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9 years ago
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So This I feel needs to be addressed. Mainly due to an influx of people who just want to either 'add' random furs on places or some other reason. There's a couple things you 'need' to know with me. I'm not claiming to be some special little snowflake so this is going to be put bluntly.
The reasoning I feel the need to say any of this... is because seriously... I get that people want to make friends... But adding me out of no-where with no 'hello, this is XXX from FA or F-list or Inkbunny' like gets annoying when they keep asking 'you okay' and they get surprised with the same answer I give.
Like... Yes... I know I am in a very bad state of mind... A mental hospital won't help (They're built to contain... not help people). I deal with my issues in my own unique way... that so far has been much more effective in my opinion despite it seemingly 'dangerous.'
Literally the best way you can help is just talk... talk and keep me distracted if I have time to be distracted... like when I have free time you know?
Just talk and hope i'm not busy or dealing with my issues and bam. There you go. Your helping.
Yes it seems minuscule... but trust me when I say this... It. Helps.
Talk about Games, art, rpg classes, whats your favorite role, something you like, tell me about your character, what do they like or dislike... anything helps.
Hell if you leave a message and I don't reply... I'm either asleep, at work or school or dealing with my issues... and I will read your message... I won't just leave it in the dark. I do appreciate every message that is sent to me. Just understand I tend to be very realistic.
- I have mental disorders, MDD(Major clinical depression) and Hallucinatory Schizophrenia (This will keep continuing to 'develop' in my brain until it has fully 'affected' my brain. Its progress has been severely slowed due to me not taking ANY medications).
- I Have died already twice. My enthusiasm to live is heavily lacking at times.
- I am both optimistic and very realistic in my view on the issue of me 'getting better'.
- I tend to be very quiet as i'm either asleep, at work, at school, or distracting myself to silence hallucinations.
- I HAVE seen professional help and they've said the same thing I've said. (Whatever your taking, keep taking it as it is slowing down your schizophrenia. (Shocker as I'm not on anything))
- I WILL NOT ask you to stay, unless I really do value our friend/relationship. If I feel like I am being a downer to you. I will ask if you wish to delete me. Its no skin off my back as you are a stranger and your input isn't really 'valued'.
- Don't add me and say you 'care', then not even help and just say 'you need professional help'. I've endured more than you can imagine and saying that is the quickest way for you to get deleted. The reasoning I feel the need to say any of this... is because seriously... I get that people want to make friends... But adding me out of no-where with no 'hello, this is XXX from FA or F-list or Inkbunny' like gets annoying when they keep asking 'you okay' and they get surprised with the same answer I give.
Like... Yes... I know I am in a very bad state of mind... A mental hospital won't help (They're built to contain... not help people). I deal with my issues in my own unique way... that so far has been much more effective in my opinion despite it seemingly 'dangerous.'
IF YOU WANT TO HELP Literally the best way you can help is just talk... talk and keep me distracted if I have time to be distracted... like when I have free time you know?
Just talk and hope i'm not busy or dealing with my issues and bam. There you go. Your helping.
Yes it seems minuscule... but trust me when I say this... It. Helps.
Talk about Games, art, rpg classes, whats your favorite role, something you like, tell me about your character, what do they like or dislike... anything helps.
Hell if you leave a message and I don't reply... I'm either asleep, at work or school or dealing with my issues... and I will read your message... I won't just leave it in the dark. I do appreciate every message that is sent to me. Just understand I tend to be very realistic.
