its hard taking on everyones problems
when you have your own
i know that feeling.
maybe you should take a few days off.
just rest yourself...
i have alot of stressful problems at the moment.
and i find being online and listening to everyone elses makes it alot worse.
*hugs*
you don't have to be strong all the time hun.
its fine to cry C:
you're a great person and if you need me hun, i'm here for you.
i always have time for you if you want it ^.^

Hi, I'm Eli.

I'm the rock to which people hold onto in the raging current. Care to cling on, too?

You want what we ALL want. We cant' be strong 24/7... or we wouldn't be human. There is no greater sign of humanity and strength than emotion. Let it all out. Let it flow.

No one can blame you for it.

oh honey i know how you feel i was the same way. it got so bad all that cheer became anger and hate. so bad that im still a bit of a cesspool of anger. but i promise it gets better. you find someone who becomes your rock and helps heal all the hurts tha you've had to hide. it might take days or even years but they always come along. sometimes like me its a husband. sometimes its a pet you cant live without. and sometimes its your kid (if you choose to have one). but they come and you hold on to them and let the floodgates open. they dont complain they just sit there and send love and understanding. ifyou feel you must be strong for every one then just hang on to this knowledge, itll give you hope. and you cant be strong for anyone not even yourself unless you have hope.

*hugs* if you ever need a shoulder to cry on feel free to use mine. I don't mind at all. I'm here if you need me *hugs tight*

Its ok I know how you feel, its hard to be the one there for every one else but not having anyone there for you :(

Im here for you, darlin'. I do my best to make sure I am. I know recently we havent been able to spend alot of time together in person, but I want to make sure you know that big teddy bear is here for you. When your happy, when your sad, when times are good and times are bad. I love you, puddin' pie. Forever and always *Holds close, stroking your hair*

You are not alone in this feeling. I have just about fully desensitized myself toward my own issues. Even when I tell people my problems, though they seem severe I have a very melancholy attitude about it yet when someone needs helps or advice I will gladly do back flips to help in anyway I can. This is not always bad and it will humble you, but you mustn't be afraid to share or vent, because in the end we just bottle it up until we have nervous breakdown. You are a wonderful person, and anytime you need someone please message me.

Though I'm here for you I'd like to share something with you. In my experiences of sadness and pessimism whenever I have turned to others for support I know I can not rely on them for support. Everyone has their own problem and personal troubles that they want to deal with to so they are unable to help. I'm not saying you should give up on people for comfort and help completely, I just want you to be aware of how many lack the ability to help. I care about you and I know many others do some more than others and I am sure that we will try to help you out whenever you need it

I used to do the same thing. I would be there for everyone, and when they trotted off again, I would try and take it all in, their and my own shit. only one piece of advice for you. don't do it, nothing wrong with being there for people. but don't try to take their pain, because, in the end, you may be there to help, but they have to eventually deal with their own shit. it isn't fair to you to be the mother Teresa to every person with a problem

sadly im not good with this kind of stuff but i will be here for you if you want me to. the pain may comes and goes but a good listener is here forever.