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9 years ago
Since I seem to have some followers, some mutuals even, who don't seem to have any idea who they're following based on their views I guess I better put out a general warning about some things? Idk. Use this information however you will.
Basically I'm trans, agender identified, and feel very uncomfortable around cis people (particularly men) due to past experiences. I'm also kin, which for some reason seems to be the real deal breaker w people. I don't talk about it much, or at all, but I consider myself kin so. shrugs. I'm also mentally ill (bpd,ptsd,anxiety and manic depression to name a couple things) so I guess that's important.
If you're chill w throwing around transphobic/racist/ableist/sexist slurs, enjoy being Super Edgy and hate """sjws""" then lets face it, this isn't the place for you. like at all. we're just not gonna get along.
idk im so tired and im seeing this in my inbox a lot where its like how did i end up following a bunch of ppl who i probably would not like to interact with at all?? ? but its w/e. you do you and ill do me, but you probably dont wanna follow me if the part in bold speaks to you.
I'm not gonna argue about it, as I said take this information however you want it, it's up to u.
Basically I'm trans, agender identified, and feel very uncomfortable around cis people (particularly men) due to past experiences. I'm also kin, which for some reason seems to be the real deal breaker w people. I don't talk about it much, or at all, but I consider myself kin so. shrugs. I'm also mentally ill (bpd,ptsd,anxiety and manic depression to name a couple things) so I guess that's important.
If you're chill w throwing around transphobic/racist/ableist/sexist slurs, enjoy being Super Edgy and hate """sjws""" then lets face it, this isn't the place for you. like at all. we're just not gonna get along.
idk im so tired and im seeing this in my inbox a lot where its like how did i end up following a bunch of ppl who i probably would not like to interact with at all?? ? but its w/e. you do you and ill do me, but you probably dont wanna follow me if the part in bold speaks to you.
I'm not gonna argue about it, as I said take this information however you want it, it's up to u.
needless to say when i was honest and said that i probably wouldn't follow them anymore they blocked me so BIG SHRUGGY idk how ppl like that got so close but my experiences w FA haven't been the best so MAYBE THATS WHY
FA is just, I dunno, tricky at best sometimes. At this point I just let people filter in and out naturally, too tired to fight about it, but some of the stuff that comes up sometimes is just grade-a skeevy.
I LIKE TO HAVE FA JUST. ON THE BACKBURNER. im more active on my art blog/twitter/dA because ive been able to kinda. get a feel for the people i surround myself with but FA is like. uncharted territory to me. MAYBE ITS JUST ME WHOS WEIRD, IDK.
but yea i totally agree i dont like. talkin about my views esp on art sites cos god do people Not Like That but sometimes u just gotta put ur foot down i guess
i find it really jarring that so many people who consider themselves "anti sjws who fight for real equality" are usually the same people attacking and isolating someone for simply being mentally ill, trans, or any of the above
i really dont want to know anyone who thinks they can pick and choose who they give respect to so its refreshing to see mutuals speaking up about this
and Exactly Exactly if you want to give respect to someone, give it to all. let people be if they're not hurtin anyone?? ?? ? idk its so ridic
its like..for people who complain about how sjws are the ones "ruining" everything we're not the ones disturbing ppl who are just minding their own business and harassing them?? jfc
i see it all the time in like. comments like 'HOO BOY HERE COME THE SJWS' and then. no one comes. because no one actually gives a fuck about ur petty ass bullshit? its so shocking.
I genuinely don't understand how someone can be trans with mental disabilities but be anti sjw.
its because 'sjws' are the new scapegoat, most probably. its suddenly cool not to care about social justice? i know i used to Hate being called a sjw but its like??? it doesnt change anything ive said. im polite about getting the word out, i dont scream about it, but if im still labelled an sjw then like what can ya do???
ppl want to get away from the stereotype that was, to be fair, not really one that we made for ourselves at all.
And yeah, it's the same thing with people being anti feminist but pro equality and I'm just sitting here like you know feminism = equality right?? People misusing the titles don't make it okay to suddenly get up in arms about how terrible the entire group is.
AND THATS EXACTLY IT ITS THE SAME THING WHEN PPL GO 'LOL GO BACK TO TUMBLR' like u realize that its. more than one person. theres no hivemind. u just act like there is to seem cool
&Right??? Feminist or for equality in any way? Politely asking to not be discriminated against / not called certain slurs? Obviously a Tumblr user. That annoys me to no end.
yep thats how it is no matter how kind u are if u dont like a thing ur obviously just a tumblr user amirite
i dont even get why people make big posts about?? not being accepting of people like im sorry but are u proud of that lmfao
luckily ive never really dealt with it since im never on here BUT PEOPLE LIKE THAT are super gross >: \\\
AND I DONT KNOW? THEY WANNA START FIGHTS? WHO KNOWS
AND THEY ARE. THEYRE TOTES GROSS
and yet they still come
thats honestly infuriating
but eeeyy fellow agender mentally ill 'kin! yeah I find that to be the "deal-breaker" sometimes, which is why I use it to like... weed out the assholes.