That's what they are talking about now in the new release I saw. But I think this is above manslaughter, and from my understanding, California has what's called a Watson Murder, or DUI Murder which means if the person causes an accident that kills a person and the driver has had other DUI charges, they could be charged with second degree murder. What I'm afraid of is that even though the guy has had multiple DUI charges, and was found because he was driving drunk that doesn't mean he was driving drunk or drugged up that night. I think he was, but there is no way to really prove it.
That or track the license plate with the traffic cameras during that evening. They can also try and get it out of him during the investigation interviews as well.
I'm sure they breathalizered or blood-tested the guy when they caught him- wasn't he captured within a day or so (not sure, sorry- this suggestion might be moot)? I've heard that alcohol breaks down in the blood in a pretty specific way. Perhaps a forensics expert can get an idea of how far over the limit this cretin was... Poor Hari...
Small correction (still wishing for the EDIT function, FA!): he was caught on July 19th. I don't know if there'd be much evidence of alcohol in his system by then, assuming he hadn't drunk any after the hit-and-run. *sighs* Still, it may well be a reasonable assumption, based on this asshole's previous record. It's unlikely that he wasn't drunk...
I agree, but he was still arrested for DUI, so idk, I'm just wishing this happened in a state that had the death penalty! We, as tax payers, shouldn't have to pay for him to be taken care of.
I don't want him to be taken care of on my dime, either, but I also disagree fervently with the death-penalty. This doesn't leave much in the way of options, sadly, when it comes to obviously remorseless, self-centred sociopaths like Walden. Our society needs to come up with a better method of rehabilitation- what we do now- caging human beings- doesn't work.
Unfortunately, yes, but he's off the streets, hopefully permanently. *lives in California* Sure, I resent having to partially-pay for this fool's unconscionable actions, but I'd rather that than he kill someone else with his selfish negligence. What's more "expensive" in the grand scheme? A few years of prison at a 100K (do you think he'll last long? I don't), or another dead innocent (in this case five, since I count the dogs)?
Being a cynic and a realist, despite being also rather idealistic, I unfortunately agree with you, but I honestly do hope he's in for a very long time.
Look at it this way - it is more expensive to pay for somebody on death row than it is for a lifer.
But also, look at this. He ran down four dogs, with no remorse. All that needs to happen is that this word gets out in the slam to the big guys that like their pets.
I think the US prison system is so much more than lax! Hell they get three meals a day that is better than school lunches we feed children!!!!! They get unlimited healthcare, which is more than a lot of people can say, including me! Hell, there was a local story the other day saying a guy robed a bank because he thought he had cancer and could get it treated while he was in jail! We make it so these people WANT to be in jail....
I have a friend that is a prison guard. He says they're treated better than most regular citizens, and the other day got the duty of taking an inmate to the hospital to have the third stent put into his head, all on the taxpayer's dime and to save the life of a child molester....
Some furs affiliate/equate with their sonas.. so when i said below us.. i meant below our sonas' level, i.e. lower than animals/lower than ourselves/sonas
Yes he could, along with the deaths of the dogs aswell.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Beatcub, and I hope your family is okay aswell. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
I do hope that they find this monster and put him to justice. I was actually looking at all plushie suggestions the other day and I was talking about you with my father, he said that he hopes that you and your family are okay.
I haven't been on FA for a long while, and I find it quiet touching how close this community is and how much we all care for each other. Sure we are all having fun doing art and sharing ideas and whatnot, but when it comes down to it and something REAL and devastating happens ( like this) we are all a big family.
I will be lighting a candle for your family tonight Beastcub.
I am incredibly saddened to hear he didn't make it. My mate and I send all our thoughts and well wishes to you and yours in this hard time. :( This is terrible....
He died, but he dies protecting the woman he loved, and for any man to do so is an amazingly honorable act. I hope Gem is doing okay, I cant imagine what she must be going through.
stay strong for her, she needs support now more than ever.
I hope you guys can quickly get back on your feet after grieving, and I hope both families are able to heal after what this awful person has done to you.
this was an honorable trait of undeniable actions that he loved her and he trade his life in place of hers. This is undoubtedly the most undeniable sign of love...i have gained so much respect for a man that not only never talked to but also that i didn't know.
I'm so sorry he didn't make it... It was like he was doing fine one moment then gone the next... You and your family as well as his have my condolences.... ; ;
I never got to know any of you, but I prayed everyday... He's in a much more safer place waiting for you guys to come join him when its your time. I cannot express how sorry and sad I feel for you.
There are no words... The right words simply don't come. But for what it's worth... I send my deepest sympathies to you and your family, and especially your poor sister...
My heart is breaking for you and your families.... It seems so unfair that something else must be piled upon your shoulders.......
I am so very sorry and my thoughts and prayers go out to you.......
I hope you are all able to keep your strength and continue living your lives, not just for yourselves, but for Hari as well....
His memories and presence will always be among you, protecting each of you, as was his life's goal.
He indeed died a hero.... and he saved Gemliy's life for a reason.....
I send all my love to you...... good luck........
Long live Hari's memory. The pain of his loss is a testament to how he lived his life. I don't really know any of you, nor do any of you know me. Regardless I send my best to you all, may my small wish be a tiny part of your healing process.
And they have not caught this asshole... There nothing I can say to know how you all feel but I really hope they catch that person and know what they did....
He was actually caught within a day or two of the accident. I believe "vehicular manslaughter" is being added to the already-hefty charges- it may even be altered to 2nd-dgree murder, since he was likely driving drunk, knew he was drunk, drove on a suspended license and didn't effing CARE except that he'd gotten caught and was more pissed off at the charges laid on him for the four dogs than anything else. A complete and utter waste of skin, that one. *cries*
No remorse shown, whatsoever, from what I've read. The only thing he apparently was upset over was that he was being charged with felony crimes for the deaths of wolfgem's dogs. Complete jerk. Wonder what he's feeling, now that poor elden is gone... I hope his stomach went through the fucking floor with fear and guilt when he heard.
He was caught on the 19th of July, by the way, so his capture was pretty fast, considering all they knew of a possible perp was he was driving an older red Mazda... Kudos to the Sacramento police dept, for that.
Forgot to mention that along with the many other DUI charges he has on his record, he apparently has a number of other criminal-charges, too. Some aren't worth saving... This man has got to be mentally-deficient in some way- actions like his are just too stupid for words...
Ya gotta wonder, mate, ya gotta wonder. I see hopeful things, too... oh, like all the wonderful showing of support here for elden's family and beastcub's and wolfgem's family.
Rest in peace, Hari. Despite this tragedy, I have full confidence that you and your sister, as well as the rest of Hari's friends and family, will pull through this with strength, and find peace in the fact that he lived filled with love.
When I saw the news, I started to cry instantly. My heart is so heavy, and so saddened by his passing. I had so many prayers and hopes that he would make it through. The world lost an Amazing person today. He was, and always will be a hero.
My heart and my prayers go out to his family, and to Gemily. I hope you guys can get through this. Know that we are all here to support you.
as i said before we are all here for you furs you know well and some you know little we are here for her to my "family"{ our house of 5 furries } send there condolences to you.. offering shoulder to cry one hands to help and thoughts and prayers
I'm sorry this happened hon... I know you don't know me but I've been following the story. I hope that the guy who did this now gets voluntary manslaughter on top of everything else he's getting. I send my prayers out to you now and my deepest condolences. You and your sister keep strong and take time to heal yourselves, heart and soul.
I am so so so so sorry for yours and your sisters loss. What a senseless tragedy. I can only hope that justice is done swiftly in this case, and that the judge is harsh on this inhumane bastard.
Oh no...he sounded like he was doing so well! I dont know how it could have happened so quickly! I am so sorry for you and your sister- that is heart wrenching.
understandably so. Oh I am so so sorry for all of your family- especially your sister. Bless you all in this tough time, and my condolences to both your family and Hari's. An incredible person to sacrifice himself to save the woman he loved. I wish everyone the best and hope things will improve soon.
May the spirits of the wind carry him safely to the heavens where he may find peace among the stars.
My prayers to your family and his...and my prayers to him for a safe journey.
</3 It is heartbreaking to hear that he didn't make it... My prayers go to you and your sister, and Hari's family... I know that in the coming days and months, there's going to be a lot of "what ifs" and "should haves" and "if onlys" going around through your minds. Just remember that the final blame, the only blame, lies with the driver who did this.
I wish you all the best in trying to make sense of this and heal :(
I am so very sorry to hear about this. :( He truly was an amazing man to do what he did. I hope that his family, as well as yours, can find some peace soon. Once again, so very sorry. :(
i hope the justice system stikes that man down for causing all this pain. im sorry for what has happened and i wish your whole family well to get through this. <3we are all here for you
this year has been such a terrible year for many people. everywhere I turn someone close to someone dear to me dies or is really hurt badly. this is a terrible year. I hope they find all the crazies and lock them up before anymore people get killed.
I've been reading all of this over the last few weeks, and I've had no idea what to say in concerns to everything. It's magnitude is just... I know I wouldn't handle it well in your position let alone your sisters. I'm very very sorry to hear this has happened to all of you. It's quite obvious that Hari was one of those great men, It's just so sad that the world and your family had to lose him.
It has always been my belief that we each have a purpose, a mission, here on earth. When that mission is complete, we are called back.
It seems to me his mission was clear, and he completed it by guarding your sister that night. Now, she will have an eternal guard looking over her.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
It is such sad news, but his heroism is the silver lining to the dark cloud.
I tried to hold back tears, but when I read this, I lost it.
I may be a stranger to you guys, but my heart is aching from this incident. May no one have to go through this. My thoughts are with everyone, especially your sister. I am so sorry.
Oh my gosh this is such a shock! All I have to say is that the bond between you and your sister is one she and you both really need right now. To have so much happen in such a short period of time is beyond tragic. but as you can see everyone in the community is here for you all and we all grieve for the loss of such a great man and to feel that way about someone most don't even know means he was a hero and amazing guy. *hugs and cries with you*
I .... I don't even know what to say. :c This is terrible. I'm 100% shocked, since it seemed as if he was doing well and was going to make it. x___x; Man...
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Beastcub. Especially moreso for your sister. :C I wish her the best through all of this. She clearly had one heck of a guy, and I'm sure she's going to need all the support she can get after this...
My heart goes out to everyone and their families involved in this great tragedy. I did not know Hari, but I will always remember his heroic act. He is a true hero.
He was truley a hero, may he rest in peace, I will never forget what a brave man he was, even though I never knew him, what he did for your sister has truley touched my heart. My thoughts are with your sister and family<3 I'm so sorry.
My heart truly stopped when I heard the news.
I'm so very sorry for you, and for your sister, and for his family. I can't even imagine how much that must hurt.
I'm speechless. Absolutely speechless. I'm sorry for your family's loss, and my thoughts will be with you all. Especially your sister... I really hope she'll be alright.
Any words I offer will just sound inadequate, but I am truly sorry for your family's loss. I can't even imagine what all of this is like, and I send my very best wishes and prayers to all of you. If there's anything I can do, please poke me anytime.
My God, I am so, so sorry. I've been watching since day one and was so convinced Hari would be fine. This grieves so many of us. Deepest sympathies to you and the family. Godspeed Hari and the little ones. *snugs*
I was afraid of something like this happening; when I saw your journal my heart just sank for you and your sister. I don't have words for how sorry I am. Still meditating and praying over this daily, for what it's worth. You're so strong, being there for your family like this. I hope you are able to rest soon.
I have no words to express how sorry I am. He was an absolute hero, and it isn't fair that he was taken from all of us so early. You have my deepest condolences.
i have no idea of anything to say that hasn't been said by others at this point =( this is a terrible shock indeed as it seemed he was doing well. in the end the very best i'm able to do is give me deepest well wishes to you and your sister, and his family. you all have been through a storm of chaotic disruption that i would never wish on anyone =( may the balances of chaos tip in his favor and lead him to a better place, and let the force of community pierce the shadows that have fallen and help everyone recover =(
I am so terribly sorry to hear this... I remember seeing my grandmother DAYS before she suddenly died, and it was a sick feeling to learn of her death. As for my dad, my mom never found a better man. Hari was more than a Hero.
I hope you all heal well, and please accept my condolences.
Omg, I'm so sorry this had happen, words cannot describe the pains of a lost loved one. I wish both you and your sister the best and hope that this doesn't leave a terrible scar. When I first read this I didn't know how to reply or if I even should reply but I felt the need to reply. I really do hope for the best for you two; my prayers for you both.
R.I.P. Hari
:( i knew harrison for a long time and now i can't believe this happen i lost a great friend/ex enemy i hope he will see all the great anime up there v.v
I am so sorry...and I am going to keep your family and his in my thoughts and prayers for a long time. Please take care of yourselves... take things one day at a time and just be there for each other. I agree he was a hero...and the guy who hit them is a cowardly murderer who deserves to be locked up indefinitely.
A VERY good heart has left this world. But it gives him a chance to watch over Gemily from the skies, and be her personal protector. Everything that happens, happens for a reason. I can only hope that your sister is able to lead a mostly normal life in spite of this.
And to the bastard who did this, I hope he hears these words (though I know he won't):
You killed four dogs. You murdered five people. Yes, dogs are people too. I hope you feel proud of yourself for what you have done. I hope you meet your end in jail. Nothing is suitable punishment for you. I hope you rot.
-Kami
This is just so sad. First the dogs and now Hari. I have been reading every journal and I am just so shocked and sad for you and his family. No one deserves to have that happen. I am so glad they caught him and will be making him serve time for being so stupid.
Im so sorry about what has happened, you and your sister are in my fiance and my prayers. He has died a hero, a hero to the end of your sister's days who will be watching over her from above and will keep her safe. A loss is always hard, but losing a loved one hurts the most. just please keep yourself and your sis from falling out of reality, I myself have had many occasions like this where I went into a deep depression and avoided people over the loss of a lot of close people to me
thats afull :( i dont know you but this story made my heart break. that guy truly is a hero in every sense and idk if you believe in god or not but in my mind he has the highest honer in heaven and will always look after ur sister from where he sits.
Words cannot even begin to comfort or console you right now but I am here for you if you wanna talk. I can't imagine what you are all feeling I myself am in tears because of this and keep having nightmares of my own dog dieing in a simular manner and i am not even the one it happened to.....I am so so sorry for you guys May he forever live on the hero that he truly is in all of your hearts.
My deepest condolences to you and your family and I can only hope that he continues to watch over you all from a better place and the monster responsible never sees the outside of a prison again.
I..I'm so sorry to hear this... I never knew him, but it sounds like he was an incredible person; a true hero indeed. I am so sorry for your family and his; I offer you all my deepest condolences and I hope you can all pull through this difficult time...
omg.. beast.. I'm extremely sorry for yours and your sisters loss.. he did die as a hero.. I just hope that sick fucker that caused all this mess fucking dies a horrible, painful, death.. As horrible as that sound, but honestly.. he's a heartless monster..
*hugs tightly*
I'm just glad nothing horrible happened to gem.. may her heart be full of strength..
Right now, He is in a place where there is no illness, no pain. He is receiving love beyond our comprehension. I can assure you though - he would want you guys to move on to the best of your abilities. He certainly does love you guys! All the relatives he has lost - all the pets he has lost - are all with him now.
I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. I know the pain and sting of losing someone so very special. *hugs* If you need anything, anything at all, note me. Same goes to Wolfgem.
My best wishes to you and your family in this time. In the end, remember he did die a hero, and died so that your sister could live on, and be happy. May his last wish and his last act bring better times to both of you. The community stands with you, your country stands with you, and in the end the legal system will stand and make sure the piece of crap responsible never gets his freedom. Blessings to both of you, and I hope time brings healing.
Like so many people posting here, I don't know anyone involved. However, what Hari did touched me greatly and I hope there is a special place for a hero like him after this life.
I heard about what happened. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you & your family. I know somewhat of how you feel. Recently I recently lost my grandma to a brain annurism. It does truly feel awful when a friend or family is gone. I hope the authorities catch the jerk who did that & make him pay for what he's done.
Key thing to remember, though: Family, friends & even adored pets are truly not gone while we still remember them. The bonds of family & friendship remain intact & unbroken past death. Those bonds keep the memories alive.
If there's anything I can do, let me know. Us fellow furs have to stick together.
Having just lost my mother, I can only fathom what you and your familiy are going through right now. When I read the news on Palomino's journal, I wanted to help. I made this for Hari and to hopefully help the rest of you in some small way. You have my deepest sympathies, neigh.
I just came back to receive the news about this from my sister, and I was hoping this was wrong.
Hari, may you rest in peace and you will be remembered as the hero you are and were.
This guy was a saint in disguise, and I hope that if anything he didn't suffer and just passed in his sleep. -doesn't mean this in a bad way-
I.....he is just a very wonderful guy and that alone just made me honor his memory all he more.
My prayers and wishes are with you guys, both the West family and Hari's family.
I don't know you, or Hari, or anyone really, but I am extremely sorry for your family's loss.... May this truly heroic being rest in peace. If only we could rid the streets of careless drivers and restore/spare those lives that were lost.
Take care xx
My thoughts with the your sister, you and all the family of the fallen, I know its something that is said but tomorrow nor the next min is promised to any of us. Life is like that to many and hearing about it with-in the community is close to home. I lost a sister to a drunk driver, it was not a hit and run thing though the guy got arrested at the seen. I truly hope the guy they have is the right one and gets a small cell to think things over for many years to come. I do regret that the law was saying he will only get charged with cruelty to animals... those laws need to be changed to murder as well... if it was my world... it will not bring the loved ones back, nor will it be something one gets over in time, time does heal all wounds... but it does leave big scars... its a event that will be with you for ever more... the task is learning to cope and go day by day... moving on in this life... I know it seems petty but get a good lawyer and go after the mans entire family, where he bought his drinks, anyone associated with the "bleep"... then open up a scholarship in your loved ones name, or donate any funds from it to charity... I was very young when the event happened to my sister... she was just a teenager on a mini bike... car hit her and sent her thru the windshield and died at the seen... my memories were of seeing her in that position... all I can offer is a shoulder to cry on, a ear to hear, and advice and experience, as one gets older more and more events happen. My wife was passed in 2008, and it tore me to pieces... was not good for anything for a year and thought about checking out... and a friend sent me a video about the fandom... and it brought a little light and joy in my life at the time I needed it the most... I know it does not seem like it at the moment and if you are reading this... in time you will heal some and be there in times someone will need you... and there will be moments of happiness again... you will never get over it, it will be there in your heart and mind forever... but i am not someone setting on a keyboard that is just saying things... Big hugs and truly the best of all in getting thru this point in your life... it is the most painful, soul wrenching thing that can happen to your sister... and unless someone has not personally lost a mate can truly never relate... its not like losing a family member... though thats bad enough... you wake up and that soul is not next to you, I am tearing up and will stop... sorry like I said it will be with you... I just ask you to hang in there... if you ever want to talk pm me.
i truely truely couldn't agree with anyone more than you at this very moment. I lost my dad back in 2009 at the age of 14 due to unknown causes (family won't tell me exactly) ive learned to deal with it and move on but there isn't a day that goes by that i don't think of him. Same with my sister who passed at birth. I never exactly knew her i guess but i felt i did. i know they are in that one special place where they are happy and watching over me and this thought helps me go day by day.
I am sorry to hear he died, just now 4am here in uk, feeling sick with a cold and cough in the middle of scotiacon. I am lost but he is still a hero reguardless. I will let others knows.
the guy that caused all of this... really needs to die a long and painful fucking death.
Also... anyone else got the urge to know exactly why Hari passed? Normally I don't ask but for someone that was reportedly doing good... comes rather odd.
he had a lot of internal damage... I am sure the news will eventually share what happened, I am respecting the family's wishes and not giving out any info the news has not...
IIRC, If he wasn't out of ICU yet, there are dozens of reasons things might have swiftly turned south while he was recovering. Blood clots, internal bleeding, stroke, seizure, his body simply draining too much of it's own resources.... there's so many different ways things can take a turn for the worse when recovering from massive bodily trauma.
in this case, as I recently learned, it was "complications of blunt force trauma" which from my understanding fatal complications from blunt force trauma happens suddenly and usually weeks after the incident (and sometimes even months or years later)
I'm in tears right now, I wish I could do something to ease the pain of you and your family, but all I can do as one person, like everyone else here, is to be with you in spirit, and send as much love as I can <3
Things will get better. It seems very dark right now, but, in time, the memory of Hari will make you smile, and think of all the good times. He will always be with you and your family. <3
Oh... dear.. ._. This came as quite a shock to me and I wasn't familiar with anyone involved... My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and Hari's family...
When I saw the title of this journal, my heart sank. I had hoped that he would get better. I'm so sorry for all the things that driver has taken from you and your family. I hope your sister and both your families make it through all this ok. :c
My deepest condolences to all of you. It's a shock to hear this especially since he was doing so well. Hari is truly a hero and he will always be remembered a hero. *hugs*
Im sooo sorry for yours and your sisters loss. He did die a hero and he will be remembered as one. I will keep you, your sister and his family in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs*
My condolences to your sister and Hari's family for Hari's death. Sigh. I did not expect this to take such a grave turn after Hari was hospitalized and seem to be recovering. :(
Oh my god, Beastcub ... I'm in utter shock. I was so sure that he was going to make it ... As shocking and as saddening as it is for me, a mere bystander that never got to personally know any of your amazing people (much less the brave young man who gave his all to protect the one he loved), I can't even -begin- to imagine how horribly this has blindsided those, like you and gemily and Hari's family, who are so VERY personally affected by this loss. This ... this -truly- isn't fair. So many wonderful lives have been taken and altered by this monster's actions ... it's HORRIBLY unfair...
Despite how shocked, hurt, and angry this leaves me, I derive one SOLE comfort from it ... it's the final nail in this bastard's coffin. I'm starting to hope he gets the needle. Too much innocent blood has been shed now because of him. Gemily has now lost all her children AND her mate because of this ... creature. He deserves to be made an example out of. To teach his kind the meaning of fear, and the high price of justice.
In my most HONEST opinion, every moment he's still breathing is an insult to those who no longer -can- draw breath because of him. His continued existence only serves to mock his victims. Both living -and- dead. He hasn't paid a high enough price yet.
I am so, so sorry. I've been silently following this story and I simply feel terrible for your sister and yourself.
Hari will always be remembered as a hero.
Please give your sister my condolences.
Nobody can say "all men are the same". Hari gave up his life to protect what was most important to him. He died a hero and will be remembered as one. This world could use more people like him. My prayers go out to you, Gemily, Hari, and your families.
As soon as I saw the journal title in my inbox, my heart sunk.. I didn't even get through the first line before I started breaking down crying.. Harrison will be remembered so greatly by so many people. I send my heart and prayers out to Gemily. She has lost so much so quickly.. Justice shall be served.
I have no words to say that havent already been said by others, nor anything that can help. All you need to know is everyone loves you, yours sister and Hari. and he is a hero, and always will be. I am so sorry for the loss!
I'm sorry for you and your sisters loss. I was really hoping he would be able to pull through. *hugs* I am glad that at least your sister is alright and you guys are in my prayers.
My heart goes out to you and your family, as well as Hari's family. I'm so sorry for all of your losses, you and Gem both. I pray for peace for both of your families.
I'm so sorry for your loss. He definitely did die a hero. He is love by his friends and family, keep his memory in your hearts forever. *hugs tightly* Stay strong in this difficult time.
I simply.... ust don't know.... It wasn't long ago I was thinking of adding to the floods of get well soons to his page when he got out... An now.... That's just not fair, he was already going to look at a prosthetic and know he was a hero... I really have no words... This hurts me and I didn't even know him... To those who were close to them... I'm just so very sorry...
What a terrible result, I had so much hope for him to keep getting better. He is a great man for what he did. I may have never met or interacted with him but just from his actions displayed in this incident everyone can know he was a loving person in every way.
I offer my condolences for what has happened, he is a hero. I'm really sorry you are all going through this, if there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to ask, everyone is here to support you. *hugs*
Read it about it yesterday and I just hped it was a lie (;y;)
It's hard to imagine what Gem feeling right now.
You have my deepest condolences.
But I'm also quite sure that he will watch over Gem wherever she goes.
Oh, no!
To me, he did not die in vain- he shows the definition of heroism, and that hit-&-run driver will be in a LOT more trouble now.
I do hope that you get fair justice and I am sorry for his passage-he did not deserve to to die this young, but he has showed us that you are never too young to be heroic.
I couldnt help but cry reading this. I am so sorry for your loss. It was bad losing your pets but I had thought 'at least those two survived'. Its heartbreaking to hear that this monster has stolen yet another person from your lives.
I must tell you that I'm praying for you and your family. I know what it is like having someone so young taken from you, and it hurts. More than anyone could ever imagine. My mother passed away when she was 36, and I was 9. Please, if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.
I am so sorry to hear that Hari has passed. My heart goes out to Gemily, yourself and Hari's family. Hari is a Hero and he did so much good in the face of danger. RIP Hari
I´m so sorry for your loss, I´m crying and I didn´t even know any of you before the accident. I really hope your sister gets better, he was truly a hero, I´m so sorry...
My condolences for you, to his friends and family, and to anyone who was touched by his life.
As someone who was gravely injured by a drunk driver myself, it saddens me to see someone else become a victim of such a crime and stupid decision made by that driver. He did a wonderful thing, and I hope justice is served to the driver for his deadly actions.
Omg... ;; You guys don't deserve any of this misfortune. ):
I really hope things get better for you. I'm so so sorry this happened.
He was a brave man and was so selfless to give his life for the one he loved. He will always be remembered as a hero. <3
Not many people can act like that in a split second, or even put someone elses life before their own.
I'm really sorry for your loss, loosing someone close really hits hard, its good to know your sister is ok though.
Its also great to know you knew such an amazing person to have done that.
The list goes on but with every ones words here today we all hope that you and your family cherish him for what he did for your sister. He is indeed a hero and was not concerned for his own life. That took guts and alot of bravery to do. He was a very brave man i hope that you and your family get thru this sad time.
Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends....
Be you religious or not, that verse has meaning for everyone. There's no greater act of love for someone than giving their life to so someone else can live, and so few people carry out that kind of act of devotion.
im so sorry to hear of his passing, but he indeed did pass on a hero. may he rest in peace and continue to smile down and protect those he cared about from where ever he may be.
I completely adore the furry community.
Look at all of these people.
I don't know a speck of them,
but we're all some conjoined family.
Might have been enemies along the road, but we all care about each other.
You don't know me.
But I want to let you know I share with you my deepest condolences.
When I saw this story it broke my heart.
My deepest condolences to all of you.
Rest In Peace Harison, and your four babies.
And Gemily; be strong. I'm sure there are hundreds of people that love you. Just think about all the good.
Never think about the bad.
My condolences... I am so sorry to hear about this.. .it truly pains me to hear something this terrible happened to someone I did not even know personally. I wish all those involved the best in this troubling time...
I sincerely hope the one responsible pays severely for this injustice.
I am so, so deeply sorry for your loss. :( As you said, he was - is - a hero, and he will not be forgotten. I don't pray, but I do hope that you, your sister, and everyone else involved recover from this as quickly as possible.
I'm sorry to hear this and I deeply feel for you, your family and his family. I too was hoping that he would be okay and all would get back to some normality.
Very tragic. I first heard about it in an online article. However, I was unaware that he was apart of the furry community until recently.
I thought everyone would come out okay.
It's hard to imagine that one man could ruin so many lives in such a careless accident. They had better fry this guy so this doesn't have to happen to anyone else, but even then such a thing wouldn't ease the pain of those left behind.
I hope he is able to rest in peace knowing that he was a hero, for more than just your sister.
He went out a hero. There is no better way to pass on than to go out knowing you saved someone's life.
May he rest in peace, and receive applaud for his act of bravery.
The scale of this tragedy has truly shocked me. Though I knew neither of them, I find that it does have an effect on me. To quote from the Warriors books I've been reading lately, 'He hunts with StarClan now.'
My condolences, and my thoughts go with you and your sister. Kia kaha -- be strong.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Atleast he died as a hero, like you said.
But damn that drunk driver, its because of irresponsible people like that the roads aren't safe.
Even though I knew nothing of you guys until this morning, my condolences for you, your sister, and all the families effected by this tragedy. Even though I did not know him, my heart still goes out. It's always sad to lose an artist and a kind hearted individual. It's sad to know that he was so young. Good things should happen to good people, not bad shit :c Glad to know the drunk murderer was caught. In my state, if you have more than 3 DUIs, your license is to be revoked for a long time--like 6 years after the 3rd time-- California (that's the right state, yeah?) would be smart to do the same if that isn't already in place. None of this would have probably happened if things were different
Try to stay strong. I too know what it's like to lose a family member that I dearly loved, whether it be from an accident or natural causes. Your families need to stick very close together in these tough times. I wish you all the best
RIP Hari, the greatest hero the world has ever known. You will be missed
I didn't know Hari, but this story has touched me deeply, as it has so many others. What amazing things it says about him that in that moment, his first thought was to protect your sister. My heart goes out to her and you, as well as to Hari's family. I can't even imagine what you all must be going through.
Thats one of the most selfless things I've heard, to have your first reaction in that split second you notice life-threatening danger is the safety of those around you, can't have a purer heart then that.
I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss.
Hari was indeed a hero - to act so selflessly in the face of peril for the one he loved, that is an incredibly and exceedingly rare thing to find.
I can only hope that your sister comes out of this with a renewed love of life - and honors the person who made it possible for her to continue living. No, it certainly won't be easy. It is a pain that shall never be forgotten and a hurt that will probably never fully heal, but the only way to make it through things like this is to cling to the good - whatever little of it there may be.
My love, thoughts, and prayers are sent to you; may you be blessed with at least a little bit of light in all this darkness.
I am so very sorry to hear that he did not survive; I had heard of this earlier through another source and was hoping things would turn out for the better.
all honour to the fallen Hari, and most heartfelt condolences to his friends and family.
I'm not sure what emotions exactly I feel about the whole saga but the main thing is an overwhelming sadness that you, your sister, Hari and now Hari's family have had to go through something so ridiculously senseless.
I'm really hoping that things improve for you all, and that Hari's memory may continue to live on. The world has lost a wonderful person.
I sit here... not knowing you and seeing what you are going through.. well a fraction anyways.
an understandable fraction. so many public eyes, and you only are able to share what you can out of respect. we all understand that,..
i'm tearing up, and just unbelievably empathetic to all of this... just having lost someone myself not a year ago, yet not as extreme.
may Hari be remembered as the knight he is , not was, his spirit watch over the ones he loved, and the guardian angel he was to become, he stays as, remains and watches over those he is to do more so ever, sword and shield at paw, and do more than ever now.
he earned more than his wings that day.
i can barely type, i am not sure if my words are coming through clearly because i know i'm not coming from the place you or your family is now, but i just want you to please keep love and happy thoughts when you can, and know he is in your minds and hearts and souls at all times. That is how he is not forgotten. That is how he truly lives on.
I am so sorry for your loss, I am glad Gem is still here to tell the tale (when its time) and i hope the media gets out of your guys fur soon enough.
Oh no... I don't know what to say... when I heard about the accident I was so sad but also proud, in a weird way, that Hari had been so brave. He overcame his natural instincts to save himself to push his love out of the path of harm... That's overcoming nature itself for love...
I was so happy to hear that he was on the up... and now this... we're all strangers here (for the most part) but... to hear of an innocent person dieing and at the hands of an irresponsible disgusting excuse of a human being no less... it tears me up.
I can't imagine what you all must be going through... stay strong... you have all of our love and support and strength....
I don't believe in the conventional Heaven... but there is definitely a special place for Hari up there, out there.
R.I.P Hari... there aren't enough people like you in this world. You keep them pups company and watch over your love <3 <3
I know that this may just be another log on the fire, and that I don't really know any of you at all, but it's always depressing when someone dies, and outrageous when the death was because of some drunk jackass. I know it probably doesn't mean much, being one in hundreds of condolences from people you may or may not know, but you have my sympathies as well. I hope you all can pull through and do your best to carry on, my grievances to his family and to yours, and may he rest in peace.
Dracallis and I cried last night when we found out. Such a sad end to this. No, it isn't the end. Hari loved your sister so very much that he gave life and limb for her, so that she could go on. My deepest condolences in this time of need.
I'm so sorry to hear about you and your sister's loss. ): I had been following the story, and am saddened he did not continue to live as a hero in life. Best wishes for peace and comfort in these tough times.
I cant believe he's gone. It sounded like he was on the road to recovery. This is terrible, but you are right. He died a hero. He saved your sister in his selfless act. May he rest in peace, and I pray the people he left behind find solace. <3
What an angel your sister had with her <3 I am beyond sorry and sad to hear that you all have to deal with the loss of his amazing life as well -.- *hugs you all*
Don't worry about "leaking" the story, Beastcub. Um, your sister already called a furry about it yesterday and he has been posting about it.
I grieve for you and your sister and your and Hari's families. Although it won't bring Hari back, I hope they throw the book at the bastard who did this and he doesn't see freedom for a long long long time.
Oh god Beastcub, I am so, so very sorry for your loss.
All my regards and support to you all, especially Gem, at this time.
Typing this out just.. doesnt even come close to how I feel ....
Regardless of any religious denominations; my prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time!
I have been following this event since the beginning. I have been praying and sending good thoughts. I'm so sorry that Hari died. And he was indeed a hero. I give my deepest sympathies and will continue praying for your family and his.
I heard about this on a tweet this morning, and it saddens me that more of the few truly good people on this world have passed on, it's even worse when it's due to the idiotic actions of a drunkard who never learned his lesson. I despise drunk drivers and what his mistake led to was nothing short of a needless slaughter of a brave and honorable man. I hope the person responsible for bringing such darkness to your doorstep quakes in fear at the freedom he has now lost forever due to his own fatal stupidity.
Take solace in that Hari died saving that whom he truly loved. In my eyes, his actions are what redeems us all and yet so few actually can comitt to so suddenly. I'm not one for prayer, but somewhere in those stars above us, Heaven, StarClan, whatever you may wish to call it, he's a hero, and he will forever be remembered for defending to the end the one he truly loved.
May justice act forcefully to the fullest extent on the monster that has wracked the lives of your loved ones. May Gem also remember that her beloved Hari will forever be guarding her in those fleeting stars of the night sky, and that he is waiting for her. I send my deepest thoughts and condolences to her, you, and the families in this tragedy.
Sleep well and peacefully, Hari. Know that even us down here will forever love you as how you lived, and for what you selflessly did that fateful night. Even though you are gone, you will never be forgotten.
So fill to me the parting glass
And drink a health whate'er befalls
Then gently rise and softly call
"Good night and joy be to you all"
Oh, all the comrades e'er I had,
They're sorry for my going away,
And all the sweethearts e'er I had,
They'd wish me one more day to stay,
But since it fell into my lot,
That I should rise and you should not,
I gently rise and softly call,
Good night and joy be with you all.
One thing keeps me from crying like a lot of you, and no, it's not because I'm a heartless bastard. It's the fact he got to choose, and that's not a luxury a lot of us get to make. In that instance during the incident, he chose to pay his life for the person he loved, and it seems to Reaper finally came to collect the bill. It's sad, yes, but he lived fur a higher purpose that too few of us can even obtain. And for that, I choose to not mourn his death, I celebrate his life.
In this world heroes are something you read about in fiction and see in movies. There are rarely heroes in real life and you see some of them from time to time but rarely hear about any of them. This was something that was incredibly terrible that happened and he decided instead of everyone dying to make a mortal sacrifice to save her at the cost of his own life. Nothing can be done to this drunken bastard that took away five lives from this world.. even death is a small price to pay for this idiot. If you ever need to talk Beastcub about this or anything please find me. I am local to you so you could come over if you wish and just talk and hang out. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now please stay strong.
I am so sorry for you and your sister's loss... I know there really aren't words that can make it easier, and I don't pretend to know any person's beliefs. But if there is a post-mortal coil reward, I'm sure that Hari is there, and that you guys get an extra guardian angel.
Our thoughts go out to you. He died a hero by protecting what he loved the most. As tragic as his loss is, I am sure he left this world happy with no regrets, knowing he allowed someone very special to live. He did exactly what anyone claims would do for the one they love the most.
Hi, you don't know me. But, i was told about your situation from my big bro
Draco-silverflame and then Hari's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family as well as Hari's, he is a hero for what he did and who's memory will be remembered.
"There is no greater love than to lay down one's life for one's friends." -John 15:13 (NLT)
Elden had a pure heart and true courage. He loved your sister fiercely and truly. I didn't want
to sound like a bible thumper, but I wanted to share this verse with you in hopes that this would
sink in and give some comfort.
Oh no... That is terrible... You all must be devastated, especially your poor sister :(
I would like to do some memorial art for her but I don't want her to feel even worse - what is your opinion on it?
I know I'm just another stranger, but I feel like even if it would hurt a little to see, it would also be somewhat comforting, and would show someone really cares
Mhmm mhmm
Cause when my friend passed away in the winter I drew his family some memorial art for him
They started crying immediately, but ultimately told me it was an incredibly kind gesture and they deeply appreciated it
A true shame.. So verry sorry to hear about this. I wish that things like this didnt happen but unfortanately they do. The same week there was a hit and run in my town. I wish the best for you and your family, and his as well. Stay strong *Hugs*
I'm so sorry to hear about you and your sister's loss.... I didn't know Hari, but judging by what he did to protect your sister, it sounds like he was an amazing guy... a hero for sure.
He had the courage and intestinal fortitude to protect those he held most dearly, and you/everyone should be proud of him for his sacrifice. His sacrifice was not in vain, Gem is alive, and justice will be done where it needs to. Although his mission here on Earth was short-lived, he had a higher calling and is needed elsewhere.
Bloody drunk drivers, I just don't understand what kind of thought goes through someone's head to think "Oh yeah driving whilst intoxicated is a good idea" I hope that others can learn from this horrible accident that even if you have one drink you should not be driving.
Though I don't know you personally my heart goes out to you, I do not know what I would do if I lost my sisters or any member of my family for that matter, keep strong for your family and of course yourself. Don't forget if you ever need to talk to someone about how you're feeling all of your friends are here to support you, but if you feel like you can't talk to them there are other services available like Samaritans.
This is such a unfortunate accident, I am so sorry to hear about this loss and my thoughts are with you, your family and anyone else who has been affected by this. Keep your chin up, we're all here for you x
...oh my god.... i dont even know them you guyes that well and im already tearing up.. how sad. it must be really hard on all of you. at least he died a true hero....
I heard of this when it first happened, when he was still alive
I was praying he could make it... a hero shouldn't have to die... someone who loves that deeply shouldn't have to die... not like that..
I'm
I'm deeply sorry, I didn't know him personally, but this story makes me cry
May he rest well wherever he may be now
May be continue to watch over her and protect her. My deepest condolences to the family. This is tragic and may they have the strength in time to heal but never forget a true hero.
R.I.P. Hari. You have our eternal gratitude and love.
I posted a comment on the FA-Cemetery listing, and here's what it said:
...I was near tears when I first heard about it a few weeks ago, but I was very happy that the man seemed to be recovering... I'm so sorry that he ended up passing away.
He was most definitely heroic, and I was very hopeful in hearing that he'd probably make a recovery.
Rest in peace, indeed.
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I'm so terribly sorry for your and your sister's loss. I really hope you guys can pull through all right.
I am so sorry. I had been following this since it happened, and I really was excited to hear he was still ok. I guess there were plans for a new guardian to join the ranks in watching over people. He truly IS a Hero.
I can just see him now watching over you guys and playing with the puppies.
I'm so very sorry for what has happened. I can't even begin to imagine what this must feel like for you. I never really know what to say in these circumstances, but you have my condolences, and Hari will be remembered for what he did. It's not every day you meet someone with the courage and heart to sacrifice themself for someone else. He will be missed, even by those that never met him.
I may not have known any of you... But I hope Hari can RIP... He saved his true love.... He DID die a hero.. not many people now a days would be that brave to save someone else's life... I hope that God, a Goddess... What ever his religion was... may bring him to peace and rest... I am very very very sorry that this happened across your family... and I hope the speeder gets his just desserts.
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~Prayers and Love from Drizzy~
My thoughts and condolences for you and your families right now. A tragic loss of life, but with a selfless act to at least try to take some comfort in, in time.
I hope that all the various media and public and such permit you all the space and privacy to mourn and remember him.
This is insane...he was doing so well....i just hope that his family doesn't blame Gem for his death....people say horrible things when they're grieving....
All the blame falls on Mr Waldon, and no one else, Hari did the ultimate act of courage, Selflessness and bravery to save Gem and she should be honored to have had him as her boyfriend. I also agree with nominating Hari for that citizens metal that was mentioned farther up. And though his body is gone, His spirit will live on forever watching over the ones he loved. Rest in piece Hari.
As many others before me have said, you and all of your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry to hear this has happened to your sister and Hari, and offer my condolences, my heart goes out to all of you.
I didn't know him, nor do I know your sister or really any of you. But a lose of a life in such a cruel way is very saddening, and shouldn't happen to anyone.
I dread to think what you all must be feeling right now. The media for one should have kept their mouths shut and waited to be told what's happen, including others that said things about what they've heard or been told. And that driver... I sure hope he gets what's coming to him! That's four murders in one blow over his head!
I do hope that in time, the lose of your loved ones (including the dogs) fade in time, and that it becomes a little more easier for you all to pass. And I'm sure he will never be forgotten. I wish you luck in this difficult time.
I'm sorry to hear of your loss, in the eyes of many he will always be a hero. May you and your family get through this hard time and our hearts are with you.
My deepest condolences for you, your sister, your family and Hari's family as well. I hope and wish you a good recovery from this trauma you all must be feeling. I wish the world had more men like Hari. What he did was very noble to save your sister and kind beyond words. May he rest in peace.
Some words seem so unbelievably usless at this moment loosing someone so close to you rips apart your heart, he did die a hero but that just sort of generalizes him, He was a brother a son, a boyfriend, though i dont know you or your family personally my heart goes out to you and your families and his family as well. Just keep your of him memories close to your heart.
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine how you're feeling, but wow. What a heroic and utterly selfless thing to do. May he rest in peace.
This is the exact kind of thing that forever makes me just avoid alcohol and excesses full stop :< My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family, and I'm glad the driver gets to pay for what he did. I just hope he lives long enough to regret it D;
My condolences for all the family members his and yours.
He was really brave to sacrifice his life to save your sister i'm terrible sad i didn't know all of you before.
I'm sure he was a great person with a heart of gold and i believe he win his wings.
May he rest in peace.
This is like a bad horror film! I feel with you. Can not believe how stupid some humans are.... I don't know, how can I give you power for this hard time.
all i can say is shit! i feel like i'm borrowing someone else's grief that i have no business doing so. i thought for sure i'd get to meet him some day.
Sorry for your losses, Beast. I had hoped Hari would have survived this. Its definitely a tragity. And I hope the person who did this gets locked away for life. Even drinking and driving is no excuse. Hopefully justice grabs him by the throat..
This was a big shock, I can't even imagine how it is hitting your family and friends. There is a time to grieve, but don't forget there is also a time to celebrate his life and memories.
I wish I could do more than just sit and read this =/ it makes me angry that good people have to die for other people's stupidity
Im really sure he is in peace and that he wont leave her alone, I hope she will be strong to keep forward, my best wishes for the family, and more for her, she needs all the strenght and support from all of you and us
This is very disheartening news. He seemed like he was coming along. I barely know all of you and I feel deeply saddened by his passing. I can only imagine the pain his family, you, and especially Gem are going through right now. I find it extremely unfair how such a wonderful person could be lost like this, but he saved the life of the one he cared for the most. He will be missed, but cherish the good times and all of the joy he brought to your lives. Take your time to grieve, but make sure to move forward and look to the better times. I'm sure he would wish that much for everyone. You have my most sincere condolences. Please take care.
I'm horrible at expressing my sorrow in these instances, so I will simply say you have my condolences :/ I'm betting he was glad he was able to save your sister though.. Were you able to talk to him at all in the ICU?
the last I saw of him was when I ran to the scene, the paramedics came so fast that by the time I got back from the house with my cell phone to call his family (the number is in my phone, had not memorized it) they were loading him in the ambulance.
the last thing I said to him was a panicked concerned "oh Hari" when I saw the state of his leg T^T
my condolences to you. I'll send my prayers for you and her, as well as him. Giving your life for a loved one is truly an act that... while very sad... is incredibly valuable.
No life should be lost to idiotic drivers like those. I sure hope the guy pays greatly for what he's done
I am at a complete loss of words. This whole ordeal has had me in tears every time i read more. I offer all i can with my most sincere condolences. I know I'm just another random stranger, but you and your sister have far more strength then I could ever have. He died a hero and will always be remembered as one.
He died a true hero, giving his life so the one he loved could carry on living. I may not have known him, but he sounds like he was a great man, it takes the greatest to be brave enough to perform such an act.
I am at a loss of words about this. Just reading this eventhough I have never meet him has brought tears to my eyes. I express such deep condolences for you, your sister, his family....everyone. It breaks my heart to hear about such things...He is a hero though. He did the one thing anyone would do for a loved one...Save them even if it would mean the loss of ones self. That is the most noble thing anyone can do. I am just a stranger...but it still breaks my heart...you have my condolences and even if you are not religious I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prays.
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8536733/ It isn't much. But hand on heart, I've been reading and watching throughout this entire ordeal and I just can't even fathom what you guys must be going through, Gemily especially. What Hari did was an amazing act of love and courage. All the best to you and your family.
BC, please accept my most sincere condolences and please extend them to your sister as well. He paid the ultimate sacrifice to save her life. He died with the highest honor. *hugs tight*
It's so sad to hear this kind of thing happen... I give my condolences and that your family, and his family, are able to cope with his sudden loss. He really did die a hero and I hope they find whoever did this to bring them to justice. Only a real man would be able to lay down his life on the line like that for his girl...
oh my god...i have not been online much but have been trying to follow this...I just finished reading your previous journal to come to this...I just..I don't even know what to say...Im so sorry for all of your family's losses...
I feel for you becouse when my grandpa was alive he was an acholic and we would tell him every day that he should not drive wile he was drinking or he may kill some one my grandfather is gone now he died of cancer but i would be scared as hell when he would take me to school i did not realy want to ride with him now seeing this makes me think that could have been him behind the weel *hugs tight*
this is y i hate cars thay are nothing but things that make sadness and death for others more than anything ,
we would be better if we where like the Amish using carts to get around .
i wish yo and wolfgem the best .
and if it hapend to me i would have done the same thing as he did .... RIP
I hardly know you, outside of watching your fursuit work, and by extension, I /don't/ know Hari or Gem at all, but I'm sorry to hear things turned out this way. It's a bittersweet thought to know he went as a hero, when he shouldn't have had to leave at all. I hope everyone is supporting each other, Gemily in particular, and that things hurt less eventually.
I'm so sorry to hear this... I am sorry words are not enough when losing a part of your lives and your family. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones.
This was the first thing I heard about this morning. kanis told me when I came into our office... I have no idea what I, or anyone, could say that would comfort you and yours at a time like this.
An odd mixture of sadness, disappointment, and fury is roiling about in there right now. That man... Oooooh, I want to meet that bastard, face to face, and tell him exactly what he's done. I want him to SEE- not just know, in some vague, intellectual way, but to understand to the depths of his tiny fucking soul, what hurt he's done to two families and their community. I'm not sure I'd want jail time for this fool, but to have him serve yours and elden's family until he understands and feels true remorse. Jail doesn't make anyone pay- WE pay for jail... to turn out "better" criminals (yeah, I think our "rehabilitation" methods suck balls). No, this man's life and income should all go toward repaying you and your folks for what he's done.
*cries*
I know we've only met a few times- you were in suit each time- but if you need an ear, I'm near.
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Nothing I can say or do will change things, but I can only hope and pray that things look up in the future... *hugs tightly*
I don't normally allow myself to become too emotional over tragic stories of deaths and accidents, because I know it would cause me to spend most of my life dwelling in my indignation and sympathy. But hearing your story has touched me, and I can't help but imagine the agony such a sudden loss would cause.
I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but please accept my condolences. Nobody deserves to go through this kind of pain, except for the horrible, uncaring man that caused this.
Omg!!!! That is so sad T_T I am glad your sister is safe but I am so sorry that you guys went through the loss. I am glad he did what he did, shows there are still people who think of others before themselves. And happy that he saved his girlfriend and your sister. It is sad that he didn't make it *hugs you and your family tightly*
I'm so very, very sorry to hear this. I heard about all of this a week after everything happened, so I'm a bit late in catching up, but my god I really thought he was going to pull through. Hearing this both sickens my heart and restores a bit of my faith in humanity at the same time. I hope the bastard that killed him rots, and the world is a dimmer place to lose someone as loving and noble as Hari is. But a previous commenter is right: now Gemily has a very special, very loved personal guardian angel to help the pups keep watch over her for the rest of her life. My heart goes out to her and you and all those whose lives are a little colder now without Hari's light to warm it.
I really wish that there was something I could do, some words of comfort that I could offer. But I don't know what to say. So let me know if there is anything this wolf can do for you.
When we lose someone we care about it is never easy, it is harder when they go so suddenly. Anyone who would do what he did is a person the world will be less bright without. I have never meet him, I wish I could have meet him.
things happen for reasons we cant understand but his death wasn't for nothing two things came out of this.
one your sister is still alive and two the s.o.b is in jail hopefully for good.
he could have missed you sister and her boyfriend and plowed into a carload of people killing them all again sorry for the loss.
may he
REST....
IN.....
PEACE......
I'm so very sorry for you, I feel for you on a level few could and I wish you nothing but good things, the world has a horrible way of taken the good things away from us, my thoughts and the thoughts of my closest are with you
I've said this before but I'd like to mention it again---
Your sister is going through a lot right now. The sudden loss of her boyfriend and her 4 dogs. These situations usually result in "survivors guilt". That "It should've been me" ---- "If it wasn't for me he'd still be alive" ---- "If I didn't go to the park, none of this would have happened" ---- train of thought... it can be deadly.
I really recommend that Gemily consider counseling when she is ready. So much loss... VIOLENT loss... SUDDEN loss... I wouldn't be surprised if she had Post-Traumatic-Stress Disorder. PTSD and Depression CAN be deadly... so please make sure she knows that none of this-- none of this whatsoever is her fault. Don't even let her entertain the idea that she's to blame because she's the one who decided to walk the dogs. I've known people to obsess themselves with self-blame and it leads down an awful path. If she wants to blame someone, she can focus on that jerk who I hope rots in prison (and from what I've seen, she seems to place the blame on him-- which is correct and healthy to do!)
It was not her fault-- she did EVERYTHING she could to be safe. Walking in the cross walk, having the reflector collars, traveling with someone. It is NOT her fault that some one decided to get behind the wheel drunk and not even turn his god damned headlights on to give them a chance to see him before it was too late. Furthermore... she gave Hari love. So much love that he would rather die than lose her. If the love wasn't there, this story may have had a different ending. He likely would have preferred to die young saving someone he loved than live a longer less fulfilled life. She gave that courage to him, she is worth protecting.
She seems to be handling it well from what I saw on the news stories... but just make sure -any- comments she makes about herself even hinting she was to blame are nipped in the bud immediately. Awful things happen to wonderful people far too often in this world. This is another one of those cases. I've seen a lot of trauma and sadness in the fandom but nothing as struck me deeper than this. Maybe it's because I know you, or maybe it's just the tremendous gravity of the event... but this is a terrible crime committed by someone that I consider a murderer (even before Hari's passing).
Focus on healing, your sister is lucky to have such a strong friend in you. I am so glad you can be there for her every step of the way.
Sorry for the long post, I just wanted to make sure that she doesn't even begin to entertain the thought that this is her fault... people in these situations often find a way to do that :/
Here I shall add my voice to this massive amount of commenters. I am not mad at the driver though I know I should be, alas all I feel is turmoil, sorrow... This is not how this story should have ended, he should not have passed... It seemed in the clear... I am so sorry for the pain and sorrow you all are no doubt feeling, I shed a tear for you all for the sadness and ending this painful story has come to. He truly did die as a Hero and may we all never forget the sacrifice and courage this man had shown the world. Rest In Peace Hari, you shall be missed by everyone, even if we never knew you.
"If I leave here tomorrow
Would you still remember me?
For I must be travelling on, now,
'Cause there's too many places I've got to see.
But, if I stayed here with you, girl,
Things just couldn't be the same.
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now,
And this bird you can not change.
Lord knows, I can't change.
Bye, bye, its been a sweet love.
Though this feeling I can't change.
But please don't take it badly,
'Cause Lord knows I'm to blame.
But, if I stayed here with you girl,
Things just couldn't be the same.
Cause I'm as free as a bird now,
And this bird you'll never change.
And this bird you can not change.
Lord knows, I can't change.
Lord help me, I can't change"
Lynyrd Skynyrd - Freebird
Was listening to that when I saw this. It seems.. fitting.
I don't know what else to say. I don't know if there is anything I CAN say. Too damn much loss, here..
Time heals all wounds, though. Just got to see yourselves through this long enough.
A tragedy of the highest regard, and a shining example that the good in humanity still exists. Good will still triumphs, and Hari gave all he could to ensure the betterment of the person he loved. May he rest in the deepest of peace and guide us all to a truly better and more enlightened way of living.
I tried not to cry and stay strong but I seriously lost it. This is such a tragedy, I only hope that he rests in peace. You and your sister will be in my thoughts.
I know neither you, your sister nor this hero... but I wish you strength, through this heartbreak.
People often say they would do these things, in a time of tragedy. Running into a burning building to save a loved one. Standing between a them and a gunman. Shoving them away from a rampant driver. Though when the time comes, many people, no matter how strong their hearts, often hesitate. That flickering moment of self-preservation is enough to allow life to be stolen away, and it's tragic because we cannot help our instincts.
But this man? He didn't even hesitate. The animal in all of us flinches in the face of imminent danger, and no doubt that his wanted to do the same... but this guy? He lunged in there because he literally valued you guys so much that even hesitation had no part in him. I know not of you nor your relations, but this man obviously had a heart of pure gold. Even as a complete stranger, I feel a little touched by this, even with all the degrees of separation the internet and the world allows. Inspired, even. I hope some day I can be that kind of a man. Somebody who wouldn't just want to step in to save a loved one... but do it in the blink of an eye, without hesitation.
I don't know either of you and I have been worrying for your sister and Hari ever since the accident. I have been following the updates for a while but I just got this news today. I am in tears right now I don't know why these sort of things happen to good people. He was doing so well too I am in loss for words. In my beliefs a person does not really die, they live forever even if they are not there physically. Hari is forever alive and will always live by your sister's side and along with the family.
Hari you will forever be a hero and will always be a guardian angel.
You are forever alive in our hearts and I hope that you are at peace.
I really don't know what to say. This is soul crushing and I never knew this brave lad. Wish I did. My heart goes out to you Beastcub, to your sister and Hari's family especially. I'm so sorry for your loss and can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. If it were me in your shoes I could understand that no amount of justice would ever ebb that horrible ache that forever stays in the heart. Theres a lot of people here who will ride it out alongside you. Cherish the happy memories and hold on to that comfort that by the looks of things, Hari touched so many people's hearts. I really thought he was gonna make it.
I am deeply sorry for this... I hope your sister gets to stand up, dammit, it makes me teary, selfish and brave hero that was his bf to save her and show the real deep feeling of love.. I hope time does well to her and the families involved... now I want to hug my bf ugh.. my condolenses
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Big hugs to you and your sister especially. I hope karma takes a big bite out of that assholes life for what he has done.
Though i do not know him personally, i still sympathize in what you and your sis are going through, having had someone taken from me, one who actually got me out of my lurker shell and truly into the fandom, in very much the same way your sis lost hari. Not a day goes by that i dont think of him, your sister's memory will be even stronger than mine though due to that she was saved by the one she loved at the highest price one can ever pay. My condences to you both in this hard time *hugs*
No one knows what will happen, no one knows how their day will go. All they know is that they wake up and expect the day to go on smoothly.
Things like this always anger the soul, but in reality that anger can only cause pain. I just hope that you remember the good times and everything wonderful that they have done together. I so wish things could be different but it seems that sometimes, it happens.
I wish the best of luck in recovering. (Sorry if I'm late) But again, he is still smiling down and always watching, always there with a loving smile and a loving heart. <3
Terrible news. You have my deepest condolences for your loss and for your family's loss. Hari sounds like a really, really good person. He did perhaps the most noble thing a person can do for another. I think you did the right thing both by waiting and by posting.
even though i've just watched you, well..i feel very sorry for your lost <_<;...rip elden, you died doing a task that's very hard to do; becoming a hero @_@;
This is such a tremendous loss for you and your sister, including your beloved dogs. I am deeply sorry for everything that has happened. Again, this is why I really hate that repeat offenders are let back into society.
Wow, and I thought he was gonna be ok... I forgot to pray for him... Since March I've been hearing of too many tragic events of furries dieing. Too many, so soon, so frequent. People are just dropping O.o Makes me wonder when my time will come. Stay strong friends. I know how it can be.
Hi Serpy... I have been thinking of you through all this, how you also went through such a tragic time this year, how sad we were for you when we learned of the accident, unaware that all too soon we'd share a similar pain.
I am not sure if you know of this photo, I took it at FC in 2009, it is you and my sister in your suits together along with two of the four dogs who died... never could we have known at the time that both of you would have to face the death of your mates approx 3 years later http://www.furaffinity.net/view/1928533/ I almost feel as if it was fate for you two to meet :C
I was also looking at Athus's memorial picture.. not knowing what happened or who he was... then almost a month later the same thing happened to Vex... Feels like a slap in the face, huh? >< I heard of when your sister's accident happened, as I have commented before in the previous journal. Then when I heard of Hari's passing my heart sank (after I posted a picture of Vex). It was a sad night and I cried for all of us.
Yes I remember that photo now! I was about to fave it but saw that it was already faved years ago. I commented on your sister's page saying that I remember the drawing she did of our characters together <3 I am happy that I least I got to meet 2 of the dogs in person. I do hope we can continue to talk and become closer friends and help each other out through our ordeals *hugs tightly*
he was caught on the 19th and was DUI when they found him
they are hoping to charge him with homicide or second degree murder along with 2 counts of felony hit and run and cruelty to animals, they cannot prove he was DUI the night he hit them sadly or he'd get first degree murder.
no idea, it is not unusual for the process to take a year
Gem is still 90% bed bound and cannot sit at a computer, she is expected to make a full recovery by the end of October
if this man gets less than 10 years I am gonna puke
he ruined my sister's perfect life and took away her beloved :C
they say she should be normal once healed...
she has a metal rod in her shin bone because the bone was so destroyed. The other bone was just sorta put back where it was, it will never be the same hence the rod as it will be her weight bearing support now. The latest Xrays show some large gaps in the bones which will fill with new bone, a painful process.
And she has what we believe is a tire burn on the back of her knee (it is not road rash, looks like a burn, and is tire height) atm it is a huge nasty nasty scab that oozes and makes bending her leg horribly painful. she had 42 staples taken out of her leg (including ones from a gash the bone made when it broke through, the rest were surgical incisions) and more from her butt (big flesh wound tears, I am surprised her butt is not dented)
her ankle is badly twisted and she was so SO bruised and scraped up, so bruised.
utterly painful to see her so hurt
she's pretty strong, holding on to her memories cherishing what they had and not thinking of what could of been (which hurts me a lot, namely because I bought those Zelda tickets for him while he was in the hospital, I keep thinking of all we had planned together). She cries a lot of course but we manage to laugh a little too...
I'm so sorry to hear about this. Since I've heard the news initially I kept him in my thoughts. I'm sorry for the loss Hari's family, you, and your sister are going through.
Jesus.. I am sick to my stomach reading this.. Why do such horrible things happen to good people. I am glad to hear you guys are holding it together best you can, this is so traumatic you guys must have a ton of strength.
I honor his bravery with all my heart and soul, what a heroic thing to do to save the life of another... the thought of prioritising someone's life before your own is extremely rare in this cruel heartless world. Nothing can compare to how tragic this must be to all his friends and most importantly to his family and girlfriend. I can imagine the pain she is going through, it's awful! May he rest in peace... *bows in respect*
I didn't know him. And I don't know you or your sister or any of your family. But I can see that, when it counted, he was the best kind of person. All I can say is that I'm so sorry for your loss and for your sister.
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I only recently caught wind of it and while I can't say that I know any of the individuals involved personally, my heart goes out to you in your time of loss. In moments like the one faced by the fallen we have to wonder if any of us could ever be so brave. From the issued testimony there is no doubt that your friend is a hero, hold his memory dear in your hearts and know that selfless acts such as these do not go without recognition or reverence.
Your boyfriend earned his wings. He done somethin' so you can share his heroic story. I'm really sorry to hear how all of this went down. I think when the driver of the car is facing a vehicular manslaughter charge will he wise up. I seen way too many people lose their lives from DUI.
Yer boyfriend deserves to be flying with the angels. My condolences to you and your family. I thinks you got wings too of a protection from him type.
*hugs you all so tight* i feel the need to say he died nothing short of a hero that day and what he did shall forever be written in the history book that is my life to serve as inspiration saying that there is a hero deep down in us all and we show love not through what we say but rather what we do and why we do it. I would say that he was an unsung hero but our hearts cry out in harmony to him and not just the people who knew him but also the people who know his loved ones and only just heard about this. Together our hearts sing a beautiful harmonious song about his heroism on that day, his bravery through the two weeks, and also through his life. We sing out, all of us, in a greater tune beyond what we understand or comprehend.
~i send my condolences to the family, friends, and loved ones for the loss of their hero. I also send a tender loving heart, warm hugs, open arms, and open ears that understand the loss of loved ones. Please message me, even if you just want some company. this is a genuine offer.
There is no greater sacrifice a man might make than to give his life to preserve another. It is sad that he has died, but always remember that he did so to save the life of another. Do not be sad about it - Revel in the fact that he died a hero!
R.I.P Hari, you truly knew the meaning of the word 'love'
..i am so sorry..
I was happy that he was improving..
I just hope that Gemily is ok now, and that she can cope with all this loss and pain. You and the family as well.
He only needs to get convicted on three, for CA.'s three strike Law, to put him in mandatory life imprisonment.
But also, look at this. He ran down four dogs, with no remorse. All that needs to happen is that this word gets out in the slam to the big guys that like their pets.
I cant stop crying. I dont even know this person but it just makes my heart ache.
Sorry, just my 2 cents
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Beatcub, and I hope your family is okay aswell. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
I do hope that they find this monster and put him to justice. I was actually looking at all plushie suggestions the other day and I was talking about you with my father, he said that he hopes that you and your family are okay.
I haven't been on FA for a long while, and I find it quiet touching how close this community is and how much we all care for each other. Sure we are all having fun doing art and sharing ideas and whatnot, but when it comes down to it and something REAL and devastating happens ( like this) we are all a big family.
I will be lighting a candle for your family tonight Beastcub.
I can't imagine how much it hurts. All I can do is offer my emotional support.
stay strong for her, she needs support now more than ever.
I hope you guys can quickly get back on your feet after grieving, and I hope both families are able to heal after what this awful person has done to you.
Im so sorry for you and your sisters losses, but just remember he did die a hero and proved he would risk his life for her
I hope the monster who did this faces far more serious charges now.
I am so very sorry and my thoughts and prayers go out to you.......
I hope you are all able to keep your strength and continue living your lives, not just for yourselves, but for Hari as well....
His memories and presence will always be among you, protecting each of you, as was his life's goal.
He indeed died a hero.... and he saved Gemliy's life for a reason.....
I send all my love to you...... good luck........
http://blogs.sacbee.com/crime/archi.....t-and-run.html
this one should work
http://blogs.sacbee.com/crime/archi.....t-and-run.html
He was caught on the 19th of July, by the way, so his capture was pretty fast, considering all they knew of a possible perp was he was driving an older red Mazda... Kudos to the Sacramento police dept, for that.
My heart and my prayers go out to his family, and to Gemily. I hope you guys can get through this. Know that we are all here to support you.
goodnight sweet hari, and may flights of angles sing thee to thy rest
I've not known what to say during all of this but I was hoping and praying he'd be alright and pull through.
This is ... I don't even know.
My heart goes out to you, your family and Hari's family. :(
My prayers to your family and his...and my prayers to him for a safe journey.
I wish you all the best in trying to make sense of this and heal :(
I honestly wish your whole family the best.
It seems to me his mission was clear, and he completed it by guarding your sister that night. Now, she will have an eternal guard looking over her.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
It is such sad news, but his heroism is the silver lining to the dark cloud.
I may be a stranger to you guys, but my heart is aching from this incident. May no one have to go through this. My thoughts are with everyone, especially your sister. I am so sorry.
I .... I don't even know what to say. :c This is terrible. I'm 100% shocked, since it seemed as if he was doing well and was going to make it. x___x; Man...
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Beastcub. Especially moreso for your sister. :C I wish her the best through all of this. She clearly had one heck of a guy, and I'm sure she's going to need all the support she can get after this...
Best of luck to you all.
I know I'm a stranger, but if there's anything I can do to help you guys, let me know. :c
may this hero rest in peace.
I'm so very sorry for you, and for your sister, and for his family. I can't even imagine how much that must hurt.
To the family may he rest peacefully.
My heart goes out to you, Gemily and both yours and Hari's families.
Hari is a true hero, and he will be honored as one by all of us.
Rest in peace.
He died a hero.
Rest in peace, Hari. You are everything that is right with Humanity.
I hope you all heal well, and please accept my condolences.
R.I.P. Hari
And to the bastard who did this, I hope he hears these words (though I know he won't):
You killed four dogs. You murdered five people. Yes, dogs are people too. I hope you feel proud of yourself for what you have done. I hope you meet your end in jail. Nothing is suitable punishment for you. I hope you rot.
-Kami
Unfortunately, Cali prisons are beyond overcrowded. :(
*hugs tightly*
I'm just glad nothing horrible happened to gem.. may her heart be full of strength..
I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. I know the pain and sting of losing someone so very special. *hugs* If you need anything, anything at all, note me. Same goes to Wolfgem.
may we never forget Hari
I'm so sorry. So very sorry for you, Wolfgem and all that has happened....
I heard about what happened. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you & your family. I know somewhat of how you feel. Recently I recently lost my grandma to a brain annurism. It does truly feel awful when a friend or family is gone. I hope the authorities catch the jerk who did that & make him pay for what he's done.
Key thing to remember, though: Family, friends & even adored pets are truly not gone while we still remember them. The bonds of family & friendship remain intact & unbroken past death. Those bonds keep the memories alive.
If there's anything I can do, let me know. Us fellow furs have to stick together.
Be strong,
The Incredible G - Geoff B.
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8526380/
Beautiful tribute.
Hari, may you rest in peace and you will be remembered as the hero you are and were.
This guy was a saint in disguise, and I hope that if anything he didn't suffer and just passed in his sleep. -doesn't mean this in a bad way-
I.....he is just a very wonderful guy and that alone just made me honor his memory all he more.
My prayers and wishes are with you guys, both the West family and Hari's family.
Take care xx
Wrabbit...
Also... anyone else got the urge to know exactly why Hari passed? Normally I don't ask but for someone that was reportedly doing good... comes rather odd.
Things will get better. It seems very dark right now, but, in time, the memory of Hari will make you smile, and think of all the good times. He will always be with you and your family. <3
I'm sure he will be missed greatly...
I am so sorry.
I'm sooo sorry for your sisters loss.
Despite how shocked, hurt, and angry this leaves me, I derive one SOLE comfort from it ... it's the final nail in this bastard's coffin. I'm starting to hope he gets the needle. Too much innocent blood has been shed now because of him. Gemily has now lost all her children AND her mate because of this ... creature. He deserves to be made an example out of. To teach his kind the meaning of fear, and the high price of justice.
In my most HONEST opinion, every moment he's still breathing is an insult to those who no longer -can- draw breath because of him. His continued existence only serves to mock his victims. Both living -and- dead. He hasn't paid a high enough price yet.
Hari will always be remembered as a hero.
Please give your sister my condolences.
I'm so sorry to hear this.
I don't do the prayer thing, but your sister and your family are in my thoughts.
-Badger-
I have no words to say that havent already been said by others, nor anything that can help. All you need to know is everyone loves you, yours sister and Hari. and he is a hero, and always will be. I am so sorry for the loss!
I was pleased to hear that he was doing better,this is just such a horrible twist.
My heart, hopes and love go to you, Gem and Hari's family.
He is with Canis now...may he rest in peace...
....wish the deadline wasn't April 24th,
I think Hari should be nominated for one of these next year, or something similar....
Hope you and your sister start getting some better news soon, and I hope her leg heals well
It's hard to imagine what Gem feeling right now.
You have my deepest condolences.
But I'm also quite sure that he will watch over Gem wherever she goes.
I will keep you all in my thoughts stil and pray you can find a way through this.
To me, he did not die in vain- he shows the definition of heroism, and that hit-&-run driver will be in a LOT more trouble now.
I do hope that you get fair justice and I am sorry for his passage-he did not deserve to to die this young, but he has showed us that you are never too young to be heroic.
Hugz
Sylphie
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As someone who was gravely injured by a drunk driver myself, it saddens me to see someone else become a victim of such a crime and stupid decision made by that driver. He did a wonderful thing, and I hope justice is served to the driver for his deadly actions.
I really hope things get better for you. I'm so so sorry this happened.
He was a brave man and was so selfless to give his life for the one he loved. He will always be remembered as a hero. <3
I'm really sorry for your loss, loosing someone close really hits hard, its good to know your sister is ok though.
Its also great to know you knew such an amazing person to have done that.
He really did die a hero.
Be you religious or not, that verse has meaning for everyone. There's no greater act of love for someone than giving their life to so someone else can live, and so few people carry out that kind of act of devotion.
That man is a legend, and legends can never die.
You and your friends have my condolences. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone affected, and I will hope for justice to be dealt swiftly.
Look at all of these people.
I don't know a speck of them,
but we're all some conjoined family.
Might have been enemies along the road, but we all care about each other.
You don't know me.
But I want to let you know I share with you my deepest condolences.
When I saw this story it broke my heart.
My deepest condolences to all of you.
Rest In Peace Harison, and your four babies.
And Gemily; be strong. I'm sure there are hundreds of people that love you. Just think about all the good.
Never think about the bad.
I sincerely hope the one responsible pays severely for this injustice.
I'm truly sorry *hugs* May he rest in peace.
I thought everyone would come out okay.
Best wishes to you and your family members.
R.I.P. :(
I hope he is able to rest in peace knowing that he was a hero, for more than just your sister.
May he rest in peace, and receive applaud for his act of bravery.
*Huggles and tailwags to you and your and his families*
Razora
My condolences, and my thoughts go with you and your sister. Kia kaha -- be strong.
I do hope that the person responsible is put away for a very long time.
Atleast he died as a hero, like you said.
But damn that drunk driver, its because of irresponsible people like that the roads aren't safe.
Try to stay strong. I too know what it's like to lose a family member that I dearly loved, whether it be from an accident or natural causes. Your families need to stick very close together in these tough times. I wish you all the best
RIP Hari, the greatest hero the world has ever known. You will be missed
My deepest condolences to you, your sister, and both families involved.
I'll keep you, your family and his family in prayers. Be strong for each other, I know times are going to be tough for quite some time.
I'm just glad they caught the guy. He deserves everything that's coming to him.
RIP champ!
he was not selfish and to me he is a hero
Hari was indeed a hero - to act so selflessly in the face of peril for the one he loved, that is an incredibly and exceedingly rare thing to find.
I can only hope that your sister comes out of this with a renewed love of life - and honors the person who made it possible for her to continue living. No, it certainly won't be easy. It is a pain that shall never be forgotten and a hurt that will probably never fully heal, but the only way to make it through things like this is to cling to the good - whatever little of it there may be.
My love, thoughts, and prayers are sent to you; may you be blessed with at least a little bit of light in all this darkness.
all honour to the fallen Hari, and most heartfelt condolences to his friends and family.
My condolences to you and yours, Beastcub.
Praise be to the hero.
May he continue watching over you all with those amazing pups.
Everyone should light a candle or raise a beer in Hari's honor tonight.
Rest well, you amazing man.
I'm not sure what emotions exactly I feel about the whole saga but the main thing is an overwhelming sadness that you, your sister, Hari and now Hari's family have had to go through something so ridiculously senseless.
I'm really hoping that things improve for you all, and that Hari's memory may continue to live on. The world has lost a wonderful person.
an understandable fraction. so many public eyes, and you only are able to share what you can out of respect. we all understand that,..
i'm tearing up, and just unbelievably empathetic to all of this... just having lost someone myself not a year ago, yet not as extreme.
may Hari be remembered as the knight he is , not was, his spirit watch over the ones he loved, and the guardian angel he was to become, he stays as, remains and watches over those he is to do more so ever, sword and shield at paw, and do more than ever now.
he earned more than his wings that day.
i can barely type, i am not sure if my words are coming through clearly because i know i'm not coming from the place you or your family is now, but i just want you to please keep love and happy thoughts when you can, and know he is in your minds and hearts and souls at all times. That is how he is not forgotten. That is how he truly lives on.
I am so sorry for your loss, I am glad Gem is still here to tell the tale (when its time) and i hope the media gets out of your guys fur soon enough.
You are in my thoughts.
I was so happy to hear that he was on the up... and now this... we're all strangers here (for the most part) but... to hear of an innocent person dieing and at the hands of an irresponsible disgusting excuse of a human being no less... it tears me up.
I can't imagine what you all must be going through... stay strong... you have all of our love and support and strength....
I don't believe in the conventional Heaven... but there is definitely a special place for Hari up there, out there.
R.I.P Hari... there aren't enough people like you in this world. You keep them pups company and watch over your love <3 <3
And your whole family is in our thoughts too... I honestly can't imagine what you all must be going through.....
i don' know anyone here, or who you are, i was lead here by some submission. and now that i am here
i have to say how heroic he was, what he did, was amazing. i am trying to no cry over how was what happend is.
i maybe don't know his name, or who he was
but what he did, was heroicly
a tear for the loss
a memory for him
may people unederstand
how much gut it take's
and what make's it special.
rest in peace.
RIP
I grieve for you and your sister and your and Hari's families. Although it won't bring Hari back, I hope they throw the book at the bastard who did this and he doesn't see freedom for a long long long time.
Bear Hugs.....
Grubbs
All my regards and support to you all, especially Gem, at this time.
Typing this out just.. doesnt even come close to how I feel ....
Regardless of any religious denominations; my prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time!
Take solace in that Hari died saving that whom he truly loved. In my eyes, his actions are what redeems us all and yet so few actually can comitt to so suddenly. I'm not one for prayer, but somewhere in those stars above us, Heaven, StarClan, whatever you may wish to call it, he's a hero, and he will forever be remembered for defending to the end the one he truly loved.
May justice act forcefully to the fullest extent on the monster that has wracked the lives of your loved ones. May Gem also remember that her beloved Hari will forever be guarding her in those fleeting stars of the night sky, and that he is waiting for her. I send my deepest thoughts and condolences to her, you, and the families in this tragedy.
Sleep well and peacefully, Hari. Know that even us down here will forever love you as how you lived, and for what you selflessly did that fateful night. Even though you are gone, you will never be forgotten.
- Aniro
And drink a health whate'er befalls
Then gently rise and softly call
"Good night and joy be to you all"
Oh, all the comrades e'er I had,
They're sorry for my going away,
And all the sweethearts e'er I had,
They'd wish me one more day to stay,
But since it fell into my lot,
That I should rise and you should not,
I gently rise and softly call,
Good night and joy be with you all.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhJp0W0ku2w
One thing keeps me from crying like a lot of you, and no, it's not because I'm a heartless bastard. It's the fact he got to choose, and that's not a luxury a lot of us get to make. In that instance during the incident, he chose to pay his life for the person he loved, and it seems to Reaper finally came to collect the bill. It's sad, yes, but he lived fur a higher purpose that too few of us can even obtain. And for that, I choose to not mourn his death, I celebrate his life.
Love, Johnny
Draco-silverflame and then Hari's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family as well as Hari's, he is a hero for what he did and who's memory will be remembered.
My condolences
Elden had a pure heart and true courage. He loved your sister fiercely and truly. I didn't want
to sound like a bible thumper, but I wanted to share this verse with you in hopes that this would
sink in and give some comfort.
I would like to do some memorial art for her but I don't want her to feel even worse - what is your opinion on it?
Cause when my friend passed away in the winter I drew his family some memorial art for him
They started crying immediately, but ultimately told me it was an incredibly kind gesture and they deeply appreciated it
To Hari!
Though I don't know you personally my heart goes out to you, I do not know what I would do if I lost my sisters or any member of my family for that matter, keep strong for your family and of course yourself. Don't forget if you ever need to talk to someone about how you're feeling all of your friends are here to support you, but if you feel like you can't talk to them there are other services available like Samaritans.
This is such a unfortunate accident, I am so sorry to hear about this loss and my thoughts are with you, your family and anyone else who has been affected by this. Keep your chin up, we're all here for you x
I was praying he could make it... a hero shouldn't have to die... someone who loves that deeply shouldn't have to die... not like that..
I'm
I'm deeply sorry, I didn't know him personally, but this story makes me cry
May he rest well wherever he may be now
My condolences to you, your sister, and all families and friends affected by this tragedy.
R.I.P. Hari. You have our eternal gratitude and love.
...I was near tears when I first heard about it a few weeks ago, but I was very happy that the man seemed to be recovering... I'm so sorry that he ended up passing away.
He was most definitely heroic, and I was very hopeful in hearing that he'd probably make a recovery.
Rest in peace, indeed.
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I'm so terribly sorry for your and your sister's loss. I really hope you guys can pull through all right.
It's a shame I never knew him but as a hero.
I can just see him now watching over you guys and playing with the puppies.
I hope you and the family will get through these rough times together. Your all going to need one another... He and all you will be in my prayers...
i hate people the are drunk and driving car. if drunk should nobody drive a car.
My deepest condolences :(
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~Prayers and Love from Drizzy~
YOu gave your life for the life of another. You will be remembered as a true hero.
I just can't see why bad things happen to good people.
R.I.P Hari... You gave your life to save the one you cared for
I hope that all the various media and public and such permit you all the space and privacy to mourn and remember him.
may that driver get locked up forever.
I didn't know him, nor do I know your sister or really any of you. But a lose of a life in such a cruel way is very saddening, and shouldn't happen to anyone.
I dread to think what you all must be feeling right now. The media for one should have kept their mouths shut and waited to be told what's happen, including others that said things about what they've heard or been told. And that driver... I sure hope he gets what's coming to him! That's four murders in one blow over his head!
I do hope that in time, the lose of your loved ones (including the dogs) fade in time, and that it becomes a little more easier for you all to pass. And I'm sure he will never be forgotten. I wish you luck in this difficult time.
May he and your loving pets rest in peace.
He was really brave to sacrifice his life to save your sister i'm terrible sad i didn't know all of you before.
I'm sure he was a great person with a heart of gold and i believe he win his wings.
May he rest in peace.
Wish you the best and power from austria.
~Shade~
This is very sad to here that such a noble person passed away
Im really sure he is in peace and that he wont leave her alone, I hope she will be strong to keep forward, my best wishes for the family, and more for her, she needs all the strenght and support from all of you and us
A true hero whom died so his love could live. May he rest in peace and never be forgotten.
the last thing I said to him was a panicked concerned "oh Hari" when I saw the state of his leg T^T
Wherever he may be, Hari will certainly be rewarded for his deed.
He was indeed a hero for what he did. Blessed be he for his deeds.
No life should be lost to idiotic drivers like those. I sure hope the guy pays greatly for what he's done
I hope at least the support you've gotten has helped you both through this.
Rest in peace. =<
this is y i hate cars thay are nothing but things that make sadness and death for others more than anything ,
we would be better if we where like the Amish using carts to get around .
i wish yo and wolfgem the best .
and if it hapend to me i would have done the same thing as he did .... RIP
I... I don't know what else to say other than... Rest in Peace, Hari.
My condolences to your sister, Hari's family, and yours...
Sending you all my condolences and support here. If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know though. *hug tight*
R.I.P. Hari.
An odd mixture of sadness, disappointment, and fury is roiling about in there right now. That man... Oooooh, I want to meet that bastard, face to face, and tell him exactly what he's done. I want him to SEE- not just know, in some vague, intellectual way, but to understand to the depths of his tiny fucking soul, what hurt he's done to two families and their community. I'm not sure I'd want jail time for this fool, but to have him serve yours and
*cries*
I know we've only met a few times- you were in suit each time- but if you need an ear, I'm near.
I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but please accept my condolences. Nobody deserves to go through this kind of pain, except for the horrible, uncaring man that caused this.
http://www.furaffinity.net/view/8540392/
RIP
That is the most selfless thing you could ever do-- give your life to protect someone you love. I'm terribly, terribly sorry.
He indeed was a hero -- he will be missed, I'm sure...
May he rest in peace...
and I hope you and your family and friends get through this horrible time and know that we are all here for you. *hugs*
one your sister is still alive and two the s.o.b is in jail hopefully for good.
he could have missed you sister and her boyfriend and plowed into a carload of people killing them all again sorry for the loss.
may he
REST....
IN.....
PEACE......
Your sister is going through a lot right now. The sudden loss of her boyfriend and her 4 dogs. These situations usually result in "survivors guilt". That "It should've been me" ---- "If it wasn't for me he'd still be alive" ---- "If I didn't go to the park, none of this would have happened" ---- train of thought... it can be deadly.
I really recommend that Gemily consider counseling when she is ready. So much loss... VIOLENT loss... SUDDEN loss... I wouldn't be surprised if she had Post-Traumatic-Stress Disorder. PTSD and Depression CAN be deadly... so please make sure she knows that none of this-- none of this whatsoever is her fault. Don't even let her entertain the idea that she's to blame because she's the one who decided to walk the dogs. I've known people to obsess themselves with self-blame and it leads down an awful path. If she wants to blame someone, she can focus on that jerk who I hope rots in prison (and from what I've seen, she seems to place the blame on him-- which is correct and healthy to do!)
It was not her fault-- she did EVERYTHING she could to be safe. Walking in the cross walk, having the reflector collars, traveling with someone. It is NOT her fault that some one decided to get behind the wheel drunk and not even turn his god damned headlights on to give them a chance to see him before it was too late. Furthermore... she gave Hari love. So much love that he would rather die than lose her. If the love wasn't there, this story may have had a different ending. He likely would have preferred to die young saving someone he loved than live a longer less fulfilled life. She gave that courage to him, she is worth protecting.
She seems to be handling it well from what I saw on the news stories... but just make sure -any- comments she makes about herself even hinting she was to blame are nipped in the bud immediately. Awful things happen to wonderful people far too often in this world. This is another one of those cases. I've seen a lot of trauma and sadness in the fandom but nothing as struck me deeper than this. Maybe it's because I know you, or maybe it's just the tremendous gravity of the event... but this is a terrible crime committed by someone that I consider a murderer (even before Hari's passing).
Focus on healing, your sister is lucky to have such a strong friend in you. I am so glad you can be there for her every step of the way.
Sorry for the long post, I just wanted to make sure that she doesn't even begin to entertain the thought that this is her fault... people in these situations often find a way to do that :/
Would you still remember me?
For I must be travelling on, now,
'Cause there's too many places I've got to see.
But, if I stayed here with you, girl,
Things just couldn't be the same.
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now,
And this bird you can not change.
Lord knows, I can't change.
Bye, bye, its been a sweet love.
Though this feeling I can't change.
But please don't take it badly,
'Cause Lord knows I'm to blame.
But, if I stayed here with you girl,
Things just couldn't be the same.
Cause I'm as free as a bird now,
And this bird you'll never change.
And this bird you can not change.
Lord knows, I can't change.
Lord help me, I can't change"
Lynyrd Skynyrd - Freebird
Was listening to that when I saw this. It seems.. fitting.
I don't know what else to say. I don't know if there is anything I CAN say. Too damn much loss, here..
Time heals all wounds, though. Just got to see yourselves through this long enough.
May the spirits be with you, your family and Hari's family. My thoughts goes to you.
People often say they would do these things, in a time of tragedy. Running into a burning building to save a loved one. Standing between a them and a gunman. Shoving them away from a rampant driver. Though when the time comes, many people, no matter how strong their hearts, often hesitate. That flickering moment of self-preservation is enough to allow life to be stolen away, and it's tragic because we cannot help our instincts.
But this man? He didn't even hesitate. The animal in all of us flinches in the face of imminent danger, and no doubt that his wanted to do the same... but this guy? He lunged in there because he literally valued you guys so much that even hesitation had no part in him. I know not of you nor your relations, but this man obviously had a heart of pure gold. Even as a complete stranger, I feel a little touched by this, even with all the degrees of separation the internet and the world allows. Inspired, even. I hope some day I can be that kind of a man. Somebody who wouldn't just want to step in to save a loved one... but do it in the blink of an eye, without hesitation.
Be strong, Beastcub.
Hari you will forever be a hero and will always be a guardian angel.
You are forever alive in our hearts and I hope that you are at peace.
You and your family have my deepest condolences. :(
It is in my heart that both you and her find peace later... God bless...
Madoc.
my sincerest condolences.....
he will live in the heart of who he used to love....and who love him
HUGS......
if it was any bigger my sister would have been a 6th casualty T^T
Things like this always anger the soul, but in reality that anger can only cause pain. I just hope that you remember the good times and everything wonderful that they have done together. I so wish things could be different but it seems that sometimes, it happens.
I wish the best of luck in recovering. (Sorry if I'm late) But again, he is still smiling down and always watching, always there with a loving smile and a loving heart. <3
I am not sure if you know of this photo, I took it at FC in 2009, it is you and my sister in your suits together along with two of the four dogs who died... never could we have known at the time that both of you would have to face the death of your mates approx 3 years later http://www.furaffinity.net/view/1928533/ I almost feel as if it was fate for you two to meet :C
Yes I remember that photo now! I was about to fave it but saw that it was already faved years ago. I commented on your sister's page saying that I remember the drawing she did of our characters together <3 I am happy that I least I got to meet 2 of the dogs in person. I do hope we can continue to talk and become closer friends and help each other out through our ordeals *hugs tightly*
they are hoping to charge him with homicide or second degree murder along with 2 counts of felony hit and run and cruelty to animals, they cannot prove he was DUI the night he hit them sadly or he'd get first degree murder.
Gem is still 90% bed bound and cannot sit at a computer, she is expected to make a full recovery by the end of October
if this man gets less than 10 years I am gonna puke
he ruined my sister's perfect life and took away her beloved :C
she has a metal rod in her shin bone because the bone was so destroyed. The other bone was just sorta put back where it was, it will never be the same hence the rod as it will be her weight bearing support now. The latest Xrays show some large gaps in the bones which will fill with new bone, a painful process.
And she has what we believe is a tire burn on the back of her knee (it is not road rash, looks like a burn, and is tire height) atm it is a huge nasty nasty scab that oozes and makes bending her leg horribly painful. she had 42 staples taken out of her leg (including ones from a gash the bone made when it broke through, the rest were surgical incisions) and more from her butt (big flesh wound tears, I am surprised her butt is not dented)
her ankle is badly twisted and she was so SO bruised and scraped up, so bruised.
utterly painful to see her so hurt
Reading this story makes me really upset that anyone had to die, especially someone so beloved in the fandom :c
I don't even know what to say. I'll try, though.
I think it's so sad that, beyond losing her children, she lost her boyfriend just as their life together had begun.
Thanks to him, her life afterwards can continue..
I'm so sad he passed. I wish he could've lived to receive his deserved hero's welcome.
*pauses, then plays a muffled drum roll as a trumpet plays "Taps"*
Yer boyfriend deserves to be flying with the angels. My condolences to you and your family. I thinks you got wings too of a protection from him type.
Pray, is the perp still locked up?
~i send my condolences to the family, friends, and loved ones for the loss of their hero. I also send a tender loving heart, warm hugs, open arms, and open ears that understand the loss of loved ones. Please message me, even if you just want some company. this is a genuine offer.
keep up the faith