you probly should push urslef hun but congrats on you comin out as trans if that is a thing

i've been pushing myself without a break since I was 16. I'm in no hurry to push myself now I can actually rest for a little while.

I tried to talk to some of my friends about "the wat if i was trans?" they aren't very much help as far as support but im 16 im not worrying about til im at least 19 then i will be out of school and everything and its good you are restin up a bit

yep!! well, i don't think my dad knows yet but the rest of my family does and are very supportive~ (not that i'm scared of my dads reaction lol he's chill i know he'll be fine)
I wish you luck for when you do! and if you need any help with that kinda stuff or trans stuff in general, i'd be happy to talk and help if i can!

Ah yeh, it can be a little tough to remember for others at first, but just gently remind them if they slip up. I think it usually takes around two or so, give or take since everyone is different, weeks of constantly doing something new to change the way the brain thinks. but don't let people get away with it if they seem to be doing it on purpose.

I've chosen Oliver as my name! cause it's my mothers maiden name and since I'm getting rid of my birth names but keeping my dads surname, I decided to have something connecting me to my mum as a first name~ that and Oliver is a cute name and shortening it to Ollie is cute too~ haha. but yeh I mad a list of names I liked and talked to a bunch of friends about the names too to get their opinions. I almost chose Milo but I liked Oliver more~

congrats! :3

dont worry, your productivity will come back. go get some rest

I'm so glad your family is supportive <3 (don't know how mine would react x.x)
and you do deserve some rest so, don't worry u3u <33

Obviously you need the time to recharge, so take advantage of it and relax a bit!

It's good that you can acknowledge when you're becoming a *tad* lazier, not that there's anything wrong with that. A lot of people don't have the ability to tell when they aren't trying hard enough and expect things to come to them wrapped up and on a plate. And it's a slippery slope if you don't realise that you are :3
Just take it easy and keep the positive mindset, everything works out for the best ^-^