Calm down and be decent, everyone.
12 years ago
The previous journal I posted was done on behalf of a fellow artist and Russian citizen, who was asking for help in spreading the word. Signing a petition is simply a non-violent, non-invasive way of making your opinions on a certain subject heard, of expressing how you feel, which I think most rational people would agree is a basic human right. There is absolutely no need to get angry, berate others, or insult anyone over this issue. . . which I was seeing a lot of in the responses to the last journal.
I'd really appreciate it if folks were just decent to one another in my journal postings. I don't want to have to take the journal down, since it was done in an attempt to help someone trying to spread the word, but I will if it continues to be a problem.
I'd really appreciate it if folks were just decent to one another in my journal postings. I don't want to have to take the journal down, since it was done in an attempt to help someone trying to spread the word, but I will if it continues to be a problem.
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Also, sorry if I bit too close or anything. I was trying to debate and discuss, not fight.
See, I'm not stupid, I just have zero common sense online sometimes. XD
"That's Candi with an 'i', by the way."
" Not to mention the priceless antique car... I believe the note on the claim was 'I thought I could paint it red, but I couldn't find enough goats, so I scrapped it'."
"So that's why we found my father's car covered in goat blood and rammed into a Dairy Queen."
"Oh, yes, and then there's also the Dairy Queen. Sitting at about ninety-five thousand in damages..."
Ohh and.. HA!! ok, that was good ;) 7 points! :P :P
You two are freakin' awesome. XD
If you don't agree with the petition and feel you should just look away when other people (non Americans) are being oppressed, then don't sign it and move along.
Either way, you've got your right to your opinion, and even have the right to interpret mine however you want. But I'm not as callous as you probably think I am, just jaded.
The major problem- no matter how many signatures you signed if the people of Russia don't care of human beings- they are not going to treat gays equality.
You can't focus laws or respect if culture doesn't accept of others.
My father worked in Yemen for many years. He told me that cannot bring justice to a country if the people don't have a culture of "love fellow neighbor/rights for everyone".
Yemen, despite being a theology government system, have a culture where a death of a child have the same fine if one kills a farmer's goat.
And the biggest car have the right way.
If Russia's culture have this "Narcissism" idea culture similar to Yemen- it is not going to work.
Sorry you got sweep under the carpet like that though. :/ I love a good debate but it was an eye sore watching you trying to explain over and over to the others.
Politics are not clear nor is it black or white. But I wish more understand that concept.
And while the heart is there in Rukis's journal- do someone does something intentionally good doesn't mean it will come out good.
XD Opps, slip of the fingers.
Will that happen in Russia? Almost certainly not. The country is too belligerent and powerful to be worried about what western countries or their citizens think of it. Does that mean that the petition is useless? Not necessarily. LGBT people in Russia are being persecuted, sometimes violently, by the government and by the majority of Russian citizens. If the knowledge that there are people who are outraged by what is happening to them makes their lives even a tiny bit easier, the petition is still worthwhile. And the petition raises awareness of the suffering laws like these can cause, which encourages the kind of empathy that makes our cultures able to embrace the tolerance and human rights that we hold dear.
Outside influnce can have impact on other countries- if only if there is a relationship.
Uganda depends on first world nations for business and goods. If the countries don't like what Uganda is doing- they cut ties. And Uganda suffers.
And that's why it political pressure mostly don't work in North Korea- one of the most, if not the, isolated country.
Now I don't know what Russia- I have not study it's relationship with the other nations for a long time.
This petition is ONLY about kicking them so that they stop treating gay people like shit. You want to change the world? Then start looking beyond your own borders.
I think there's a big problem if you value governments over actual people.
That's all I'm going to say on this, though. I really don't want to be a part of this debate any further. I was trying to help a fellow artist. . . that's all.
I see why some people get confused about the separation of opinion and action, and the dovetailing that occurs when outside opinion curbs or encourages changes in the actions of another country.
But it's like Bangladesh. Back in the 70s or 80s, factory-workers died in the thousands due to cruel and unusual working conditions in unsafe work-places. But only NOW, after vigorous public campaigning and public-awareness projects, are supporters of such inhumane and destructive practices (Walmart) finally being put on the spot for it.
Public awareness is what lets you know that just because your village supports torture of females, the rest of the villages in your country(or nations of the world) do not.
But where's that petition, Rukis? I didn't get a chance to see it.
Could you repost a link to it? I'd like to sign.
Oh not my country? Sorry none of my business the fuckers can burn for all i care right? It's not my country so i should mind my own business...
and people wonder why we humans treat each other so terribly...when sane people tell others who are trying to prevent social injustice to mine their own business
I don't give a crap if you say nobody has the right answer or that everyone has a right to their own opinion...it doesn't change the fact that those beliefs should NOT be allowed to deny other people THEIR rights!
Yes we are flawed and imperfect creatures...but for christ sake we have to TRY and be better and fucking try too help one another!
EVERYONE should be trying too stop shit like this in the world...From the U.S to the Far East and everything in-between.
Just because that human being is born somewhere else doesn't mean they don't have the Human Rights modern society is based off of.
I hate too bring Nazi Germany into this but...
There were concentration camps near some towns in Germany and citizens there would IGNORE those places...they would go through their daily normal activities even as the TERRIBLE stench of burning bodies wafted over from the camps. When asked why they did nothing many of the citizens said "It was none of our business" or that "I didn't want to know what was causing the black smoke that smelled of death"
Good people can't keep saying it's none of their business or that its just that persons beliefs...Wrong is wrong no matter what...anything that goes against the Human Rights every person has in this world should be fought tooth and nail to be stopped.
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (Edmund Burke)
Don't get me wrong, I agree that people deserve to be treated equally...but not everyone's reached a point where they agree with it, and changing minds is one of the hardest things to do.
Stop telling the people who are trying to do the work your saying is the hardest thing to do with people EVEN HARDER! This kind of global network given to us by the internet NEEDS to be used this way to fight social injustice like this! This kind of work NEEDS to happen...NOW so that the slow process of improvement can get moving!
If people did what you said and let stuff like this just happen or too *mind their own business* we would never change anyone's minds...ever
You need to stop making everyone who doesn't agree with you into the enemy, the world isn't black and white.
Hell what if RUSSIANS on the internet *Like you* sees these people making petitions online and thus learn about these bills and start voting against them or something!
I'm not making anyone my enemy...I'm just so mad when i see people telling other people that are doing what they can to help to *Mind their own business*
sorry i'm dyslexic.
I personally would support the petition because I, as a foreign gay living here, know how it feels to have a society and a government that despises you.
To call it a Jew state:
A) Makes one feel that there is only 1 person there who is Jewish
B) Makes me think its extremely cheap (*chough*ok I admit that was a bit uncalled for but really, a cheap laugh people, please, its late and I used up all my good material ;) )
C) You're using internet speaks and ment Yew state.. which I suppose could work, its a very popular and pretty tree for landscaping.
To be fair, I wasn't trying to start an argument, I was just voicing an opinion. It just happened to be an opinion based on skimming instead of properly reading.
...I don't remember if you did or not, but it means a lot to me when people are willing to own their mistakes. I do my best to, as well.
I don't know about you, but I won't stop voicing my own opinion until gay people are treated properly. I will sign petitions and verbally crush those who treat gays badly based on ridiculously stupid BULLSHIT like christianity, islam, any other ancient fairytale or simply based on political nonsense. And I also don't care where it happens in the world.
And no, I disagree. An opinion can always be stupid. Take our german politicians for example who believe it is ok to deny gay people their rights based on a fairytale like christianity. That is not a very smart opinion to have if you ask me!
As to your opinion on opinions.. I can only say... Thats your opinion.
I agree with you entirely.. its sad and reprehensible that they treat people , gays, anyone, like that just because of a belief rather than an actual. I can see the person next to me, I can not see faith. Which one of the two should i care about the safety of more? That said, I still have to respect the right of someone to believe what they do, even if i do not agree with it.
Mull it over for a while and come back with what you truly feel and why in a clearly defined statement. I am sure we will all appreciate the effort you put into a response and will appreciate your viewpoint for the meaning you intend. :)
Oh also, you don't have to respect anything. Respect is earned and not handed out like chocolate. Religion certainly didn't do anything to have earned respect and neither did 99% of humanity. The word you are looking for is tolerance^^ Tolerance is much more important than respect in my opinion!
Also, I read "Well, it's a different COUNTRY they can do what they want!" as the exact same statement as, "Well, it's a different STATE, they can do what they want!"
I really don't get that a degree of political boundary is the difference between someone supporting the fight for basic human rights or completely ignoring human rights abuses. It's 2013, for real.
Take care and I hope your Russian friend is doing well.
I think we should start shagging in the streets ASAP
Russia are your next door neighbors who wont turn down the music at 3am and are friends with the police chief.
“A general belief seems to prevail in the colony that the Indians are little better, if at all, than the savages or natives of Africa. Even the children are taught to believe in that manner, with the result that the Indian is being dragged down to the position of a raw Kaffir.”
The word kaffir was used in the former South Africa to refer to a black person and is considered a racial ethnic slur. It was one of hundreds of recorded instances where he showed intense vile racism towards native black Africans. Food for thought.
Be Careful who you quote, for he may suffer from foot in mouth. :) Also I seldom get to quite the darker side of Ghandi and it seemed like a good segway ;)
But honestly, I'm actually relieved when I hear stuff like this. It shows that even the greatest men have flaws like all of us little folk.
Lead by example.
TLDR; America needs to get its sht together and be the shining example. Eventually....hopefully. -facepalm-
Until people actually remember that this statement was to include all beings of the human race, regardless of who, or where they are from, there will always be an issue with people not being treated fairly, simply because the attitude of most 'Americans' nowadays is "Its not our problem, we don't have to deal with it."
Native Americans are the exception to that, I would assume, since 'hominids' didn't start in Australia or Argentina, either, and migrated there to be considered 'Native'. Anything after 1600ad would be immigration.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYtX.....XUeUcdlXwg5ptQ
Its a plane!
It IS a plane!
WITH DOCTOR BEES IN IT!
Cheers..
*sighs*
Alas, no good deed goes unpunished even here on FA
I am very sure there are some other Russian furs that saw that and maybe even contributed. Who knows?
You may be right...it's the Russian's business what happens in Russia, but we should be aware of our brothers and sisters struggle in other countries...even Russia, don't you think?
= "the answer"
is all you need
*gigglebark*
I really wish all humans around the globe would respect one another. It's very sad to see this is not the case, especially here on FA.
I'm of the mind that Russia preventing gay marriage and parenting etc., is very discriminatory. I'd like for gay couples to have the right to be together and raise a child. If they have the smarts, the means, and are fully capable of taking care of a child, then they should have that right. I see a lot of straight couples around home here where they have no two clues how to take care of a child. I'd much rather see a gay couple full of love to the child rather than alcoholic straight parents who let their child go hungry and lock 'em in their bedroom all day long.
Anyway, it's sad to see so many people who don't care about anything/anyone beyond 2 feet in front of their noses.
I don't think so. He deserves to be tolerated though!^^ Respect is something that you earn. In that regard tolerance is a lot more important than respect.
People talk about earning respect and 'respect' needs to be earned, but decent treatment, even good treatment should be a standard.
People who actually accomplished something for all of mankind deserve respect.
To me respect means to put something above all else as an example for what humanity can do. Human rights deserve respect.
But the reason why I think that tolerance is more important is simply the word implies a basic understanding among all of us and to work together as a whole. And I also think that people and concepts that work against that don't deserve respect or tolerance. That is also one of the reasons why I hate religion, it actively works against this common understanding between all of us.
and I'm like "Just let gay people marry and tolerate it. It's not effecting you in anyway" but nope, they always bring the bible into it and tell me that it's wrong and yada yada yada because the bible says yada yada yada.
The bible also says that in a divorce, the women must be stoned and killed, might as well do that too if they're going to bring up the bible
I tolerate people that don't agree with gay marriage even, but if I tolerate them, they better tolerate my support of it. :P
Which is why I agree with you.
Also, Deuteronomy 22:13-21 says that a marriage is only valid if the woman is a virgin. If she is not she should also be stoned to death. I just love how they keep hammering down on the whole gay thing but conveniently forget about the whole virginity thing ;D
Religion in itself is nothing but cherrypicking. They don't like gays so they ban gay marriage. They like having sex so let's just forget about Deuteronomy. But you know what? Shellfish tastes pretty great, too... So let's only keep the whole gay thing from Leviticus and forget about the rest he said. And while we are at it, let's forget about everything that was horrible in the old testament because Jesus said so! But we have to keep the ten commandments of course.
Bloody hell...
And yeah, their cherry-picking is even going so far as to destroy women's rights. I'm not a feminist, but I'll be damned if someone tries to stop me from getting birth control and calls me a whore. Which sadly has happened before, about 5 times in the past year here in Alaska and its terrible, women shouldn't go through that. I'm sorry but most Republicans (not all of them) and most Christians need to learn tolerance.
This whole abortion thing is ridiculous anyway. A random blob of stemcells is not a human being. That is like calling a seed a fully grown tree! Once it's a fetus and just grows we can start talking about a human but before that? No way.
In my opinion anything that could potentially survive outside the womb, even with a lot of care, should be called a human. At 11 to 16 weeks you are pretty much done, you are just growing inside the womb.
I always like to quote Stephen Fry in that situation: http://blog.flicks.co.nz/wp-content.....12548805_n.jpg
Have a nice day
I am not quite sure what they are asking to be done and on top of that, it is called the Magnitsky list not the Manitsky list.
That said.. Your icon is adorable! :P
Furries are not so big on tolerance if the issues don't pertain to the fandumb directly. Even though they/we like to believe otherwise.
...but when you put any hot button issue on the interwebs and say "discuss," the internet is going to shit its happy panties in response. Pretty much always to be expected.
So I applaud you and sign what you posted. Gay rights are finally moving here in the USA in a more positive position. Dont see why other countries need to be buck ass backwards on this.
So saying the idea of trying to get the hate and intolerance out of politics so we can deal with each other as fellow humans is a great idea but sadly most politicians are there for *each other* and not for the folks that voted them in :/. I applaud wanting to get a petition going to change things as its up to us to make the change happen.
Gaia bless for pointing this out Rukis and a big soft bearhug for you
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I love to help which is why i signed the petition. every little bit helps ><
You either sign it or not and leave. Its simple as that.
However, I did become aware of the petition because of it, so thank you ^-^
There's a difference between having a right, and knowing how to accurate make use of said right.
That is all I'm going to say on this matter ;)
This petition is not an excuse to treat each other like crap but an opportunity to help out others in another part of the world to have rights.
Not signing it is okay its your right but bickering at each other if you do is just silly ,lets all take a deep breath and treat each other with some manors and respect.
Now they'll have to swallow that bitter pill - and it won't go down easy.
I believe that it is faith, considered, and thoughtful [literally, filled with thought] that is a foundation for betterment personally and socially.
Without faith in something besides yourself or at least outside of yourself, you tend to put yourself first, foremost and to the detriment of those around you.
Religion is a structure that's meant to build faith. However, some of those who profess to preach and teach and champion their religions are truly warped individuals who have sublimated their personal wants with the greater good. And the greater good to me..... can be defined as such:
"To do unto others the best that you have in yourself to do. To be unto others the best that you can be. To live AND die for the dignity that is inherent to the human condition. And to uphold that dignity and the preservation and protection of that dignity in others."
I feel that is wrong. I've always been open minded , in fact Jesus himself was open minded atleast in his outlook. My favourite question i heard once was this. Do you live like Jesus, or like the Pharisees. The pharisees lived by the holy texts word for word , and Jesus did not. Who was more influential. I say i am a Christian becasue i fel it helps me better myself and live for a cause greater than my own personal ends. To be an honest caring person in a world that seems to broken and faithless.
I can understand people being afraid if we police other countries, then we don't want them interfering with our stuff in matters they don't understand.
We did intervene in WW2, but that was a war not a petition to sign. I feel bad in how Jews were being treated, it was wrong. We should of stepped in earlier. I think we have our own problems too with our things going on. Theirs many problems around the world. Child sex slavery, child abuse, children hurting in factories. What about those? is it our job to step in? But think of the people, they're humans like us who need our help.
Then again, I am loosing my house and my family is disowning me. I feel bad about those treated wrong and I think about me. I wouldn't mind people helping me out. Then I think, what's the best thing to do? What's the Right thing to do? I guess it be help one problem at a time and when weighing the pros and cons; a petition to sign and say what you're doing is wrong, then I see no harm in it when it comes to helping a fellow human being. I wouldn't mind a friend spreading the word to help me out. I think my life experience has made more more humble and thinking about those treated wrong. They didn't chose to be gay. I didn't chose to be like how I am, I wish I was someone else. I didn't chose the situation I am in. I would love to have someone to help me. So I think why not just help another person in need of help.
*Reads journal* OOOHHHH! Ah, ok then . . .
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For what it's worth: a [non-furry! they exist!] LGBT Russian friend of mine made a very similar request as you, Rukis. The situation over there really is grim, and his take was that pretty much the only thing that seemed to help was pressure from outside. So thanks for giving this a signal boost.
I've read a lot of the comments on both of the journals and honestly, both sides have points. I think it IS a little pretentious of America to try and force other countries to do things they way they want and there is a long history of that. America has gone into other countries and tried to change the entire government because democracy is the best, regardless of what the country and its people want. That being said, human rights isn't an issue that should be ignored no matter what country it is in. So, I guess it really comes down to how it is handled and what America does, if anything.
Sorry...got a little babbly and maybe a bit preachy there. I'll go back to lurking around, staring at the pretty porn/stories, and make the occasional attempt at humor. ;)
Then others will say "not our problem" too.....
Russia may see that Americans care about others, but all they may think is why should we listen you gay Americans? Sad to say but they dont really care about what we think.
And who knows maybe the people of Russia will stand up for their gays. But as long as violence is there and people are more afraid of their own government and neighbors they won't do a thing.
Best thing America can do is accept gays from Russia that would like to live in America...
I support the gay people in Russia and at home, but we are talking about culture that we don't fully understand and a government that has just come out of strict communism.
Besides shouldn't we clean up our own mess before we try and help other. America left the Middle East in a mess. Shouldn't we help them just as much as people want to help Russia (who has no wars, fighting, rights/law, or wounded people right now?)
These are just some random thoughts I don't take them to legit
It sure the people are gonna go against a unanimous vote for the bill from their government
Sorry to be a sarcastic ass, but You know the saying "No good deed goes unpunished"?
As for the rest of You guys, I kinda noticed that in neither of the journals did Rukis ask for opinions, she merely suggested that IF You wanted to sign the said petition, You COULD do that via the specified link. For voicing out opinions and discussing politics and what not, which is commendable, there is a thing called "Forum", I believe, or a "chat". So, why not drop the issue now and finish it someplace else (I won't be attending, just so You know)?
This is my humble unasked for opinion on the topic of this journal and if You want to respond or oppose to it, I suggest You DO NOT post it here (unless You are the author of this journal), You can always send me a notice or shout me down as much as You want. Thank You