EMERGENCY COMMISSIONS [Parents kicked me out]
6 years ago
Uh oh. Hi, guys. So, something what I'd never expected happening to me, just happened few days ago. I think, I'll need to explain a bit.
So,
Welling and I are together for couple of years already and we finally decided to move together. He used to live in Ryazan, I'm in Irkutsk. Which is across the country, (we are both from Russia) distance between us was like 3100+ miles.
He owns a PART in 3 different flats. So, in some time, he for sure will get his own appartment from his parents, but not in the near future. On my side, for a difference, my parents own a huge flat and also a huge house. House was built and almost done with renovating, not much of furniture is here, but there is some old stuff we moved here from the office, just so it's somehow possible to live here. Ok, I guess I jumped too far, so now: living at his place is not an option at least yet, I also have an old doggy who is sick and getting treatment here, so the only option was to move here, to Irkutsk.
What are options? We could wait. My parents are finishing this house, moving here and they gift me an appartment I used to live in with them for the past 10 or more years. This is perfect, but waiting was killing us really bad (I don't have to explain how much shit is long distance relationship, right? With 5 hours time zone difference and all) and we had not approximate date when it could happen. Maybe a year or more?
Or we could live with my parents? Or we could rent something here. Well, I used to have A LOT of support from my parents on every step of my life, so I just asked them, if they could help somehow, if they have any ideas.
And they said, that since we don't really need much to live happily and the main idea is to be together, we can just CLEAN THE HOUSE AND LIVE THERE! It was so awesome! House is huge, like 1000 square meters, many rooms, here is internet and everything. I was SO happy that parents allowed us to do so! It seemed like a perfect option for us both.
We started working, collecting money for the move. Tickets, sending all of his stuff here, also buying stuff for the house so we can live here (Like bed, matress, cooking plate and yadda, yadda). Lots of money, but we made it and 2 weeks ago, at November 1st Welling arrived to my place! I was really, really happy. I think here I will mention, that we both are CIS, white, heterosexual couple, WHAT COULD GO WRONG, RIGHT?! Every parent dreams about their kid being SO SIMPLE, RIGHT?
Well, wrong. After 10 days of cleaning damn house like 10 hours a day, when we both were absolutely stressed out, tired and all, when there only few days left when his stuff arrives here and we can start livign here....My parents said, that they absolutely can't stand my boyfriend. That they can't look at him. That he is too young (he is 7 years younger than me), stupid and sick. And that his kidneys will drop down in a few years and I will be chained to a handicaped. All because he is skinny and he has dark bruises under his eyes (because of god damn lots of work lately and lack of sleep, ffs...). And so we have to find us a place to rent and get out. I was fucking shocked. I just...don't really know what to add to it.
We spent a lot of money on the move, we both didn't worked for 2 weeks this month because of the move and CLEANING THEIR HOUSE! And now they want us to rent a place, pay for all the fees ( you need to pay half of the first month as a realtor's fee, plus all the things, yanno) and do it fast. Gladly, my best friend is leaving the city at 23rd of december and he could leave us his flat that he is renting, so we could save bunch of money on that.) and shit.
So what now? We are rather low on funds, we are fucking stressed and we need to hope that they don't have a change of their heart AGAIN and that we actually could stay here until 23rd of december and then move out.
So here is where I could REALLY use your help guys. I am not really asking for donations (tho it will be very appreciated if there will be some), but what I need now is to take commissions to work on this month so we can make this last move by the Christmas... Gladly, my queue is clear and I have no backlog, cos I finished all up before his move here, so nobody is waiting for me. This way you don't have to be worried that your commission will take ages. No worries, turnaround time will be very quick, I hope to finish at least 10 fullcolors by the end of this month.
What are options?
Here is my pricelist, I am up for anything from it: http://www.furaffinity.net/commissions/fleki/
Also, there is discounted options right here: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/9276425/
And since we are in such a shitty situations, I am up to negotiate the price or anything, just send me a note. I also will draw some YCHes which will be starting from $0 as well.
What else you can do? Spread the word, I guess. That's a lot too!
Other options to help:
Subscribe to Patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/fleki
If you are just willing to help a little, here is my tip jars too:
https://www.paypal.me/fleki
https://ko-fi.com/flekiart
And anyway, thank you so much if you even read this. I can make it, I know just takes time and effort...
So,

He owns a PART in 3 different flats. So, in some time, he for sure will get his own appartment from his parents, but not in the near future. On my side, for a difference, my parents own a huge flat and also a huge house. House was built and almost done with renovating, not much of furniture is here, but there is some old stuff we moved here from the office, just so it's somehow possible to live here. Ok, I guess I jumped too far, so now: living at his place is not an option at least yet, I also have an old doggy who is sick and getting treatment here, so the only option was to move here, to Irkutsk.
What are options? We could wait. My parents are finishing this house, moving here and they gift me an appartment I used to live in with them for the past 10 or more years. This is perfect, but waiting was killing us really bad (I don't have to explain how much shit is long distance relationship, right? With 5 hours time zone difference and all) and we had not approximate date when it could happen. Maybe a year or more?
Or we could live with my parents? Or we could rent something here. Well, I used to have A LOT of support from my parents on every step of my life, so I just asked them, if they could help somehow, if they have any ideas.
And they said, that since we don't really need much to live happily and the main idea is to be together, we can just CLEAN THE HOUSE AND LIVE THERE! It was so awesome! House is huge, like 1000 square meters, many rooms, here is internet and everything. I was SO happy that parents allowed us to do so! It seemed like a perfect option for us both.
We started working, collecting money for the move. Tickets, sending all of his stuff here, also buying stuff for the house so we can live here (Like bed, matress, cooking plate and yadda, yadda). Lots of money, but we made it and 2 weeks ago, at November 1st Welling arrived to my place! I was really, really happy. I think here I will mention, that we both are CIS, white, heterosexual couple, WHAT COULD GO WRONG, RIGHT?! Every parent dreams about their kid being SO SIMPLE, RIGHT?
Well, wrong. After 10 days of cleaning damn house like 10 hours a day, when we both were absolutely stressed out, tired and all, when there only few days left when his stuff arrives here and we can start livign here....My parents said, that they absolutely can't stand my boyfriend. That they can't look at him. That he is too young (he is 7 years younger than me), stupid and sick. And that his kidneys will drop down in a few years and I will be chained to a handicaped. All because he is skinny and he has dark bruises under his eyes (because of god damn lots of work lately and lack of sleep, ffs...). And so we have to find us a place to rent and get out. I was fucking shocked. I just...don't really know what to add to it.
We spent a lot of money on the move, we both didn't worked for 2 weeks this month because of the move and CLEANING THEIR HOUSE! And now they want us to rent a place, pay for all the fees ( you need to pay half of the first month as a realtor's fee, plus all the things, yanno) and do it fast. Gladly, my best friend is leaving the city at 23rd of december and he could leave us his flat that he is renting, so we could save bunch of money on that.) and shit.
So what now? We are rather low on funds, we are fucking stressed and we need to hope that they don't have a change of their heart AGAIN and that we actually could stay here until 23rd of december and then move out.
So here is where I could REALLY use your help guys. I am not really asking for donations (tho it will be very appreciated if there will be some), but what I need now is to take commissions to work on this month so we can make this last move by the Christmas... Gladly, my queue is clear and I have no backlog, cos I finished all up before his move here, so nobody is waiting for me. This way you don't have to be worried that your commission will take ages. No worries, turnaround time will be very quick, I hope to finish at least 10 fullcolors by the end of this month.
What are options?
Here is my pricelist, I am up for anything from it: http://www.furaffinity.net/commissions/fleki/
Also, there is discounted options right here: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/9276425/
And since we are in such a shitty situations, I am up to negotiate the price or anything, just send me a note. I also will draw some YCHes which will be starting from $0 as well.
What else you can do? Spread the word, I guess. That's a lot too!
Other options to help:
Subscribe to Patreon for extra content: https://www.patreon.com/fleki
If you are just willing to help a little, here is my tip jars too:
https://www.paypal.me/fleki
https://ko-fi.com/flekiart
And anyway, thank you so much if you even read this. I can make it, I know just takes time and effort...
So your parents never complained about your bf before, even when you where several years together?
And uh, well, it was long distance relationship, yanno. I visited him before, not him, so they never saw him.
Idea is, that all this stuff would be fine if they just told us that they can't help and we would just wait and he would come in December, we would move to a flat together with no stress and without cleaning motherfucking house and loosing time we could spend on WORK! Such a bullshit...
Kicking out over someone you loves appearance is really petty. :/
If I had spare funds I would try and get something, but I don’t get paid until Tuesday. Maybe send a note to
And sueing someone here is not that easy and common as in US, so...I'll just move on. Move out and move on X
Anyway, I'll help you fill your queue! Look for some notes from me soon :D
But even if moving out isn't ideal, it has many benefits of its own. I hope you find a nice place to stay.
Но сваливать пора, в отдельной халупе жить как-то спокойнее