more friendly reminders.
12 years ago
“And it is still true, no matter how old you are -- when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.”
That's the way of me saying I'm about to go on a,mini rant.
Recently I have had an influx of people requesting to be my friend on Facebok
I'm sorry but if I don't know you very well then you won't be getting added. The thing about my Facebook is really I actually strongly dislike that site but certain real life family members only ever keep people up to date there so that's why I have a Facebook and to promote gigs I'm doing through my jammiesammy Facebook group.
As I have a multitude of family members and old skool friends who know nothing about me.being an adult baby and a baby fur the likely hood of me.letting people from here who I don't know have the ability to post on my Facebook is really really quite out of the question. I hope you understand. *hugs*
Also it's really extremely flattering when people say that they are in love with me, but you're really not. You might be in love with the idea of me, a girl who is an ab and who is fairly.popular and nice, but you don't really know the real me so you can't really be in love with me. It is really flattering and I'm glad you like me a lot but let's not.forget that I am actually married and that I live in the UK so that means a.relationship really isn't going to work.
I'm always happy to chat and friends are always llovely to have but that's really as far as any kind of relationship is going to go *quiet shy hugs
Also just wanted to say yesterday's journal really was quite interesting I learnt mainly that most people find it easier to focus on their weaknesses than their strengths and that most people here have varying degrees of self.worth issues. Everyone should try really hard today to think of at least one thing in their life that they are happy with. An aspect of their life that they are proud of or enjoy. People should practice being positive towards themselves more often because everyone has something good about them and sometimes we are so caught up.in our flaws that we forget that actually we have good things too
Recently I have had an influx of people requesting to be my friend on Facebok
I'm sorry but if I don't know you very well then you won't be getting added. The thing about my Facebook is really I actually strongly dislike that site but certain real life family members only ever keep people up to date there so that's why I have a Facebook and to promote gigs I'm doing through my jammiesammy Facebook group.
As I have a multitude of family members and old skool friends who know nothing about me.being an adult baby and a baby fur the likely hood of me.letting people from here who I don't know have the ability to post on my Facebook is really really quite out of the question. I hope you understand. *hugs*
Also it's really extremely flattering when people say that they are in love with me, but you're really not. You might be in love with the idea of me, a girl who is an ab and who is fairly.popular and nice, but you don't really know the real me so you can't really be in love with me. It is really flattering and I'm glad you like me a lot but let's not.forget that I am actually married and that I live in the UK so that means a.relationship really isn't going to work.
I'm always happy to chat and friends are always llovely to have but that's really as far as any kind of relationship is going to go *quiet shy hugs
Also just wanted to say yesterday's journal really was quite interesting I learnt mainly that most people find it easier to focus on their weaknesses than their strengths and that most people here have varying degrees of self.worth issues. Everyone should try really hard today to think of at least one thing in their life that they are happy with. An aspect of their life that they are proud of or enjoy. People should practice being positive towards themselves more often because everyone has something good about them and sometimes we are so caught up.in our flaws that we forget that actually we have good things too
Gem does so starting to waddle squish after them a few steps before having to crawl.
hehe sorry I couldnt resist.
hehe sorry I couldnt resist.
I don't add anyone to my FB nowadays I have to atleast know them or they have to have a LOT of friends in common. All my family know about my furry life anyway so ^_^
And haha! That would definitely be weird *giggles* love yoo Sis ^_^
On the flipside, I can understand what you mean by that they "love the idea" of you. So I guess when you take that into account, it might be a little easier to make the letdown, however inappropriate the initial request was.
All that said: I've recommended your FA page to a few people in the ABDL/babyfur community so they can appreciate the awesome art you make, and used the descriptor "love" in doing so. I've said that I love your art, I love that I can relate to a lot of the feelings your art & journals convey, and that I love you & Grub based on what I've seen. All this is true, of course - but in a "I hope to get to know you & be friends" love, as others have said. However, "love" is a tricky little thing (no matter what kind of "love" is being discussed) & it seems the word is tossed around a bit too flippantly in general. Something to think about, I suppose!
I love my fiancee Rikku more than anything and i have told her that 'I Love her' and she has told me everyday we have been together, which is almost 11years now. Rikku is my soul mate and we have tonnes of stuffs in common, and do almost everything together *giggles, no syncronised diaper wetting JK JK XD* There will be people along the way who will try to rock the boat but are love is unbreakable and beyond infinity so they just waste their time.
To answer your question to some positives/strengths about me:
*Unbreakable Love
*I like who i am, and that i can be myself around all my RL/FA friends and FA family, yep i'm girly, an Adult Baby and in touch with my feeling and how others feelings work cos i care so muchies for my friends and family.
*Good Listener
*Enjoy making friends and meeting people
*Good at making Fursuits
Gem Gem you are my cute and fluffy cousin and Sylphie and Rikku love yoo as our family member and friend, we will c u soon and play and haff lotsa fun.
Snuggles and Cuggles
Princess Sylphie
;)
people do have some strange ideas some times. and even have strange ideas on what a person is like irl..
now i try and not get ideas of how i would see a person irl. and i hope i dont.
have a hug
As for the "love" thing... I thought you were spoken for. >w> I'm a manwhore, not a homewrecker. And more to the point, you're more like a kid-sister or a really young and super-fun cousin. Emphasis on "super-fun." ^w^
Gemmy is love... *hugs* But not the "run away and be mine" kinda love. More like the love and appreciation that comes with having fans of your artwork. ^w^
Noooooooooooooooo... :c