One fateful day on Second Life, a good SL friend of mine offered to take me to a new SL club that was opening at the time. I had nothing better to do, so I agreed to hang.

As well as me, he invited along a bunch of his other friends, one of whom was a shy little fluff ball called Lavander.

I never thought the Cheshire cat from Alice in wonderland could make for such a sexy female until I met her.

Anyway, she and I got talking, one thing led to another, which eventually led to her moving in real life to be with me.

That’s right, I got a real life girlfriend.

She and I have a lot in common…though there are a few differences…which is fine…after all, you don’t want to be with an exact carbon copy of yourself. You gotta keep things a bit interesting.

But we were definitely made for each other and destined to be together…for one thing, we share what we call a “mind link”…we often find one of us will say what the other is thinking, or one of us will suggest to do something that the other felt like doing, or something like that.

For another thing, we’re great at making each other laugh, often by just being silly and random together. We have our inside jokes, and we have ways of poking fun at each other, though not in a negative way. We also have a knack for cheering each other up if we’re feeling down.

For those of you that want proof, I’m afraid I can’t provide it right now. I’m not even sure what constitutes as “proof” on the internet nowadays. You’re just gonna have to take my word for it for the moment.

Anyway, I knew eventually I had to draw a reference sheet for her, and here it is.

I pretty much just copied from her Second Life avatar.

You’re currently viewing the SFW version. Click here for the NSFW version.

Once again, to help with anatomy, I traced some human female models I got off Google, and looked up a few other helpful guides.

And once again, I decided to make it an animated Gif like I did with mine. Might as well keep using a good idea, right?

Yes, I know Lavander is a typo of Lavender, it’s a typo she actually made when making her SL account, but she decided to stick with it, and I actually think it’s an awesome way to spell it.

Again, “Exposed flesh” in the colour pallet box refers to any flesh exposed through her fur being shaved, or her fur being burned off.

She, too, doesn’t like that she’s getting older in real life, so her fursona gets a permanent age just like mine, just one year younger than mine.

In her likes, by “all kinds of games” I mean PC, Console, Mobile, Online Flash, you name it, she plays it. She grew up playing pretty much exclusively PC games with mobile and online flash a bit on the side, but now with my help she’s added console to the list, as I grew up playing pretty much exclusively console games, while in turn, she’s going to help me get into the PC gaming market.

By “Kids toys” this refers to her being a bit of a kid at heart. She likes to play with anything a kid might normally play with. Model vehicles, bubble blowers, action figures, you name it!
I figured I’d specify “Kid’s toys” because just “toys” might imply a liking for some not-so-children’s toys.

In “Dislikes”, yes, Insects are listed…she just can’t stand bugs or arachnids. Deathly afraid.

As for “Crowded places”…she often feels like people are staring at her as if she’s an alien from outer space or something. It makes her very uncomfortable.

For favourite food I put chicken fingers and nuggets but really she loves anything that has chicken in it…chicken soup, chicken drumsticks…not to mention straight up chicken itself!

For favourite game genres, you might think first person shooters and racing games might seem like an odd pick for a girl…but she’s a real tomboy, actually. An honest to god girl gamer.

I think everything else is pretty much self-explanatory, but if you do have any questions about anything on the sheet, or anything else in general, feel free to ask, I’m sure she’ll be happy to answer.

Lavander Kitty © Lavander (She may get an account here soon, I will update with an icon as that happens)

Art by The Blue Fox Thom.