Have you ever been in a relationship that wasnt good for you
12 years ago
Have you ever been in a relationship that wasnt good for you? How did it start? why did you stay in it (for the money? the sex? the company)? What eventually happened between you two?
It started very happily.
He chased me down and just kept coming after me till I gave in.
I stayed because I didn't see all the bad that was happening honestly.
But after it was over I realize no one should be threatened or cry every day of there life.
You?
It started very happily.
We met online through a dating site and moved in together three months later
I stayed because I still loved him and would have been wrong to leave someone who couldn't take care of themselves properly.
But after he passed away, I went through numerous emotions, raging, crying, etc before finally accepting the fact that nothing I could have done differently in the past would have prevented his passing.
Had to cancel my flights there and back, had to cancel the con I was going to...Lost a bit of money too, even though he paid me back for the con, to take the girl, I still lost money, as the Euro was worth less than when I paid for the con...
I lost who I thought was my best friend, and hopefully mate at some point too. He made me happier than anything, when I was around him, but now I know the past year was just all a lie, a web of lies, strung together with broken promises and backstabbing.
The first one was my first relationship and it was with a girl/woman and she was nice and pleasant on the surface,but once I got to know her better I learned that she was cheating on me with another guy.She had the nerve to ignore that happened and I foolishly believed her and after I gave her several gift she said thet she had never had any feelings for me at all.
The second one was also my second relationship and by this time I'd come to realize I was gay so I was dating a guy.And it was fun at the beginning and I stayed in for awhile because I didn't want to have a repeat of my first relationship,but eventually the guy I was with told me the real reason he wanted to date me.And that reason was all he wanted was sex just for himself he didn't give a care about me so I ended it.