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I don't know what else to do...(Please Share)
9 years ago
Because I want anyone reading or considering helping out to be comfrotable doing so:
PROOF OF EVERYTHING STATED IN THIS JOURNAL CAN BE PROVIDED UPON REQUEST VIA NOTE
I don't even know where to begin I've been bottling this up for so long, I've been trying so hard to handle it as best I could even if it took time but time is the last thing
I've kept it between me and him because I hate to trouble or be dependent on anyone but I have to face the fact that we need help
I know so far I've been vague so I'll explain the best I can. Though I don't broadcast it or talk much about it because I've never felt the need to I've had a boyfriend for abit over a year.
He's all I could ask for in a partner and vice versa but his family does not see it that way at all. As I think most of you are aware I'm Black/African American and while I've been affected negatively by it every
once in a while during my life NEVER has it affected someone else so directly. When we first started dating race wasn't an issue since his parents were unaware of it, but once they discovered it is when all everything began to go downhill
despite my best efforts to make a good impression it is quite clear I am not welcome in their house nor was I welcome to date their son, however (obviously) my boyfriend disagreed with all of this and stuck with me anyway which to this day I am still incredibly appreciative for but when they began to realize I wasn't going away their disapproval was directed at him in the form of berating language, lectures, and general arguments, their behavior escalated to not letting him leave the house to see me and soon not at all unless it was for school/work/or somewhere with them.
We still managed to see each other with him sneaking him out in the mornings or when they are out for the day, though I regret those actions probably making the situation worse but as anticipated their attitude continued to the point were they refused to help him with anything, first they held his social security card/immunizations/and tax information which nearly prevented him from getting a job and FAFSA, but now currently they refuse to pay for any of his well being such as food WHICH IS BULLSHIT since they take money from his account to pay for certain bills (he lets them because they are necessities for the house) but his job is seasonal and with them taking amounts ranging from 500$ to 2000$ at a time his savings aren't going to last long at all. As much as I wished his parents were the only problem his own brother has abusive tendencies and has threatens us both in the past for not giving him things he wants (if anyone wants me to elaborate on this please note me as I'd rather not dwell on it here)
Seeing all of these things against him does not do well for his mental at all and I see it affecting him when were together and it kills me. My mother has offered to rent us the upstairs of our duplex as we have a rather nasty tenate living there and she'd prefer to have a trustworthy one, but unfortunately here it's not simple to just kick someone out even if they are shitty and have disrespected the other residents, or cost nearly 8,000+ in damages so I have been patiently waiting and saving but things have only worsened for my boyfriend at home and I honestly don't know how long he can manage especially with the messages he's sent me during venting, so I've been desperately searching for places for us to stay until then, and while there are some promising locations we don't have enough savings to actually make a move
so I'm asking, begging even for anyone's help in any of the following ways
I have several designs still open for sale// I will also be posting several YCHs soon!
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-639270901
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....eper-638321824
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-634701481
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....LEFT-628877939
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-624008898
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....ebut-619434669
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....ints-605034686
If you want to help and get something in return you can order a commission from me or pledge to my patreon, even a dollar would be incredibly helpful
https://www.patreon.com/silverslurs
http://silverslurs.weebly.com/price.....-to-order.html
And though I really really hate to ask any sort of donations even if it was cents would be greatly appreciated
PAYPAL.ME/SILVERPOCKY
Even if you can not help monatarily you sharing this would be incredibly encouraging and I would be so so SO thankful
PROOF OF EVERYTHING STATED IN THIS JOURNAL CAN BE PROVIDED UPON REQUEST VIA NOTE
I don't even know where to begin I've been bottling this up for so long, I've been trying so hard to handle it as best I could even if it took time but time is the last thing
I've kept it between me and him because I hate to trouble or be dependent on anyone but I have to face the fact that we need help
I know so far I've been vague so I'll explain the best I can. Though I don't broadcast it or talk much about it because I've never felt the need to I've had a boyfriend for abit over a year.
He's all I could ask for in a partner and vice versa but his family does not see it that way at all. As I think most of you are aware I'm Black/African American and while I've been affected negatively by it every
once in a while during my life NEVER has it affected someone else so directly. When we first started dating race wasn't an issue since his parents were unaware of it, but once they discovered it is when all everything began to go downhill
despite my best efforts to make a good impression it is quite clear I am not welcome in their house nor was I welcome to date their son, however (obviously) my boyfriend disagreed with all of this and stuck with me anyway which to this day I am still incredibly appreciative for but when they began to realize I wasn't going away their disapproval was directed at him in the form of berating language, lectures, and general arguments, their behavior escalated to not letting him leave the house to see me and soon not at all unless it was for school/work/or somewhere with them.
We still managed to see each other with him sneaking him out in the mornings or when they are out for the day, though I regret those actions probably making the situation worse but as anticipated their attitude continued to the point were they refused to help him with anything, first they held his social security card/immunizations/and tax information which nearly prevented him from getting a job and FAFSA, but now currently they refuse to pay for any of his well being such as food WHICH IS BULLSHIT since they take money from his account to pay for certain bills (he lets them because they are necessities for the house) but his job is seasonal and with them taking amounts ranging from 500$ to 2000$ at a time his savings aren't going to last long at all. As much as I wished his parents were the only problem his own brother has abusive tendencies and has threatens us both in the past for not giving him things he wants (if anyone wants me to elaborate on this please note me as I'd rather not dwell on it here)
Seeing all of these things against him does not do well for his mental at all and I see it affecting him when were together and it kills me. My mother has offered to rent us the upstairs of our duplex as we have a rather nasty tenate living there and she'd prefer to have a trustworthy one, but unfortunately here it's not simple to just kick someone out even if they are shitty and have disrespected the other residents, or cost nearly 8,000+ in damages so I have been patiently waiting and saving but things have only worsened for my boyfriend at home and I honestly don't know how long he can manage especially with the messages he's sent me during venting, so I've been desperately searching for places for us to stay until then, and while there are some promising locations we don't have enough savings to actually make a move
so I'm asking, begging even for anyone's help in any of the following ways
I have several designs still open for sale// I will also be posting several YCHs soon!
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-639270901
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....eper-638321824
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-634701481
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....LEFT-628877939
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....OPEN-624008898
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....ebut-619434669
http://silverpocky.deviantart.com/a.....ints-605034686
If you want to help and get something in return you can order a commission from me or pledge to my patreon, even a dollar would be incredibly helpful
https://www.patreon.com/silverslurs
http://silverslurs.weebly.com/price.....-to-order.html
And though I really really hate to ask any sort of donations even if it was cents would be greatly appreciated
PAYPAL.ME/SILVERPOCKY
Even if you can not help monatarily you sharing this would be incredibly encouraging and I would be so so SO thankful
People can be such assholes. Im really hoping you two can be together soon and not have to deal with their bs
I so wish they weren't sighh, but thank you again for the hopes/wishes I really appreciate it
I'm sorry, but I can't spare anything right now. Maybe next paycheck on the first I'll have a hundred or two to send your way, but I can't promise that.
Also, I'll hit up
Luckily the SSID situation was rectified, the money likely is not be I plan to make him start a new bank account that they won't know about/can't access
I will share this journal too
BUT I WOULD ABSOLUTELY LOVE THAT?? The place my mother has is fine and all but I don't see her evicting our tenant anytime soon and a more affordable place might be best while we save and wait? If it's not to much trouble I'll shoot a note to you <33
Even if I need to refer you to someone else
I know he is letting them use his account but it feels like they are taking advantage of it at this point. Their refusal to buy him even food sent red flags to me
I don't have any money to give unfortunately but i sincerely hope that you and your boyfriend find a place to live together so he can escape his family.
I definitely agree that they use the account for more than just bills as he's told me that his father "borrowed" 2000$ to buy clients and supplies from someone who was retiring which I had hoped would mean more chances to make money and PAY HIM BACK but I really highly doubt it
Thank you so much for the wishes, it is just as appreciated <33