cute but it never actually happenes in real life but yay for our imagination

What never actually happens in real life? I've been comforted when crying plenty of times, even when I was little little like Lola is here. I've had plenty of breakdowns where the first response of those near me was to just let me collapse into their arms and sob until I could calmly speak and explain, then again, maybe that's just because I surround myself with those who, like Tatum, can't stand to see me cry, and are willing to allow me to completely let everything go if things just get too hard.

Elaborate what you mean please?

my point was that nobody comforts anybody anymore sorry

Well thats certainly not true, its a sad world you live in if thats what your believe :(
I get comfort every day from family, friends, my mate. They all mean the world to me and comfort me constantly. If I didnt have them in my life my body would have gave out long ago from the pain that can be life.
I hope you find someone to comfort you as well, everyone should be able to find comfort in another.