I'm sorry to hear that hon *hugs tightly* if you want to chat I should be here the majority of the day plus I'll be mobile while I'm out of the house. I'm here for you hon

I know, thanks

you know I'll always be there for you hon ^_^ *hugs*

*hugs* I know

I know, thanks

what exactly happened..?? im terribly sorry for your loss T^T

I don't know what caused his death right now, have to wait on the M.E.

does he drink or smoke?? that could be a reason if it was D:

no he didn't

I'm sorry to hear this. My condolences go out to you.

I know, thanks

Oh man, I am terribly sorry Ainoko. *hug*

Same here, thanks

Dad and I send condolences in this difficult time

*hugs* thanks

I know you've got a lot of conflicting emotions about this. Just try not to beat yourself up over them, or think less of yourself. The death of someone whose been a huge part of our lives, both the good and the bad, is rarely straightforward. Look to your friends for support, and if there's anything any of us can do, feel free to ask. We're here.

I know, I am trying to get things back in order now that his body is gone

wow... well if you need to talk or anything at all let me know, i'll be here for ya...

*hugs* thanks, I know

i just really dunno how to react... if i should be sad you lost someone close, or happy for you, because of what you told me about him last time, 'cause he sounded like a real ass

Right now, I don't wish to speak ill of him, I would rather say that he is no longer suffering

i understand... it's not good to speak ill of the recently deseased...

*hugs*

oh you're the one who needs it man...

*hugs*

thanks

thanks

no problem, like i said, i'm here for ya

I know

My condolences hun, I know you really don't know me, but I am here if you need someone to talk to.

*hugs* I know, thanks

Welxome hun!

*hugs tight*

*hugs* thanks

*Hugs and holds you close*

*hugs you crying* thanks

I'm here for you. What exactly happened?

I know, as of right now, we have no idea

Wow...

I know

*Hugs*

How did he die? :(

Don't really know right now

this is so sudden ;.; I am sorry for you!

I know, thanks

That... that sucks dude. At the very least, and I know it probably doesn't mean much to you right now, you made his last days better with your companionship. At least he wasn't lonely. He had someone that took care of him, someone that loved him enough to be there for him. That gave up chunks of their life to ensure that his wasn't terrible.

I think his last words would've probably been "thank you". My heart goes out to you man.

It hurts so much,

I'm terribly sorry for your lose. The most I can give being some random person is that I hope it was painless and that you and your partner had the best time of both of your lives together.

I hope his passing was painless as well

... I am terribly sorry to hear so, hun. My best wishes go for you and your partner, where ever he may be now. *holds you real tightly*

*hugs you back* thanks

Aw man..... I am truly sorry that happened. Offers friendly hugs.

Thanks *hugs*

Welcome. If you need to talk, I'm here.

I know

Sorry for your loss.

Thanks *hugs* it is appreciated

I'm sorry for your loss my friend if you need to talk I'm here okay. You take it easy okay.

thanks. I know that you are here and I will

*wraps my arm around your neck and shares some of my strength with you.*

*hugs* it is much appreciated

You're welcome my friend.

thanks for the support

Anytime.

Oh I left you a little something in your inbox.

*hugs* I saw and it's beautiful

*hugs*

*hugs*

I hate to hear that....The only good thing is and I mean ONLY is you said he was very sick......
Still,I mourn your loss....

That he was, and at least he is no longer suffering.

I still admire you taking care of him till the end....

thanks

You are welcome.

*hugs*

I know that feeling of losing someone close to you. It hurts, its like a wound that cannot heal and could leave a scab behind. Its sad really, i pray that he rests peacfuly and for an eternity. you have my condolences

Thanks *hugs* I have been through this many a time, and it never gets easier

I recently lost my grandparents, both of them, 4 months apart from each other. My grandmother passed away duing surgery, and my grandfather died in his home due to pneumonia and Alzheimers disease.

and possibly from a broken heart I bet as I can imagine those two being very close together.

Yeah, but i hope that you continue to be strong, even after the loss of your loved one.

I will be ok, gonna have a hard time tonight and the next few nights

I am SO sorry Ainoko, you are in my thoughts

*hugs* thanks

Omg, I'm so sorry Ainoko.. :<

*hugs* Thanks, I-I-I just didn't want to start fresh like this

I wish I had words to use that would reduce the impact and sadness of this; all I or anyone else can say is we feel for you, and wish you luck in coping with this painful loss. Here's hoping the hurt is cathartic and lasts no longer than it must; this hurts badly enough without being harmed more deeply or for a longer period than is necessary.

I know

I'm so sorry. I know you wanted closure but not like this.

*hugs tight* I expect you'll need your time alone. Just remember you have friends here.

I know, I will make it through this

I am so very sorry to hear this news! My heart and condolences go out to you.

*hugs* thanks

*hugs* I'm sorry for your loss.

*hugs* thanks,

You're welcome. I hope you will be alright.

I will be

That's good to know.

yeah

*nods and hugs*

*hugs*

Ainoko, my sincere condolences on the passing of your partner.

*hugs* thanks, it's going to be hard the first few nights

I'm very sorry.

*hugs* thanks, it does hurt

*hugs back*

thanks

(*Sits silently with you*)

*hugs* thanks

Oh sweetheart, I am terribly sorry..
I am at a loss of words because this is my worst fear.
May I just sit with you?
Like everyone else..
If you need anything, Please.. I want to be here for you.

*hugs*thanks

*hugs* thanks

I know I don't talk much anymore, but my condolences to you. I hope he passed peacefully.

Same here

Oh, no... I'm so, so sorry you've had to experience this, hon. I wish that there was more that I could do than simply offer my condolences to you. :c

*hugs tight* I'm always here if you want to talk, hon. I'm sorry that's all I can offer you through this...

*hugs* I know, I do thank you

OMG hon I am soooo sorry! My condolences!
Hugs!

Thanks Demona *hugs* this means a lot

I know you were having troubles with your relationship but I also know that it still hurts. In his own way he has relesed you. Be at peace, mourn him, you are in my prayers. *hugs*

Thanks *hugs* I just didn't want to be released like this

*hug*

I'm so sorry to read this. I hope you have someone who can come stay with you (or you can stay with them) for a few days. The lead-up to the funeral and the immediate aftermath can be so emotionally devastating.

At least I don't have to deal with the arrangements, his sister has to. *hugs*

I'm so sorry, Kitty! :( At least his suffering is over with, and he can now rest in peace and comfort.

*hugs tightly*

*hugs* I know,

I Don't think we've ever chatted before but I just want to give you my condolences.

*hugs* thanks

*hugs* thanks

You have my deepest sympathies and condolences.

I wish there was more I could say, but at the moment it's the most I can say and offer, and I know it's a petty small amount to offer as comfort. But I'll say it regardless, and hope you are as well as you can be.

I know, I am doing ok, and trying to force myself to eat something to kill a massive headache

Iam sorry to hear of your loss I know how that feels since I just lost someone ths week as well *hug* hope things get better for you

They will, it's just the first few nights that will be the hardest, knowing that he will no longer be there next to me

i feel ya and you are correct it will be rough I know that for a fact so hang in there youll be able to get through this

I will make it through this, it will be hard, but I will

*hug* i do know how stress full and sad you may be feeling since i litterally just went through lossing my mom last sunday and burring her yesterday if you need to vent pm ok

I know and if I do I will. It's going to be hard as he won't be next to me in bed ever again

true but his spirit will be watching over you

I know

My deepest condolences I offer you.
*Huggles*

*hugs* thanks, they are appreciated

You're most welcome. Anything to help.

I know

I honestly don't know what to say. I usually never do in these circumstances. *hugs*

*that is ok *hugs* it's the thought that counts

Stay strong man. *fistbump*

*hugs* I will

*hugs* Same here and thanks

*hugs* I know

nobody can truly die until they're forgotten. keep him in your memory, and he will live on.

Remembrance is the sweetest flower
Of all this world's perfumings;
Memory guards it sun or shower,
Friendship keeps it blooming.

*hugs* I know

send me a note if you want support.

I will

Christ above, i just found out, Im sorry man. were here for you.

*hugs* I know and at the time I am posting this, I will be starting the second half of the second day after his death, another night alone

I'm so sorry

*hugs* I know, but at least eh is in better place

-huggles- Remember the good times, remember the bad times. All hold experiences and memories of how much he loved you. Mourn, Cry, than laugh. Do something small but has a huge meaning in remembrance of him. I know this has to be hard. You are in my prays. I wish you the best and hope things go smooth for you.

*hugs* Thanks, your thoughts are much appreciated

***Hugs*** I became a widow this January, so the realities of lousing a partner are still very real for me. Pat had been sic for a very long time. I felt terably guilty for the scene of relief I felt at being free. I felt angry for being left behind. But mostly I felt lost.

Work through the prosses hun there are no roues for how you are supposed to do this. Find some one to help you through it ... that will help a lot.

**Hugs**

ZZ

I know, I am planning on getting rid of most of our combined possessions and get down to the barest necessities.

When I cleaned out the house I found very little that was mine and two truck loads of stuff that was Pat's. It was a very painful prosses, it was also very liberating.

I doubt that there will be that much, but there is quite a large amount

**Hugs** The point is it helped me move on. **hugs**

ZZ

I know, I am hoping that it will help me as well

It will.
It may not seem like it at the time, but it will.

ZZ

I am certain of that, it's just getting started that is the hardest

I know hun. It is ..

ZZ

Yeah
And I am nearly 100% certain that once I start I won't stop until it is done

I mourn for you dear
I know the feeling of losing a partner
I lost mine to cancer this last febuary
*hugs into my feathers*
Hes in a better place

*hugs you back* I know, but it hurts none-the-less

Aww! So very, very sorry to hear it. Wish I could offer more then comforts and hugs! ::Huggles::

Don't fret, they are helping *hugs*