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10 years ago
So i got your attention. Good.
Look. At. This. Bitch. Right Here.
geekidog means so much to me. Y'all dont even know. Ima go ahead an answer this age old question that ive been getting comments/notes/whispers about.
Is Geekidog your GF? Are Y'all dating? Are You Guys Together?
Welp, Im here to officially Answer that. The Answer is Yes She is my Baby and i will Protect her Precious Mind and Body til i can no longer be of any Use. I'll Explain further in Detail. You tell me if we are together or not.
*GASPS CAN BE HEARD FROM THE AUDIENCE*
Yeah i know i know. "But Truffles, arent you married? Dont you love your Husband?"
Why, yes. Yes i am and Yes i do. I dont see how that has anything to do with my relationship with Geekidog. You see, I am a firm believe of "More To Love". Ive always had a Poly outlook on relationships. In Fact, i have always liked the quote "There are 8 billion people on this planet and im only allowed to love one? No, I want to be greedy. i want more than one. I want like 7." Not saying i want 7 in particular but im sure you get it. I can have a really strong relationship/friendship with someone and the only difference between them and my husband is that we dont have sex. You CAN have a strong relationship without the sex OR the desire to have sex. I know its alot to take in but trust me. You can. Platonic Relationships are a thing. You can also have a Strong relationship with every desire to be intimate or someone along the lines but just don't have the means to do so. Long Distant Relationships are a thing. You can also Love someone and have no immediate desire to do the naughty but you wouldn't mind a casual hookup if they were near by. Those relationships exist too.
I Love Geekidog with all my heart. Shit, she does so much for me and i dont even know if she knows that. Ever since i met her, ive been more... tolerable... to bullshit. Like when i talking to her, i dont get so angry about things that usually drive me up the wall. I get excited when i come home and i get to message her on skype. I cant remember the last time i felt like that, honestly... I think its when i first met my Husband... Shit man... She is amazing. Just Yesterday i was crying on the phone like a little baby and i didnt once her any annoyance in her voice when she was talking to me. Granted i was the one doing all the crying/talking but you get what i mean. She does her best to make sure i am comfortable after shit goes down. Shes always considerate of my feelings even when im not 100% there in the head. She Understands who i am. She Understand my Logic. My Thought Process. I dont have to Explain my feelings/reactions to things because she already gets it. Not too many people know me like that. I think like... 4 total. When you find someone like that? You dont fucking let go. You lock that shit down. She is worth so much and i see so many people(Family, Friends, Watchers) take that for granted. I realized that i loved this woman when i started wanting her happiness over my own. Its little shit that will make me think about her. When im out in public and i see something cute/tastey and think "wow, i think geeki would like this" instead of myself liking it. In the end i'll get 2 cause ima greedy bitch but yeah. She does the same.
Shes so considerate of my wants and needs. Its selfless. She trusts me and talks to me about everything. She can call and i will answer. Unless im on the toilet or sleep cause then im on the toilet or sleep. Sometimes i answer anyways though. She sometimes thinks that she annoys me or she is a bother but she couldnt be further from the truth. There was a point where she was afraid to talk to me about serious stuff or even minor annoyances. Now she'll call me out of the blue on some supercrazy shit in her life. I Love it. I Love hearing about it. No matter what its about, Ima always listen. Thinking about that transition in our relationship is something i can smile about. Man, Ive only known her for 2 years but i feel like thats more than enough time to really get to know someone. Im in love with her very being.
We dont have sex or kiss or anything but you don't need that to have a stable relationship. I'd be 100% ok with not getting any physical stimulation. Honestly, what i have now, what i am feeling now, is great already. So long as i get to message and annoy her everyday, ima be happy. Maybe some of yall wont understand and thats ok. Some of yall may look down on me like "she has a husband, she needs to stop" or something and that is ok too. Just past your judgement silently or come directly to me about it. At the end of the day tho? Im surrounded by people that i love and love me back. If you dont get that, I truly feel sorry for you.
As a Disclaimer tho? Being Real about this. She is free to Date whoever she wants to Date. My Feelings for her are Manageable. Meaning that if she finds a BF/GF in the future and they feel threatened by my status and presence, even with me explaining our relationship, i can modify it as She pleases so she is happy. I will respect that 100% There will be no Jealousy/Envy BS going on here. Shes a grown ass woman. If shes happy? Im happy. ...But... Dont let me find out you been mistreating her. I Will find you and Punch your very Soul outta your Body.
She is my Bae and will always be My Gumdrop.
Look. At. This. Bitch. Right Here.
geekidog means so much to me. Y'all dont even know. Ima go ahead an answer this age old question that ive been getting comments/notes/whispers about.Is Geekidog your GF? Are Y'all dating? Are You Guys Together?
Welp, Im here to officially Answer that. The Answer is Yes She is my Baby and i will Protect her Precious Mind and Body til i can no longer be of any Use. I'll Explain further in Detail. You tell me if we are together or not.
*GASPS CAN BE HEARD FROM THE AUDIENCE*
Yeah i know i know. "But Truffles, arent you married? Dont you love your Husband?"
Why, yes. Yes i am and Yes i do. I dont see how that has anything to do with my relationship with Geekidog. You see, I am a firm believe of "More To Love". Ive always had a Poly outlook on relationships. In Fact, i have always liked the quote "There are 8 billion people on this planet and im only allowed to love one? No, I want to be greedy. i want more than one. I want like 7." Not saying i want 7 in particular but im sure you get it. I can have a really strong relationship/friendship with someone and the only difference between them and my husband is that we dont have sex. You CAN have a strong relationship without the sex OR the desire to have sex. I know its alot to take in but trust me. You can. Platonic Relationships are a thing. You can also have a Strong relationship with every desire to be intimate or someone along the lines but just don't have the means to do so. Long Distant Relationships are a thing. You can also Love someone and have no immediate desire to do the naughty but you wouldn't mind a casual hookup if they were near by. Those relationships exist too.
I Love Geekidog with all my heart. Shit, she does so much for me and i dont even know if she knows that. Ever since i met her, ive been more... tolerable... to bullshit. Like when i talking to her, i dont get so angry about things that usually drive me up the wall. I get excited when i come home and i get to message her on skype. I cant remember the last time i felt like that, honestly... I think its when i first met my Husband... Shit man... She is amazing. Just Yesterday i was crying on the phone like a little baby and i didnt once her any annoyance in her voice when she was talking to me. Granted i was the one doing all the crying/talking but you get what i mean. She does her best to make sure i am comfortable after shit goes down. Shes always considerate of my feelings even when im not 100% there in the head. She Understands who i am. She Understand my Logic. My Thought Process. I dont have to Explain my feelings/reactions to things because she already gets it. Not too many people know me like that. I think like... 4 total. When you find someone like that? You dont fucking let go. You lock that shit down. She is worth so much and i see so many people(Family, Friends, Watchers) take that for granted. I realized that i loved this woman when i started wanting her happiness over my own. Its little shit that will make me think about her. When im out in public and i see something cute/tastey and think "wow, i think geeki would like this" instead of myself liking it. In the end i'll get 2 cause ima greedy bitch but yeah. She does the same.
Shes so considerate of my wants and needs. Its selfless. She trusts me and talks to me about everything. She can call and i will answer. Unless im on the toilet or sleep cause then im on the toilet or sleep. Sometimes i answer anyways though. She sometimes thinks that she annoys me or she is a bother but she couldnt be further from the truth. There was a point where she was afraid to talk to me about serious stuff or even minor annoyances. Now she'll call me out of the blue on some supercrazy shit in her life. I Love it. I Love hearing about it. No matter what its about, Ima always listen. Thinking about that transition in our relationship is something i can smile about. Man, Ive only known her for 2 years but i feel like thats more than enough time to really get to know someone. Im in love with her very being.
We dont have sex or kiss or anything but you don't need that to have a stable relationship. I'd be 100% ok with not getting any physical stimulation. Honestly, what i have now, what i am feeling now, is great already. So long as i get to message and annoy her everyday, ima be happy. Maybe some of yall wont understand and thats ok. Some of yall may look down on me like "she has a husband, she needs to stop" or something and that is ok too. Just past your judgement silently or come directly to me about it. At the end of the day tho? Im surrounded by people that i love and love me back. If you dont get that, I truly feel sorry for you.
As a Disclaimer tho? Being Real about this. She is free to Date whoever she wants to Date. My Feelings for her are Manageable. Meaning that if she finds a BF/GF in the future and they feel threatened by my status and presence, even with me explaining our relationship, i can modify it as She pleases so she is happy. I will respect that 100% There will be no Jealousy/Envy BS going on here. Shes a grown ass woman. If shes happy? Im happy. ...But... Dont let me find out you been mistreating her. I Will find you and Punch your very Soul outta your Body.
She is my Bae and will always be My Gumdrop.
Why, yes. Yes i am and Yes i do. I dont see how that has anything to do with my relationship with Geekidog. You see, I am a firm believe of "More To Love". Ive always had a Poly outlook on relationships. In Fact, i have always liked the quote "There are 8 billion people on this planet and im only allowed to love one? No, I want to be greedy. i want more than one. I want like 7." Not saying i want 7 in particular but im sure you get it. I can have a really strong relationship/friendship with someone and the only difference between them and my husband is that we dont have sex. You CAN have a strong relationship without the sex OR the desire to have sex. I know its alot to take in but trust me. You can. Platonic Relationships are a thing. You can also have a Strong relationship with every desire to be intimate or someone along the lines but just don't have the means to do so. Long Distant Relationships are a thing. You can also Love someone and have no immediate desire to do the naughty but you wouldn't mind a casual hookup if they were near by. Those relationships exist too."
This this this this this times 8 million.
Happy for ya'll, you have your own unique things going on, and it's totally your thing. XD! It's just love, doesn't need a label or someone else's definition. Love isn't a cookie cutter, it's something more organic and each love you hold or share in your life is unique and varies by person.
I feel as though as long as nobody is getting hurt then why not. obviously this is something you've discussed with your husband and all that and i'm so happy for you guys ^^
" I Will find you and Punch your very Soul outta your Body." That part cracked me up though.
Everything else i was like yaas Geeki and Truffles my OTP over here
But my curiosity was sated by this and I think it's just awesome.
Official congrats to you two ^^
I get you though. I feel like with poly relationships people act like that kid on Christmas story. "TWO (+) LOVERS?? YOU'LL SHOOT YOUR EYE OUT KID. (ruin your marraige, whatev. P sure YOU are the one that decides that
ANYWAY> YOu two are fucking cute. I hope you draw lots of pr0nz of you guys when you get your tablet for every naysayer. DROWN THE HATE WITH LOVE.