Yes I have before, and I actually caught him trying to kiss another guy until I grabbed him by the hair and whispered have fun and never saw him again... Made me feel like crap I had to end it like that, but I love a bond with just 2 people...

Twice by my ex. She admitted to it the first time it happened, which I forgave her for. Im a firm believer in "Everyone deserves a second chance." Two years later, she cheated on me again, and that was when she decided not only to cheat, but to move out while I was at work as well. Never saw her again after that.

Yeap, I have. Quite a few of my relationships ended cuz I got cheated on. All their responses were that because of the was I presented myself to them, they assumed that I was gonna cheat, so they did it first. Then they felt really bad bad after discovering that I'm not a cheater. Go figure hahaha

I have been cheated on, and I have had affairs.

My ex-boyfriend (when I was a teen) cheated on me ("began a 2nd relationship with my friend"), and then wanted me AND the other girl to be his girlfriends simultaneously.

After making the mistake of making him choose me or her (and he picked me) - I cheated on him with my CURRENT partner, and I would tell him I was cheating on him to his disbelief until his got the message that we were seriously over. He was VERY possessive.

Now me and my still current boyfriend (same guy) have been together for over 8 years.

BUT - I've been in China working for over 7 months - and at month 6, I went insane with a crush I had on a close friend here and I had a one night stand with him - I totally regretted my animal instincts and I told my still current boyfriend as soon as I could, and we have been working together very hard to mend our relationship (addressing any other problems as to WHY I would have the affair BESIDES the huge distance (china vs. usa)) and trying to re-establish trust between us. Me and my current partner are very close, and I didn't mean hurt him with this, or use it against him - it was my choice, my mistake, and my lesson to learn - I've learned a lot, and I really appreciated being given a second chance, and I give second chances too.

I am very simply a LOT judgmental now of people who have one night stands and affairs - and I think very often, cheating can be a sign of problems in a relationship - and a mistake like cheating can either bring people closer together, or tear them apart. I want love, I want a deep relationship, so I really hope I never get the urge to cheat again.

Sorry for the novel. ^^;

Yes, but in some ways I was glad because it meant I had a way to escape being trapped in a relationship I didn't want to be in (it lasted about a year longer than it should have).

3 times, that's all i'm saying really.

Nope. Of course I never been in a relationship yet.

Yup, kinda.

Plenty of times, most admitted it. Had my own affairs, too. So I hold it against no one.

My own encounter with FFS, when I thought long distance relationships could work:

My first boyfriend cheated on me like a month after we got together. He gave and got head from/to another guy at a party. So much for the "honeymoon" phase right? He thought by telling me everything would be okay. He thought wrong, suffice it to say, I went uber bitch mode and he feared for his well being.

Yeah -_- on more than one occaion. why I'm not looking for a relationship right now, =\ but I knew one of them was a cheater, I thought they changed but when I found out it didn't really surprise me, so I wasn't too hurt that time =I