Yeah, I don't consider myself a yiff RPer but so many furs in the fandom just think that yiff is a part of the fandom and that's what it's all about. I don't give a damn about yiffing or anything like that. They don't read the fine print. I see the fandom as a bit more of a social network and cons are just means to gather a whole bunch of people together.

Anyway, point being that those idiots who are only looking to you for yiffing should probably go somewhere else because I am not gonna deal with them. Good call that you're making right here.

It's just getting highly irritating lately within the fandom. I want to be their friends trust me. I do. I dont lead anybody on, they leave themselves on saying, "you're cute" etc. I know I am, but god really escalating to a point where you try to exceed the yiffing part? I mean seriously? and not referring "you" as in yourself I mean others who PM in my inbox xD

Hahaha, yeah. I got some of those weird notes in my inbox as well like, "Hey you're cute. You RP?" And people just don't read that I'm just not looking for a relationship right now because I know with my reputation and stuff, people will just go crazy over me. I kindly told them that I wasn't interested and they backed off. Still can't be too careful in FA. It's full of crazies and stuff :P.

They probably either have a wild fantasy about ya and try to see if they can score some action from ya or they just don't care really.

I mean, I can clear as day see your icon stating you not yiffy. I know and respect your decision.

I guess.. x.x.. its been emotionally draining thus far.

Well, your sending them a message though by blocking them so it's progress.

im always hitting on you though

but that's just all playful banter though not actually serious, besides you're a long term friend. I'm talking about random ones .-.

*nod nods*

I understand.

Which is understandable, and what's stupid is people don't even look at the commission information, that's the sad part once you do draw. I don't know why people can't read on commission information as well, it PURELY says right there in the info. I find that stupid trying to ruin other artists reputation for no apparent reason just because you don't want to draw said preferences towards others, and I respect your commission information, that's why it's there for, for others to learn about what they don't draw and do draw, if they don't draw it move onto another artists WHO does draws that stuff. You can't force an artist to draw something that they feel uncomfortable with. It's kinda ironic really. This what's upsets me about the fandom too as well. There are do's and don'ts on commissioning an artist, always respect that information so he or she can have the aligebility to actually draw their characters, what's also funny is when people bring about background information towards their character as well. That's cool and all, but I'm sure the artist doesn't care about what the characters background information is unless you're doing a reference for them.

Sorry xD rannnnnnnnnnnt.

Oh I hear you, on the "loaner" part, it's sorta annoying. I tend to make mine as unique as possible to be honest. If I find something similair I do get disappointed then start over making my sona, though I tie my background with his background. So in theory that is "somewhat" unique, because what he does, I do. I like how you are comparing it to a female and male aspect. You're correct, I'm starting to see that trend as well. I do have an F-List, but that's for only close friends to see, not just random people. Lol.

WELP. MY B :P

>.> there's a difference between getting too know someone before intercourse..

<3

I hear ya Randal you just gotta tell them to fuck off pretty much, set them straight that your not wanting it, like everyone else is saying it is good your getting messages out to these so called furs that like to yiff their fucking brains out. I mean me, lets be honest at a human point it is are natural instinct to have feeling about someone we like, but not " oh lets get it on!" no it is not like that, but no I do not consider them furries if they are just into it for the yiff because like someone said, they don't look at the actual factor or reasons of being a furry really truly is, instead they are like " Oh hey!! Wanna yiff? " But I do not consider them furries but just perverts. And anybody who thinks otherwise about this comment well I just have to say I don't care send hate mail all you want, your just weakening yourself in the end. Well to my conclusion I hope the best for you Randal and hope to see and meet at MFF if you are going.