Gay Rights in Russia
12 years ago
Russia is currently drafting a bill that will deprive gay couples of parental rights, and incur huge fines for gay propaganda. If you'd like to help LGBT couples and individuals in Russia, there's a petition you can sign. It'll take a few minutes out of your day to get an account. . . it's worth doing.
https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/pe.....-anti/1Mkcg2vK
https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/pe.....-anti/1Mkcg2vK
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Nationalities don't change the fact that we're all people, and in an interconnected world, the policies set by one nation can easily have spillover into others.
Saying 'It's not our problem' doesn't do anything but hurt you in the future when it does become your problem.
The last time we didn't mind our own business to any significant degree and didn't respect the rights of another country, we had Vietnam. People have a right to self-determinate.
I feel we have a right to make a comment politically, which is a far cry from invasion and hardly shows as a blip as interference with self determination.
It also happens I missed a few key points because I skim.
And yes, i feel you did miss a few key points. *grins* Still, busy thread though! congrats on that ;)
There's a ton of abuse in these "laws" too. One of the most recent gruesome deaths of a gay man involved him coming out, then his peers beat him and shoved beat bottles up his anus. This man died. A lot of others have died. It's also technically a human rights violation to be passing laws against certain types of people.
Russia is also supporting a lot of religious newly instituted laws, so seperation of church and state is progressively going to be non existent.
But it's just.. People are getting hurt, the "not my problem" or the "it's their country not mine" thing is complete bullshit. People are being beaten in the streets and killed for their sexuality.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
All men are created equal: Though at the time this meant White males owning property, It now means All[i] men, no matter nationality, race, religion, or [i]sexuality, are equal, they deserve equal rights under the laws of the government.
that they are endowed by their Creator ... Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Hapiness: This is timeless and it's meaning does not change over time. We all have the right to live happy, free lives. That means that everyone should have the right to pursue what makes them happy (within reason). That they should be able to do so within the law of the government and to live happily so long as they obey the just laws set by their government.
This document may be at the center of American History, but its central Ideals are what matter here. It's basically telling us what no Bible-thumping man wants to hear: LGBT have the same rights as straights. If our government--or any government--wishes to ignore these rights it is not just our right but our duty to act upon their tyranny and either abolish laws that take away rights or abolish the government instituting said laws. This petition is but a blip on the political interference radar. It's nothing to worry about. It's not like we are helping start a revolution in Russia, we're just supporting our fellow humans during their time of struggle against their government
Look, like I keep saying: if a government is going to change, it has to be the people under it. Despite the fact the Declaration of Independence is meant to speak for all men everywhere, the Russians are under NO protections from it and the documents related to it. You can speak about the rights of people all you like, but as long as the people let this totalitarian regime continue to oppress them, OUR input won't mean spit.
Idealism isn't what changes countries, it's the will of the people. It takes people WANTING change. And it's NOT your duty to interfere with the rights of another country to self-determinate; hell, it's not even a right. This is the reason that Starfleet has a Prime Directive in Star Trek: it's not one group's place to interfere with the cultural and societal development of another. If we have a problem with their behaviors, we cut trade and step away, but we don't act like we know what's better for their country, whether or not it would be. You have every right to express yourself; Russia also has every right to ignore you as well.
Seriously, if Russia wants to do this, they have every right to. We also have every right to stop trade and interaction with them. If they want to keep playing with the big boys, they'll get their shit in line. Or they won't and will start another war. Either way, we have no right to interfere with their political process. Not until they and we are under the same rules and government, anyway.
See, this is what I don't get: I'm not saying that I don't have sympathy for the gay Russians being oppressed, I'm not saying Russia doing this is RIGHT. I'm just saying it's within their rights as a government to do, and if the people don't like it, they need to get a new government. No amount of bitching from bleeding-heart Americans is going to affect the Russian government, and it's really not worth the time spent to try and influence them. If you want to, go ahead. It's just not going to move them.
Wait until they decide they've had enough. THEN put all your support behind them.
If you want to help the Russian Gays, then don't sign their petition. Pay attention to what Yamato is saying. Someone should start a petition to the American government and other governments who control major trade and ask them to cut ties with Russia until such time as the bill in question is dropped.
I live in Russia, I know it from inside, and I'm telling you that no petitions or peaceful/agressive/whatever meetings and demonstrations never change anything here, no matter how many people participate. It's like every other month russian government pushes through some bullshit law, and there's always thousands of disgruntled citizens in the streets carrying banners and signing petitions against them. What does our goverment do about that? Simple! Put a couple dozen demonstrants in jail for hooliganism, so the others calm down and go home...
They want to issue the law - they make it so. And I'm afraid that this whole petition thing is futile, sorry.
I mean whats the problem with people helping some else from another country. like is there REALLY anything wrong with it other then "YOUR A FOREIGNER?
and if they had a petition to ban the banning of gay marriage I would be fine with that petition.
most of us wouldn't like a petition for making a dominate religion, even if it did come from the US or Russia. it all depends on what the petition is about
as for the getting involved part. I think we should at least to a certain extent with out taking over the government.
It has been said that "humanity and democracy [were] two principles essentially irrelevant to the original Westphalian order" and that "the principle of sovereignty it relied on also produced the basis for rivalry, not community of states; exclusion, not integration." (NATO Secretary-General Javier Solana). If this is the case then one can think after the past 400 years through various treaties, laws, agreements, policies and other works of political nature we are at a position in our world wide political process to be able to make commentary on what we feel is right, in our eyes, to our neighbors who we respect, in order to keep them from making what we feel is both a mistake and a tragedy in the eyes of modern rights to humanity.
Just my 2c..
Dude, I cant remember too well, But I had read, and later heard on the news that a group of Brits sent a petition to some midwestern country that polls suggested was going to vote for I think it was Kerry, but it may have been Clinton. This petition was urging them to vote for the democrat candidate, and then the state voted more red than a school buss fire.
Do you have any idea the amount of times I mentioned I had the sniffles and a Canadian rubbed in my face Canadians had free healthcare, and that America didn't due to incompetence/corruption/this-that-and-the-other?
Some solidarity with a disenfranchised minority isn't sticking our nose where it doesn't belong. Not by a long shot.
And would you all be this worked up if it were, say, Muslims being oppressed instead of gays? Because I feel like it's majorly motivated by it not only being a disenfranchised minority, but because they see people like themselves suffering. I don't think there's as much "good will" here as much as "that could be me".
What has me worked up is the attitude that just because you don't happen to reside in a country, you have no right to have an opinion or show verbal or emotional solidarity with a group being oppressed there. Sovereignty only means a neighbor doesn't have the right to go into another's yard and beat them to the point of death because they witnessed them strike their own child. It does not mean you can't lean on the fence, gaze over the top, glare at the abuser, and go, "I see what you're doing, you gigantic asshole. And I don't approve of it."
And then maybe the abuser will notice the people around their other fenced borders or even looking on from down the road with a scowling face. People whom the abuser trades with, groups with, collaborates with. And they'll know amongst their friends, they're considered a shithead. They'll know amongst their community, they may not get the best deals from a neighbor's shop, out of contention on this issue.
America ships aid to other nations that've suffered quakes, floods, typhoons, and yes, even ethnic or cultural violence or genocide. And we're not above saying "I see what you DID THERE" when somebody needs to know they're getting the stink eye.
Until it does.
It is not about American imposing our will upon Russians. It is about Human rights. Now I agree that In America, we have much work to do in regard to Human rights, but Last week on June 11th, the lower House of the Federal Assembly, unanimously passed a bill that makes the “promotion” of homosexuality to anyone under 18 illegal. it is now forbidden to tell anyone under 18, that gay people exist. When your President signs that bill into law, Acknowledging the truth to the people that need it most will be a punishable offense.
Now, America has not always been gay friendly. we have had and still do have fucked up views about sexuality. We are arguing right now on the very right to marry and have lives like our heterosecual counterparts. But even though we never had such a law, worded in such a way, but laws we DID have made the dark ages of being gay here... a nightmare. I believe that the AIDS pandemic in this country went hand in hand to our views about homosexualiy in the 80's , and the new infection rates are STILL related.
Today, despite all the progress we have made in gender equality and gay rights, a gay teen is up to THREE times more likely to commit suicide than a heterosexual counterpart. With the laws basically blinding youth to the existence of others like them, and forcing conformity to an ideal, that may not be true for the individual, I shudder to think of what Russian Youth deals with.
When your government passed this bill Anti-gay violence broke out instantly in Moscow.
"During the melee, an unidentified Duma official from the Communist Party approached and shook hands with a policeman saying ‘So are you guys ramping up the pressure on these faggots? Beat them up well! Cut their balls off!,’” said Versha Sharma at Vocativ .
This is not about religion, morals, or a country's sovereignty... all of which are sacred. It is about human rights, which should be protected. It is about justice which should be upheld regardless of where injustice hides. It is about the children, and young adults who dying because they are made to feel that they are less than human .
It is for these reasons that I respectfully disagree with your assessment. The world is no longer so divided that what you do within your country's borders does not affect or influence millions of others around the globe.
And the sad thing is that, I truly don't like being political, especially internationally
It is just one man's opinion.
thank you.
http://www.un.org/en/documents/udhr/
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So gay rights in Russia is a more pressing issue that other human rights violations such as legal drone strikes on US citizens without Judge consent?
Im sorry but I just cant get past this obsession with gay rights in general. If youre a US citizen, go for your states gay rights man. if not, then just focus on more important things please.
And if there isnt something more important than this to you... I just dont even... know what to say.
I just feel very strongly on this because I don't like other countries trying to tell us how we should run our country, and to me, respect goes both ways.
You know at one time, killing blacks was fair game, enslaving other humans was okay... killing jews was okay... these were all crimes against humanity..
But I am curious to wonder, what exactly makes a crime against humanity in your book?
I am sorry you don't know these things about your own nation,
This will be the last time I respond to one of your messages. I find you odious. small minded, ignorant, and uneducated.
http://rt.com/news/man-killed-homop.....ia-russia-198/
Or are you gonna think of another bigoted excuse to make this a "non-gay-issue" or pin blame on the innocent victim that had his head crushed with a 20kg rock before he was anally assaulted with beer bottles?
Also, countries sticking their noses into other countries' businesses is what global politics are all about. And I don't mean it like giving direct orders and assuming the other country will obey, but express opinion, and maybe inform the other country that, for example, if they allow violation of human rights they will stop doing business with them, or restrict it.
That is just an example, I'm very tongue-tied on this matter, I know very little political jargon in english. :/
Global media attention alone is a pretty big opinion leader on itself, and while any and all of the several petitions and probable (?) protests in Russia against that bill may fail to stop it, it will still make it weaker and _hopefully_ give more power to those politicians who are against that bill over there.
I completely agree that there are many issues where other countries have no buisness meddling with others, but also as someone else previously stated, there is no such thing as a fully self governing country, they are all aftected and react as the greater world changes and reacts around them.
Would you believe the government had the right to tell you likewise? Presumably not?
What if the government had the consent of the majority to rule against you? No? And if not, is it because you are a citizen of the government that's telling you you can't? Or do you say Yes, because you are in the minority?
As for people who have a different culture... I believe a difference in culture can make a difference in how people RESPOND to repealing fines against people for promoting homosexuality, but it doesn't make a difference in the health of the individual who wants to be free. What I am saying is, it's universally true that, if homosexuals are not afraid to come out of the closet, and are not punished for encouraging people to come out, they will live healthier lives. If a homosexual in Russia wants to seek counseling for the pressure against them, they should be able to. Fines against people for "spreading homosexual propoganda" prevents this. If you think the culture of Russia would somehow change this, why?
See, I'm not sure if this is a result of you "rushing things", but what I objected to is you telling me that any attempt to involve myself, or support any agitation against the government in the name of respecting national sovereignty is unfair to the people of the country. Would you tell me I was being unfair to a LGBT person in Russia who would agree with me on this if I, for instance.. send them money? What if I decided to financially support the Pussy Rioters, or Femen (not that I really want to)? They're being repressed, and I don't think you have to be a psychology major or even be an expert on Russian culture to know that a repressed homosexual is going to be miserable. I want to give my support, because I can't even handle the homophobia in MY OWN country. And I live in fucking New York, of all places! I have a family who is tolerant of my sexuality, I have a wonderful boyfriend (that is 3,000 miles away, but hey), and I still hear occasional horrible things at work like "Homosexuals play with fecal matter". I've dealt with a fair bit of homophobia in my life, and I'm a mild case by far. I would still want to hear some encouraging words from a Swedish person to agitate in my own country.
You only can do worse. It's where you totally wrong.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uganda.....sexuality_Bill
The statements of "it's not fair to gays" combined with "it's also not any sort of mistreatment of humanity", suggests that you don't believe gay people to be human.
I'm hoping you misspoke, which is a simple enough mistake for anyone to make.
Basically, that I don't think you said what you meant to say and that part of the difficulty you might be receiving here is due to mis-communication issues and that you might want to consider the words you type to make sure you cannot be misinterpreted. Or well, best as you can.
And America isn't stepping in and making laws. It's a petition. It's basically a scrap that says "Hey, um, what you're doing isn't really okay, so maybe we should take this into consideration to talk it over more?"
Seriously, you're making a huge deal out of this. I'm pretty sure your views would be different if instead of "anti-homosexual", it was "anti-negro". There would be a huge flip and scream of "DAS RACIST. HUMAN RIGHTS" from basically everywhere. Really, just because your country wants something, that doesn't mean it's okay or correct. At all. Russia is in violation of quite a few human rights. And the whole thing where other countries can't or shouldn't influence other countries? I really don't think you understand global politics and the UN at all then because that is pRETTY MUCH EXACTLY WHAT IN IS. Countries coming together and voicing opinions on matters, and affecting eachother's ways of life for (usually) the better.
As a Bulgarian, I am usually very prideful of my country and our sister country Russia, but after this, I am extremely dissapointed, especially with the religios laws being enacted, I just.. This is horrendous.
Uh, yeah, both countries are being a little bitch when it comes to the Cold War, but they still cooperate from time to time. It doesn't mean they'd smack the shit out of one another in the middle of conference. You don't need to be best friends with someone to be able to collaborate and listen to eachother. And in fact, they are on better terms if they can cooperate.
Regardless, I've already mentioned I came into this with some misunderstandings on the discussion, so...yeah.
So on those same grounds, America should not respond to a nuclear threat from say, Iran or North Korea because they are just voicing their opinions about us using a different medium of communication instead of their voices. I guess we don't need those idiots in the military, national guard, department of defense, or national security. Hell, lets just all leave our door unlocked at night. The reason one country voices their opinion to another counter (sometimes more violently than others) is to make a statement. "We are STILl HERE! WE CARE about what you are doing!" It does not matter if the country listens, what is more important is this: Other countries take notice. Countries that may have threats we don't know about may look at it and say "Oh SHIT, maybe we shouldn't do that", others might look at it and recognize that that country is interested in being a world power. I am an American, I am proud of the country I live in, not the idiots who run it. I don't give two shits whether or not North Korea de-weaponizes or not. I just pray that when the time comes, America as a nation and as a people will be ready to stand up for not only our rights, but the rights of others. I know a lot of veterans from many different theaters of combat. One of them (recently deployed) told me once that the difference between an AMERICAN soldier and an insurgent was that the AMERICAN soldier was the one who protected the foreign citizen with their OWN BODY! Americans DIE for some faceless person they probably never met before! THAT IS TRUE PATRIOTISM! That is why we as a nation act the way we do! America is a world super power. That means we must take the strong stance. To do otherwise is to show weakness. When a country apologizes for mistakes of the past shows signs of weakness. Go read hamlet. It is the perfect example of this. Sometimes the best you can do is take the fighting stance and stare the other person down till he backs off. I do not pray for war. I do not wish to see people put in harms way. But countries have the right to voice their opinions the same way you have yours. You have put over and over that you did not read all the way through. Maybe that should be the first thing you do before commenting about someones post.
Thank you, have a nice day.
Either way, I was not trying to insinuate America is superior to anyone; if you got that, you misunderstand what I'm trying to say. Sorry. *shrugs*
But still, if it somehow is a super=power state, shouldn't it be treated with respect rather then anticipation AND constant trying to apply Western morality and social norms here? I don't see Russia dictate morality to US or even Europe... (Well, it did in the past, - but that was not just Russia, but the Soviet Union, and THAT was a Superpower: respected and feared throughout the World)
Russian Federation now lacks economic, (especially) industrial, scientific/technological, socio-culture and even (conventional) military strength of the Soviets to affect anything beyond it's sphere of influence, which lies not further over former Sov-Republics (Not even all of them). That's the nasty truth...
..But still, if you do believe our people deserve respect of, say, Great/Regional power ans should be threated like it, the question remains - why you're trying to force Western liberal ideology, morality and social norms into this country? It's not like we're trying to force our ideas and norms anywhere else anymore.
I direct you back to the scientific ans statistical data. It is not just a western ideology. It is a fact that homosexual youth is at a greater risk of death, be it from suicide or disease, than their heterosexual counterparts. Publicly outlawing homosexuality - which since minors are everywhere this legislation does, only sentences vulnerable youth to a fate that no child should face.
and again- government sanctioned beatings of homosexuals is barbarism. It is a human rights issue, and in the face of that kind of injustice, national boundaries are meaningless.
and the sad thing is that during two world wars your country believed that. what is so different now?
A) Enormous territory loss with all of it's resources, people, and, what's more important, industrial base. Since the fall of the Soviet Union, Russia lost like 35% of it's former territories, not less then 40-45% of it's industry and vital infrastructure, and - more than a half (!) of the overall population. Imagine US losing Texas, California, Arizona, New Mexico and Nevada - and that's not even a case, 'cause at least 3/4 of population stays in hat's left. Russia never (and I mean, EVER) lost as many territories and people, if not mention the Kievan Rus ('cause modern Russia is pretty much based on Moscovia rather then Kievans). And even then, you know, it took 350+ years for the Rus' just to reintegrate itself after the Mongol invasion... If we count loses of today, the situation is pretty much equal in terms.
B) In the past times, the Government was, first of all, actually interested (if not obsessed) in defending this country's Superpower status and our dominance in the Eastern hemisphere. The Government of nowadays seemingly only interested in respective stability and their own (and their family) wealth. Nobody "up there" does consider another race for dominance as something that needs to be achieved. Actually it looks like they fell themselves better without enormous responsibilities of the Global power. Well, they like to talk about "good old times" and "future prospects", but on the other hand nobody would take those responsibilities personally, like the leaders of the past did.
C) Most important, there's no Ideology, no national Idea behind the whole thing. What we have today is a ridiculous and bizzare mix of western liberal democracy, Imperial Russia's state capitalism, "popularized" orthodox Christianity and some Soviet nostalgia. But most of it gets down to quite egoistic ideology of individual prosper over any odds, which means wealth now is more important for the people then their country, their morales, their religion and even (in most cases) their friends and so on. Soviet Union was created upon lives of millions, who died just to keep up with the other World (and to made it on the top of it), paying the ultimate price to correct mistakes of degraded Imperials. It seems that today no one will accept that price to make the country strong again...
...And about the Rights question. You right that the State should protect those people from beatings and other aggressive acts, but I do believe that those people on their behalf could at least don't express their, well, decease (or genetic alteration if "decease" sounds offensive) to the public, right? Somehow I don't see parades of people with Kearns-Sayre or Pearson syndromes.. Also I don't see those people opressed - maybe because the others consider them, you know, victims. Probably if gay society accepted such an image it would be much easier to tolerate it, but what we got (at least in this country) is demands to accept them like they are and that they are normal just like everyone else without any alterations. Gay people seems to not be neither ashamed nor they regret being such (Also what leads to some not well educated people to assume that it's a choice rather then genetic alteration), thus ruining the "victim" image, enraging the masses.
I do believe that the right policy on such would be a "don't ask - don't tell" policy: The State protects private life of gay/lesbian/etc people and severely punishes orientation-related crimes, but on the other hand the State doesn't allow such people to express their nature in public. You know, many people are disgusted by it, and just many, but TOO many. Doesn't it like the democracy works - the individual freedom ends where it breaks other individuals freedoms?..
Because Russia lost a metric fuckton of lands and people in Eastern Europe that was taken and held with a great deal of oppressive force, and your Economy basically sucks, Homosexuals are deviants and genetic freaks, who should hide their diseased behavior- because being gay in the dark is the only acceptable way?
Let me ask you... Do you out law Straight / Heterosexual couples from being in the open? No you put that up as normal and the Ideal- when truthfully, being homosexual is no different. The religious argument is straight bullshit. so what are you left with? Certainly not SCIENCE... well because, you know, that's a thing... and all around you the scientific evidence is there. Why must the LGBT community be viewed as victims? We are not, We exist and have the right to be recognized just like any one else.
Why should gays Regret being who they are? do heterosexulas regret who they are? Do Straight people flaunt their sexuality? why yes they do! if you are going to believe in DADT - then NO one should at ANYTIME EXPRESS any Sexual Attraction to ANYONE. then it would be equal.
Take it From experience that A Don't ask Don't Tell attitude fails, because there is no privacy. Someone WILL find out and when they do, the Outed person will be ruined in this utopia you are fantasizing about.
Oh yeah, and what about those young people that feel that there is no alternative to being different than suicide? Oh but you don't care about the suffering of others as long as they are Heterosexual.
Right?
And I've rights to have enough food and clear sky above me not roaring with bombers' engines.
Russian funny story:
British lord asks his servant:
- What's the noise outside?
- Homosexual demonstration sir.
- What they want?
- Same-sex love sir.
- Anobody is forbiding them?
- No sir.
- Then why they cry?
- Faggots sir.
And don't tell Russians about democracy they usually use other word which is 1 sound different in pronunciation but far more accurate in meaning. In English would be something like "shitcracy".
We think that all this crisis in Greece was sent to them as punishment because they invented the democracy.
Why should I care?
It's not like it's suddenly none of my business if people are being jailed in Russia. The reason it's my business in the USA isn't because I'm an American citizen, it's because I'm a sapient being with basic ethical standards, and those standards include LGBT+ rights. I will quite happily interfere in other nations by signing petitions, promoting boycotts, and generally doing the things I would usually do. I won't support, say, fraudulently going in and interfering with elections, or doing half the stuff that the USA did in the Cold War because it tends to all go to hell and I'm pretty sure there is actually a slippery slope there.
And frankly, I don't mind if other countries hit the USA with the cluebat a few times, whether it's regarding environmental protections, economics, foreign policy, LGBT+ rights, or anything else.
Worse, this bill will basically make it so you can't even argue that it should be a big enough issue for Russians, because they'll get arrested. Political protest against homophobic laws will get you fined. By making this law, Russia makes it a lot harder to repeal any homophobic laws in the future.
And don't forget 100500 bombed countries. The world hates USA.
I tell you as the man who spent really many time for Soviet history the best years of USSR are 1939-1941 and 1950s despite any propaganda bullsit you read in American history book.
So please don't tell about "universal values" for other people they may be not so universal.
Sure, the USA has done some nasty things. Such as torture, assassinations, rigging elections, etc; I'm not denying that. But I prefer to have evidence before making conclusions like that.
This remains the assasination of Ben-Laden. Any special forces would try to capture so important person alive even if they would've more losses. But BOOOM and the corpse somewhere in the ocean.
Or all this international terrorism is nothing more than fiction and Ben-Laden is just a character in this show. But we all know that it's only a conspirancy. ;)
Now in light of recent history, I'm still unsure of the outcome. Is it better or worst then what we had?? Good question...
Some years ago it all looked pretty simple. Iraq was bombed out because of oil. Now American and Western politics looks more like schizophrenia. Years in Afghanistan without any result. Al-Caida, democracy? They want your democracy as much as Soviet socialism. Billions spent for Iraq and it's not like there was any real profit.
The only way a democracy can work is if people are educated. Trying to instigate democracy in an uneducated country is just doom to fail. That is why it will not work in Afghanistan. They will just fall right back to a religious state rule under religious thug.
BTW you are in a social democracy. Democracy is just a term that say that the people are voting for the politician and have a little input in the decision of the state base on that. So yea since 1993 you live in a democracy my friend. :-P
The us has a Representative democracy. If you want to know the difference just look it up
>So yea since 1993 you live in a democracy my friend.
Oh sure thing! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1993_R.....utional_crisis
And 1996 election. No one deny that it was falsified.
>The only way a democracy can work is if people are educated. Trying to instigate democracy in an uneducated country is just doom to fail. That is why it will not work in Afghanistan. They will just fall right back to a religious state rule under religious thug.
Sure thing. But I'm afraid that USA government really believe in all this shit.
Well I'm not saying that democracy are fool proof, I'm just saying that it's the system you are living in right now. Democracy is just a kind of system. And yea all the rest of the world knows that those election were a fraud.
Hummm IMO they know damn well what will happen but they don't want to put another dime into that place knowing it will never have any value. You have to know that this is one of the few exception were the American took control without any hope of return on the investment. They usually never do things for nothings.
And, the U.S. is fully within it's rights to exude any foreign nationals it so desires to exclude.
Which is not to say that I agree with your position on national sovereignty anyway. Fundamental to the idea of human rights is that they are inalienable, and that the "tyranny of the majority" should not overrule them. And it is this form of majority prejudice that makes Russia's gay community so vulnerable to violence and political repression. In Russia, over 70% of the population believe that homosexuality should not be tolerated, a percentage that is rising. Does this mean that we should just let Russia's government do anything it wants to those people? Without international pressure, the LGBT people of Russia are, essentially, completely helpless. Not only are they politically powerless, but the Russian government is working to make advocating for change a criminal act. Our governments can, and should, make it clear that we disapprove of such persecution.
Bloody hell >__>
It's ridiculous and I am fed up with it. I want to have it fixed, not just here but also in the rest of the world.
But what do I know? My opinion sucks, so I clearly have no right to it. I ought to just bow down to yours, because it's clearly better.
As for your opinion... I just think your approach is all wrong. Why exactly shouldn't we care about what happens in other countries? Why shouldn't I care about people being treated horribly in other countries?
We're not in the god-damn middle ages anymore, we're evolving human beings who should have a bit of fucking sense between their ears after centuries of bigotry. If we can bit a complex super-computer into a chip the size of a raisin, then we can handle something as simple as human equality. It's not a matter of "respecting cultural differences", it's a matter of respecting the BASIC human right to equality--REGARDLESS of what country you're in.
Just my two cents, take 'em or leave 'em.
It's not right, it's not fair, I get that and agree. But we can't MAKE another country do what we want, and for America, it comes dangerously close to past American practices of interfering as well. Not to mention, human rights and scientific development are not by-definition hand-in-hand. We had planes and trains and the starts of computers before the Civil Rights Movement in America. I think this is a case of assuming correlation proves causality, since both social rights and technology has improved by leaps and bounds since the 1960s. But they aren't connected by-default. Japan STILL has heavy racism against non-Japanese, for example.
Look, my point before probably wasn't clear. No matter how much we try, it has to be the Russian people who stand up and take their rights. We can try and help them, but until they're ready to stand up to their government, things will not change. It sucks, but it's just kind of how it is.
Secondly, you're making this sound like a hostile political takeover, when it ISN'T. I'm not an American ,I'm a person with an OPINION. And one which I will voice loudly, proudly, and use it to beat people over the head with it with indignant ferocity if that's what it takes to herald in change.
This world is FUCKED, and it's going to STAY fucked, so long as everyone thinks they have to just stay within their own individual bubbles, and how DARE anyone else try and touch MY bubble. We can dice words all day about the due processes of different countries all day if we like, and that still doesn't change the fact that at the end of the day, the entire WORLD needs to move towards change, and not just fixate on their own biased agendas. It's not about what country has a right to do what, it's about HUMAN BEINGS (regardless of where they're from) having the right to be treated equally and fairly. And if it takes voices from other countries to unite and make that happen, then so fucking be it.
And you've got every right to express your opinion. But that doesn't mean the world is as simple as you're looking at it. I get where you're coming from, and I have sympathy for the gays suffering in Russia. But sometimes there's just nothing that can be done for the moment. I know you want to feel like you're accomplishing something, that's why you're shouting for Russia to stop doing it, but...sadly, it's not really gonna do anything for now. It can add up in the long run, but for now, you may have to accept that your actions won't mean much by themselves. These governments don't want the changes you're wanting right now, and it comes down to the people under that government to change it. Because just like with people changing themselves, changes to government and law has to come from within, or you can't be sure it'll stick.
Which leads us to the conclusion that the problem is not dependent on whether people believe in God or not. It's not actually a religious issue; religion's just yet another excuse people use to divide themselves into camps that despise each other.
Since I've got your attention, I'll say this: I strongly believe it is not only appropriate, but essential, to speak out against injustice and evil, and that every human has both the right and responsibility to do so.
(In fact I once wrote a blog post about pretty much this exact topic: http://footpad.livejournal.com/586533.html .)
So I think it is both legitimate and right to protest against the new Russian law. I don't even respect the moral right of the Russians to make that law, since I think it represents a tyranny of the majority over an innocent minority. Because we live in representative democracies, I also think it's legitimate to ask my representative (David Cameron) to tell the Russians' representative that that law is full of shit.
I also think it's the Russians' right to tell me that they think I'm wrong.
Eventually, hopefully, if we're all sensible people, we might just just come to sensible and humane conclusion. But that won't happen unless we talk about it. It sure as hell won't happen if we all pussyfoot around hiding our moral differences between some veil of politeness.
Anyway. Hug! *wag*
Conversely, people also do incredible, beautiful things in the name of religion. And also without it.
If anyone actually cites religion as a cause of either atrocity or greatness, then they're blinding themselves to the greater part of the picture. It's all people. Just people.
Because fuck that whole *call someone close-minded, then turn around- and be super close-minded* bullshit.
Sorry but other factors are at play here. Theres a homophobic sentiment running through the population that is unrelated to religious beliefs. Just like there is here. Just like in China... whose percentage of Christians is 7.5%. All of my non christian friends are also homophobes at least to a certain extent. In fact I would say that a large portion of those that support gay marriage even moderately may likely have some negative feelings about non-straight people, and simply do not express them, much as was the case with abolition of slavery and civil rights.
Sorry for the wall of text, but its something Ive been thinking about a lot lately.
That was my point. ;1
Sure, its a factor. It always somewhat is. but it is being over-estimated.
I agree. I just know however, that a lot of people who support gay rights unfortunately *do* think religion is all of the cause. And its frankly not. It serves as a justification for, not so much creator of, homophobia in my research. IE, those people would dislike gays with or without religion, but with religion, they also have a means to justify that dislike of gays.
http://rt.com/politics/sentences-fe.....insulting-557/
But anyways, if you're asking me - no, I don't believe that homophobia in Russia is necessarily motivated by religion only. I am aware of Communisms' history of oppressing them. I don't believe many atheists are under the impression that religion is necessary to be homophobic.
Also thats a relief to hear. Sadly Ive encountered a lot who do and it just frustrates me. And its not helping their efforts either, cause they want to hit target A and are for some reason convinced theyre hitting A when really theyre focusing on B.
Although admittedly with their record of human rights, I suspect it will.
Oh well, one more talking point for the west, I guess ... -_-
As I get older I've not change my view on that, quite the opposite, but looking around I can see that a lot of people that used to speak of themselves as being atheist are having great difficulty living with that idea that there is nothing after death. By definition, believing that there is something after death mean that you are somewhat religious, otherwise it does not make sense. Thus my predicted shift in Russia.
There has to be other factors are at play here. Theres a homophobic sentiment running through the population that is unrelated to religious beliefs. Just like there is here. Just like in China... whose percentage of Christians is 7.5%. All of my non christian friends are also homophobes at least to a certain extent. In fact I would say that a large portion of those that support gay marriage even moderately may likely have some negative feelings about non-straight people, and simply do not express them, much as was the case with abolition of slavery and civil rights.
Sorry for the wall of text, but its something Ive been thinking about a lot lately.
Homophobia musn't be deeply rooted in Russian society, I think it is just a convinient scape goat for a lot of people, a vent for them to take out their frustration about other things. The Orthodox church just fuels these sentiments with its rethoric. That's just how I see this.
The result is that while many non-religious people are homophobic, you don't see very many secular groups or organizations arguing against homosexuality. And conversely, while many of those who support LGBT rights (and many LGBT people) are religious, most of the organizations promoting LGBT rights are secular and not affiliated with any specific religious tradition.
The context in Russia, where gays are being used as a scapegoat by the regime, and in much of Asia, where cultural values discouraging open homosexuality are the norm, is somewhat different, but there IS a reason that people associate anti-gay sentiment with religion, even if it is not a reason that is valid in the context of every country.
But in the eyes of most pro gay supporters religion isnt just the biggest cause of homophobia, its THE cause of homophobia.
I recognize that neither are really true. As you stated, it may appear to be the case on the surface, so I suppose its understandable that some people get that impression, especially if they already have a distaste for religion in the first place. But honestly, the biggest factor religion plays in perpetuating homophobia is not so much the creation of it, but rather the justification of it.
my retort is simply this.
Being gay in Russia you're pretty much fucked.
I do not know much about russian politics or their social issues.
But its okay thats the tradition and what we believe in!
No...There are things that are morally gray that are up too individuals to make decisions on them. the Social Injustice of making life MUCH harder on somebody on something as arbitrary as their sexuality IS a social injustice and is WRONG!
Here is a quote from the United Nations charter
The United Nations shall promote: a) higher standards of living, full employment, and conditions of economic and social progress and development; b) solutions of international economic, social, health, and related problems; c) international cultural and educational cooperation; d) universal respect for, and observance of, human rights and fundamental freedoms for all without distinction as to race, sex, language, or religion.
I bolded the important part. just because it's something somebody believes in or a large group of people believe in doesn't make it ANY less wrong.
AND i might add its a good thing! We as a freaking species need to stop being so fucking walled up against one another due to being born somewhere different from somebody or worship a different god or look different!
We are all human beings and we are all natives to this wonderful little blue speck in space called earth.
I don't care if your born in Russia or Iran or France or Canada, If there are others within your country or whatever that want too put you down and treat you as second class citizens just because you are *Different* from the majority then i am going to do all within my power to stop those people from doing that!
My power might be as small as signing a petition but if thats all i'm capable in my current position in life then i'm going to freaking do it!
Oppressive laws that stop free speech and free association aren't respectful laws, they're tyranny, whether they're stopping the free association of homosexuals or dog-lovers or nazis or people who like dressing up a s superheroes or bronies or anything, anything at all that you find weird, silly, gross, or immoral. Laws exist to protect people's rights, not to trample on them, and I'm getting tired of the argument that any artificial construct, if it's big enough, automatically becomes "immune" to the "don't tell people what to do" clause in your moral codex. As long as those people aren't -hurting- anyone, stomping all over their ability to speak, to be heard, to be human is a violation of the Higher Law of basic human rights, of decency and kindness and respect and equality that you so desperately are trying to claim for your own.
Was Vietnam a debacle- yes, but it was the right thing to get Polpot out of power.
And Iraq had nothing to do with imposing america's will on anything. Hussein was A Bush family dog, put into power to secure an oil baron's interest. He got too big for his britches and was slapped down. it was strategized to keep Bush Jr in power for an additional 4 years.
Please don't confuse the international games we play for the real issues about human rights. We have much to answer for. but we are not always wrong.
Sometimes doing nothing is word that interfering and I believe a petition showing solidarity is a rather benign way to possibly enact true change.
Maybe it just shows humanity is at about the peak of where we can go. *shrugs* It happens, nothing can grow beyond its natural capacity, after all. Greece and Rome fell; if it's our time, I guess it's our time.
1. Enough food
2. Clothes
3. A place to live
4. Health care
5. Education
Now note, that I said from a technical point of view. Obviously not with the current political, economical or social systems we have in place. Purely from what our technology can do and I have a distinct feeling that we could do it with less damage to the enviroment than we do now.
Strange, isn't it? Anyone for human rights should be behind this. Most religions (as far as I know their holy texts) should be behind this. Strangely none of them seems to care.
>Strange, isn't it? Anyone for human rights should be behind this. Most religions (as far as I know their holy texts) should be behind this.
>Strangely none of them seems to care.
was pointed at all the human rights groups out there and any religion that has a part about helping the poor and sick in their scripture (which would be the Bible as well as the Qu'ran). Not at you in particular. Note to self: Be more clear nex time.
and that ended well right?
did you know it was law to sterilize these groups then as undesirables? Turning a blind eye is a step down a slippery slope,
Perhaps that was still possible as far back as the 17th century...
Each day with each technological advance we lose that. So yeah... there is that.
Al goed dat ik niet zeker was en ben door gewandeld, want ik had me ans serieus belachelijk gemaakt haha >D
Believe me, just... just believe me :3
За каждым резонансным законом следует тихий указ русских депутатов, что пагубно влияет на жизнь!
Россия суверенное государство и на любые петиции от иностранцев имеет полное суверенное право хуй ложить.
Вообще в СССР жили неплохо до Хруща с его "реформами", например, мелкий бизнес в виде кооперативов был отменен Хрущем в 1960-ом, хотя именно он тащил множество отраслей в которых государство малоэффективно. Отсюда и пресловутый дефицит с сортами колбасы.
Ленточки на самом деле неплохо. В США почему-то народ не стесняется вывешивать всюду флаги. Но у нас видать георгиевскую ленточку носить неприлично, зато трясти голыми жопами на гей-параде прилично.
2. Да как бэ Германия была на 2 части разделена, только вот вся Германия и 20 лет назад и сейчас живет гораздо лучше победителей. Депутатов и прочих жуликов не считаем.
1:) The average American just don't care about anything outside of the US boarder. If you ask a group of American on the corner of a street like in NY, were Russia is on a map, I bet half of them would not know. They will only care if it's something that touche there personal life. They also don't care what corporate America does abroad, as long as it does not touche them negatively in there personal life. In other word the American population is more defensive then protracting onto foreign mater. BTW most of them will never leave there country to travel abroad. It's not that they can't it's just that they wont.
2:) They have a very strange relationship with there patriotic sign. They love there flag and are protecting it with laws, but then they will willingly ware it on there ass. http://www.sodahead.com/topic/flag-clothing/ You have to remember that they have a very long history with free speech and it can go very far before one can get into trouble with the law. They can mock about the president or any elected official on TV if they wish, and nothing will come out of that except good laughing. They will gladly laugh at themselves and almost make it a national sport. Their government is among the least repressive on earth about people and there life. I don't think in Russia you have any idea what is like to really be free like an US citizen.
3:) Corporate America is very powerful, but have to obey by stringent laws within the US boarder, and are most of the time a good citizens. But when they are outside the US boarder that is were things go downhill. Unknown to most Americans, their country is having a double standard. One for how the company behavior inside the country and one on there behavior outside there country. So, corporate America can do almost what ever they want true out the world without any interference from there government. Worst there government will come to there rescue when they get into trouble. And most of the time those trouble are from things those companies did that would just be illegal within the US. That account for about 80% of the resentment that they have collected from the rest of the world in the past decade. Iran being a case a point.
4:) Although the US did not help USSR it was not the cause of its fall. I know that you guys like to blame the US for that but I would point you guys toward a solid and logical introspection of your old system. The old USSR fail because it was unsustainable and non viable on the long run period. So the demise of the USSR was cause by the USSR and it's people, not the US. I know you might not like that and prefer to blame the US but that is simply wishful thinking.
Hope it help clarify things...
*headdesks hard*
I honestly feel sorry for some here that feel rights of a country to behave how ever the wish with not outside word or pressure is above the most basic human rights...
2) Parents are the most important people for everybody and it's unpredictable how a child would grow in a "family" of homosexes. It's no matter if homosexualism is penal or disease the men and women are different phisically and mentally and it's a crime against nature to deny it.
3) I'm really tolerant and don't think it's a good thing to check who fucks whom but all this LGBT activity already produced a wave of hate. Just stay in your homes and fuck your asses as deep as you can. Face it already heterosexual population can tolerate you but you're not like us. It's simple fact. And it is nothing good about been homosex to show it on parades. So if you don't want to produce even more hate you better forget about petition.
You fight not for your rights you've all possible rights already but to make everybody like you. Even if you don't unerstand it but your final goal is society where are no men no women, no John and no Jack, no smart and no stupid, and the worst crime is to point to somebody's difference. The final stage of tolerance.
http://politobzor.net/show-1354-cht.....y-fashizm.html
Юридически мы никогда к этому не придём, мы ж не Европа)
To drive a car you need to pass a test and get licence, you are not given a licence because of your orientation or skin color, but for your SKILLS! So in such case there also should be exams for permission to be a parent. Because beaing hetro doesn't make you a better parent
You already contradict yourself. If all people I equal I should have tha very same rights to drive a car as F-1 champion.
So if you're heterosexual you should prove that you can raise the child. If you're homo you should simply shut up because nobody gives you rights to use children in such experiments. Homosexuality is a defect no matter if it penal or not and the society has rights to protects children from this. The wealthy society can establish any rules required for it's survival and homosexes MUST obey them. F. e. paedophilia is prohibited everywhere and even here on FA. From your logic it should be allowed because paedophilia is sexual deviation as homosexuality.
Lone mothers or lone fathers are pretty common and noone says to remove rights from them because everyone knows that lone person can also raise a child, even if mother or father is missing.
Do you now what is funny and unlogical? No matter if you adopt a child or have it in natural way, raising the child is the same thing. No matter how you "get" this child, raising is about the same. But if lone person wants to adopt, meets problems. But if lone woman gets pregnant, gives birth... noone cares that she is alone.
Lone woman making a decsion to adopt can be a better mother than lone woman that accidently got pregnant and probably didn't even want this child and won't care of it. So second option is better just because it was "natural"? Come on, it's an absurd.
I would really like to show you a community where you can find such stories, read them, and maybe understand that nothing, not even blood ties in a 'normal' family is safe because of 'what it is or isn't'. If you are open to the possibility of changing your mind, go a head and note me.
Here in the states, we see a LOT of really lazy, just completely awful parents who don't parent, who let their kids get away with murder, who think any adult strolling through a park or zoo that their kid crashes into is evil and will screech at them, etc, etc. You wonder just how many of these people really wanted kids and understood what they were getting into, and know that kids aren't just a mini-version of themselves, that they're individuals, have 18 years of growing, have needs, and some of those needs involving actually 'teaching' them things. You wonder how many of these parents actually care whether or not their offspring ends up successful or not. And we see many of these so-called parents attack teachers for not essentially raising their kids for them. But this is how it is in the US, your experience and chance of seeing such probably varies, and what I've seen from Russia, it seems like it would probably be an uncommon occurrence. So maybe all that wasn't helpful at all, but if you ever visit, beware the horrible parents who don't actually parent. x.x
See, I guess it's that I'm in dogs so much that I see what dog breeders say and I feel it rings true for gay parents. How a few have given dogs to people they thought they could trust...for free...only to have that dog end up in a shelter where the breeder has to go get it back, or the dog ends abused, unsocialized, ignored, given back to the breeder for silly absurd reasons. Yet, it rarely ever happens when people pay the appropriate price...and we're not talking a mere $300, but more along the lines of 1-3k. When people do the hoop jumping, when they give so much money for something they really, really want, it's harder for them to throw it away, and they try to work much harder to make it work. There are still people who have payed great sums of money for a dog to turn around and abused/ignore/return/give up/etc the dog, but it's much rarer. Yet people do it all the time in this country with cheap and free dogs. What does this have to do with gays having kids? The fact that gays have to go through a LOT of hoop jumping of various sorts in order to have a kid. This isn't a mere whim for them when they have a kid, it's not an 'oops, I'm pregnant, lol' situation which happens with straight couples. They have a LOT of time to think before hand, a lot of time to prepare, because even if everything is going right for an adoption, the birth mother could turn around and keep the get. I feel that many gay parents will try harder because it is hard, if not nearly impossible, for them to even first become parents. When people really, really, really want something, they try harder to make things happen, to make them work. There is no risk of gay parents having an oops and just dealing with it in the most lazy, horrible, awful fashion. Unless something weird happens like one of the couple fools around with someone just to make sure they are what they are or some other unusual circumstance. But on the whole, I think due to the hoop jumping, we'll have a lot less questionable gay parents than 'normal, straight' parents.
Unless if yourself and every friend of yours were raised by gay parents and you know the various stories and can prove that 100% of the time that 'abnormal' parents are horribly destructive, you really should be saying that it's your opinion, and not speak as if it's fact. Let those who are children of gay couples speak for themselves and tell us what's what, be they adopted or not. Here's just one example speaking from personal experience http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMLZO-sObzQ
Regardless, these type of negative views make me horribly sad. We are human, we are all capable of great good or great evil. No one group is without it's bad seeds. And sometimes, just maybe, the abnormal is not really the worst, and sometimes the normal is not really the best. There is no one right way, and to each their own. What ever floats your boat but doesn't sink it. Life and nature is flexible and ever changing. We are human, and we may be a great amount of instinct, but we can reason and see logic. We can change and adapt. We should seek to learn, not shut down. Because knowledge is power.
Я только сейчас нормально прочитал, чего ты тут понаписал. Ты, в принципе, дико прав, и это красивое мнение, но... Сколько новых законов попирает и Конституцию, и УК, и УПК... А ты про институт брака говоришь.
Конечно, он священенн, на него никто не посягает. А вот недоёбанные Мизулины на геев посягают! И это АТАТА!
А геи сами виноваты, общество их все равно никогда не примет, сидели бы и молчали, и не давали почву для ебанутых законов вроде "запрета пропаганды", которые или нельзя применить вообще, или можно применить абсолютно произвольно, настолько они размытые.
А за правильностью законов, насколько я понимаю, должен следить конституционный суд.
Ну и вообще, того же Э. Дж. с его партнером, которые, как известно, недавно стали папой и папой, я в принципе могу понять по человечески, но блин, что у них там вырастет, и какого потом будет этому ребенку, когда на вопрос, кто твои родители ему придется отвечать, что два пидараса.
По поводу мордобития, видал я всяких храбрецов, похожих на шофёра из операции "Ы" (-где этот чёртов инвалид? -Не шуми! я инвалид!) при встрече с настоящим гомосексуалистом теряют дар речи и всякую беспричинную агрессию.
Напоследок отмечу, что назвать гомика пидорасом - не самая безобидная ошибка.
Как резюме мне грустно, что страна живёт стаей беспризорных волчат, что ищут "под кого бы прогнуться чтобы он нам приказал о чём нам думать", в то же время готовые разорвать любого свободномыслящего на кусочки, просто от страха что он как-то изменит их жизнь (пусть даже в лу4шую сторону).
З.Ы. Никого лично не имел ввиду. Сам, про меж строк, двухсторонней ориентации.
Опятьже родители это далеко не самый первый пример в жизни современной молодёжи.
Конечно ясно, что гораздо больше неадекватных примеров. Но если говорить о неадекватности, половая модель уже теряет смысл. Например есть родители алкаши, ворюги(клиптоманы), психически отклонённые... итпд. И тем не менее у них тоже бывают нормальные дети.
я тебе могу сказать что я понял для себя. Родителей надо чтить и ко мнению окружающих прислушиваться... но обязательно имея своё "я", и небоясь показать его в лицо и родителям и всяким умникам. Вот тогда и на ориентации смотреть легче (даже не те, что ненравятся) и жизненную дорогу проходишь без лишних препятствий. А если слушать каждого... ну закончится всё тем, кто изречёт всемизвестное "убейсо ап стену", и придётся убиваться - не подводить же наставника
Thank you.
I may be wrong, but I understand you are female. If were were not permitted to work, because you were female how would you feel?
if because you were female, you were raped- and you were demonized for being raped and the man who raped you was celebrated - how would you feel.
yes i am comparing apples to oranges, but both are still fruit.
Your intolerance disturbs me madam.
And you know in case of war I would sent to fight like other males. Should I cry that this is discrimination like many other laws which put additional responsibility to males? Or should be males be males females be females and parents be mom and dad not parent 1 and parent 2? Write over 9000 petitions if you want but this wouldn't let women to have a dick.
even if parent 1 and parent 2 are there - they are parent 1 and parent 2. Having some parents is better than having none.
As for women having cocks, There are gays / lesbians in the animal kingdom - they seeme to do pretty alright. having one cock to one vag is not everything...
-shrug-
1) There is no valid case agaisnt prohibiting same sex couples from adopting. Even if you could argue that M/F is superior to M/M and F/F (which I don't believe, and which you have failed to support) , the reality is that adoptions centers have much worse pare. As for not telling you what to do in Russia, fuck you. I will tell you what to do, and I will financially support anyone who tries to make a change :)
2) I have no interest in "making everyone like me". I couldn't even if I tried. You have no idea what you're talking about. A parents job is only to nurture the child, provide for, and be there for them. A kid can never expect to learn everything only from their parents.
3) You contradict yourself when you say that we already have rights, then acknowledge that we can't adopt children.
But the society has rights too. For example it had rights to keep it's children far from homosex. And I would never tolerate if my child would be teached in school by open fag which comes to class looking like Elton John on concert.
Also, stop contradicting your earlier statement that "you are tolerant" when you say things like "And I would never tolerate if my child would be teached in school by open fag which comes to class looking like Elton John on concert."
I don't know if it's a language barrier, or you've just had a bit too much Grey Goose, but you should probably stop debating, because you're not getting it
It's not just a matter of keeping my relationship with my partner private. It's a matter of being able to say I HAVE a relationship with my partner. It's a matter of being able to say, in public, that I have a relationship with my partner and that's OKAY. It's a matter of not having to hide and be ashamed when people talk about their relationships at work.
Homosexuality isn't equal when homosexuals stay home and fuck each other up the arse, as you so kindly suggest. EQUAL RIGHTS IS WHEN I CAN TALK ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP IN EXACTLY THE SAME WAY AND EXACTLY THE SAME PLACE AS EVERYBODY WHO'S IN A STRAIGHT RELATIONSHIP.
So don't you dare, don't you dare try and tell me that public hatred against homosexuals is somehow my fault for standing up and saying, "I'm gay and that's okay."
Of course, the gays in Russia, even with that law, still have it better than other countries, where they stone them to death, throw them in jail or simply kill them outright.
There are so many places with so many horrific human rights abuses, where does one start? We leave them to their fate and get accused of not caring and being xenophobic. We try to help and get accused to being cultural imperialists and patronizing. What can you do?
This particular petition i am linking is basically to say that google should get rid of this app called "Setting Captives Free," available in both the Apple iTunes and Google Play stores, meant to teach you how to stop being gay." This is a quote from the site i have linked.
Basically it's an app to "release people from the bondage of homosexuality" and PERSONALLY, i believe that people should have a right to be who they are as long as it does not infringe upon other people, anti gays will exist, they have every right to, they can shun gay people within their households all they want, but to outwardly deny someone a right to represent themselves in a way that makes the most sense to them psychologically, something that is ingrained into their being, it feels wrong. I mean, it's not like any of the gay people i know try to force me to be gay, and also they dont shove their lives into people who express discomfort with their choices, so why cat they be who they are? Why do people have to change them?
https://www.allout.org/en/actions/g.....lsaWQ9MjIwNzQ=
To avoid any issues i would like to state that i will not get into a political argument, this is all based on my spoiled American opinion about freedom and what i think people deserve and has nothing to do with the arguments above stating anything of country based choices and Americas influence on other countries.
In my opinion, a better approach would be to ask the courts to require that the app should carry a prominent warning saying homosexuality is a natural human condition, that the app's methods are contrary to established medical wisdom, and that the techniques it uses have been shown to cause massive psychological harm.
...so much this
arggg
First of ll, your petition is nothing to Russian government. The point is all about our country: tihis is not an Iraq or Afganistan or another Third-World country. It's not American protection. Don't forget that Russia tries to compete with US from many things.
But we have a cancer in our parliament (or Duma, doesn't matter). That called 'Resonance syndrome': faggots called 'Parliament' pass legislation which burns Russian society and then pass their real and creepy (to usual people) bills quietly coz now nobody cares about that shit!
So... You'll change nothing. You're not Russians
Традиции ебут всех, как правило. Все от совка и попов, а попы - они же люди. Вон некоторые гелендвагены кадилом окуривают, а люди им верят)
Главное - уметь в английский и не лениться, и знать, когда и куда жопу уносить. Бешеных муслимов я хочу ещё меньше, чем наших бабушек, потому что бабушки тебя не обвинят всерьез, если ты маскируешься, и не убьют за отсутствие крестика.
Если вы понимаете, о чем я)
"So.. you'll change nothing. You're not Russians"
My thoughts exactly What is a USA petition going to do if the issue isn't even in our country, what are we gonna rage war over Russia for this? I don't think a United States Petition is going to change anything.
Also; I do not like how some gays male or female discriminate against the other gender; "eww I'd never do things with a boy, boys are nasty" "eww pussy smells like fish, I would never stick my dick in one" I hate how some people go too far with there "Gay pride"
Also we'll be ripped by a crowd at the first place if we will try to push "sodomic" things that are forbidden in a book-that-everyone-here-read-without-their-brains-active. Traditions, ya'now.
Uhh.. what? I hope you're not seriously implying that not wanting to have sex with the opposite gender is "going too far with Gay Pride".
Wut?
Censor legalisation and prohibition to know something about officiary's life after their theft's exposures - just passed.
Would be nice if it can/does.
The heart is in the right place, just nothing we can do being in a different country.
But it can raise awareness as to the problems cited, which is a small improvement, as opposed to just burying it and people being unaware.
I actually spent time with a true Russian Domestic Fox from the only legit importer that lives in Orlando Florida back in March. And I've honestly got to say he was an amazing creature, very affectionate, gentle and social. Foxes are my passion and I do plan on adopting one soon, the price is just not an issue for me... So I must give credit where credit is due. Russia did well with these special creatures.
Now just work on the social issues! :3
All the nations things are stupid tradition of the past.
Thank you for posting this Rukis.
:P
I can be pessimistic, but I have been planning to emigrate from Russia for quite a while now mainly because of human rights issues.
we had for 1 year of fight in France to have the gay wedding and soon the adoption for parents from same sex but even now people still saying they shouldn't have this right
bonus 2 days after the law had been installed 3 girls had attacked because of this
seriously humanity goes worst to worst moar we go far in this deceny moar they are racist and violent (i got the same problem in my center .... only guys there except 2 girls and half just don't give a shit about and the others are against for X reasons they said it's all good with i but i saw what happened during this year each time i was near of one of them)
fucking cruel wolrd
I signed the petition, and several more. So many violations of so many rights, so much unequal treatment, so much cruelty. The world is dark and bad some times. The only way this will do much is if we get huge numbers, and even then there are too many people in our government and media who wish they could get away with passing the same kinds of laws here. Still, to say nothing and do nothing when it is so easy to do a very tiny thing, is just lazy and irresponsible, isn't it?
At least I'll admit my opinion isn't automatically right, and might not be right at all.
But no, if you want to just see me as some self-hating gay or whatever, go ahead. Your interpretation of reality is clearly more important than understanding that someone misspoke, far be it for me to try to correct you.
What's IB? I know what Honors is, but I'm not familiar with the term IB. And what's the reading? 630 pages by itself isn't TOO bad if it's an interesting read. If it's not...ugh, I don't want to think about it.
IB is International Baccalaureate. Without getting all technical or whatever, it's basically more challenging and rigorous than normal honors and like, they expect you to do things alone. No one holds your hand, its just like, "Do it, go." If you go through it, you get special recognition and a nifty gold robe. :p
Also, to put it out there now, sorry for getting off on the wrong foot. Sensitive topic, I'm pissy bitch mainly due to finals and school ending in like two days and I DO. NOT. Want to be going to school anymore (had a 104 fever Saturday, parents flipped their shit and took me to the hospital. Better now though).
And that shit is freaking annoooooooooying, I'm so glad to be done with my requirements in that regard.
It's cool man, I never meant to upset anyone, no matter how my opinion is taken. I'm sorry to hear you were so sick, it's good that you came down from there. Good luck on your classes and finals, I hope you do well. :)
Thank you. ^_^
Also... for those complaining about Americans trying to unduly influence Russia on the issue... The petition is to our own president, attempting to convince him to put names of people who wrote and are trying to enact anti-gay legislation in Russia on a government sanction list. A list that, from what I gather, doesn't do much unless these "gross human rights violators" maintain U.S. assets. Mostly, it would make these people look bad.
That's IF the president actually made this happen. Despite recent strides in gay rights, we're far from being an accepting or even tolerant country. Unless Russia did something outrageous, like started murdering gays in the streets, I sincerely doubt anyone in our country's government would get involved in any meaningful way. There's no political or monetary gain in getting involved. If I may be cynical for a moment, the only reason anyone in government brings up the issue of gay rights is to shift attention away from other issues that an easily-distracted public might get annoyed about when nothing is done to fix them.
I think global activism is fine, and I might sign this petition... if whoever wrote it had used grammar and spellcheck, that is... :O/
I'm not sure whether denying gay couples parental rights qualifies as a gross or atrocious violation of human rights or not, but I personally think it's reprehensible, and a petition is a civilized, appropriate response given the situation.
I have to agree with you, that comparing this petition to mobilizing a war effort on foreign soil is a gross exaggeration, despite the intent being minimally similar. But, unfair comparisons and gross exaggerations come with the territory of issues that people take personally. I happen to be American, but I can understand how people from other countries may see us as nosy and inappropriately involved in affairs that aren't our own. That's the basic gist of US foreign policy post WWII. I personally think a return to isolationism, like we did post WWI and during the Great Depression, would do some good for us and the rest of the world. It's about time we tended to our own house in disrepair before worrying hopping fence into everyone else's backyards. But, I suspect I would be in the minority on that issue here.
Regardless, I think everyone has a right and maybe even a responsibility to voice objection when terrible things are happening, as citizens of a global community. That's not foreign policy or the actions of a nation. That's human beings (gasp! 4th wall shattered!) trying to help other human beings.
Is it unethical to condemn human rights violations in other countries?
Then why are people getting so butthurt about this?
Everyone hates when the US does something and everyone hates when the US does nothing. :/
I hate that Russia is being so anti-gay. I don't know what people can do to help them.
I was just thinking the SAME THING. Goddamnit world, you're confusing us! MAKE UP YOUR MIND.
Here's what our policy should be for now on: we only get ourselves involved if invited.
So I guess, don't sign expecting it to change how the country views homosexuality, but sign it in hopes of giving comfort to others.
Then again, does the Russian government monitor what people do on the internet? Because now, if this law was passed, just viewing it might be illegal. :c
2. It is illegal to tell children that homosexuality exists. Any mentioning of such can be punished with up to 3 years in prison.
3. It will be illegal to adopt Russian kids for foreign same-sex couples or single persons.
Pathetic, Russia. Just pathetic.
Quick and dirty:
1)our country is full of homophobic conservators, who linch every independant thinker.
2)our president is an overgrown kid, who can't make a single decision without reading forums or twitter.
3)our so-called parlament is likely to listen what "powerful countries" say (cause of bunch of reasons i don't feel comfortable to type.)
Basically if we want our goverment to do something good - we have to ask other countries for it.
P.S. Everyone can have his(her) own opinion and noone was forced into this, it's all about free will. Let's skip the annoying drama and hatering, & go straight to the "i will" or "i don't give a damn", mn-kay?
P.P.S. Rukis has a huge heart.
That having been said, I would sign that if I could.
It reminds me of a UK/Japan story. A Japanese car manufacturer literally cannot test vehicles for the British market on standard Japanese roads, because Japanese roads are of too high a quality. They are having to build deliberately poor quality test tracks for their vehicles so to simulate the road conditions which are common in any part of Britain that isn't central London.
thus why my faith in humanity and the future has died a long time ago, so i shall sign this and be on my way with my life.
D:
... Cannot unsee!
Valid premise to work from, but hoy the trollage and emo was just TLDR to pore through.
You have three options.
1) Sign the petition.
2) Don't sign the petition.
3) Shut up and make your own journal to ramble about your own bitterness.
Have a nice day and let that be a lesson to you all.
Yes I know I've commented, but I just felt the need to say something.
Consider the Gulag. Gukurahundi. The French Terror. Potato famine. Boer War. Reserve Battalion 101. The genocide of the Tasmanians. Manchuria. The Khmer Rouge. The Highland Clearances. Unit 731. None of them motivated by religion. And there are wars aplenty that are religious in name, but in fact are motivated by territorial and tribalist concerns -- just look at Israel.
So I'm glad you've weakened your position from "All!!!!!" to "Not all but most." Thank you -- I still disagree with that position, but at least it's not just plain risible.
On the subject of listening: one of the most salutary experiences of my recent years has been learning to listen to the opinions, world-view and mores of intensely religious people. It is that experience that prompted my protest against your original attack.
2. A dictator can do things people agree with. Doesn't mean he isn't a dictator. The definition of 'dictator' in popular parlance means someone who suspends civil rights, represses political opponents, suspends due process, has a cult of personality, and wields vast amount of power. Putin fits this definition.
3. 'Traditional values' are equally vapid. Not because they're traditional, but because they commit the fallacy of traditionalism. It doesn't matter how old an institution is, it must stand on its own merits. If it cannot stand on its own merits, it can be discarded. If it actually fails it must be discarded.
Russia's 'traditional values' cause pain and agony to many people. Therefore, they are ethically flawed and must be discarded. I challenge you to debate me on this; to give me a reasoning that is not based on 'God said so' or 'we've always done it this way' that defends traditional values conceptually.
4. 90% of anything is junk. That applies to porn, too. There is good porn and there is bad porn, and there is a lot of bad porn.
5. There was still stigma in Asia, less because of religion and more because of the expectation for people to get married and have children. I suggest you read this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_h.....ublic_of_China
2. Obviously something is only good or bad in relation to effect, that's basic consequentalism. Nevertheless, it is possible to construct general rules of thumb that even those of us who are act-utilitarians follow (though we'll break them in extreme circumstances). That's why probability matters. If method X is more likely to lead to bad results than method Y, it is inferior. If a dictatorship is more likely to lead to bad results than democracy, then taking a stand against dictatorship is the right thing to do, just as taking a stance against homeopathy is the right thing to do.
3. No, you can totally be oppressed and not feel it. If you are conditioned since birth to accept a specific role, and going outside that role is punishable socially or legally, that is oppression. The expectation that women would be housewives was oppression. From Merriam-Webster:
Definition of OPPRESSION
1
a : unjust or cruel exercise of authority or power
b : something that oppresses especially in being an unjust or excessive exercise of power
2
: a sense of being weighed down in body or mind : depression
Only in the last case does it require emotion on the part of the victim. Indeed, I would argue that oppression that people don't realize is worse, because it's so ingrained that their free will has basically been stolen.
Your notions of 'real culture' versus 'fake culture' are, frankly, foolish. I call them foolish because there is no justification given at all. Why the hell does it matter whether it was based on survival or not? Something can have value because people believe it has value. And before you object that materialists don't have any real values, that's also bloody stupid. You know what I value? People. Minds. I value the happiness and well-being of every sapient species on this planet, and every sentient species on this planet. Everything from humans to dolphins to elephants to cats to corvids to dogs to ants. Yes, the only things that I believe in are matter and energy (and information, but that's another matter). Don't tell me these aren't real. They're far more real than what are, ultimately, completely arbitrary standards based upon how things used to be and aren't any more, without respect for the effects those standards have.
Also, care to define what you mean by 'sentimentality'? Because I checked and the only philosophical definition I found depends on moral intuition. But if we buy ethical intuition, that provides us with a major problem regarding conflict. Some people intuitively believe in equality. Other people intuitively believe in killing people they don't like.
Words are social constructs. They mean what people say they mean. If people say marriage is about love, then it is. Now, you could argue whether or not it should, in which case what people think doesn't matter. But by doing that you'd have to justify why it shouldn't, and I can quite easily justify why it should be about love rather than procreation.
I might add that historically it didn't really matter whether or not a couple was older (and thus infertile) or didn't plan on having children.
4. And the point was?
5. Why can't a man+man or woman+woman relationship replace that? And, in any event, a house can have a foundation made of multiple parts. No reason one can't have two monopile foundations, for instance.
So basically you base what you believe to be right off opposition to Western liberalism?
3. Someone can be affected negatively without realizing it, though. You talked about brainwashing; cultural norms can and have done just that. For instance, marital rape was until recently not even believed to be possible (http://www.crisisconnectioninc.org/.....rital_Rape.pdf). People's paradigms simply didn't allow for it. And that debunks your anti-feminist point, too. There have been great wrongs done to those not in power that were not reviled at the time. And marital rape is still rape, even if people didn't think it was.
Your argument did not say affected negatively, I might add, it said that if they did not feel oppressed they were not.
I can, by the way, accept evolution and reject the idea that the only thing that matters is survival. Evolution is part of science, and ethics do not follow the exact same rules. Evolution has nothing to say on the philosophical meaning of life. Rather, it only has to say things about spreading your genes as much as possible (it doesn't say anything about survival of an individual; that's a common misconception). Evolution is, by definition, amoral (not immoral). The biological function of an individual is to spread their genes and help the species survive--or, more accurately, their genes. But we are under no obligation to follow this function.
Ultimately, ethics is a way of describing how we should act. If we do not believe in any arbitrary standards without any clear evidence for why we should follow them, as deontologists do, then the only logical solution is to base ethics off what results. Barring arbitrary standards, the only things we care about are, rather obviously, things we care about. Doing things we care about makes us happier, and doing things we don't like to makes us unhappier. Therefore, doing things we like doing is good, and doing things we don't like doing is bad. If we care about other people as well as ourselves, then utilitarianism is the only logical choice.
I'm not defending liberalism. I'm defending consequentialism, which most of the time has identical solutions but arrives at them a different way. You also appear not to understand materialism, which is the simple belief that there is nothing aside from matter and energy.
Words do have meanings even if we redefine them; keep in mind that the original meanings of words almost certainly are not in use, or the words are fairly new. Language changes, and if you can't deal with that you can't deal with reality. We don't have original words anymore. They've all been lost to time. The very words you're typing have been altered, standardized, and derived from a variety of languages, including Latin.
Gender refers to gender roles. One can have a gender role typically assigned to males, or one typically assigned to females, or any other gender role. Changing sex to match gender is a shorter way of saying "changing sex to match that of the sex that the gender role I have is typically assigned to".
Then let's get into the full philosophical axioms.