Dat happens man.

friendsone someone is something that we girls do with guys we really love and appreciate way too much, and are afraid of losing them..

for example, you have a boyfriend, you have them for a time, but then, they find someone better than you, and you lose him, you never talk to him again, you feel sad everytime you see him with anyone else... such things.

but if you have someone yo appreciate way too much and are very afraid of losing them, you friendzone them, that is a way you can stp being afraid of making a mistake and losing someone who means your whole life to you.. of course you will nt have sexy times, but you will be sure you can count on them and show them how much you care for they for a lot more time than a boyfriend or a crush X3

keep in mind this is my own explanation and feelings about friendzone, different girls might have different points of views about this, but dont feel bad draco :3 <3

it's not that a bad thing like internet makes it look X3 <3

that does make a good definiton for friendzone. but i kinda got put here when she said "your not strong enough. i dont feel safe with you" ;3; that hurt. and was the exact moment i was friendzoned



also. im making a bayou slenderwoman. possible cousin to klaus >:3 that he doesnt want people knowing about XD

klaus? X3
is that another char of you? c:

meant strauz

ahhh!

nuuu , please dont get angry with me, but i dont like to have my chars bond with other person's chars TwT

i tend to get in fight with friends often and i dont like to see my char and remember they have some sort of relation with someone who is (possibly)angry at me TwT

(i abandoned 23 chars allready due to that ) TwT

but you can make her a friend of my strauz if you want X3

ok :D. though, i guess in a way. all slender peoples are related XD. just like all humans are X3

There's no real trick to getting out of the "friendzone". She either likes you or she doesn't.
If she doesn't, move on. Dwelling on her bullshit isn't going to make you feel good.

ya.


but let me say this. She is the only girl that actually talks to me. ;3; the rest just blow me off/ignore me

But focusing on the one girl that talks to you is just going to make her feel weird. There's no nice way to say: "Grow up and meet some girls".
You need to find people that you like being around. You're eighteen, and have only just begun living your life. You can't complain about not having a girlfriend when you're not even actively talking to girls.

i am actively talking to girls. and we were friends since we were kids. she is the only friend i can rely on. and litteraly the only girl that talks to me. i actively try to talk to girls and just get shunned. litterally. they just ignore me.

Then maybe you need to take a look at yourself/what you're doing and figure out what's driving the ladies away.

i have a list of this actually

1. not a jock
2. not constantly exercising so not abundent with mucsles
3. i have long hair, so half the time they think im a drug addict
4. im an artist
5. i actually care what they have to say
6. i have emotions
7. im intelligent
8. im polite


thats so far what ive noticed people arent. that gets them a girlfriend. that list is what i am. and dont have a girlfriend........ some of the biggest dbags in school have girlfriends.

That's a ton of bullshit.

1. I'm not a jock but.. I have a boyfriend
2. I'm not constantly exercising but.. I have a boyfriend.
3. Your hair can be changed so easily that i'm not going to acknowledge it as a point
4. I'm an artist but.. I have a boyfriend
5. I actually care .. and have a boyfriend!

.. you see where I'm going with this.
Those aren't valid points.

well see. im not cutting my hair. i want it long.

but see, all the guys that have a girlfriend are that. and im not. so, im pretty much surrounded by the worst girls who only want worse men


or it could be i have absolutely no self confidence in myself. beleiving that nothing i do is ever good enough to please anyone. when everyhting i do just gets my yelled at and shunned

Well, I tried.
Good luck in your future endeavors.

thanks. ill need it

You do know Minty was right don't you?
It has nothing to with how you look, work out or anything.
It's all about confidence.

No matter what kind of guy you are, If you have confidence you will get almost anything you want.

ya. i know he was right. and it makes it more depressing.

i am a guy who has had all confidence taken from him. no one has ever said anything to me that makes me confident about myself. all i do is get picked on and made fun of. by people usually shorter, and stronger than me.

there is not a single moment in my life. where i had a shred of confidence. i always doubt myself, because i was always made fun of. and no one ever stopped anyone. my own brother didnt stop kids he knew from picking on me

So you can't make your own confidence?
Just do it.
Don't count on others.

everytime i get confident in something about myself. someone comes along and makes me doubt myself. i try and make confidence, and i have nothing left to make it with anymore. everything ive tried to be confident about. im not anymore. im not even confident about my art

i havent counted on anyone in so long. i actually refuse help, because people end up just hurting me and lieing to my face when they help me

ya. and thanks for the luck

And i'm sure all the "dbags" at school have confidence. You'll never get a girl being shy and reserved. That doesn't mean go up to her and grab her ass and be an asshole..
Just be confident. :T

that hurts man...it does

ya.