FML. (Small Update)
8 years ago
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So, I've been calling our lender for the past 5 days non stop and he's been avoiding my calls. Called the real estate lady and she said he, 'Just didn't have anything new to tell us' as if that was some kind of excuse for him not answering (BUT HE'S STILL CALLING HER FOR SOME REASON??). Our closing date is literally in 1 week. Just 7 days. Now he calls us, right before the appraisal (Which is supposed to be happening as I type this and we have just had to cancel, YAY FOR $500 DOWN THE HOLE THAT WE CAN'T GET BACK) and has a whole list of things that we need to do before we can get the house. ALL OF THESE THINGS TAKE A LONG WHILE TO DO. And apparently he has known about them for a good week now. So now we have to figure out how to take my boyfriends mom's car loan out of her name and put it into one of ours (We literally just did this a few weeks ago with our own car loan because the lender told us we would need to so who knows if we can take another. It took like, 3 weeks to swap this car loan btw. So, woooo!) We also ALL need to find jobs in that state (It's 6 hours away from us) and be working at those jobs for at least 2 weeks (Again, we are supposed to close in a week and the lender has known about this for at least a week) before we can close. AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, LEMME JUST ADD THIS LITTLE POOP CHERRY TO THE TOP OF THIS CACA SUNDAE....
My boyfriends mom AND my boyfriend have already quit their jobs and we have sold all of our furniture. SO IF IT FALLS THROUGH I DON'T EVEN HAVE A STOVE OR A FRIDGE OR A FUCKING BED.
I'm so fucking done. Please post your characters in the comments below, I need to see cute things right now. ;~;
Previous journals for more information about the situation:
First Journal
First Update
Here's Alice. I hope she can help lift your mood, and I hope things get better
This is Paz. He is a beautiful, bottom heavy noodle.
I've been told she is cute she hopefully you will like her! Also not nsfw
Your lender doesn't sound professional. I don't know where you are going through but they don't sound good at all. If you live in the USA I know every state has certain grants and financing for first time home buyers. Also I don't know what having the cars in your name would do? Maybe to show credit line? But I would assume you've had other loans and such. I don't know a lot of about homes but I worked in small loans for a while and none of this sounds right.
Kei & Tei - The cutest creatures I own lol - https://sta.sh/02ewn2qx4ecz
I know I'm a bit late, and I just now seen this, but here *gives you giant box of fortune cookies*
I hope you're feeling better! And having a good day / week / month / year ! lol