying I'd choose the house, the dog mattered that much to my sister and thus to me
Losing a loved one is never easy, I agree. I've been there. I've lost human and animal loved ones. Never gets easier. But to lose them like that...
I wish you and your family comfort during this time of sorrow.
Glad the boyfriend is doing well in that regard. I was scared about he and your sister.
im sorry to hear that and i hope your sister and her boyfriend will be ok with a swift recovery.
it is never a fun tihng to go through. but i can tell you this do not blame yourself and think about all the whats ifs because nothing will change the fact of what happened.
Crossing fingers that your sisters boyfriend is gonna be allright. What a terible tragedy :(
*hugs*
I just... you guys will be in my thoughts for tonight. I wish you guys the best in healing.. Can't... stop..crying..
I am speechless
Umm... Well hun, just remember that it is not your fault in the slightest bit, just try to stay calm, and things will be better in no time
I Hope your sister has a haste recovery...
As for the dogs... R.i.p....
and as for Winry.. the only one i ever seen.. such a sweet dog... may she be barking up in the clouds...
I am deeply saddened from the losses...
As my inner carfolf is talking to me he says: I hope the person responsible for this tragic incident suffers the pain of a slow death with the power of a thousand dying suns. I seriously want that.... pardon my french.... I want that fucker off the streets and i want torture to be a punishment again just for that one person. I want them to feel the pain we all are feeling right now. Make that Infinite times worse.
hope your sister and her boyfriend are going to be alright, my thoughts are going to your family and to his. R.i.p to your lost furry friends, may they rest in peace.
I hope they catch the bastard that did all this, he doesnt deserve to be on the road
I am fairly sure my niece does not have an account here (she got a DA account not long ago and made darn sure I knew it, lol) but I do not want her to learn this way so just in case she has an account and is so is not watching me by some miracle I want to hide this
SO DO NOT COMMENT ON THE JOURNAL on the front page please about this, and no shouts either
I used "lol"
I guess I am just happy my sister only has a broken leg and her BF's condition, while bad, is not life threatening
still awfully calm
part of me hopes I just handle tragedy well and I will continue to be the calm cool collected one who finds medical and social security info and gives it over the phone like just now
I kind of hope I will continue to feel okay
... the other half of me knows that at some point in the next few days I am going to loose it and bawl
The calm denial stage was a blessing because it got me through the worst of it, kept me from being preoccupied with all the what if's and fears for his future that, fortunately, didn't come to pass. It really hit a few months later after he was in a rehab hospital, that I could have lost him, and just how bad and long his road to recovery would be :( But at that point, he was safe, and I could break down and cry without fearing what would come next. It was quite a long time before I'd completely come to terms with everything, but fortunately everything worked out for him, and my brain shut-down kept me from being preoccupied with the What If The Worsts that my head usually loves to torture me with - -; Yay for shock to preserve sanity, for a change.
So yeah... ramble aside... don't be afraid of either the numbness or the bawling. They'll both come in their own time, when you need them to. And the numb calm part, though it makes you look a bit out of place to outsiders, is a good thing for your own sanity and helping things go smoothly. Don't let their perceptions of your cool head in the face of all this get you down.
this is not over, Hari is still not in one piece yet, he has more surgery and they already had issues controlling the bleeding when they last worked on his pelvis
there is a sort of feeling there not to cry yet because I don't know if it will get worse
My family has yours - and especially Hari! - in our thoughts and prayers. <3
I'm so sorry. I'm sorry about the loss of the dog. My pet died the same day that my husband and friend died in the car accident. Can't say I know how you feel but it sounds like we've both been through the brink of hysteria. Be happy that your family are alive and I shall pray for their speedy recovery. And you still have your bf to hold you close. What really gets me is the fact that some nasty person would do that and run.... Very evil. Or they got some sick condition
It's good to hear your sister and boyfriend were not hurt more than they were, and I hope they recover quickly. D:
I hope they catch who did this, may the dogs rest in peace. :(
It's heart breaking to loose a life long animal friend, I can't help but think the dogs will be wagging from wherever they are now.
They helped take some damage away from there beloved masters, however
Horrible is the multimate human animal bond :(.
its true
as blunt and awful it is to say this, it takes an event like this to put things in perspective
so much petty crap that seemed important is now not at all important, the argument the other day about flip flops seems like such bull shit now
and as awful as this all is, to have such clarity about what is truly important, its comforting.
I feel like a haze has been lifted
I am glad this event though, has given you clarity and lifted you to a higher place.
Just pleaaase dont hold it back.
I'm so sad that your dogs did not make it and I hoopppee your sister's bf does survive because he is a saint for what he did
We're all here for you
...
Really no response does justice to such horrible events.. just crazy how things can happen in an instant..
I'm local as you might recall, and I don't have much going on right now schedulewise .. so if you need additional help,transport,whatever,whenever feel free to contact me. Best wishes for a good outcome for your sister and her boyfriend..
and may that driver lose their license forever, and end up in jail for a considerable time.
then again it won't change much...
and, please don't go "what if, what if..." it only leads into a downward spiral. as harsh as it sounds, look forward. life goes on.
best wishes.
But good to hear also that your sister & her BF are in stable condition. I really salute him for protecting your sister in that manner.
Just remember not to blame yourself for this. It is so easy to think that its your own fault, and that fate is cruel in the way that there are an infinite amount of possibilities in which things could have been different, but honestly it is neither here nor there.
I know what you mean about opening your eyes and lifting a haze. It may seem cruel, but it can really force a person into reality and can change a person for the better.
What a man for pushing your sister out of the way <3
I send my condolences and wishes
Your family is in my thoughts, I hope your sister and her boyfriend recover well.
I wish there wasn't an ocean between our locations so that I could be there for you properly, but virtual hugs is the best I can do for now.
Hang in there, we're thinking of you and yours *hug*
~
Thinking of you,
-Skynny
I really cannot say anymore that was said, but... my family always tells me everything happens for a reason.
I am not the religious sort, but I can tell you I believe in the Rainbow Bridge, and I do believe in the courage of animals.
If anything, those dogs sold their soul so that your sister and her boyfriend could continue on. They must have loved them very, very much.
Accidents... they happen. Sadly, we're only mortals. Sometimes the most casual event just... doesn't do the same way.
My deepest condolences, and I wish only the best for your sister and her boyfriend. She is very, very lucky not only that she only suffered injuries on her leg, but that her boyfriend was so noble to make sure she was going to be okay and sacrifice the brunt to save her.
Keep us updated. You'll all be in my thoughts.
i don't know what to say other than to offer my condolences at the loss of the fuzzy ones and that i will keep your sister and her bf in my thoughts and prayers
*hugs*
In the meantime, I hope everything else goes well, for srs.
Hari lost his leg at the knee, they could not save it, and his pelvis is in 2 pieces, he had severe bleeding for 3 hours and was on blood transfusions but is stable now and sedated.
my sister just went into surgery to repair a compound fracture of her lower leg
Stay strong, bc!
My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family. I will pray for your sister, and her boyfriend. I hope they recover quickly.
Im so very sorry for the loss of, all your dogs. That is truly awful. I hope your family can heal from such a sudden loss.
I send many hugs, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
You are a really great person and I'm sorry to hear about this.
Hari lost his leg at the knee, they could not save it, and his pelvis is in 2 pieces, he had severe bleeding for 3 hours and was on blood transfusions but is stable now and sedated.
my sister just went into surgery to repair a compound fracture of her lower leg
I hope for the best outcome for you, and my condolence.
This is very much a tragedy, and I was very shocked while I read this.
Hopfully the courts will take a firm hand with the driver of that car.
You have all of my best wishes and more. Good luck with everything, and if you need something, don't hesitate to contact me. (I know we don't know each other, but even still. don't be a stranger.)
Hari lost his leg at the knee, they could not save it, and is pelvis is in 2 pieces, he had severe bleeding for 3 hours and was on blood transfusions but is stable now and sedated.
my sister just went into surgery to repair a compound fracture of her lower leg
the news is calling Hari a hero, one witness says my sister very well would be dead if he had not shoved her
my bro is supposed to call me back soon as is my sis's friend Sarah
I cannot imagine my life without my dog. But four gone? .. wow .. I am just so sorry for your loss. There are many people here for you as your support. My thoughts go out to your sister ..
What were all the names of the dogs?
I know how fast things can change. I've had things happen including tragic passings, but nothing quite like that.
Were the dogs small? I've never heard of four being hit and all dying at the scene at the same time like that... how unbelievably tragic.
I have a 13 years old sister, as well as 5 dogs, if anything ever happened to them, i couldnt even bare the thought, i dont know if you are religious or not, but i shall keep your sister in my thoughts and prayers. <3
I'm so sorry.
While all we can offer are words of encouragement and sympathy, today, our hearts are united as one as we mourn the fallen, admire the heroes, curse the wicked, and hope for the best. As a community, we wish your sister and her boyfriend a speedy recovery. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family during this dark hour. Be safe, be strong!
Truely a heart-wrenching read... You have my deepest condolences...... Sorry that I cant help any more than that......
My prayers and best wishes go out to you, your sister, and her boyfriend.
Give them all hugs for me when you can?
Five years ago on Father's Day my family went through something similar. A driver went off the road and plowed into my brother and a coworker who had been aiding a stranded motorist as part of their job duties. Neither was supposed to work that day, and had volunteered because more hands were needed on the summer beach route. The coworker's wife and son were home preparing Father's Day dinner for him, and my fiance and I were visiting with my parents when it happened. The coworker took the brunt of the hit, and died instantly. My brother was left with hardly an intact bone in his body, and had to be airlifted out.
We didn't hear about the accident until many hours later - the state job and police had failed to follow through and call us - and only found out with the heart-shattering call from my cousin to my mom saying "don't worry, [your son] isn't the one that died." We spent days, weeks maybe, in an utter fog, denial, shock, it was awful. My brother's survival was an utter miracle, and his recovery went better than anyone could have dreamed of. Even at the worst of it, I had it in my head that he was too stubborn to die. The real impact came months later after he was home and recovering, that I could have lost him >.< It still shakes me up to think about it today.
I know you don't really know me aside from being a fan and lurker, but if you ever need to vent or rage or just sit and go omg about this... I've been in every one of those places and can be a shoulder for you should you want to avail yourself of it.
Much love and hugs and prayers from me and mine to you and yours.
My thoughts are out to you and your sister and her boyfriend. He's a really awesome guy, saving his girlfriend like that, and here's hoping for a speedy recovery.
I hope that all those involved will stay strong through all that's happened
All of you guys are in my thoughts, and I really hope you all recover quickly <33
It's really hard to find words for how tragic this is, I hope the best for you guys.
Be well all of you. That required a tremendous amount of courage. Bravery to be spoken of.
I am terribly sorry about what has happened. I am sorry.
Let this be a lesson to learn that none of this should be taken for granted. I am sorry for your loss.
Sending whatever good thoughts I can your way.
If there is anythign I can do, let me know.
Hang in there
I wish the your sister and her boyfriend a speedy recovery, both physically and mentally. It is very unfortunate that her boyfriend's injury caused him to lose his leg, and he did such a courageous act to save your sister from further injury. I also wish you that you, your family and your sister's loved ones have the strength to stay strong to help both of them. *hugs*
We all wish we could have rolled back time to avert this disaster as you mentioned; could have just made that alternate decision in another timeline to change things but... sigh, there are just limits to what we can do and there is no use beating yourself over it. :/
And I really hope they catch the person responsible for this incident for his utterly reprehensible cowardly behavior. It would not heal both their injuries, but it may help bring some closure.
I wish you all luck, sorry I dont have more to say but wanted you to know my heart hurts for your loss too. *hugs*
fucking beyond best wishes for you and family. i know full well how much trauma this incident has caused you all, stable or not. you guys keep eachother going and support one another as best ya can throguh the trouble this is going to bring you all. well wishes and recovery aren't enough, but it's a start. pass along the condolances for the lost pooches (when i read how bad it ended for them i broke down myself having lost own pets in similar ways before...really heartfelt pain for them there.)
if you or either of them need an ear at all, you guys can feel free to note me anytime okay? really hope you guys can pull through the horror of this event in time.
Is elden going to be wheelchair bound or is he getting a prosthetic? (I know its early for this question, sorry)
I just can't imagine what kind of person does that. I hope they see the news and hate themselves till the end of their days.
Sorry, this is a place for condolences not anger.
I wish I could help, I wish that if I organized a fund raiser here in the Antioch area that furs would show up and donate. I don't know what I can do to help.
I'm so sorry to hear about the tragedy and your loss. *Hugs and Understanding* from afar.
Marc
i hope everything turns out okay <3
This is a serious tragedy. I'm SO glad your sister and her boyfriend are pulling thorough. I can't imagine how that is.. just.. wow.
And Hari is SUCH a hero. He risked his own life for your sister without thinking twice. The world needs more people like him.
This is appalling that such tragedy could happen like that. I hope justice finds that driver quickly.
Again my many hugs and thoughts are with y'all.
I am confident the authorities will find the driver. And when they do, it would be appropriate to place the person under the jail, not in it.
What happened to you and your family, and Hari's family, is, as I'm sure you know, a terrible crime. I saw that slideshow they have of the four dogs, and I almost lost it. All of you guys and the dogs were obviously a very tight-knit family, and most people would probably say, "well they were just dogs, we could've lost a person" but that is not true at all. Even I can tell, just from reading and seeing what you've written and the articles you shared, that those dogs were people, true members of your family, and were loved dearly.
I'm truly upset for your tragic situation, and I hope your sister and her hero of a boyfriend pull through this with nothing but a few scratches.
Your sister and Hari, do they have insurance, will there be trouble with medical bills? Can we help?
Please pardon me saying, but it doesn't make sense that one car would be able to hit Hari and all four dogs. Even on leashes, they can't have been a very tight group. When the police catch them, I hope the DA prosecutes on the assumption that the driver was deliberately aiming.
Horrible thing to happen :(
One question remains, though; will Gemily and Hari need help with hospital bills?
My deepest condolences to you and to them on the loss of family members. That they had four legs doesn't make the loss any different.
None of this is your fault, or your sister's, or Hari's, or Bindie's, or Evie's, or Zury's or Winry's. The fault is entirely with the driver of the car.
I saw my favorite pet cat get run over by a truck. It feels like the universe is suddenly a cruel and unfriendly place, poked full of holes. I'm so sorry this happened.
And I fucking hate cars.
I read the journal, read the news reports and could only sit here in shock for about five minutes, staring at the screen.
I'm so sorry to hear about the death of the dogs, I understand the pain of losing animal family members, especially the ones you consider soul bonded. And what happened to your sister and her boyfriend....Just...No words I can think of can express how sorry I am that happened to them.
I hope they catch that son of a bitch that hit them and get what they deserve.
Stay strong and my heart goes out to all of you.
I hope that the person responsible is caught quickly and made to answer for this.
I just want to shake his hand.
Tears will be shed, but not just by you.
Four lives were lost, all will be missed.
May the scales tip in your favor, hand over fist.
I'm very sorry to hear this, Beastcub. :/ I do hope that the driver is caught, and he is placed in jail.
I just can't say anything else right now, other than you have my sympathy. If you need someone to talk to, my shoulder is always open, and free. *Hugs*
And ditto on all of above.
<3
*hugs*
Whoever did this needs to pay, severely.
WE did "meet" at the FC when you came, I think for the first time and you had that cute little girl with you as the little fox. I complimented you in the headless lounge and in my husky suit "Exile", I helped pull the little fox in the little wagon for the husky pull.
You have both my heart and prayers. YOU DO!
Hugs,
Grubbs
Coony
in this case... we will be dealing with astronomical medical costs and this is something we did not bring on ourselves, nothing could have prepared us to face this finical burden...
and I will be giving more than half the money received to my pay pal to Hari's family
I'd like to donate directly to you, I don't know why there needs to be a middleman involved. Let me know where to send it, dear.
I've been thinking about you guys all day since I found out what happened, I hope things go as well as they can, given the circumstances.
~Bagel
I do hope u they find that coward!!!
Sending u and ur family love.
Brought a tear to my eye when you mentioned how the boyfriend pushed her out of harms way. That's just so beautiful and loving... despite the awful accident and the person responsible fleeing, things like someone saving their loved one's life make me truly believe that there is hope for the world yet.
I hope her recovery is swift. And for Hari, he'll be able to heal and adapt physically and mentally.
It'll be a long road but I know he'll be able to succeed. I pray he'll be encouraged and given a good spirit through his healing process. I pray for your comfort as well. I hope as well justice is brought to the hit and run perpetrator.
Your sister's boyfriend is an angel put on earth and a hero unlike any other. If ever there was a shadow of a doubt as to how much he loves and honors her, this surely lays it to rest. To be willing to give his life to save her ... he's an amazing man. The night could have been far more tragic than it already was.
The person who so cruelly took the lives of these dogs and maimed your sister and her boyfriend deserve worse than this flawed democratic system is capable of meting out, and that's a travesty. They deserve something -far- more archaic, for the gravity of their crime. Especially since their greatest punishment won't be dealt among the living ... but when the privileged of life is torn from them, and they're forced to answer for their wrongdoings eternally.
I have no idea which religion's idea of a "hell" is truly right or wrong ... or if it's even anything completely different than any of them ... but whatever fate awaits criminals of such a magnitude, this piece of filth should be rushed headlong to it. No courtroom or prison cell is going to give them the penance that they should truly be paying for this.
Like many others, I shed a tear when I read that Hari probably saved your sister's life, but lost his leg in the process... and to lose all four of your sister's beloved dogs in an instant, I can't even begin to fathom that feeling - I feel completely numb just writing this right now.
I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers, with the continual hope that justice will be served. *hugs*
for all tomorrow is never promised... hurt words said to a loved one before they walk out the door... can sometimes never be taken back... cherish those you love....
I wish all the best...
best wishes on the recovery.
Wishing all of you strength.
Here is hoping the driver turns himself in. How could you hurt people and kill dogs and not at least want to apologize?
My condolences on your losses, my prayers for a safe and steady recovery for Hari and your sister., my wishes for comfort for you and your family in this terrible time...and my hopes that the person responsible for this is brought to fair justice.
I just imagined the scene and I'm totally horrified. My very best wishes to both of them.
And if they find that fucker, they should shoot him.
I am so sorry.
I held a hand to my mouth as I read this and nearly cried. I am so terribly sorry for the tragedy that has beset your family. My thoughts and well-wishes go out to you and your entire family.
We don't realize just how fragile life is until it is nearly taken away from us. We must be thankful for every day we have on Earth, and make the most out of life. It could all end in the blink of an eye.
Best of luck, and it will get better.
;.;
*hug*
I... I feel torn myself that great tragedies happen to the best of people.
Good luck with all that :c Stay safe.
Wow I'm so sorry to have heard this. My heart and best wishes are there for you and all of your family!
As tragic as this is, you NEED to remember one thing - granted, the dogs were lost and everyone here gives there thoughts and prayers are with you and loved ones for your loss, but your sister and her boyfriend will live. The dogs, I'm sure, will still remain alive and playful in your heart and minds.
And when the time comes where you break down, don't forget - you're not alone. You have a lot of people that care about you and your family. By reading this journal, it even sounds like theres a couple local furs to help you.
I hate fate, too. It sucks. But I know in my situation, and yours, everyone will come out stronger from this. One day at a time leads to months of memories that will be shared with loved ones through this tragic time. I wish you and your family the best luck in the world.
It's unimaginable to think that anyone could do that and not even stop.
I'm truly terribly sorry all of this is happening to you. :(
*hugs*
Im so sorry to hear about all the crap that happened
Im glad both your sister and her b/f are ok. Its seriously bad about the injuries but at least they'll be OK
I hope that they find the car driver and that some serious justice is put on their head... they need to have the same done to them at the minimum
Im sorry about all of the dogs
That guy is a really good guy to save your sisters life, and I pray that things will somehow turn out better for him and her when they are released in the hospital.
I may not know you guys personally, but ya'll have made me smile and happy on many occassions. I will keep you guys in my prayers as well as her babies who had passed.
Please.....please be there for her Beasty and we love you guys.
I do hope they catch and prosecute the driver.
I hope justice is brought to the person who did this, and likes so many others her boyfriend is a hero.
Please be safe.
I know you guys are close.
Blessed Be.
May the goddess watch over you.
I am just grateful that your sister and her boyfriend are able to still live, even with the extreme pain and damage that has happened.
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your animals. I wish for the best with emotional and physical recovery for your sister, her boyfriend, and their families.
I hope they catch this person and I pray everything will finally calm down
There will be lots of grief, crying and what not for a long time to come. Just be strong for them even if you can't, you must press on and be as strong as you can.
Also pass on a hug for me *gives you a big hug* And be safe yourself
And such a pointless act from the driver. I hope they find him.
I'm sorry, and all my well-wishes to you and your family.
More thoughts and prayers are strong your way from over here in the east coast.
I don't know what to say. I'm sorry y'all lost your dogs, and I hope your relatives both make a good recovery.
What a horrible HORRIBLE person. I do hope they come forth. How could anyone live with that on their shoulders.
This absolutely breaks me heart.
Don't worry, the person who did this will turn up.
"I'm sorry for the loss of the dogs, and I hope your sister and her boyfriend recover without any complications."
Personally, as sad as this whole event has been for everyone impacted by it as they have, I do hope that your family comes together all the stronger from this as you aim to be there for each and everyone of yourselves from this.
Fate is always bad. You never know what will happen and there's nothing you can do to change it.
It makes us all feel so helpless thinking that we could have done something.
Don't blame yourself it wasn't your fault. It was that asshole driver.
I'm glad they're both still alive. Things could have been worse.
I think this goes for all of us; Take Care and we are all very sorry.
And I PROMISE I will pay NO LESS THAN $10,000 if I ever commission you.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
As a suggestion to you and everyone here I thought maybe we can all pitch in to make a get well card. Maybe like making a small site with a guest book so they can read the love and support. I mean I know we have shouts and all but I thought this would be more organized and very easy to see the comments.
and a 21 year old's leg.
That part made me just shudder. That someone could hit a person so hard that their leg. came. off. and not even consider tapping the breaks. There were no skid marks-- nothing. They didn't even try to stop for the pedestrians even after the fact. How on earth can someone hit 6 living objects and not even consider tapping the breaks? Something tells me that the driver was on drugs or fleeing a crime scene (but there's no reports to back up the latter) because I just don't understand how someone can do that without even considering taking their foot off the gas.
Not fair for couple lost 4 furchild at same time. Pray for them heal well and healthy once again.
a guy (Hit and run) don't deserve to drive again at all.
Im so sorry for the loss of your dogs and the pain you your family and your sisters friend must be having.
your sister boyfriend deserves a medal he's a hero...
I hope for a speedy recovery of your sisters bf... hes truly a hero for what he did to save your sister... I also hope for a speedy recovery for your sister as well.
I cant even imagine what you're all going through losing all 4 of your dogs in one day... but they're all in a better place right now and at peace.
My thoughts, prays, and condolences go out to you and your family tonight hun
Grief and pain are things to experience where necessary, and this is when they need to be. Life always puts these experiences in our path when we don't wish them.
It can change your life permanently.
God this is so sad, and the dogs didn't even make it.
I have never experience death, but it will happen soon...
That driver will pay for his crimes.... SEND HIM TO THE JAIL FOR THE REST OF HIS LIVES!!!!!!!! (Yes, I'm very angry right now when i read it was a hit and run!)
my condolences, I really wish there was something I could do to help in anyway. my sympathies to your sister, I know what it's like to lose a dog that is that close to you.
may the spirits guide you through these hard times and give you strength
~♥ =3
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dogs. I could never put into words just how much. But, you are right not to ponder on the "what if's". Just live in the "now" of it all.
*hugs tight*
I'm sorry for the four dogs loss.
The fact that the vehicle was damaged in the impact, and that this is all over the news, means that the perpetrator will hopefully be caught soon.
You do not know me, but after reading this, it just brings me to tears after hearing what happened...my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family...I hope that person steps forward and claims responsibility for the horrific thing that they have done...
I'm SO sorry for the loss of the dogs, and I hope that your sister and her boyfriend make a speedy recovery...
hes a very good man I'd do the same for my mate if that happened to us....
My heart goes out to you and your sis and family. Sending you strength and healing. -hugs-
I'm sorry this happened to you folks. I've been hit and sent to hospital by a hit and run driver myself, but by comparison I got off extremely lucky. I just wish I was in better financial shape right now so I could send some money to help :(
They will be in our families hearts and prayers. I have a candle lite for them now, Pray for speedy recovery and best of life's blessings to them.
Hari...tell him he deserves all the praise he got. That's beautiful.
And I'm deeply sorry for your dogs.
I hope everyone has a very safe and speedy recovery.
thinking of you and holding you and your family in my thoughts
Hari has a heart of gold! Truly, this has restored my faith in humanity!
I'm so sorry for the pets, but I think it's more important that both your sister and her boyfriend are still alive. This could have been much, much worse, and I think the fact that he actively pushed her out of the way and potentially saved her life really gives you all something to be grateful about, a small feeling of relief if anything.
My thoughts are with you all :(
I can't even imagine how traumatic that must be.
Those dogs were so pretty.. You having to carry their lifeless bodies....Oh gosh... So terrible.. Wish I could do something.. ;n;
I can't spare much, but I will try spare a few coins to you guys. ;n; my bills can wait. It's just terrible.
I'll make sure to spread the words as well..!
my thoughts will travel to america ;n;
paypal can get bullshitty over donations
We need a new word for "horrible".
*gives a chakat hug to comfort*
I will keep you in my prayers to whatever gods may listen.
News like this makes me sick at the stomach. It's so good that you've been getting so much support from the furry fandom and various donation programs. I hope you all recover soon, and know that we're looking out for you. *hug*
I apologize if this is answered already, but is there some way I can donate online? I don't have checks, but I'd like to help out.
I know this is not the best time, but if you would like a distraction to think about something more pleasant, I have uploaded some photos of myself at Faery Fest having the time of my life. I hope they help give you a momentary mental vacation.
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8425218/
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8425202/
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8425180/
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8425137/
(Do not feel obligated to look, If you feel I'm being inappropriate giving you these links at this time I'm sorry. It's just the only way I can think of to try to make you feel better.)
I know there's not much I can do to help, but I have set up a donations page on Indiegogo. If anything, I hope it can in some way contribute towards their medical bills.
I read a few comments up that you dislike PayPal over donations, and since Indiegogo mainly accepts donations through PayPal, along with direct credit card, I'm not sure what your standing on this is.
If you can send me a note with an email account connected to PayPal and the associated name, I will input those into the funding information.
I wish yourself, Gemily, Hari and all your loved ones all the best. I hope things can only get better from this point on.
The fundraiser is currently listed under my name and PayPal. I can switch it over to yourself or a person of your choosing at any time.
Just know that you WILL get through this. You will overcome this. I promise you, it gets worse before it gets better. Stay strong, my friend, stay strong.
I hope Hari and your sister recover well..
I've got so much respect for Hari for what he did. I'm also beyond enraged at the driver, but in all likelihood, he'll get what's coming to him. Best wishes and best of luck to you and your family.
I don't know what to say, I'm not sure there is anything I can say. Nothing that would really help.
If it even had me sitting here crying I can't even imagine...
I'm sorry for the dogs, and I'm sorry for what happened. I hope that he pulls through, and wish you all the most strength possible to get through this.
And I really hope they catch the bastard that hit them, too.
My thoughts are with you all! <3
Hope for a quick recovery and that the person/people in the car get caught quickly.
Psalm 145:-9-10,13,15-21 reads, “God loves all His creation and has made plans for all His children and the lesser creatures to enjoy His eternal Kingdom.”
So take comfort in that Heaven is improved by Bindie, Evie, Zury and Winry's presence.
And then there's Hari. Simply put, i'm proud to live on the same planet as this man. Words like 'hero' are scarcely adequate to cover such an act of love and sacrifice.
My thoughts and well wishes go to you and your family. If there's anything I can do to help you, i'm ready and willing.
My life has consisted of more senseless tragedies than any one person should endure, the multiple suicide attempts on my mothers part..driven by the man that beat us for years, the slaughter of my pets, the freak accident that crushed my cousin (he survived after hours of continues reconstructive surgery), and the brutal murder of my grandparents in their own home that was then burned to the ground.
I promise, I know -exactly- what you are feeling.. the pain, the fear, the anger. Please, I know it might not seem like much, but seek out counseling, sooner better than later. When they get out of the hospital, they'll need it too. It helps, alot. I know the nightmares you all will have, that sinking in your stomach that feels like it will never go away. If you need someone to talk to, please, don't be afraid to reach out and talk to me. I have had far too much experience with tragedy, but if I can help others cope then at least thats something. The stages of grief are so difficult, and even harder if bared alone. Do your best to accept the things you can not change and search for the positiveness in every day. Even little things, remind yourself that the stars still hang in the sky and the earth still rests beneath your feet. The scars may endure, but the strength of the human will is even stronger.
Blessings to you and your family. May the mourning for the loss of the little ones be brief and smiles shared in honor of their memory. I pray the recovery of Gem and Hari be steady and swift, may their bodies grow as strong as their hearts.
...those 4 souls........I cannot express the amount of gratitude. Stick together, guys, we all love you.
-Sending lots of love and positive energy your way
-Onai & Shade
Just about similar as having had a fire in our house and losing 5 of the 6 cats we had. Seeing them all laying on the grass lined up like that. I miss those cats, one which would always grab my head when near the fridge and want to be petted. It seems that those of us who enjoy the company of animals have to worry about the potential aspect of losing them inn ways we don't forsee.
I hope you are doing okay through all of this. If you need someone to talk to or vent, you are more then welcome to talk to me, be it PM, or I can even give you my cell via PM if you wish to have a live voice to talk to. You mentioned Sacramento. Which means California. I am in Temple City California. Not anywhere close & I don't drive, but still.
Gotta take whatever small miracles you can as things can always have a bad way of having turned out worse. For me, back then, a normal day would have been Me asleep, dad on pain pills asleep, which meant my dad & I could have been trapped in the fire, sleeing through it. My mom would have had more suffereing then she did.
You are really lucky to still have your sister and boyfriend alive. It will be quite a challenge with aspects of rehab and whatnot, but I am sure that with the support of you and others they will be fine.
Anywho, you take care of yourself ok?
I do hope I have not said anything that may make you upset or anything. It is hard for me to tell right now due to aspects of my neck making my body & mind not feel as normal as it normally is. Especially having been missing a lot of work this week. Neck spinal surgery, even close to a year after (as of end of october anyways) can be a pain in the @$$. So, it will be a struggle, so do what you can to have a positive additude so that those emotions can fuel the drive and recovery for your sis & her BF ok?
Sorry if I am rambling. I hope the emotion of what I am trying to say is going through, even though words on a screen can not have the same impact as them being said.
Take care.
I hope the two heal well, I hope he he will be alright. :c
Fan Fior.
I hope everything gets better..as good as it can get given the situation..
It's so sad about the dogs, I just really don't know what I can say. I lost the best cat ever to a hit-and-run like that, it's too horrible. It's nice of the Bee to be helping out, I'll pitch in what I can.
Just try to hang in there and do what you can. I hope things get better soon
I hope you will be ok, more so, I hope that your sister and her partner will be ok. He has a rough future infront of him, but I'm sure he will manage. I imagine hearing that the person who did this have been caught will help some too.
Good luck for all of you, keep strong in the challanges that await you from here on. Keep strong.
I am glad that they caught the driver. He needs to be punished severely for this. Being drunk is no excuse. I find it appalling that this is his 4th dui. After a second DUI you should have your licence indefinably revoked. After a 3rd DUI you should face hard jail time.
My heart goes out to everyone that is suffering from this.
Really really sorry about the dogs... ;_;
Literally and figuratively.
All felony cases are public record, save for the police report and anything confidential. So if you are interested I can nudge around at work and find out more about his case as hearings happen.
I am sorry otherwise. It is always a shame when stuff like this happens in our fandom and community, and it feels like it always strikes closer to home than what I normally deal with. I wish the best of luck.
I hope he rots in jail.
Sounds to be like the dude is a 'dumb fuck' (Paul William Walden) and clearly with this latest rampage, he's nothing more then a danger to the general public.
And how intoxicated dose someone have to be, before they can't feel hitting a dog, let alone four of them and a human? It mush have really caused a bump.
I have driven an old car on a dirt road, really its damn hard not to notice every little bump. The fastest I have done was 80 on a highway.
"When death takes someone its horrible. When death takes a dear friend. Its a complete tragedy." I wish your sister and her boyfriend the best prayers possible and for a steady recovery.
I am sorry for your loss, and for their loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Best wishes to you all. <3
So disheartening. My ex-boyfriend got a DUI last year, and they let him go (his court date and what not keeps getting continued) wild and free. And if I remember correctly (albeit vaguely) if his hearing is continued for a certain amount of time the charges are dropped altogether. He still has his license, he still drives under the influence, and i've called child services (for another reason) in which they have done nothing.
Sometimes I have no hope in our justice system on certain aspects.
My mother was an alcoholic and in 09 she rear ended an SUV. the airbag popped out and the car was almost totalled - and because my brother and I fought her, told her it would happen, it scared he rout of ever drinking again. The laws saved our butts, really, letting her off easy because it was her first DUI - if she was arrested or otherwise I would have been put in a foster home.
Honestly though, with an asshole THIS bad, he WILL be targeted. I know some hardass motherfucker is going to go after this guy. in jail or out of it, if he goes off scott free he won't live long, and if he does live, he won't get peace. and if he goes into jail? pff. he's dead. either the prison guards will find SOME reason to beat him half to death or the prisoners will.
The bit I am hearing about, the boyfriend who pushed Gemily out of the way and lost part of his leg, that's an interesting thing here to hear and brought forth a good movie to my mind, Men of Honor. I had to give it a watch tonight. I am so sorry for Hari's loss, but people who can think of honors above themselves is quite something.
The dogs, so sorry about this. They didn't deserve anything like this, no one did. Life is fragile. Hope Hari feels good soon, and hope everyone a positive recovery from this. It's horrible, it really is.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
God bless you, all my love sent your way. <3
I want to try to draw a memorial of those dogs for you... I have enough pictures for reference saved to my computer. :C
I can't afford to donate, but I can at least do something.
Permission to hate? I just have no understanding of these type of people and then again someone once told me the difference between us and them, we care. Some disorders they just do not care at all. Even armed with these facts I do not understand how someone with three incidents prior who is not even allowed in a car is out there at all.
Just no understanding.
A co worker a few years ago lost her husband, single parent. He got three years, out in 14 months and rest probation. I hope in your state he gets more then that.
Justice will be served.
First, I need to correct an error in research on my part. I originally stated that violation of California's Three Strikes law was an automatic life sentence without parole, but actually it's 25 to life. Apologies for this error.
Anyway, from what I've read about the Three Strikes law, the felony convictions need not occur at different times/crimes for Three Strikes to apply. Multiple felonies committed during a single crime count as multiple strikes. Three or more felonies, and it's an automatic 25-to-life sentence if convicted.
Additionally, it doesn't matter what TYPE of felony is committed. If it's a felony of any kind, it's a strike. Some people (Habitual offenders) have actually gotten life sentences for shoplifting, because that was their third strike.
This guy is facing six felony charges, thus six strikes. If convicted, he's almost certainly going away for a very long time, if not the rest of his life. And, honestly, I see no reason why he wouldn't be convicted, not with the kind of criminal history he has.
I'm also glad, in a way, that you're not consuming yourself with what if's. It will destroy you; don't blame yourself. Stay strong.
You wanted him off the street before he kills a human. I would not be so quick to dismiss the idea that he already has. His disconnection from pain and suffering that he has caused suggests he would not have an issue with killing much of anything.
But I agree. Paul Walden needs to be locked up permanently.
http://youtu.be/YBGpGhINTa0
I want u to know you and your family are in my thoughts. Please take care and Jus know, We here are family and are here for you Okay?
You may have your own problems but if you honestly have your own shit to deal with this isn't the place to say anything, asshole.
see?
- Sadly drunks like that criminal who did this will never learn from their mistakes.
( from the reports this is his 4th DUI and also has other criminal records. ) he needs to stay in prison for the rest of his life. When he gets out he will just get behind a wheel of a car again drunk again and again until he kills somone. The Laws regarding chronic drunks driving are not stiff enough. I had two good friends killed by drunk drivers, its sad.
Criminal Alcoholics are usually always very selfish with no concideration about anything other then themselves. The only way to stop them is keep them locked up behind bars.
That said, Beastcub, I know I'm a stranger, but believe me when I tell you this had me crying. The thought of losing all your beloved pets at once, almost losing your sister and her heroic boyfriend... I can't begin to fathom it.. it scares the Hell out of me. My sister is my best friend in the world, and I would completely lose it if something happened to her. I thank Goddess your sister is okay. Don't worry about Hari, he is in good hands; Angels and spirit guides watched over him and your sister, and will continue to help Hari now as well. Your dear dogs are also not gone, they are now watching over you all too. When loved ones pass, they're never gone, they're always with you. You and Gemily will see them again, trust me. Love is stronger than you think, it ties our spirits together and can never be broken, even in death.
Your family has a lot of love and warmth around you right now; this fandom and many others are here for you all. Wounds will heal, justice will be served, and you and Hari's families will always have the support of this community.
I don't usually advocate harboring feelings of hatred for anyone, but this guy is one I'll make an exception for.
I wish I could help out, because this is the worst kind of tragedy of all. Sadly, all I can do is spread the word. :/ I wish them both the best for recovery, and may they find peace in the passing of their beloved children.
Y'all got my hopes and best wishes.
I can only hope that the idiot that did this actually ends up somewhere that he cannot EVER do this to anyone or anyone's furbabies EVER again. I hope that Gemily, and Harison (sorry if i mis-spelled) continue to heal and be strong, and that you and those that witnessed this can heal, in time, as well.
Although we sadly can't afford to help financially, we will be sending much love your way
Wishing all of you the best hon. You'll all be in my meditations and prayers tonight.
And Prison's too good for him; he should be permanently hobbled (like with his knees in braces, tucked back behind the knee, making them unable to move) and forced into some kind of permanent restitution; be it indentured servitude or an absolute, mandated dissolution of any kind of funds he'd receive; EVER.
Karma waits for no judgment, harkens to no rules save it's own; by taking such a grievous path, his own fate; his very soul now rests under the sword of Damocles...
Conversely, it is scum like him that make me proud to be a Fur; the true Humanitarians...
Lock the miserable fucker up in a tiny eight by six solitary cell for the rest of his life. Let's hope the justice system sees it that way too.
*hugs*
I believe each human dog involved holds a felony charge so he is looking at 6 felonys
I hope your sister and her bf recover as quickly as possible.
Sincerely con staffer
Tamara Rose
I know this will be a VERY hard recovery but as I stated before, I hope things can turn around and heal. No one should ever have to be put through this.
My hopes and wishes for you all.
Now we just need a dog driving a car to run him over.
May there be closure for these furs' family and friends, and I wish them a speedy recovery. I will hope for a miracle that the lost leg can be saved... (I did gasp in horror when I read about the injury in the article. Gruesome! )
If this is a bad place for this, I sincerely apologize.
That asshole should never be allowed on the roads again...
A word of hope for Hari - I know the loss of a limb is a life-changing event, and it's very frightening. However, since he lost it below the knee, there is a very, very good chance he will be able to walk very normally with the use of a prosthetic. My 65-year old father lost his leg below the knee due to diabetes and in his age and bad health, he walks perfectly fine with a prosthetic. At your friend's young age, he will likely make a much faster and thorough recovery, and be able to live a more normal life than he will expect at first. :) Just to give a ray of hope to an awful situation.
It just makes me so angry that the guy who hit them was so remorseless, and was only sorry because he got caught. And his protest of being charged for the deaths of their dogs...as if it were 'less' of a death because it wasn't human. It makes me so angry. And I'm not buying the BS about how he didn't realized he hit anyone. I'm hoping them both a speedy recovery, both emotionally and physically.
I am so so so sorry, I have no words to convey that would carry my feelings on this. *hugs*
Now, about those medical-costs... *heads for the Paypal address*
Forgive the possible disrespect, but I love the fact you guys had named one of the dogs Winry... *Full Metal Alchemist fan* May they all rest in peace, poor things. They didn't deserve to go like that...
I can't come to ever understand most people. Selfish in their actions.
I hope Everything goes smoothly from now on for You, your family and Your sister's boyfriend. I am dearly sorry for the loss of their animals and I really don't know what I would do if I lost my one dog, let alone all at once. I will Keep Everyone in my thoughts. *Hugs*
I hope they have no further trouble with anything.
I can't think of anything really to say... my heart goes out to you and your family and hope recovery is as painless as possible :C
And I hope that asshat rots away into nothingness
Though seriously, worse sh*t happends every day, what do you want pitty + money for? Poor guy going to spend year in prison anyway and he didn't even seem to notice to hit couple of dogs and people.
Yes more horrible things happen, and awful as my personal situation is my heart goes out to the people shot at the theater in Colorado, as horrible as this thing I am facing in my own life is it was not near as bad, our situation was the result of idiot driver with 3 previous DUI convictions going 80 and not stopping at the stop sign, a random act of stupidity, a hit and run driver... what happened in the theater was a pre meditated act to kill innocent unsuspecting people and as horrifying as my sister's screams were as she laid in the street surrounded by her dead dogs and bleeding leg-less boyfriend with her own leg shattered into such buts she now has a rod in her leg, I still feel for those people...
my guess is they mainly want to inform people, but i am sure they appreciate the support, and there will be costs involved. i don't think it was even beastcub who even set up the donation funds, but people want to help, and there is no requirement to give any money. i'm not sure why i am trying to explain it to you when it's very hard to see what you are doing as anything but trolling, but just on the off chance you heavily misunderstood.
Also, your sweet, loving dogs are awaiting you at the Rainbow Bridge, hun
My condolences to you and your family,
Sincerely. Osiris
today was harder for my sis though, she cried a lot, won't get to see Hari for a lot longer :(
Tomorrow I light candles for a good friend so she can find work, and another for my own medical issues impending. I will light a few for the lot of you - a brown one and a yellow one in memory of the dogs (brown works well for animals), green for Hari (for speedy recovery), and another green for emotional healing.
At the very least I'm glad he was caught, and more glad that every one lived. Dogs can not be replaced, they are just as much family and friends as the rest of your family, hope for the best, and keep your chin up!
I don't know if I can put into words my outrage for the situation or my heartbreak. Hari is a true hero and my heart just breaks to think about his giant loss at such a young age. Your sister's loss and pain over the dogs and not being able to be by Hari's side. My thoughts are with your whole family. I can only hope everyone heals fast.
The whole community is here for you.
There is no word for how I felt reading this whole ordeal, and I cannot even imagine how it's been for you and your family. My heart goes out to you all. Here's to a very speedy recovery for both the physical and emotional wounds.
Remember, you're a strong woman, and so is the rest of your family, but even then you have thousands of supporters giving you their prayers and helping hand.
Hope to hear nothing but better things, I know I wouldn't be able to handle such a situation nearly as well. Especially wishing them both strength, I honestly can't imagine what I would do.
My heart goes out to you and your family, and your sisters boyfriend.
I hope the best for you and your family, and I will keep you in my heart. If there is any way I can help I will. For now I'll start by posting a journal.
Again, I hope for the best and I'm glad this son of a bitch was caught. I have no sympathy for him.
-hugs-
Yeah okay I sure blew my top here! But really, for one thing, what does he think animals are--GARBAGE??!! ETC.!!!
Of course, in this real world (at least in the US), you can't do that because, unfortunately, it's illegal.
At least we can probably count on him going to prison for QUITE a LONG TIME. I think we'll have to settle for that.
Sincerely, Redstripe Cougar.