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9 years ago
I've kinda attempted this before here, but with spring upon us once more I thought I'd just go all out. To hell with embarrassment!
I am looking for a female that I find attractive, both physically and mentally, to hopefully start a relationship with.
Yes, I am aware it is odd to be doing this through FA. I do have profiles on a few dating sites that I try to be active with, I have gone to dating events, and I keep an eye out for anybody I could strike up a conversation with. However, I haven't had much luck in finding that someone yet and there's always the problem of the fact that, yeah, I'm kinda a perv, as shown by what I do and what I'm interested in here on FA :P "I write stories about girls being inflated with cum and squirting milk from their bewbs" is awkward to bring up in most cases XD (Yes, I do have enough social tact to not actually say that, but the hyperbole gets the point across).
So why not FA then? If you've seen my stuff here and you're comfortable with it or even appreciate it, that's a large chunk of the wall out of the way. I'm not going to get my hopes up, but it's worth the try.
If you're a girl looking for a guy and you think you might be interested, please go ahead and note me. I have an OkCupid profile that I can share that provides more information about me, as long as I can get one from you in return. It's free to set one up, so that seems like a good route, but I'm up for making a profile on other sites if asked. Either way, I'd try to get to know you with some chatting and eventually some Skyping first to become friends, and then if things seem to be going well then we can go a step further :)
If you know of a girl that might be interested, feel free to send her my way too. I won't reject set-ups :P
That's a bit blunt, but I don't really have anything to lose by trying here ^^
And for some quick basics, here's a rundown.
About me
I'm a 29 year old guy in Chicago with a stable job, while making erotica as a hobby (of course). I'm not ashamed to admit it; I'm a virgin and I've never actually been in a real relationship before. I've had opportunities, but I've always aimed for a meaningful relationship first and only after my life was stable enough to support it. Now it is, so I'm open to it.
I'm 6', kinda on the thin to average size, white, dirty blonde hair, got a goatee, no tattoos or piercings. I've got a couple bachelor degrees, tend to use my brain more than my brawn, don't drink or smoke, and I think I'm generally well-adjusted.
You can probably gather more about my personality from how I write and what I've created, rather than what I can put here. Though, despite my kinky nature here, I'm relatively reserved and gentle compared to what I've seen from "normal" people. But, "normal" people won't suggest inducing lactation or enjoying pregnancy either, so there's trade-offs I suppose :P
What I prefer
Let me preface this by saying: I mean no disrespect to anybody. These are merely things I find more attractive in a potential close relationship. I'm friends with plenty of people that don't fall into these and I know some people might take these preferences as hate against the opposite. But my aim is to be honest and up front, rather than offend.
I am interested in a biological female. Biological hermaphrodites are cool too, but possible pregnancy is the main goal. Not saying anytime soon, but I look forward to raising children in the future, from conception onward. Otherwise, physically I do also prefer someone on the thinner side. Short and tall are both great, along with many variations in bust-waist-hips, but I'm not a big guy myself and it's nice to have someone similar. The rest of the features can vary wildly, there's many combinations I think are particularly attractive and even moreso once I get to know the person.
Mentally though, I'm totally looking for somebody that I can converse with for hours. That is so satisfying to find in someone. I don't mean rattling on and on pointlessly, but being able to keep an open dialogue is important to me. Also no drama-lamas, I just don't have the energy to maintain them. The rest of the personality preference is really just a matter of the whole. Shy girls are super-cute when they're still motivated and social girls are fun when they still retain their own identity, etc. I am a nerd that plays video games and Magic the Gathering while watching anime and youtube and so on, so a nerdy/geeky girl would be cool, though having separate interests that can be shared might work well too.
This should be interesting, at least. It'd be good to even make a couple of new female friends out of it, if nothing else. Could do some online gaming or some tv show/anime/movie watching or simply enjoy talking. If you're local, we could go out somewhere fun. If there was somebody long distance, I'm potentially up for flying around.
So yeah, thanks for reading and the consideration. If this journal is still up, then I'm still looking. If it's not, I might have found someone or I realized this was a bad idea and deleted it :P
I am looking for a female that I find attractive, both physically and mentally, to hopefully start a relationship with.
Yes, I am aware it is odd to be doing this through FA. I do have profiles on a few dating sites that I try to be active with, I have gone to dating events, and I keep an eye out for anybody I could strike up a conversation with. However, I haven't had much luck in finding that someone yet and there's always the problem of the fact that, yeah, I'm kinda a perv, as shown by what I do and what I'm interested in here on FA :P "I write stories about girls being inflated with cum and squirting milk from their bewbs" is awkward to bring up in most cases XD (Yes, I do have enough social tact to not actually say that, but the hyperbole gets the point across).
So why not FA then? If you've seen my stuff here and you're comfortable with it or even appreciate it, that's a large chunk of the wall out of the way. I'm not going to get my hopes up, but it's worth the try.
If you're a girl looking for a guy and you think you might be interested, please go ahead and note me. I have an OkCupid profile that I can share that provides more information about me, as long as I can get one from you in return. It's free to set one up, so that seems like a good route, but I'm up for making a profile on other sites if asked. Either way, I'd try to get to know you with some chatting and eventually some Skyping first to become friends, and then if things seem to be going well then we can go a step further :)
If you know of a girl that might be interested, feel free to send her my way too. I won't reject set-ups :P
That's a bit blunt, but I don't really have anything to lose by trying here ^^
And for some quick basics, here's a rundown.
About me
I'm a 29 year old guy in Chicago with a stable job, while making erotica as a hobby (of course). I'm not ashamed to admit it; I'm a virgin and I've never actually been in a real relationship before. I've had opportunities, but I've always aimed for a meaningful relationship first and only after my life was stable enough to support it. Now it is, so I'm open to it.
I'm 6', kinda on the thin to average size, white, dirty blonde hair, got a goatee, no tattoos or piercings. I've got a couple bachelor degrees, tend to use my brain more than my brawn, don't drink or smoke, and I think I'm generally well-adjusted.
You can probably gather more about my personality from how I write and what I've created, rather than what I can put here. Though, despite my kinky nature here, I'm relatively reserved and gentle compared to what I've seen from "normal" people. But, "normal" people won't suggest inducing lactation or enjoying pregnancy either, so there's trade-offs I suppose :P
What I prefer
Let me preface this by saying: I mean no disrespect to anybody. These are merely things I find more attractive in a potential close relationship. I'm friends with plenty of people that don't fall into these and I know some people might take these preferences as hate against the opposite. But my aim is to be honest and up front, rather than offend.
I am interested in a biological female. Biological hermaphrodites are cool too, but possible pregnancy is the main goal. Not saying anytime soon, but I look forward to raising children in the future, from conception onward. Otherwise, physically I do also prefer someone on the thinner side. Short and tall are both great, along with many variations in bust-waist-hips, but I'm not a big guy myself and it's nice to have someone similar. The rest of the features can vary wildly, there's many combinations I think are particularly attractive and even moreso once I get to know the person.
Mentally though, I'm totally looking for somebody that I can converse with for hours. That is so satisfying to find in someone. I don't mean rattling on and on pointlessly, but being able to keep an open dialogue is important to me. Also no drama-lamas, I just don't have the energy to maintain them. The rest of the personality preference is really just a matter of the whole. Shy girls are super-cute when they're still motivated and social girls are fun when they still retain their own identity, etc. I am a nerd that plays video games and Magic the Gathering while watching anime and youtube and so on, so a nerdy/geeky girl would be cool, though having separate interests that can be shared might work well too.
This should be interesting, at least. It'd be good to even make a couple of new female friends out of it, if nothing else. Could do some online gaming or some tv show/anime/movie watching or simply enjoy talking. If you're local, we could go out somewhere fun. If there was somebody long distance, I'm potentially up for flying around.
So yeah, thanks for reading and the consideration. If this journal is still up, then I'm still looking. If it's not, I might have found someone or I realized this was a bad idea and deleted it :P
Well, wishing you the best of luck in your search!
Hello to you too
But I'd love to make a new friend! - especially when judging from your description you're a cool guy ^-^
And I'm sure that you'll find someone someday, it's just a matter of life finding you the right person ^-^
But yeah, cool to see you came here for Nimin. At the very least I am curious what women think of these things; I almost created a survey for girls to get into it. I'm up for chatting with you, so feel free to send me a note with whatever program you use to chat, or just chat through notes ^^
It happened a long time ago. I was fresh out of university and my then girlfriend (who was my first "real" girlfriend) just dumped me. I tried hooking with other girls but they were not interested in me. Then there was this coworker of mine, I didn't really like her: she had a penchant to nag, wasn't too attractive and could stand to lose a few pounds, but then I am not exactly Rudolph Valentino myself, plus I was young and just wanted something soft and female at hand. The thought was that it would be something temporary, a stop-gap measure until I found my true love.
Fast forward to present day. We are married for over 20 years and have three children together. She still nags but it is because she gets passionate about things, and she has many positive qualities to compensate, qualities that I only discovered after I got to know her better. Do I love her? Yes. Is she perfect? No, but then nobody is. Would I have been happier with another? Possibly, but the chances are low.
Finding the moral of the story is left as an exercise to the reader.
None of his wants have anything to do with the mind and even when it comes to the mind he sets parameters that have nothing to with being a thinking growing individual but everything to do with being your own identity so you are not dependent on him... But what sort of identity? What sort of being? These are important questions for who you tie yourself, they are the core of who you are.. And never does he mention caring about you really are just as long as you you are x,y, and z - which have nothing to do with you really are.
People destroy one another quite easily and this is one way of thousands. Following a zombie, asleep in the coach as the horse leads them along a random yet shallow path of life.
And as for what you're spouting, it is entertaining, and highly hyperbolic :P I'm not sure if you're trying to teach me a lesson or warn others away from me, but either way, I don't think announcing a few meager preferences warrants going all sheeple and tin-foil-hat on me. I know I like to know a girl's basic preferences before realizing we are incompatible on a ground level.
But I'm always up for making friends! :D Feel free to message me if ya ever wanna hang and get coffee! I'd be more than down! I'm nerdy, read comics, play video games, and love a good board game.