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heada up for commissions moving house
12 years ago
“And it is still true, no matter how old you are -- when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.”
Right. Looks like we are exchanging on Monday and completing on Friday the 15th of march. I'm hoping I will have the majority of commissions finished by then. I will update my current queue this evening when I get home as its out of date now.
So the problem is this. I might be offline for 2 weeks as it takes 30 days to get the broadband installed to the new house. We put the order in yesterday so we are already ahead of the game but yeah there is probably gonna be some overlap time so I will get here via my phone but won't beable to upload things but I will continue to draw probably so yeah there will be a massive art dump when I get back, but I won't be gone until the 15th.
I want to also say thankyou for worrying about me. A few peoplle got in.contact and asked if I was ok after that coloured sketch I did. Asking if I'm ok. I am ok I think. I just feel very anxious and nervous about the house. Not just in sense of.moving. Moving I can do. I'm an army brat so I'm used to that sort of upheaval but the house signifies a complete change in my marriage and relationship with my husband
The current house was always his. Not ours. The bought it with his ex and whilst he always shared everything and always called it our home it never felt right for me.
This new place is our home.
The old place was also always used as an excuse not to have children it was an old property with dangerous stairs and it was falling apart. The new place is modern and light and airy and large. It's a family home and thats what's now going to be expected. This obviously is going to be a huge change in my life. I'm looking forward to it and dreading it at the same time and I think thats where I'm feeling most lost.
So yeah I'm perfectly fine dont worry. I just have a lot of soul searching to do
So the problem is this. I might be offline for 2 weeks as it takes 30 days to get the broadband installed to the new house. We put the order in yesterday so we are already ahead of the game but yeah there is probably gonna be some overlap time so I will get here via my phone but won't beable to upload things but I will continue to draw probably so yeah there will be a massive art dump when I get back, but I won't be gone until the 15th.
I want to also say thankyou for worrying about me. A few peoplle got in.contact and asked if I was ok after that coloured sketch I did. Asking if I'm ok. I am ok I think. I just feel very anxious and nervous about the house. Not just in sense of.moving. Moving I can do. I'm an army brat so I'm used to that sort of upheaval but the house signifies a complete change in my marriage and relationship with my husband
The current house was always his. Not ours. The bought it with his ex and whilst he always shared everything and always called it our home it never felt right for me.
This new place is our home.
The old place was also always used as an excuse not to have children it was an old property with dangerous stairs and it was falling apart. The new place is modern and light and airy and large. It's a family home and thats what's now going to be expected. This obviously is going to be a huge change in my life. I'm looking forward to it and dreading it at the same time and I think thats where I'm feeling most lost.
So yeah I'm perfectly fine dont worry. I just have a lot of soul searching to do
*hugs*
You doing super good baby, keep breathings.
Have you spoken to the cats about moving?
If Mister Paul is kay with this I don't mind hosting it or a lil' bit.
For his info it's running CentOS and can run PHP, Apache and MySQL.
Let me know :)
I hope you'll have a great time and no more problems from previous house new owner. Have fun and explore all the new dits and dats of your new surrounding.
This is a very exciting thing! I know it's kind of spooky, but things will open up and be so much more easier once it's all said and done. I know what you are feeling, and it becomes SOOO much more exciting as the moving day comes.
Also, just make sure to take things at a decent pace. Don't try to have kids ASAP or worry about decorating ASAP. It will just make things sooo much more stressful.
ANYWAY.
-hugs- Yay gemmaaaaa
Does yoor new home haff lotsa trees to climb cos a squiggle gotta learn :)
Snuggles & huggles
Princess Sylphie
I know that it's really scary thinking about raising a family and all of that. I know that you feel a lot of weight and a lot of responsibility for taking care of a little squiggle on your own. Being the caretaker is a lot of hard work, and you have a sense of how important that is. How meaningful it is for somebody to be there for you when you're young. To be a parent. To be a provider.
But I think this is something you are competent to do, sweetheart. When you're ready to progress, I feel that you have the skills at your disposal to be a fantastic mother. It's not the performance that counts. It's not the remembering things, or the being super serious all the time or never being the cause of a mess that will help your own little squiggle grow up to be a strong adult, proud of their mommy. No, it all starts with that awareness and personal connection. And you *are* aware, sweetheart. You know it's important and you know you'll wind up meaning the world to your children. That's the beginning and the end of what's important; simply being mindful of that fact and allowing that awareness to guide your thoughts and your actions. Oh sure, you'll make mistakes and trip over things and you'll need to be little sometimes too. That's true for everyone. But you know how to see into their world. You know their fears and their joys.
I think you'll be an outstanding mother sweety, and you've less to fret about should you take on this job than a majority of us do. ;3
Proud father of 2wo,
- - Happ