Still need help....
12 years ago
Hello everyone. I wanted to thank those who have helped me and continue to help adding to the funds I need to make up for the amount lost due to the room mates screwing me over. The good news is that the money is definitely helping me; just the bad news is that I still need a hell of a lot more. After doing the totals and finding the grand sum of things.... it seems my estimates I had in my head were way off and so I need to repost my previous journal (as much as I hate to do something like that... it needs to be done). If anyone want's to know the grand amount you are free to contact me privately as I do not feel it is right to talk about that outright (if that gives a hint to the extent at least).
So anyways; just please keep donating and will keep paying my bills to keep my home. Thanks again everyone for your hopes, prayers, and donations!
REPOST STARTS HERE:
So yeah. I am not one to ask for help, but the type to give it instead. It has came to a point that with heavy heart; I must ask for help. I have recently gotten to the point that with no matter how much I have saved that our bills are getting out of hand. The reason for the bills getting to this point has been due to unwanted guests that we have tried removing from our home; however out of retaliation, they called the Health Department on us (me and my mate. YES I am married IRL) and the health department deemed us to fix these problems within an allotted time frame. That time frame ends at 11AM 6/6/2013 (aka tomorrow morning) and in doing what the Health Department asked; we are now extremely in debt.... bills are past due, my bank account is almost negative, my wife's account -is- negative, and my mother's is negative as well due to her trying to help fund the repairs that were forced upon us by law.
Now most of you will ask a few questions:
1)"Why did you let it get to that point?" Well to be honest due to our current financial situations, we were able to at least chip away slowly at it on our own time in order to make sure things were up to code. However being forced to cram what was 4-6 months worth of money and work into 1 month? That doesn't help us at all and made matters worse.
2)"Well I have seen you have been posting commissions and other artwork; surely you have money and just want to milk people for more right?" NO! I will NEVER EVER ask anyone to fund me just so I can get more art. That is selfish and completely wrong. Those that know me know that if I want art with someone I will easily pay half if not all of it myself when I have the time and money for it. The reason for the artwork being posted is this: I have been sitting on a lot of artwork that has been done (example are my adoptables) and have slowly been posting them when I can or in other circumstances I have paid an artist some time ago and am just now getting that art back (as I am a very patient person and just tell the artist to have fun and take their time so long as I get periodic updates)
3)"Well how do I know if you will use this money for bills or not?" You will probably just get more art won't you?" No I won't do that... I am an adult, and while that many say that before on here as they wish for money too, I do my best to stay true to what I say. Now for those that don't know me you don't have any reason to trust me and I realize this easily, but all I have is my word and that is the best thing I have going for me.
4)"How much do you need? Is there a goal?" No goal will be set. Why? Because right now, for one, is the fact that I am still assessing all my bills and trying to add it all up so that I even know what that goal is; however even when I do figure it out, I won't set one because that is what donations are all about. You give what you can and when you can....and right now? Any amount will help.
5)"Well how can I help?" Like I said, donations are give what you can; when you can. So if you can give me $1, $10, $100... it doesn't matter. It all adds up in the end and that is what helps me.
For those interested in helping me? Please note me and I will give my PayPal to you and we can go that way. I am only accepting PayPal right now because it's the easiest method in doing all this.
Now for any questions that have not been answered? Just ask it. I don't care if you are trolls or genuinely curious people wanting to know how to help or the exact situation I am in. I will answer everything to the best of my abilities. I really REALLY hate doing this, but even big, jackal god studs, need help from time to time too....
Thank You everyone!
So anyways; just please keep donating and will keep paying my bills to keep my home. Thanks again everyone for your hopes, prayers, and donations!
REPOST STARTS HERE:
So yeah. I am not one to ask for help, but the type to give it instead. It has came to a point that with heavy heart; I must ask for help. I have recently gotten to the point that with no matter how much I have saved that our bills are getting out of hand. The reason for the bills getting to this point has been due to unwanted guests that we have tried removing from our home; however out of retaliation, they called the Health Department on us (me and my mate. YES I am married IRL) and the health department deemed us to fix these problems within an allotted time frame. That time frame ends at 11AM 6/6/2013 (aka tomorrow morning) and in doing what the Health Department asked; we are now extremely in debt.... bills are past due, my bank account is almost negative, my wife's account -is- negative, and my mother's is negative as well due to her trying to help fund the repairs that were forced upon us by law.
Now most of you will ask a few questions:
1)"Why did you let it get to that point?" Well to be honest due to our current financial situations, we were able to at least chip away slowly at it on our own time in order to make sure things were up to code. However being forced to cram what was 4-6 months worth of money and work into 1 month? That doesn't help us at all and made matters worse.
2)"Well I have seen you have been posting commissions and other artwork; surely you have money and just want to milk people for more right?" NO! I will NEVER EVER ask anyone to fund me just so I can get more art. That is selfish and completely wrong. Those that know me know that if I want art with someone I will easily pay half if not all of it myself when I have the time and money for it. The reason for the artwork being posted is this: I have been sitting on a lot of artwork that has been done (example are my adoptables) and have slowly been posting them when I can or in other circumstances I have paid an artist some time ago and am just now getting that art back (as I am a very patient person and just tell the artist to have fun and take their time so long as I get periodic updates)
3)"Well how do I know if you will use this money for bills or not?" You will probably just get more art won't you?" No I won't do that... I am an adult, and while that many say that before on here as they wish for money too, I do my best to stay true to what I say. Now for those that don't know me you don't have any reason to trust me and I realize this easily, but all I have is my word and that is the best thing I have going for me.
4)"How much do you need? Is there a goal?" No goal will be set. Why? Because right now, for one, is the fact that I am still assessing all my bills and trying to add it all up so that I even know what that goal is; however even when I do figure it out, I won't set one because that is what donations are all about. You give what you can and when you can....and right now? Any amount will help.
5)"Well how can I help?" Like I said, donations are give what you can; when you can. So if you can give me $1, $10, $100... it doesn't matter. It all adds up in the end and that is what helps me.
For those interested in helping me? Please note me and I will give my PayPal to you and we can go that way. I am only accepting PayPal right now because it's the easiest method in doing all this.
Now for any questions that have not been answered? Just ask it. I don't care if you are trolls or genuinely curious people wanting to know how to help or the exact situation I am in. I will answer everything to the best of my abilities. I really REALLY hate doing this, but even big, jackal god studs, need help from time to time too....
Thank You everyone!