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Fucking Drunkies also QUICK help is needed!!!! EDITED!!!
12 years ago
Lemme tell you a story about my 25 year old little sister's man, and my mom's friends....
My little sister took a man who drinks, and has been in jail before from a murder/killing someone many years ago. She knew that, but "that man is so nice to her and he loves me. I Don't care what he had done in his past"..
My mom was mad at me for some point when i said that i don't accept drunkies at all...And my mom apparently befriends with them... she said to me "You'll get troubles from not tolerating or accepting peoples who drinks, they can be nice and you even may get some benefits from it. Like if they knows some peoples to help you with the moving or something"
I know, my mom and my lil sis are an idiots.
Well.. Things happens to turn out like this eventually:
Mom has troubles with her friends. They comes over, they drinks there, they even had passed out on her livingroom and tried to come on her bed to sleep... She even once needed to come on my place, running away from her own appartment, because that one man weren't leaving anywhere and it was becoming night. that man had been there for few days and she hasn't sleep at all. So... she came to me beg for a place to stay at night.. couldn't forbit her that. letted her come to my place for the night, but I got the change to say "And WHO'S the one in troubles with those drunkies again, huh?"
Today i got a call from her and she were telling that the same man is there and annoye the hell out from her.
She've gotten some free stuff from him. like phones, cable tv, digiboxes... and such..
And for my lil sister... She lives in Kihlanki, Muonio, needed to be on one place on 12th day at Tampere. Those places are around 600 km away from eachothers. That while her so called "nice and caring sweet man" has been drinking again... and when he takes clear alcohol, he becomes literally crazy. He had gone on his paren't place and broke the windown down, his mom got some glass in her eyes and she's at the hospital, that man is in jail. His mom called for my sister and said "You should stay there where you are, because you have a place where you're safe"
So.. Now my other sister is in our one little sisters place in Jyväskylä. But my mom called me again and said that it might be possible that they comes over my place shortly. maybe in a day or three.. Because that man has threatened her and she's now afraid that he does something when he gets out from the jail.
Because that man thinks that nothing is happening becase of him, but others instead.
So.. i'll say once again... I'm GLAD that I NEVER befriend or tolerate drunken peoples at all...
But... as it's so long way to come here from where my mom lives.. about 300 km.. Sieppijärvi to Kuusamo.. we might need some help with the money to get them here safely and fast if needed to... Mom gets her paycheck on this months last day, but it might be too late. since the man will be getting out from jail in few days.
I'm now afraid too from my mom's and especially my youngest little sisters safety... They're scared.. so am I.
I don't have money enough myself that i could send it to mom that she could come here and make sure they're safe with my youngest little sister... since they needs about 400€. My mom's car is getting some preparing done and that pays around 200€ to get it from the garage. and that rest 200€ would go on gas that they can come here.
If there's anyone who has the similiar problems, or can understand the feel of being afraid that someone comes and harms you or your loved ones... I'd be very grateful if there would be someone to help us now..
I can't use that money on my Paypal... But i've agreed with one of my good friends who has matching bank account with Paypal, that i'll send her Paypal the money and she'll transfer them in my own bank account right after.
If there's anyone who sends money to help us out.. I try to draw something for everyone.
My Paypal is: LikeMaNiac@hotmail.com.
Thank you for reading... and understanding.... Spreading the word will help too hopefully...
My little sister took a man who drinks, and has been in jail before from a murder/killing someone many years ago. She knew that, but "that man is so nice to her and he loves me. I Don't care what he had done in his past"..
My mom was mad at me for some point when i said that i don't accept drunkies at all...And my mom apparently befriends with them... she said to me "You'll get troubles from not tolerating or accepting peoples who drinks, they can be nice and you even may get some benefits from it. Like if they knows some peoples to help you with the moving or something"
I know, my mom and my lil sis are an idiots.
Well.. Things happens to turn out like this eventually:
Mom has troubles with her friends. They comes over, they drinks there, they even had passed out on her livingroom and tried to come on her bed to sleep... She even once needed to come on my place, running away from her own appartment, because that one man weren't leaving anywhere and it was becoming night. that man had been there for few days and she hasn't sleep at all. So... she came to me beg for a place to stay at night.. couldn't forbit her that. letted her come to my place for the night, but I got the change to say "And WHO'S the one in troubles with those drunkies again, huh?"
Today i got a call from her and she were telling that the same man is there and annoye the hell out from her.
She've gotten some free stuff from him. like phones, cable tv, digiboxes... and such..
And for my lil sister... She lives in Kihlanki, Muonio, needed to be on one place on 12th day at Tampere. Those places are around 600 km away from eachothers. That while her so called "nice and caring sweet man" has been drinking again... and when he takes clear alcohol, he becomes literally crazy. He had gone on his paren't place and broke the windown down, his mom got some glass in her eyes and she's at the hospital, that man is in jail. His mom called for my sister and said "You should stay there where you are, because you have a place where you're safe"
So.. Now my other sister is in our one little sisters place in Jyväskylä. But my mom called me again and said that it might be possible that they comes over my place shortly. maybe in a day or three.. Because that man has threatened her and she's now afraid that he does something when he gets out from the jail.
Because that man thinks that nothing is happening becase of him, but others instead.
So.. i'll say once again... I'm GLAD that I NEVER befriend or tolerate drunken peoples at all...
But... as it's so long way to come here from where my mom lives.. about 300 km.. Sieppijärvi to Kuusamo.. we might need some help with the money to get them here safely and fast if needed to... Mom gets her paycheck on this months last day, but it might be too late. since the man will be getting out from jail in few days.
I'm now afraid too from my mom's and especially my youngest little sisters safety... They're scared.. so am I.
I don't have money enough myself that i could send it to mom that she could come here and make sure they're safe with my youngest little sister... since they needs about 400€. My mom's car is getting some preparing done and that pays around 200€ to get it from the garage. and that rest 200€ would go on gas that they can come here.
If there's anyone who has the similiar problems, or can understand the feel of being afraid that someone comes and harms you or your loved ones... I'd be very grateful if there would be someone to help us now..
I can't use that money on my Paypal... But i've agreed with one of my good friends who has matching bank account with Paypal, that i'll send her Paypal the money and she'll transfer them in my own bank account right after.
If there's anyone who sends money to help us out.. I try to draw something for everyone.
My Paypal is: LikeMaNiac@hotmail.com.
Thank you for reading... and understanding.... Spreading the word will help too hopefully...
EDIT!!!!EDIT!EDIT!!!!I Want to say thank you for those few peoples who actually lend a hand and helped spreading the word or donated. Biggest donator were Green_Fox. And we're really grateful for him.
And also big thanks for Neomi who were able to help me with the money transfering thing since that first person weren't able to do that immediatelysince she weren't home... >__>'
Mom's now driving here with my little sister and their dog, they should be here around 9pm... Just hoping they're driving safely. Money is still needed tho, since she get's paid later this month and i don't have money enough to feed us all at the moment. Not until that social welfare office makes their decision which may take few weeks... ^^'
So... That's why i'm putting up some auction pictures for that reason...
Thank you everyone! 
And in my own life, i've gotten to deal with so many drunkie who has been only tboublesome pain, so... i don't like drunken peoples.. I have my reasons...
Also sadly there is people who go nuts just from two or one drink/shot ect even might not be alcoholics. Her experecience so far is only just negative (can relate to her ^_^; )
But like always some bad apples, stamp all apples bad.
Honeybunch, I'm sorry for everything you're going through. Had I any coin, I'd for sure send it to you. Since I'm in no position to do such, I'm gunna link this journal on FA and DA, if that's alright with you.
Just hope those polices wouldn't let him go anywhere.. >___>'
And i certainly do hope that my sister would have enough sense in her head after this one...
I ended up having to draw the line and had to tell my parents (specifically my dad) that if I saw him at our house again, I was going to call the cops. What he did that made me have to draw that line was he came to our house when it was obvious that neither of my parents were home and he insisted on being allowed inside so he could use the phone to call his son. I told him I would bring the phone to him but he was not coming inside. He was still insistent and it was concerning me so I called my dad and told him what was going on, meanwhile I went into my parents' room, got my dad's pistol and made sure it was loaded after telling my brothers that he was NOT to come in the house. I didn't threaten him or anything but made it clear that he needed to leave.
Thank you. Spreading the word hopefully reached more peoples.
Jotkut ei vaan yksinkertaisesti kestä alkoholia. On tullu monta kertaa huomattuu kun oon taksikuski. :/
Itekkin juon todella harvoin, mut sentään tiedän rajani. :/
Kiitos.