I've been considering it for this year, as I feel ready to do so!
Would you guys like that? What dinosaurs would you like to see me draw?

Hello! My dear friend recently made an account here on FA to share his art.
I wanted to give him a little shoutout so more people can check him out! :D
Go follow him ♥

I received a random friend request today on Discord. I tend to accept them all, as my profile is easily available here on FA.
However, they said they found me on furfling, a page I haven't heard of ever before that moment. I immediately became concerned, I do NOT have an account in there, so there's a high chance someone is pretending to be me.

I asked them to show me the account, but they... couldn't locate it, I guess.
If you happen to be in there, I'd appreciate if you report anyone using my name or discord as contact info. I do not know anything about how the page works, so I'm unaware on how my Discord ended up in there.

My actual and ONLY social medias are:
Cara (Unused) (InfamouslyGay)
Bluesky (Unused atm) (InfamouslyGay)
Instagram/Threads (Just there to look at reels and kpop content) (InfamouslyGay)
Telegram (InfamouslyGay / @ Sincubus)
Discord (InfamouslyGay)

IF you see "me" anywhere else, it is NOT me.

I'm gonna try my best to use Bluesky alongside my telegram channel. Feel free to follow me!

https://bsky.app/profile/infamouslygay.bsky.social

Hello! I just wanted to let you all know I'm still around and working on the owed comms. It's been a bit hard both mentally and physically, but I'm pulling through.
Currently dealing with an intense arm/hand pain, but I promise I'll go to the doctor soon.
Thank you so much for your continued support ♥.

Hi there! I hope everyone's doing ok!
I've decided to open these slots both to agilize my hand at doing some quickies but also to get away from an uncomfortable situation.
This WON'T stop me from working on already pending comms!

I might open MORE than 3 if I see myself working fast on them.
I'm gonna be doing a minimum of 50 usd fullbody sketches, flat color. Tips are heavily appreciated, though!

Feel free to comment or note your idea. Thank you so much beforehand.

Hello!! I wanted to reach out to those who have bought Dinovember designs for me.
I am trying to keep things organized and tag the ones that have already been bought and by whom, so I don't accidentally re-sell them. I had one instance of this already and I hope I haven't fucked up twice!
So please, comment here with which dino you got so I can properly edit the description of each one with their respective owners!!!
And if I DID fuck up and sold a design twice, I take full responsibility and offer either a new design just for you, another dino that is still available, or your money back! It's up to you!

Again, thanks for reading and, if you are a buyer and reach out, it truly helps me a lot!!!

~🌱

Hi! How's everyone doing?

I'm reaching out for a bit of advice, as I am planning to both open a Patreon and start using Twitter properly.

As you might know, I am working on a passion project of mine. A comic, or hopefully a graphic novel (or, well, actually a trilogy, if I can put everything in 3 books). Currently, the pace I'm working at is quite slow. And I thought Patreon might help me accelerate that by having some sort of stable income, even if it's really small.
What I need from this are opinions, and ideas on how I could approach the idea of having a Patreon to begin with. For example, if you were to join, what rewards would you like to see?

As of Twitter, I wanted to start using hashtags, but I have no idea on how or which ones to use. I want to promote my art but, most importantly, my passion project, since it's not getting as much interest to begin with. Then maybe it means I'm not approaching the correct audience. I know you guys like my furry art.

I am not a big artist by any means, but I am hopeful that my drawings and stories will be able to reach a sort of loyal following.
If you help me reach that, even with something seemingly so microscopic as commenting or sharing, I will be grateful.

Thank you, sincerely ~Lucian.

~🌱ENGLISH 🇺🇸

Hi! Coming here for a bit of advice! Do any of you know any good alternatives to Paypal?
As you might now, they're implementing more and more rules to fuck artists and block accounts (like allegedly tracing your email to find any NSFW accounts to ban you, or take 2500 usd -or probably more- in "damages" if you violate any of their TOS), so, since I am wanting to live off of my art, you can probably guess it is not in my interest to get robbed or blocked when taking payments for my commissions.
I'd appreciate any comments about how to solve this. I was considering Payoneer or Stripe, but I'm not sure how popular or trustworthy they are! I'm also afraid it might deter people from commissioning me, but I think that's a risk I'm willing to take to keep my savings safe.
If you don't have any answers, sharing is truly appreciated. Thank you!


~🌱 ESPAÑOL 🇦🇷🇲🇽🇪🇸

¡Hola! Vengo en busca de algún que otro consejo. ¿Alguno de ustedes conoce alguna alternativa a Paypal? (Que sea internacional, porque la mayoría de mis clientes son de USA o Europa).
Como deben saber, Paypal está implementando más y más reglas para joder a los artistas y suspender/bloquear cuentas (como supuestamente rastrear tu email para encontrar alguna relación entre éste y una cuenta NSFW/+18, o tomar 2500 USD -o quizás más- en "daños" por violar alguno de sus terminos de servicio. Entonces, como quiero vivir de lo que amo (mi arte), pueden adivinar que no está dentro de mis intereses el estar paranoico, ser robado de mis ahorros o baneado al tomar pagos por mis comisiones.
Aprecio cualquier tipo de comentario sobre cómo resolver esto. Estuve considerando Payoneer o Stripe, pero no estoy seguro de qué tan populares o fiables son. También tengo miedo de que esto vaya a repeler gente de comisionarme, pero creo que es un riesgo que estoy dispuesto a tomar con tal de mantener mi dinero a salvo.
Si no tienen ninguna respuesta, compartir es verdaderamente apreciado. ¡Muchas gracias!


After speaking with some people, I WILL keep using Paypal for now, but I'll be more careful on how I approach it. I wasn't used to send invoices, which is something I SHOULD do to protect the transaction itself, or so I've been told. Thank you for all the advice!

Hi! I'm taking 5 colored sketches (maybe more!) to cover some expenses!
Comment here or PM me your idea and such to claim!

Available slots:
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Hi! I re-made my twitter account! Feel free to follow me there!
I'm still figuring out how to use it, so any advice is welcome!

Link: https://twitter.com/InfamouslyGay

I am honestly shocked by the amount of people that are watching/following me and faving my art. Seriously, thank you!
I thought about making a raffle, but I honestly feel like a freebie stream might be better, almost like going back to my roots. I truly wish to give you all a chance to get something, because I don't feel words are enough to express how grateful I am.

Trigger warning: depression, abuse, suicidal thoughts... personal experiences.
Just needed to vent somewhere, and I don't feel like drawing. I just... want to share, I guess.



Take it from my perspective.

You're here, sitting in front of your laptop, considering it for a while until you start to type.
The words come out almost by themselves, but you know it's going to be hard.
It's going to be hard.
Your head feels weird. It's a sudden compression that makes you slightly dizzy. Your eyes cannot focus.
Then it's all back to normal again.

That's what happens every time you want to remember.
Remember what? Everything.
Your childhood, your experiences. How do you even know english? You never learned it in the first place.
It's all bit and pieces when you manage to reach into the fog that is your mind.
You don't have a timeline. You are not even sure if it actually happened.
Your therapist says yes, it is real. But what if it's a dream or you're just making it all up?

You remember yourself at four years of age.
You remember your mom hiding you behind her legs, putting her hand in front of you to stop you from coming closer.
You remember your dad, sitting on the last step of the wooden stairs. He's got blood all over him.
The front door is broken. There's a hole in the middle. The house is cold.
That's where it ends.

You're already shaking.
Goosebumps are building inside your throat.
They feel like a predator biting tight, waiting for you to suffocate.

You don't want to cry.
Even if you let go, though, no tear will come out.
It had happened since you started your hormone treatment.
You don't even question it. Men don't cry.

You recall moving in with your grandmother.
Father isn't there anymore. You don't know where he went.
You wonder what you did wrong. Was it something you said?

Your mom tells you, twenty years later, he did come back during that time.
Grandma let him in. He always had a beer in his hand, just like your uncle.
Mom says he was mean. It doesn't surprise you, because you know.
You know he took you with him from time to time as you grew up.
You don't remember much.

He'd take you places. There were mountains and woods.
You loved to pick up lizards and see the fish he'd reel up.
You felt sad for them. They would always get thrown into a bucket and swim in circles.
You kind of related to them, but you didn't know why.

Dad would take you places again.
You remember getting ice cream, candy and chocolate.
As you walked together, he'd tell you how mean your mom was for not giving him a second chance.
He'd also tell you you were better off with him, and that you should stay.

You never remember the nights.
You know you two shared a bed, a bed you saw in your nightmares when you got older.
But, for now, it was just a bed.

You remember him getting angry.
He didn't like it when you covered yourself and didn't let him escort you out of the shower.
You guessed it was for your safety, but he had never mentioned it being slippery.

You had one friend there. You didn't like that friend.
It was a girl, "just like you". But it didn't feel right. You didn't feel like a girl at all.
Still, she was the only one who wanted to play with you.
She was a neighbor, and she'd visit you daily.
You didn't like the way she acted. But you brushed it off.
It was your only friend.

You had more back home, with mom.
You would travel with Sarah, and spend nights at Grisel's house.
But dad said you were better off with him.

He made you call mom again.
He made you tell her you wanted to stay one more week.
You wanted to go back home, but you didn't want to see him angry again.
You only had hotdogs for food. Your long, curly hair, was getting matted.
You didn't know how to brush, neither did dad.

You don't know when or how, but you were back with mom.
Years later, you traveled to visit dad again.
But this time, your older brother was there with you. A friend of his was there too.

You stopped answering your phone.
You were fourteen... or was it fifteen? It doesn't matter.
You don't want to answer his calls anymore.
But you feel bad. It's your dad, and he said he loved you.
You decide to pick up the phone one last time.
He calls you sweetie, he asks how you're doing.
You want to answer, but he starts calling you a whore and asking why.
You hang up.
You start to cry.
You don't understand why.

You don't remember school at all.
You recall meeting new people on the internet.
You recall fighting and losing said people.
What did you do wrong?

One last walk from class to home.
You were on edge, like you always did.
Every car, every person that would walk beside you. You felt you'd be harmed.
Grandma had always said it since you were a toddler.
They're going to kidnap you.
They're going to rape you.

You did it, you finished high school.
But where did your real life friends go?
They stopped inviting you places. You didn't want to go out anyway, they said.
But you did. They didn't understand you felt in danger.

The world became scarier.
You were now eighteen. You had to get a job.
But you were making money from drawing. That was a job, right?
Mom and your new stepdad didn't think so.
You argued with them. They'd call you lazy, and you'd hate yourself for it.
You still do.

You're now twenty one.
You feel like a burden to everyone you know.
Online friends tell you you're not.
But you see your crush walking away due to how you behave.
You only wanted to say you missed them.
Why can't you word things better? You ask yourself.
You look at the mirror and only feel disgust.

You cut your wrists just a little.
Your crush breaks up with you that same night, right after you tell them what you're doing.
You felt that coming.
You always do.
People will abandon you sooner or later.

You think you don't deserve to live.
You're considering jumping into the sea again.
It's just right there, you can hear the waves calling at night.
But you got work to finish, and you want to be responsible.

You fucked things up again.
You have to learn to let it go, but it still stings after so many months go by.
You're scared of posting this, but you feel like it's going to make you feel better.
You will forget everything again.
You always do.
If they don't talk to you, you don't remember you can reach out too.

You forgot your tea in the counter again.
Why can't your brain just work?
You forgot what you said. You deleted the messages.
You didn't have a chance to explain.

You're alone again.
Why does everyone have to leave?
Some people are still there. But you forget to reach out again.
You will repeat your mistakes.
Blame it all on yourself.
You're a failure. You can't keep your thoughts still.

It's gonna be fine, you tell yourself for the sixth time.
But you will forget again.
And again.
And again.
Is it ever going to end?

I've decided to make a separate account just for adoptables so I wouldn't bother anyone with reminders and such!
 InfamouslyGay in case you want to follow! Thank you!

Hello, I hope you're doing well.
This year has been quite stressful (so far) for me, which doesn't necessarily means I'm having a hard time. I had many doctor appointments to attend to since January, nearly all of them with different types of professionals. Those appointments were so frequent that I had, at least, one or two per week. The mental fatigue all of this caused was evident in how little I could write and draw in general, yet drawing seemed to be way more affected due to the constant, undiagnosed pain my right arm has been enduring since the start of 2020. Sounds ironic, I know. I've been to so many doctors, but none with the purpose of knowing what was wrong with the most valuable limb of my body. And, to that, I have nothing to say but that I prioritized this surgery over that, because it was something that I had been wanting since I was 16.
I'm talking about mastectomy, most commonly known as top surgery if I can remember it right. I was originally going to have it done by May 27th, but my surgeon caught covid the day before. Lucky for me, the date was moved to June 16th, which not only fell on pride month but also the day matched the age I had started to notice I was not and had never been a woman.

My parents have been extremely supportive and caring. My recovery is going good thanks to them. My surgeon said I'll get my stitches removed next week, so hopefully I can be back on drawing by the end of the month.
To my commissioners and those who are still on the commission wait-list, thank you so much for your patience. I love you all!

Hi there! How are you doing?
It's been a while since I said or done something in here.
I've been having issues with focusing on drawing lately (and, for that, I am sorry to everyone waiting for your commissions to be done). I tried to force myself over and over but I just keep getting distracted, and I think forcing myself to stream can get me into the "I have to get things done" mindset because, in a way, I'm putting some pressure to myself with other people keeping an eye on me.
I feel like that's what I need and I want to try it, but I wanted to ask you all, which times would you prefer to watch a stream? Would it be on weekdays or weekends? At what time of the day? (If answering with an specific hour, please tell me your timezone so I can convert it to Argentina's).

PS: Whenever I do complete a stage of a drawing, I do update my current queue that you can see in my featured journal.

Thank you all for reading and specially if you decide to leave a comment. It would really help me out <3.

🌱✨TERMS OF SERVICE✨🌱
🌱✨PRICING INFO✨🌱

Last Edited: 4/20/23

Finally, after so long, I've decided that I'm ready to take commissions again.
I'll start slow for now, only taking 3 to 1 slots of each comm type.

To claim a slot, you can comment down here or message me via note, Telegram (@ Sincubus) or Discord (Sincubus#1741)

I also have a Trello list for the current progress: https://trello.com/b/5qPcdqyr/commissions

🌱 Working on:🌱

https://trello.com/b/5qPcdqyr/commissions
https://trello.com/b/5qPcdqyr/commissions
https://trello.com/b/5qPcdqyr/commissions
https://trello.com/b/5qPcdqyr/commissions



🌱 Queue:🌱
.  ValkyriaFreyja —Sketch|Shaded x2
.  Rebel_Zebra — Sketch|Shaded

🌱Waiting List:🌱
. @ A_Blackburn on Telegram —Something!
.  xedriis —Something!
.  SpiderDungeon —Something!
.  OCCVLTIST —Flat Sketch
.  BonfireDingo —Shaded Sketch
. @ heckpuppy on Telegram —Something!
.  Zaleera —Something!
.  aetheo —Half-body, flat-color sketch, x2 characters
. @ Lopernicus on Telegram —Something!
. Tawani on Discord - Shaded, SKetch, x2 characters



Thank you so, so much!

🌱✨Terms of Service✨🌱

By commissioning me, you're automatically accepting each of these terms. I highly recommend you to read them!
If any of these are not clear to you, feel free to ask any questions and I will try my best to give you a deeper explanation.


🔹 I don't think this should be a term, but considering some past experiences, I felt the need to put it here.
I consider mutual respect to be the base of any healthy artist/client relationship so please, when asking for anything related to a commission, or anything related to my art in general, and even throughout the working process of a commission, keep in mind that I’m a person with feelings, and that it’s in no way fair that you come to me with bad manners, a sarcastic/bad attitude or passive-aggressive comments. I love drawing, and I love doing commissions because it makes me happy knowing that people enjoy my art this much. I’m also very aware that sometimes mistakes are made, but this does not give anyone the right, in any sense, to be mean about it. I’m completely open to complaints, but in order for me to assure you an efficient solution, we both have to be respectful and civilized.
TL/DR: We MUST respect each other. Feel free to call me out if I ever lash out or sound rude.

🔹 Changes can be requested, but will be limited to a maximum of three (3) free corrections per drawing. Any other changes will have an extra charge and will vary depending on complexity. Note: Changing the whole position of the characters once I’m already working on a different one won’t count as a free change.

🔹 As usual, reference sheets are a must after your request is accepted (Unless a custom design is needed, then I'll ask for very detailed info). Note: In regards of any refs that may have bright/saturated colors, I will personally ask for your permission to use slightly de-saturated colors in the piece I'll do for you, since I have very sensitive sight and those palettes can hurt my eyes.

🔹 Deadlines can be discussed, but I'll most likely reject them. I've been dealing with an undiagnosed arm injury for over a year now, so stressing and rushing for art is something I'd currently like to avoid.

🔹 I always take full payment upfront. PayPal only. No exceptions.

🔹I don't do refunds, unless there's a really bad emergency from your or my side.

🔹 I'm finally confident enough to say that I'm willing to draw any species, including humans. I might reject some robotic characters if they're too complex, but feel free to ask if you're not sure!

🔹 Regarding NSFW commissions: I'm willing to draw a few kinks, depending on how extreme they are. Again, feel free to ask. Worst I can say is no.

🔹 As for this last point, I feel like it's a necessary statement seeing how things are going lately; you cannot sell my work as NFTs, no matter if you paid for it or not.



Spanish translation coming soon.

I decided to give it a try, feel free to follow it! I'll post sketches and WIPs there, maybe also art that I don't usually post here on FA!
link: https://t.me/SheysAlley

Thank you so so much to everyone, it really means a lot but I feel words are not enough.
So I want to offer free art to you all!

No, this won't be a raffle. I will choose the characters I feel like drawing the most. It can be either an uncolored sketch to a refined and shaded picture or from a headshot to a fullbody. It depends!
Post your ref in the comments, and please don't be mad if I don't chose you! I wish I could draw you all ♥

Thank you again! I'll let people know if I chose them.

I don't really do this kind of journals, but this time I believe this is something serious.
A friend of mine needs to leave his country asap, the situation is becoming worse every day.
I think his journal explains it more than I can: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/9108914/
Please, if you can, consider donating to him or sharing his journal so more people can see it and help.
Thank you!

I hope you have a great night/day, I love you ♥