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8 years ago
https://www.gofundme.com/bring-my-wife-back-to-me
Hello,
I am not good at this but I have to try. last month when me and my wife were trying to cross the broader into Canada like we have done a bunch of times we got an excepted problem. she was told to withdraw her entry into Canada. this shocked me of course. once I was able to start asking questions it was because they felt I was trying to sneak her into the country. we have been working away at Immigration for the last couple years getting the forums ready and some of the other information we need collected. what stopped us for submitting is my debt. they said I was just trying to cheat the system and sneak her in illegally which wasn't the case. I had everything you would need to stay here as a visitor and every other time the broader crossing guards told us we were doing a good job and to keep at it just make sure we follow the visa restrictions which we did. they said the other guards weren't doing there jobs by letting her in the country. so now she is flagged and can't come back into Canada till I submit the paper work for Immigration.
I was 20K in the hole when I moved into my moms place so I could live cheaper and pay back debt. I was at only at 10,000 left before this happened 1 more year to fully pay this off. but now I had pay for things like her last minute flight, extra luggage, food ect. so that put me up to 13,000. I have been selling things like hockey tickets I won, my lego super girl, magic cards, video games all trying to raise the money I need faster. I am doing other things as well like making my food budget less/ talking with my insurances trying to change the policies so I can pay less. ect.
why do I need to pay back the debt. now like I said I live with my mom because of my debt and if I submit the paper work saying I live with my mom then they will see it as me as a dependent trying to bring in a dependent. so on top of all that I have to move before I have submit and without that debt it would be a lot easier.
how I got the debt? well I got stupid years back. my last partner before Peggy I was madly in love with her. I had 2 jobs at the time both part time. I worked very hard to save up for a ring to ask her to marry me but sadly she got suddenly ill and passed away. I was 23 years old not sleeping much between 2 jobs and school... I lost it, I couldn't handle it. so once school was over I went down to one job and I just kept spending money I didn't have. in the end to me it didn't matter as I was planning on ending it before my 25th bday. I am 31 now. with help from friends and doctors and a lot of therapy I was able to over come it but I had that debt since I tap out all the money the banks offered while I was in school.
once I got full time I was trying to pay it back but it was super hard. so once I got married me and Peggy were working on ways to pay back the money I owe and my mom did the first nice thing she has done for me. I could stay with her and pay back debt. I asked Immigration about everything I wanted to do and what not and they told me I should be ok to keep doing this with visitor visas till I was paid off and then submit my application.
I am not sure what else I can say other then please share this journal or the link to my go fund me or if you can also donate every dollars helps so if its money that fell in the couch cushions that would great!
if you feel uneasy and want to ask questions please do so I will do my best!
and again thank you for just taking the time to read this! your are awesome for doing so.
https://www.gofundme.com/bring-my-wife-back-to-me
Thank you.
Hello,
I am not good at this but I have to try. last month when me and my wife were trying to cross the broader into Canada like we have done a bunch of times we got an excepted problem. she was told to withdraw her entry into Canada. this shocked me of course. once I was able to start asking questions it was because they felt I was trying to sneak her into the country. we have been working away at Immigration for the last couple years getting the forums ready and some of the other information we need collected. what stopped us for submitting is my debt. they said I was just trying to cheat the system and sneak her in illegally which wasn't the case. I had everything you would need to stay here as a visitor and every other time the broader crossing guards told us we were doing a good job and to keep at it just make sure we follow the visa restrictions which we did. they said the other guards weren't doing there jobs by letting her in the country. so now she is flagged and can't come back into Canada till I submit the paper work for Immigration.
I was 20K in the hole when I moved into my moms place so I could live cheaper and pay back debt. I was at only at 10,000 left before this happened 1 more year to fully pay this off. but now I had pay for things like her last minute flight, extra luggage, food ect. so that put me up to 13,000. I have been selling things like hockey tickets I won, my lego super girl, magic cards, video games all trying to raise the money I need faster. I am doing other things as well like making my food budget less/ talking with my insurances trying to change the policies so I can pay less. ect.
why do I need to pay back the debt. now like I said I live with my mom because of my debt and if I submit the paper work saying I live with my mom then they will see it as me as a dependent trying to bring in a dependent. so on top of all that I have to move before I have submit and without that debt it would be a lot easier.
how I got the debt? well I got stupid years back. my last partner before Peggy I was madly in love with her. I had 2 jobs at the time both part time. I worked very hard to save up for a ring to ask her to marry me but sadly she got suddenly ill and passed away. I was 23 years old not sleeping much between 2 jobs and school... I lost it, I couldn't handle it. so once school was over I went down to one job and I just kept spending money I didn't have. in the end to me it didn't matter as I was planning on ending it before my 25th bday. I am 31 now. with help from friends and doctors and a lot of therapy I was able to over come it but I had that debt since I tap out all the money the banks offered while I was in school.
once I got full time I was trying to pay it back but it was super hard. so once I got married me and Peggy were working on ways to pay back the money I owe and my mom did the first nice thing she has done for me. I could stay with her and pay back debt. I asked Immigration about everything I wanted to do and what not and they told me I should be ok to keep doing this with visitor visas till I was paid off and then submit my application.
I am not sure what else I can say other then please share this journal or the link to my go fund me or if you can also donate every dollars helps so if its money that fell in the couch cushions that would great!
if you feel uneasy and want to ask questions please do so I will do my best!
and again thank you for just taking the time to read this! your are awesome for doing so.
https://www.gofundme.com/bring-my-wife-back-to-me
Thank you.
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