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9-puzzle, the asexual.
12 years ago
For a time I did imagine having sex with another person, it seemed like something I wanted to do. I even went so far as to buy a sex toy, however when I used this sex toy I never really felt any sexual pleasure from it, at all. Now I am sure some would say that it doesn't compare to the real thing, but it's not very inspiring to me to want to try the real thing.
Now it's not just the toy fiasco that makes me think I am an asexual, but really, the more I think about it the less attracted I am to the idea of having intercourse with any other person. I simply don't have much attraction to any other person, male, female, or even my mate. Sex just doesn't interest me, and all I need is well, *ahem* my hand. So yes, obviously I do fap, I mean look at the stuff I draw.
That leads to another thing, why do I draw the things I do if I don't care about sex? Well that's a big difference, it's like a look and don't touch kind of thing. I would rather look at these cartoon animals with huge hyper parts, but that doesn't mean that I wish they were real and right in my room. Unlike a lot of other people I do not fantasize about these things existing, I KNOW they aren't real. Yes I think about hyper stuff a lot, but only in fantasy and not even interacting with me but other hyper characters.
Being free from this "requirement" of having sex is actually pretty nice really. I mean think about it for a second, doesn't it seem like people are pressured into having sex? So in turn they become like Brian Grifon from Family Guy, instead of waiting for the right person you say screw it and just find a sexy babe with the IQ of a brick to bang. And this is all because a lot of people seem to feel that they are required to have sex, and simply cannot wait. Yeah, nothing like adding yet another kid to this already overpopulated world with dwindling resources.
Anyway, just wanted to share. I know I have talked about it before, but I thought I would give more detail on it.
Now it's not just the toy fiasco that makes me think I am an asexual, but really, the more I think about it the less attracted I am to the idea of having intercourse with any other person. I simply don't have much attraction to any other person, male, female, or even my mate. Sex just doesn't interest me, and all I need is well, *ahem* my hand. So yes, obviously I do fap, I mean look at the stuff I draw.
That leads to another thing, why do I draw the things I do if I don't care about sex? Well that's a big difference, it's like a look and don't touch kind of thing. I would rather look at these cartoon animals with huge hyper parts, but that doesn't mean that I wish they were real and right in my room. Unlike a lot of other people I do not fantasize about these things existing, I KNOW they aren't real. Yes I think about hyper stuff a lot, but only in fantasy and not even interacting with me but other hyper characters.
Being free from this "requirement" of having sex is actually pretty nice really. I mean think about it for a second, doesn't it seem like people are pressured into having sex? So in turn they become like Brian Grifon from Family Guy, instead of waiting for the right person you say screw it and just find a sexy babe with the IQ of a brick to bang. And this is all because a lot of people seem to feel that they are required to have sex, and simply cannot wait. Yeah, nothing like adding yet another kid to this already overpopulated world with dwindling resources.
Anyway, just wanted to share. I know I have talked about it before, but I thought I would give more detail on it.
I don't even insert or project myself into any of these fantasies, ever, doesn't happen.
Oh, well even a valid one. :P
Not to be confused with sexual attraction to automobiles.
My imagination is pretty much good enough for me, ho ho.
When really, it's just another case of a meeting of sensitive flesh.
Not that I personally know or care to seek out. :P
Viva La Imagination!
This is a correct term in biology and others are throwing it around like it means something else. Are you really asexual or are you non-sexual
Besides I know of other things we can do together for fun, like Kirby's Air Ride.
...It's confusing, it gives me a migraine, but I do understand.
I'm in to girls and guys but in a non sexual way, I'm a "lets be friends" type of guy.
(dont like being touched irl)
I'll just leave all sexual activites to the world of fantasy.
"Guess who got laid last night? This guy!"
Plus all the stuff you bring up about being pressured to do it. I hate this and yet I see it everywhere. Yeah...
In all honesty, everyone has their likes and dislikes. If you don't want to have sex, then by all means, do that. Emotional attachments are still as profound, arguably moreso, as physical attachments. Don't let anyone tell you you're wrong for liking this, because in this world of infinite possibilities, there is no 'wrong'.
Well if the right person comes along I'll try it. Funny thing is though, I was never into hyper and other crazy things. The reason being that I DO fantasize about things. I admit it. So yes, I need to try it at least once with a guy. Also, I'm very attracted to the idea of giving pleasure over just getting it. I'm what you might call a uke but at the same time I'm not feminine. I dunno, this is a strange time in my life. Like I said, I need to try it with a guy before anything else. From that I might learn some things about myself, hopefully.
I swear I get REALLY goddamn horny at night for some reason. It's so strange, like It'd be too awkward for me to even kiss someone during the day but at night it's just...the complete opposite!
Thank you so much for listening to me I really appreciate it. ^^
And no problem, I may not have all the answers that some people may seek, but I will at least listen.