Convention - Thank you, THIEF, for attending Oklacon
13 years ago
(To those that aren't gamers, THIEF is a reference to Legend of Zelda: Link's Awakening. If you steal an item from the shopkeeper, your name is changed from what you selected to THIEF for the rest of the game.)
Sooooooo, before I get to a journal about the goooood part of Oklacon, I'm going to take some time to address an issue that happened as I was leaving. Several people were told about this immediately following as I destressed, and so to help provide clarity to those that might hear parts of the story, I am going to post this publicly.
Let's start off with an imaginary story about a teacher and a student. The teacher comes up to the awkward but timid student and says:
"You've been stealing stuff from my desk! I just know you have! I had you grade papers that one time and you took some of my things!"
The student looks at the teacher and, confused, offers to show the teacher their belongings. The student hasn't taken anything, and wants to prove that. After showing a few items, the teacher aggressively takes the bag and begins to pull items out of it claiming them as theirs.
"What about this? This is mine, isn't it? So is this. And this! Where did you get this??"
The student begins to explain that it was purchased by them and they've had the items for years. But then one item confuses the student because of awkwardness and suddenly the teacher 'just knows' the student is lying.
"I know you took this now, because you didn't immediately know every detail about it! Now it's mine. If you don't let me have it, you're getting an F in class."
Thankfully this student insisted the teacher had lost their mind and managed to keep all of their belongings.
Right so, that's a bit of an exaggeration but at the same time, it's really not. I was accused of stealing "Predator vs Prey" items by a convention organizer at Oklacon. I have had the same items for the last three years and the only ANYTHING I've asked of Oklacon has been duct tape and printouts. I even went and bought new pencils for this year because I had run out. The kit cost me almost $100 to build, but I made sure that I could be self sustaining. Mainly for this sort of reason. I wanted my PredPrey kit to have NO reliance on the convention.
I never have asked for any supplies from the con. I have never WANTED any supplies from the con. I bust my ass at the convention to be a self sustained event with next-to-no reliance on the convention.
The saddest part is that this drama and this threat of not being allowed to run PredPrey next year is over about $5 of shower curtain hooks and beads. Which were mine to begin with. I am an honest person, I don't take people's things. I also know what items are mine and what aren't, because I'm a REALLY picky person. I didn't recognize how I packed my kit this year because I was lazy compared to the last two. I put beads in one bag and hooks in another rather than reassembling them. When a bag of hooks was pulled out, I didn't understand what they were. I was being attacked so hard by this person that I doubted they were actually mine until the loose beads were pulled out. Then I remembered. My remark I'd like to add is: "Look, I'm fucking brain fried at this point!!"
They had zero reason to suspect me of taking -anything-. If they were accusing me of something I had actually done like taking a gallon of milk (another organizer said yes when I asked him after the first organizer disappeared, another piece of drama to add to the list since Werewolf had NO refreshments and I had to supply people with my OWN soda and water due to this) or grabbing and drinking two gatorades and skittles (which someone doing concessions said was okay because the registers were closed) then I would have told them exactly that.
I work hard to be an honest, trustworthy person and I do NOT want to have rumors of me being a goddamn thief running around. My name is Tobias, not THIEF. I expect to hear a public apology over this incident because it came out of nowhere and was completely uncalled for. They even found this year's 'backup supplies we bought since we didn't know you were coming or not' and then switched the accusation to having stolen stuff from LAST year instead of THIS year.
If there were ANY complaints about how I run PredPrey, tell them to my face guys. X_X; I use my own money and my own time and effort to make that event succeed and none of the convention organizers have ever taken the time to sit down and talk to me about it, ask questions for these random medals they want to give out, or in the case of my absence at closing ceremonies, put me on the same page as ANYONE else. (They wanted me to hand out said medals but no one told me this, they only asked for info. :/)
So, yeah, drama. There it is. I'm no thief. And I can't believe after all the effort I've put in to running things that they'd even accuse me of something like that. Not. Fucking. Cool.
Sooooooo, before I get to a journal about the goooood part of Oklacon, I'm going to take some time to address an issue that happened as I was leaving. Several people were told about this immediately following as I destressed, and so to help provide clarity to those that might hear parts of the story, I am going to post this publicly.
Let's start off with an imaginary story about a teacher and a student. The teacher comes up to the awkward but timid student and says:
"You've been stealing stuff from my desk! I just know you have! I had you grade papers that one time and you took some of my things!"
The student looks at the teacher and, confused, offers to show the teacher their belongings. The student hasn't taken anything, and wants to prove that. After showing a few items, the teacher aggressively takes the bag and begins to pull items out of it claiming them as theirs.
"What about this? This is mine, isn't it? So is this. And this! Where did you get this??"
The student begins to explain that it was purchased by them and they've had the items for years. But then one item confuses the student because of awkwardness and suddenly the teacher 'just knows' the student is lying.
"I know you took this now, because you didn't immediately know every detail about it! Now it's mine. If you don't let me have it, you're getting an F in class."
Thankfully this student insisted the teacher had lost their mind and managed to keep all of their belongings.
Right so, that's a bit of an exaggeration but at the same time, it's really not. I was accused of stealing "Predator vs Prey" items by a convention organizer at Oklacon. I have had the same items for the last three years and the only ANYTHING I've asked of Oklacon has been duct tape and printouts. I even went and bought new pencils for this year because I had run out. The kit cost me almost $100 to build, but I made sure that I could be self sustaining. Mainly for this sort of reason. I wanted my PredPrey kit to have NO reliance on the convention.
I never have asked for any supplies from the con. I have never WANTED any supplies from the con. I bust my ass at the convention to be a self sustained event with next-to-no reliance on the convention.
The saddest part is that this drama and this threat of not being allowed to run PredPrey next year is over about $5 of shower curtain hooks and beads. Which were mine to begin with. I am an honest person, I don't take people's things. I also know what items are mine and what aren't, because I'm a REALLY picky person. I didn't recognize how I packed my kit this year because I was lazy compared to the last two. I put beads in one bag and hooks in another rather than reassembling them. When a bag of hooks was pulled out, I didn't understand what they were. I was being attacked so hard by this person that I doubted they were actually mine until the loose beads were pulled out. Then I remembered. My remark I'd like to add is: "Look, I'm fucking brain fried at this point!!"
They had zero reason to suspect me of taking -anything-. If they were accusing me of something I had actually done like taking a gallon of milk (another organizer said yes when I asked him after the first organizer disappeared, another piece of drama to add to the list since Werewolf had NO refreshments and I had to supply people with my OWN soda and water due to this) or grabbing and drinking two gatorades and skittles (which someone doing concessions said was okay because the registers were closed) then I would have told them exactly that.
I work hard to be an honest, trustworthy person and I do NOT want to have rumors of me being a goddamn thief running around. My name is Tobias, not THIEF. I expect to hear a public apology over this incident because it came out of nowhere and was completely uncalled for. They even found this year's 'backup supplies we bought since we didn't know you were coming or not' and then switched the accusation to having stolen stuff from LAST year instead of THIS year.
If there were ANY complaints about how I run PredPrey, tell them to my face guys. X_X; I use my own money and my own time and effort to make that event succeed and none of the convention organizers have ever taken the time to sit down and talk to me about it, ask questions for these random medals they want to give out, or in the case of my absence at closing ceremonies, put me on the same page as ANYONE else. (They wanted me to hand out said medals but no one told me this, they only asked for info. :/)
So, yeah, drama. There it is. I'm no thief. And I can't believe after all the effort I've put in to running things that they'd even accuse me of something like that. Not. Fucking. Cool.
seriously tho i've noticed increased drama between staff and attendees
at several cons.
hell i've had some pretty outrageous rumors about me put out there by staff...
You know i got your back on this, cause i know you and what kind of honest generous
person you are.
please consider the same way for me should you hear any rumors about me.
Thanks Toby, and i'm sure this will blow over...
Honestly I have no clue where this BS came from. It was out of nowhere and aside from the state of my beads being confusing (the special characters' beads bag had loose beads in it, but they were all my beads) the contents of the bags were 100% mine. Yet I was being treated like a kleptomaniac? O.o; I mean seriously, is there some sort of precedence for me being treated like this by them???
Just cut down on the drinking at cons and be chilled and things will do okay for you. And consider taking my route: adult humor = not real humor. :P *likes wit and class*
Just remember that HG and the rest of the staff at Oklacon are good people, just like you are a good person. This is just a silly misunderstanding.
If I needed more shower curtain hooks or more beads, guess what? I'd go buy the damn things. I don't wanna owe anyone anything. >_<; As long as I've been running stuff for them, they suddenly don't trust me? The hell? There's one person on their staff that is a notoriously opportunistic petty thief, but I won't state names. That person isn't me and I'm nothing like that person. :/ So, I dunno. I still insist a public apology is required or I'll stick to Werewolf event only to begin with. Only reason I continue to run it myself is because I have the gear and they refused to buy it off of me last year so I could wash my hands of things. It's about $100 worth of gear overall, and they don't really have anyone capable of doing a proper printout either... *shrug*
I'm not really pissed or anything, but without said public apology, I see no reason to make use of my supplies and help them out. :< So, yeah.
Hopefully everyone will figure this out and make peace quickly enough - this is the first not happy thing I've seen all weekend, with an otherwise phenomenal time had by all it seems.
K Fox
I did end up with an extra green whistle of the same brand. It was laying on the ground after Friday and I assumed Luno had dropped her's. Then after Pred Prey she finds another one in her pocket. The bandanas I've had for 3 years, the beads I've had for 3 years, the hooks I've had exactly the right number for 3 years, the construction paper and pencils I've replaced with my own money and the rest were purchased by my own money as well. Never reimbursed by the convention and when I asked they said no outright. Yet Pred Prey raised ~$150 for the Charity this year alone. :/ I even designed the Gift of Flight as a new charity item for years two and three. That made them I think $70?
So, yeah, they have no reason to be pulling this crap with me after all the work I do and as much effort I put in to be self-sufficient. :X
I know I wouldn't.
Sorry you got messed with like that, hun.
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