Something personal about me.
16 years ago
A lot of times I have been asked to describe my self, since I didn’t know how to go about doing that I just went on ahead and snatched this questionnaire form E harmony My be this might give ya some insight on who I am. Also I am looking for a lady friend between the ages of 21 to 28 that might be interested in a fun relationship.
Rating 1 though 10 on how do I feel about each question. 1 being (not at all) 5 (somewhat) 10 (very well) also I left some little comments behind my answers.
1. I do things according to a plan. (7) yeeeeeah not all the time.
2. I take time out for others. (9) I’m a carrying person and if anyone has an issue they want to talk about or need help with then I’m here for them.
3. I feel unable to deal with things. (1) Ha more like I’m unable to deal with idiots.
4. I love to help others. (9) Yeah that’s part of being the nice guy that I am.
5. I seek adventure. (10) No kidding I love traveling, camping, and flying along with other things.
6. I often leave a mess in my room. (5) Hey it’s human to be a little lazy.
7. I often carry the conversation to a higher level. (4) I’m not very talkative unless it’s an intrusting topic. I’m more of an observer and listener.
8. I get stressed out easily. (2) I only get that way with college exams and family.
9. I often make others feel good. (10) I love making friends to laugh.
10. I am good at analyzing problems. (8) Years of watching Star Trek has helped me, Laughs.
11. I usually stand up for myself. (7)
12. I am easily discouraged. (2)
13. I can handle a lot of information. (7) It all depends on the situation.
14. I waste my time. (5) I hate letting a day slide by with nothing done though I do have my lazy days.
15. I catch on to things quickly. In worldly situations (7) in bed (10) LOL
16. I usually wait for others to lead the way. (5) Typically I hate waiting for someone to makeup their mined or come up with an idea when it comes to split second decisions and I usually go my own way but if their idea is reasonably sound and logical then I will follow their lead.
17. I love order and regularity. (7)
18. I often do nice things for people. (8) yeah I’m a nice guy and I kinda believe in karma too.
19. I get angry easily. (6) Technically I am a hot head but it takes a lot to piss me off depending upon what it is.
20. Warm (10) yes I am the usual passionate and carrying guy.
21. Clever (9) it all depends on the situation.
22. Dominant (10) I’m in control of my life and that’s how I like it. However, I like equal power between my mate(s) and my self.
23. Ambitious (9)
24. Outgoing (9)
25. Agreeable (6) It depends.
26. Submissive (7) only in bed
27. Introverted (3) Shy? Not really
28. Aloof. For people with more than five brain cells working and thinking with a level head (1) for people that don’t think and have closed minds (20)
29. Quarrelsome. It a (4) but if it’s a pillow fight or a rumble for the last slice of pizza then it’s a (10)
30. Cold. (1) But I am not against giving tough love.
31. Stable. (9) Just give me coffee and no one gets hurt, just kidding.
32. Energetic (8)
33. Spiritual (8) I’m Pagan and I feel more at home in the forest than the city
34. Adventuresome (10) I love the great out doors and traveling.
35. Frugal (8) I try to be when ever I can but food seems to be my weakness. Yes I am a foody.
36. Predictable. (6)
37. Affectionate (10) I love kissing and nibbling in sensual places and I can never get enough of it sometimes.
38. Intelligent (10) It depends on what areas.
39. Compassionate (9)
40. Attractive (8) I try to work out every day to keep fit.
41. Loyal (10) I’m wolf like in personality and I’m very loyal to my mate because my pack means a lot to me.
42. Witty (8)
43. Content (4) Still too many things I want to do in life like fly a plain, building a boat to sail the ocean and see the world, driving cross country to see amazing things, and much more.
44. Spontaneous (9) hey I do have a bit of fox in me too.
45. Sensitive (10) It’s hard to hide ones emotions and thoughts and I can easily pick them up form their body language and the tones in their voice if something is up I will know it.
46. Under-Achiever (4)
47. Generous (7)
48. Moral (8)
49. Adaptable (10) it depends on where and what situation I’m in.
50. Communicative (10)
51. Honest (7) Honestly I didn’t take the cookie.
52. Sensual (10) if you really want to find out how sensual I am then you might as well get ready for long snuggles.
53. Liberal (9)
54. Patient (8) only to a point.
55. Resilient (8)
56. Optimistic (9)
57. Conservative (2)
58. Passionate (10)
59. Reflective (9)
60. Caring (10)
61. Genuine (10)
62. Open (9) I’m open to just about any thing.
63. Self-aware (10) though spiritually I feel like a caged animal in this world of humanity.
64. Over-Achiever (6)
65. Vivacious (10)
66. Wise (9) and still learning
67. Bossy (4) not really unless your not helping.
68. Leader (9) usually it's my way but I do like to share power with my mate(s)
69. Irritable (8) humanity pisses me off. Other than that I’m pretty easy going.
70. Kind (10) I’m an Ass Hole with a golden heart.
71. Calm (9) it depends on the situation.
72. Healthy (9) hey a guy gotta stay fit.
73. Knowledgeable (8) it depends on what areas you are talking about.
74. Aggressive (9) mostly in bed.
75. Outspoken (8)
76. Follower (3) yeah I’m use to doing things on my own think you.
77. Rational (9)
79. Opinionated (9)
80. Restless (8) too many things to do in life.
81. Romantic (10) I love seeing a girl’s eyes sparkle and her cheeks blush when I do romantic things.
82. Well Educated (4) The American educational system fail me so I taught my self by picking up a book to read and watching documentary channels like OPB, History channel, Discovery channel, and others.
83. Selfish (2) only at the dinner table.
84. Shy (1)
85. Stubborn (7) until proven wrong.
86. Trusting (10) but only with those that are close to me.
87. Artistic (9) I like to draw and work with my hands.
88. Competitive (9) I like to race others on bike, kick butts on games, and other fun things.
89. Creative (8) it depends on what mood I’m in.
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90. Imagine that your friends had to choose the best eight descriptions of you from the items listed below. Under line the four items that they would be most likely to pick:
Good Listener
Modest
Respectful
Affectionate
Caring
Spontaneous
Physically Fit
Warm
Outgoing
Optimistic
Dependable
Romantic
Creative
Loyal
Spiritual
Kind
Ambitious
Articulate
Rational
Easy-Going
Generous
Happy
Quiet
Genuine
Intelligent
Hard Working
Thoughtful
Sweet
Passionate
Energetic
Funny
Perceptive
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) absolutely (5) neither agree (10) absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. My personal religious beliefs are important to me. (8) I am pagan (animistic, nature based spirituality) I am a wolf in human skin and nature is my home my spiritual sanctuary.
2. I enjoy a good joke (10) I love to laugh and making others cheerful with corny jokes.
3. I enjoy mingling with people on social occasions. (7) I’m like a wolf, sociable yet not the social type if that makes any sense.
4. I am satisfied with my level of emotional development (8) I’m like a cross between a Vodka Martini and a Pina Colada. I’m smooth and firm yet funny and nutty with a slight hang over in the morning.
5. I am able to express myself in unique ways. (8) drawing and arts and craft are just the tip of the iceberg for many of my hidden talents.
6. I have a high desire for sexual activity. (35) I am very sexually active and the type that would pleasure a woman literally for hours on end just to see her orgasm over and over again. I just love sex.
7. It is easy for me to engage in conversations with people I have just met. (6) Occasionally I get into topics with people that make me wonder of I should become anti-social. But I do like to talk if it is a good topic.
8. I tend to think "outside the box". (7)
9. I view myself as well adjusted. (7)
10. I greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex
(35) I think of a woman’s body as artwork, there are no ugly forms just interesting ones.
11. I often see humor in everyday life. (9) Life is a joke so laugh it up.
12. It is important for me to be viewed by others as a successful person. (8)
13. Being in settings where I will meet new people is an important part of my life. (6)
14. I ask questions in search of information. (10)
15. I think it is important to continually try to improve myself. (11) I’m always trying to better my self.
16. I care a lot about the physical shape I am in. (10)
17. I like to look at people of the opposite sex. (14) Girls are much more sexier than guys.
18. It is important for me to take time to "smell the roses". (7)
19. I need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied. (8)
20. I have an ability to make others laugh (9)
21. I work much better if people follow my lead. (8)
22. My emotions are generally stable. (10)
23. I am proud of my educational background. (2) The United States educational system is a joke.
24. If I am not in control of a situation, it is better if I leave. (0) I don’t mind sharing control of problems.
25. My friends come to me when they are in difficult times because they know I can handle emotional crisis. (5)
26. I am more comfortable being a follower than a leader. (2) not really.
27. I get upset easily. (5) I can be a hot head sometimes.
28. People who are controlling irritate me. (10)
29. I think it is important to express my feelings whether they are positive or negative. (8)
30. I prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings. (8)
31. I tend to either like someone a lot or dislike him/her a lot. (7)
32. I like to be pampered. (5) please no milk bones but I like massages and a good lustful fuck.
33. I generally feel better when I am around other people. (3) I feel better with being in the forest but I don’t know about the whole of humanity.
34. When I get mad I tend to take it out on someone. (0) never!
35. Happy. (9)
36. Sad. (4)
37. Anxious. (2)
38. Confident. (8)
39. Hopeful. (2) I’m not hopeful, I make things happen or let them fall into place.
40. Fearful about the future. (0) If I lived in fear of the future then it wouldn’t make sense to live at all. I look forward to seeing what will or could happen in the future and to look back at how far things have came.
41. Angry. (14) I am totally pissed off at America and Humanity as a whole for destroying wilderness places and driving animals to the point of extinction. Other than that, it takes a lot to piss me off. So usually, I’m a (4)
42. Calm. (8) It depends on the situation.
43. Fortunate. (9) and fortunate to be able to hop on one foot, rub my belly, and pat my head at the same time along with other things.
44. Out of control. (3) I’m not out of control, I just happen to be the child of Chaos and the step son of Order
45. Fulfilled. (5) It depends on what ya mean by fulfilled.
46. Depressed. (0) There are too many things going on to be depressed.
47. Energetic. (8)
48. Tired. (4) Only if I don’t have coffee.
49. Successful. (7) It depends on what it could be.
50. Unable to cope. (0)
52. Satisfied. (5) It depends on what it could be.
53. Misunderstood. (4) I stutter a little when I’m half sleep.
54. Safe. (10) I don’t bite too hard.
55. Plotted against. (0) If I was you tell me about it.
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) Absolutely (5) Neither agree (10) Absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. I am looking for a long-term relationship that will ultimately lead to marriage. (10) I want someone I can share and experience life with. I am not interested in one night stands or the occasional fuck buddy. Truly, I’m just looking for a fun loving and loyal mate.
2. When I get romantically involved, I generally tell my partner just about everything. (9) yeah I like to chat a lot because I believe that if a couple knows every thing about each other then there wouldn’t be any insecurities between them and there for the relationship can only grow stronger but I do like to keep some of my sexual fantasy a secrets just to have fun letting her figure them out.
3. It is difficult for me to let people get emotionally close to me. (0) I’m very open and loving but you won’t see that side of me if you are weird or just out of your mind creepy.
4. A "serious" relationship needs to be exclusive (i.e., monogamous). (8) I don’t care if my girl is having fun with another woman or other women she can do what ever she wants, thing is when it comes to guys (unless they are guy friends) I’m territorial. My fursona is a Wolf and in Real Life my personality runs a long the same lines so you know the fur is going to be flying with other guys.
5. I know I can always count on the people who are closest to me. (10) I have to and my mate(s) should expect the same out of me if not then there is a problem.
6. I don't need to have close friendships to be happy. (8) No and kinda yes. I’m a loner sometimes when I want to try to find my self or be creative but I see that I enjoy life more with my pack.
7. Being monogamous helps build intimacy and trust in a romantic relationship. (9)
8. People often let you down if you depend on them. (5) It depends. I had folks let me down so often that I began doing things my self hints why I’m a loner at times.
9. It's important to me to have close friends in my life. (10) When is it not?
10. Being exclusive (i.e., monogamous) is one of benefits of being in a successful relationship. (7)
11. I sometimes find it difficult to trust people I get romantically involved with. (0) unless they break my heart then it will be a pain to get my trust back.
12. I find it easy to get emotionally close to people. (10) Which is why I chose my friends wisely and don’t have sexual fun with just any one.
13. Being monogamous causes relationships to get boring over time. (5) It depends on the girl, so far I know I have a funny and weird personality, on top of that I’m interested in adventures and a mess load of things sexual or other.
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Please rate 1 through 10 to indicate how important each of the following characteristics would be to you in finding a partner for a relationship.
(1) Not at all (5) Somewhat (10) Very
Important Important Important
1. My partner's personal values. (10) yeah I like to know what she is all about.
2. My partner's energy level. (8) I like to have a girl that is energetic cause I do live an active life but there is nothing wrong with being a little lazy now and then.
3. Enjoying the way I feel around my partner. (10) I want a girl that is confident and comfortable with her self. I want her to be her self and not be up tight around me. That nerveyness over time will bug the hell out of me, really I will love her more just for being her self and the relationship just works better that way with me.
4. My partner's dependability. (10) I want someone I can closely rely on just as much as they can rely on me or else things won’t work out.
5. My partner's sex appeal. (7) Actually I don’t really care how you look just as long as you are healthy and fit but having a sexy body doesn’t hurt either.
6. My partner's love of children. (7) For a guy it’s kinda strange to admit that I do want to have kids but the way humanity and life is I’m not sure if I want to have any. Besides, I’m not sure if I am mature enough to be a father despite what others may say.
7. My partner's beliefs. (10)
8. My partner's fun-loving nature. (22) I want someone I can have fun with or things will get awkward and boring real fast.
9. My partner's physical appearance. You have to look decent when your out side with me I hate to look broke even if I am. I care a lot about appearance in public but at home I don’t really care how you look.
10. The chemistry between me and my partner. (7) I can’t say if it is a myth or fact but if you don’t mind me sniffing ya then I won’t mind you sniffing me, heeheehee.
11. The similarities between me and my partner. (8) It’s not totally important for a couple to have a lot of similarities, it’s nice to have some differences so each other could have fun exploring new things that interest them both. However I will say I want a girl that is interested in adventures, flying, being out doors a lot, video games, science, and Star Trek.
12. The romantic attraction I feel for my partner. (14) She must love long kisses and naughty things.
13. My partner's personality. (10) I do not feel like dealing with dim wits. She must be very bright, very intelligent with a firm grasp on the world around her, fun loving if not a little childish, and have a good sense of humor. I can’t stand a girl that is duller than a butter knife cutting though rock.
14. My partner's kindness. (10)
15. Our sexual compatibility. (24) I would love a girl that wants to have fun exploring the depths of her sexuality and seeing how many orgasms she can achieve in a day. I’m deeply into giving oral and I don’t know how to describe my sexual side so you will just have to find out for your self.
16. My partner's ability to communicate. (10) I can not read your mind so talk to me about what ever that comes to your mind good or bad.
17. My partner's skill at resolving conflicts. (10)
18. My partner's friendliness. (10)
19. My partner's capacity for emotional intimacy. (10) when you are with me don’t bottle your self up, remember sex or love making is fun and should always be a wonderful and spiritual experience between two lovers.
20. The friendship between me and my partner. (14) I don’t look at my mate as just being my mate but as my Lover, Best Friend, Sister, and Mate.
21. Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner. (10)
22. Being able to tell my partner everything about myself. (10)
23. Being able to discuss with my partner how I am feeling
towards him/her. (10)
24. Having my partner be open with me about how he/she feels toward me. (10) If ya got issues please tell me instead of keeping them hidden.
25. Enjoying physical closeness with my partner. (24)
26. Being able to spend as much time as possible with my partner. (9)
27. Doing special things to let my partner know how important he/she is to me (15)
28. Being able to make compromises. (6)
29. Showing my partner that his/her needs are as important to me as my own. (14)
30. Having similar ideas on parenting. (6)
31. Knowing that my partner is usually to blame when things go wrong. (0) wrong so wrong unless she actually did it.
32. Having similar educational backgrounds. (0)
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A.What are the eight things for which YOU are the MOST thankful?
1.My Mate
2. Educational TV shows like Discovery and History channels,
OPB.
3. Gene Roddenberry the creator of Star Trek.
4. George Lucas the creator of Star Wars.
5. Mini skirts.
6. Condoms
7. Computers
8. HBO’s Real Time With Bill Maher.
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Please decide whether each of the following statements is a good description of you. For statements that are NOT at all like you, please type "False." For statements that are at least somewhat like you, type "True."
1. I enjoy many different types of recreational activities. True.
2. I always read ALL of the warning literature on side-effects before taking any medication. True.
3. I sometimes drive faster than the posted speed-limit. True. But only when road conditions allow me, I’m crazy not stupid.
4. If a store-clerk gave me too much change, I might keep it without telling them. False.
5. I generally want to come out ahead. True.
6. I frequently have to work to overcome my shyness. False.
7. I like some people just because they are popular with others. False.
8. I dislike some people. True.
9. I never worry about work-related issues. True.
10. I sometimes waste time when I should be working. True.
11. I would never lie, even if it wouldn't hurt anyone. False.
12. I do not give as much to charity as I could afford to financially. True.
13. At times I have raised my voice in anger. True.
14. I don't care what other people think about me. True.
15. I am sometimes tempted to make fun of people behind their backs. True.
16. There are times when I am envious of other people's possessions. False.
17. My house is often cleaner when I have company coming over. True.
18. I sometimes wish that certain other people would fail. False.
19. I am always even-tempered. True.
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Please use the scale below to rate your interest in the following things.
(1) none (5) some interest (10) very strong interest
1. Live Music. (10)
2. Eating (10)
3. Backpacking (10)
4. Astrology (10)
5. Movies (10)
6. Listening to Music (10)
7. Watching TV (10)
8. Reading (10)
9. Parties (8)
10. Dining Out (10)
11. Board Games (10)
12. Gadgets (14)
13. Traveling (12)
14. Art (10)
15. Participating in Sports (7)
16. Shopping (8)
17. Friendship (8)
18. Hunting (10) for food only.
19. Politics (7)
20. Pets (10)
1. Family (8)
2. Talk with friends (8)
3. Animal Rights (10)
4. Camping (10)
5. Religious Community . (0) Really This whole god thing is a joke along with the people that believe in this so called holly bible. If there is any factual evidence in it then it most certainly proves how dull people can be between the ears and I will leave it there.
6. Playing a Musical Instrument/Singing (9)
7. Science (100)
8. Teaching/Coaching (6)
9. Volunteering (8)
10. Watching Sports (3)
11. Going Out (10)
12. Protecting the Environment (100)
13. Conversation (10)
14. Religious Faith. (0) it’s a joke.
15. Hosting/Entertaining (6)
16. Maintaining a healthy diet (10)
17. Learning (14)
18. Church Involvement (0) never!!!
19. Video Games (10)
20. Exercising regularly to stay healthy (10)
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A.We all have things that interest us: art, sports, music, family, faith, the environment. What are you passionate about?
Nature and one day flying my own plain.
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B. Please describe two or six things that you most enjoy doing with your leisure time.
1. Watching the learning channels.
2. Watching Star Trek.
3. Walking in the woods.
4. Bike riding.
5. Studying aviation.
6. buzzing the net.
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Please use the scale below to rate your skill level in the following things.
(1) not skilled (5) somewhat skilled (10) very skilled
1. Socializing (8)
2. Entertaining in my home (6)
3. Achieving personal goals (7)
4. Using humor to make friends laugh (10)
5. Creating romance in a relationship (10)
6. Keeping physically fit (8)
7. Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis (9)
8. Helping those who are less fortunate or in need (9)
9. Resolving conflict (9)
10. Making art and culture an ongoing part of my life (8)
11. Finding and taking on challenging activities (7)
12. Finding creative solutions to everyday problems (9)
13. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle (8)
14. Making new friends (8)
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Please use the scale below to rate your abilities in the following things.
(1) not at all (5) somewhat (10) very well
1. I try to accommodate the other person's position (10)
2. I try to understand the other person (10)
3. I try to be respectful of all opinions different from my own (10)
4. I try to resolve the conflict quickly (8)
5. I try to avoid disagreement (5) I avoid it more by understanding the other person's situation and coming to a compromise.
6. I am passionate/intense about my position (10)
7. I try to drop an issue once it is resolved (8)
8. I try to resolve the conflict well (10)
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1. How much do you smoke?
Never
2. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to smoke.
Never
3. How important is the amount your match smokes?
Very
Important
4. How much do you drink?
A few times a year
5. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to drink.
A few times a year
6. How important is the amount your match drinks?
Somewhat Important
7. How many children do you have who are 18 years old or younger and living full time in your home?
none
8. Aside from any children you or a new partner may already have, would you like to start a new family by having or adopting a baby?
Maybe, I haven't decided yet.
9. Would you be willing to accept a partner who has children 18 years old or younger living full time in their home?
No
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1. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
My Grandmother she was the one that taught me how to be caring.
3. The four things your friends say about you are:
Caring
Outgoing
Funny
Romantic
4. What are three of your BEST life-skills? Computers, pleasuring a woman, and working with my hands.
5. What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
Intelligence, loyal, a level head, passionate, sensual, fun, adventures, wanting to learn new things, sexual, open minded, and a good sense of hummer.
6. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
My messed up sense of hummer.
7. What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD? Not sure.
8. How do you typically spend your leisure time?
Being out side most of the time or watching the science channels or Star Trek or video games.
9. What are five things that you "can't live without?"
A. Science.
B. Nature.
C. Good food
D. Love
E. Sex
10. Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
A Guide To Owning An Air Plain, it is a step by step guide on finding a plan for the best price and how to keep it maintained. it shows me how can I accomplish my dream.
11. Describe one thing about yourself that only your best friends know.
I’m very kind hearted.
12. Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you? I am a slight germaphobe. Other than that I’m just a silly horn ball of a guy.
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Must Have Traits In my mate type yes next to them.
(yes) Chemistry...
I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to
my partner.
(yes) Communicator...
I must have someone who is good at talking
and listening.
(yes) Sense of Humor...
I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy
the humorous side of life.
(Hell Yes!!) Verbal Intimacy...
I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest
emotional thoughts and desires.
(yes) Emotionally Healthy...
I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy,
and able to share a stable life with
someone else.
(yes) Strong Character...
I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough
to do the right thing.
(yes) Artistry...
I must have a partner who has a passion for music,
literature, drama, art, and the
finer things in life either as a spectator or participant.
Education...
I must have someone whose educational achievements
match my own.
(yes) Exciting...
I must have someone who isn't afraid to take a
risk and who sees life as an
adventure.
(yes) Patience...
I must have someone who can handle life's frustrations
or momentary setbacks with
a patient, steady, demeanor.
(yes) Conflict Resolver...
I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather
than win arguments or
conflicts within our relationship.
(yes) Personal Habits...
I must have a partner who maintains high standards
of personal hygiene,
orderliness, and other personal habits.
(yes) Affectionate...
I must have someone who is comfortable giving
and receiving affection.
(yes) Energy Level...
I must have someone whose energy level matches
my own.
(yes) Intellect...
I must have a partner who is bright and can share
my understanding of the world as
well as enjoy discussing important issues.
(yes) Self-Confident...
I must have a partner who knows and believes in
himself/herself throughout life's
ups and downs.
(yes) Able to Accept Help...
I must have a partner who is willing to accept outside help for personal or relationship issues that are serious and important.
(Yes) Curiosity...
I must have a partner who is hungry for new information and knowledge and who strives to learn as much as possible.
(yes) Adaptability...
I must have a partner who is able to adapt to
life's surprises.
(yes) Kindness...
I must have a partner who is gentle and kind.
(yes) Organized...
I must have a partner who values structure in their life.
(yes) Tolerant...
I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate
divergent viewpoints.
Attractiveness...
I must have a partner who is considered "very
attractive" by most current standards.
(yes) Industriousness...
I must have someone who is willing to work hard
at whatever they do.
(yes) Emotionally Generous...
I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
(yes) Unassuming...
I must have someone who is able to accept criticism, and even admit to being wrong sometimes.
(yes) Loyal...
I must have someone I can count on to always support me.
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Values
(yes) Family Life...
I must have a partner who is committed to marriage,
home, and family.
(yes) Style and Appearance...
I must have someone who cares about the way they look and dress and has a sense of personal style.
(yes) Shared Politics...
I must have someone who has political beliefs which are the same or similar to my own.
(yes) Spirit of Volunteerism...
I must have a partner who shares my willingness to volunteer and support community and/or social causes.
(yes) Autonomy...
I must have a partner who will give me space to be
my own person.
(yes) Shared Interests...
I must have someone who is willing to share my
interests and passions.
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Family
No Children...
I must have someone who shares my desire to not have
children.
Family...
I must have someone who shares my desire to have
or adopt children.
Stepchildren...
I must have someone who will accept my children as
their own.
Parent Care...
I must have someone who is willing to help me take care of my parents, now or when the time comes.
(yes) Parenting Style...
I must have someone who shares my views about how
to raise children.
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Social Living
(yes) Sociability...
I must have a partner who loves to socialize with lots of different people.
(yes) Staying In...
I must have a partner who mainly enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends.
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Spirituality
(yes) Spirituality...
I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
(yes) Spiritual Acceptance...
My partner must accept and respect my spiritual beliefs, whether they share them or not.
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Financial
(yes) Responsible...
My partner must be financially responsible.
(yes) Relaxed...
I must have a partner who is able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life.
Ambition...
I must have a partner who shares my desire to achieve high financial and/or career goals.
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Sexuality
Abstinent...
I must have a spouse who has saved himself/herself
sexually for marriage.
(yes) Sexually Knowledgeable...
I must have someone who is mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner and is able to express himself/herself freely.
Traditional...
I must have someone who is reserved and traditional
in their sexual needs.
(yes) Passionate...
I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding.
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Can't stand to have in a potential mate. Type yes beside it.
Traits
(yes) Vanity...
I can't stand someone who is overly interested in
their physical appearance.
(yes) Dependence...
I can't stand someone who bases their happiness
on me.
(yes) Lying...
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially
to me.
(yes) Cheating...
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
(yes) Anger...
I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
(yes) Rude...
I can't stand someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation.
Unhappy at Work...
I can't stand someone who hates their job and
complains about it all the time.
(yes) Denial...
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
(yes) Workaholic...
I can't stand someone who treats everything in life
as secondary to their job.
Lazy...
I can't stand someone who likes to spend excessive time sleeping, resting or being a "couch potato."
(yes) Worrier...
I can't stand someone who easily loses perspective
and constantly worries.
Intolerance...
While I understand that religious conviction is a positive trait, I can't stand someone who is self-righteous and feels that their particular faith is the only one that matters.
(yes) Victim Mentality...
While everyone has times of self-pity, I can't stand someone who continually sees himself/herself as a victim.
(yes) Grudges...
I can't stand someone who has a chip on their shoulder.
(yes) Mean Spirited...
I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and
is mean to others.
(yes) Fiscally Irresponsible...
I can't stand someone who is incapable of managing
their money.
(yes) Hypochondriac...
I can't stand someone who has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the symptoms of their supposed illness.
(yes) Excessive Overweight...
I can't stand someone who is overweight.
(yes) Gambling...
I can't stand someone who gambles.
(yes) Intruding Family/Friends...
I can't stand someone whose relatives and friends are
constantly calling or visiting.
Depressed...
I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy
about their life.
(yes) Cynicism...
I can't stand someone who generally sees the world from
a cynical perspective.
(yes) Self-Centered...
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is
himself/herself.
(yes) Materialistic...
I can't stand someone who sees material items as a
measure of success.
(yes) Childishness...
I can't stand someone who is not emotionally mature.
(yes) Petty...
I can't stand someone who focuses on imperfection.
(yes) Boorishness...
I can't stand someone who is inclined to rowdy, vulgar or disrespectful behavior when "having fun."
(yes) Drugs...
I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational
drugs.
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Values
(yes) Flirts...
I can't stand someone who constantly flirts with the
opposite sex.
Television Junkie...
I can't stand someone who constantly watches television.
(yes) Poor Hygiene...
I can't stand someone who is not clean.
Gossip...
I can't stand someone who loves to talk about other
people.
(yes) Judgmental...
I can't stand someone who finds fault with everyone and
everything.
(yes) Addictions...
I can't stand someone who currently suffers from
addictions.
(yes) Undependable...
I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is
unreliable.
Foul Mouthed...
I can't stand someone who swears or uses inappropriate
language or humor.
(yes) Extremely Shy...
I can't stand someone who is so shy that they cannot open
up and share with me.
(yes) Political Correctness...
I can't stand someone who censors their thoughts and opinions with a politically correct agenda.
Recklessness...
I can't stand someone who has a careless and irresponsible manner when with others.
Sexually Obsessed...
I can't stand someone who is sexually obsessive.
(yes) Uninterested...
I can't stand someone who does not enjoy having sex on
a regular basis.
(yes) Infidelity...
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a
committed relationship.
Punctuality...
I can't stand someone who is always late.
(yes) Racist...
I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
(yes) Hypocrites...
I can't stand someone who holds a double standard for their actions and those of other people.
Pornography...
I can't stand someone who views or owns pornography
in any form.
Sloppy...
I can't stand someone who is unkempt.
Cheap...
I can't stand someone who is so tightfisted as to be
impractical.
Arrogant...
I can't stand someone who is obnoxiously cocky.
(yes) Pessimism...
I can't stand someone who always sees the glass as half
empty.
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Introduction to Agreeableness
This section of your profile describes your interactions with other people. The ways we communicate our feelings, beliefs and ideas to others are influenced by our cultural backgrounds, the way we were raised, and sometimes which side of the bed we got up on this morning. Some of us are very mindful of others making decisions we hope will be in their best interests, even if it means sometimes neglecting our own interests. Others of us believe each person should be responsible for themselves, taking deep pride in our own character and independence with a firm belief that others are best served by doing the same. The following describes how you engage with others; illustrating the dimension of your personality that determines your independence or your desire to reach out and touch others in meaningful ways.
You are best described as: TAKING CARE OF OTHERS AND TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF
Words that describe you:
Fair, Considered, Collaborative, Responsive, Sensible, Diplomatic, Contemplative, Indulgent, Rational.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
You are important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble. You have a tender heart, but you know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. You are empathetic and compassionate, but you also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able.
You are deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. You strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of yourself.
When someone really is in trouble, you like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, you do yours. You consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together you move through the difficulty.
You seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, you take your time to think through the situation. This contemplative quality usually means that you'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to you. It's frequently a win/win situation.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
For people who are ruled by tender-hearted compassion, your more diplomatic response to problems might seem too cool, too focused on fairness and not filled enough with sympathy and selflessness.
For them, when someone's life is on fire, what is needed is not collaboration but rescue. And the person who experiences their life on fire may resent the time you take to contemplate. "I need you, and I need you NOW! This isn't about fairness, it's about the fire." "All deliberate speed" may seem too deliberate and not fast enough, either to the more compassionate or to people in genuine trouble.
At the other end of the spectrum of compassion, those who believe people should take care of themselves may find even your thoughtful sympathies too soft. They expect people, themselves included, to work their own way out of trouble. They are convinced that the helping hand you lend just fosters dependence and is not good for the development of character, either in you or in the person you assist.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, perhaps the majority, will come to appreciate your balance as a compassionate person. The more they get to know you, the more they will admire your thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways you take good care of yourself.
Those whom you help will appreciate the way you leave them with their dignity by expecting them to collaborate in their own rescue. Those who are more tender-hearted will find in you a balance they lack; when they've run out of energy because they fail to take good care of themselves, you will still have enough compassion left to lift others out of trouble.
Even the tough-hearted, those who believe people should solve their own problems, might come to admire your tenderness which they don't find in themselves. So the people you help will be grateful, and the people who see your balance between self and others will admire you. Certainly, balanced is not bad at all as a way to be known among your friends
Introduction to Openness
How firmly committed are you to the ideas and beliefs that govern your thinking and guide your behavior? Some people trust their current ideas and beliefs the way a climber trusts the mountain; whichever way they move, whether the climb is on a familiar trail or over new ground, there is something solid beneath them, something they count on.
For others, new ideas, new solutions to old problems, new beliefs that replace tired convictions are like welcome wind in their sails. They can hardly wait to tack in a new direction and ride a new idea through uncharted waters. If it's new, it's interesting, and they're ready to explore.
The following paragraphs describe your responses to new ways of thinking and believing. How do you handle new information? Are you more like the climber on a familiar mountain or a sailor with a tiller in hand and a fresh breeze to propel you? How you integrate and process new information about the world and about others is a core aspect of your personality.
On the Openness Dimension you are: CONTENT
Words that describe you:
Sensible, Realistic, Conventional, Sincere, Simple, Firm, Earnest.
A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences
You find that you are usually more comfortable with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time. These values, which for you are tried-and-true, provide you with practical solutions to life's problems, and with straightforward ways of engaging in intellectual discussions and debates. You've tested these positions over time, you know them well, they work for you, and you trust them. You like the way these solutions provide consistency and value to your life.
You've always been teachable as well. Whether in textbooks or classrooms, or through a wide variety of personal and interpersonal experiences, you've explored and tested the values and ideas you hold dear. Along the way you've grown to recognize ideas and beliefs that fit with your life. When this happens, you open yourself to learning what it is that this can teach you. Most of the time evaluating new information strengthens what you know and trust; the "next new thing" usually proves too shallow or too impractical to dislodge you from what has served you so well.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward Your Style of Thinking
Not everyone will be thrilled by your commitment to the tried-and-true, and your practical solutions to problems of all sorts. Some people are in flight most of the time, leaving behind where they've come from and peering into whatever brand-new thought or experience they come across. They live for these flights of fancy. So they may find your commitment to the tried-and-true very trying and even boring. So be it; you won't be a companion on their journey. And that is fine with you. You will likely continue on being quite satisfied with your approach to important beliefs and ideas.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Despite some negative reactions toward your style of thinking, many others will appreciate in you the combination of a steadiness of mind and openness to occasional change. They will find your practical solutions clear and accessible in an intellectual environment that is too often fuzzy and lacking clear values. They will come to trust you as someone who is not swayed by every new intellectual wind that blows, nor tantalized by some imaginative belief or value that seems attractive at first but usually proves in the long run to be unreliable as a guide in life. In a complicated and fractious intellectual climate they will find your clear thinking, your practical ideas and your down-to-earth solutions to problems to be a great relief.
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Introduction to Emotional Stability
We're born with the capacity to feel deeply, so it's as natural as breathing to experience a range of emotions. Fear and joy and sadness, anger and shame and disgust lie somewhere within each of us. Ah, but to what extent do we control these emotions, and to what extent do they control us? How you answer this question of how your emotions play out in your life has a great deal to do with your levels of personal satisfaction and with the character of your relationships with others. Do you manage your emotions well, keeping them in check with your thinking and your willpower, or are you someone who lets emotions have their way, giving in to the wild dance of feelings? The following paragraphs describe your emotional range in terms of being a person who is emotionally steady or someone who is responsive to whatever feelings swell up in you.
On Emotional Stability you are: RESPONSIVE
Words that describe you:
• Open, Accessible, Too Sensitive, Reachable, Candid, Unguarded.
A General Description of Your Reactivity
You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.
Sure there are times when your feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times you may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, you much prefer being open with your emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of your emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but you realize that is part of life. And more often than not you feel enriched by your emotions, by your ability to be open to all that life brings you. You know that even when you have those times that get you down, there will be even more times when you see life in ways that others just can't.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Undoubtedly you have met some people who get uncomfortable being around you because your feelings are so close to the surface. They may keep a bit of distance, especially around any subject that might trigger an emotional topic they are uncomfortable with. Over time, they might even stay away from you more and more. You will find you have decisions to make; do you temper your style for their comfort or do you hope they will find ways to become more comfortable with emotional expressions? Given the richness that seems to stem from your emotional life the most meaningful response is probably very apparent to you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
You are a cherished companion for those friends who can handle emotions well. They will appreciate the candor with which you express even difficult feelings like anger and fear. Your openness will make intimate conversations even more intimate, and make the connections between you as friends deeper and stronger. Some people who have trouble expressing their feelings might find in you a good example of how to be more vulnerable and more open. Your willingness and ability to share your emotions could encourage them to share theirs, and invite them into ways of being friends that will help enrich their lives.
Introduction to Conscientiousness
It's a work day, breakfast is over, and you're dressed and ready. So how will you approach the tasks at hand? Some people work best with a clear schedule, a set of priorities and a due date for every step in the process. Others are, shall we say, less regimented. They approach a task with as much imagination as organization, and with a willingness to bend and modify in order to exercise some urge of creativity.
How about you? Do you walk in a straight line toward a clear goal, or are you more likely to dance your way down whatever path will get you wherever it is you're headed? The following paragraphs describe ways in which you approach the tasks life brings to you, and to what extent you are focused or flexible in how you choose to proceed.
Your approach toward your obligations is: FOCUSED AND FLEXIBLE
Words that describe you:
• Casual, Informal, Compliant, Reliable, Organized, Solid, Dependable, Uncommitted, Genuine.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
When you take on a task at work or at home, you are reliable; you get the job done. In an organized way, you define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task will take, and get to work "solid and dependable you".
But and this is important you're not a slave to the plan. You're committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. You know that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, you clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred.
Though not happening often, when plans change, you're okay with it. In fact, sometimes you change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. True, the next rainy Saturday will likely find you back in the garage, but for now the work can wait.
What an interesting combination of qualities in you're organized, but casual; solid, but compliant; and dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can rely on you. You take great satisfaction in knowing that people think of you as disciplined and responsible, but you also know that you have something of a free spirit in you, and when this spirit moves you, off you go, following the impulse of the moment. You are rightly proud of your work ethic, but you also enjoy your willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Some people live like Marines: duty-bound, disciplined and driven. To these people you might seem uncommitted; where they would never leave work for play or change plans in the middle of their life's forced march, you let the circumstance sway you and move in a different direction, and they don't understand.
Others live like kites on a string, attached by thin threads to the solid ground of responsibility and are blown about by every gust of impulse or imagination. To these people you might seem too cowardly, like you'll flirt with your impulses but never give in fully, play on a Saturday but never blow of the entire work-week to "follow your bliss".
While these Marines and kite-flyers might look down on you for your combination of focus and flexibility, others might be envious. They can't free themselves from a sense that they're not doing enough, or from the equally frustrating feeling that they're not free enough.
And here you are with your accomplishments and your pleasures, getting the job done but also getting your hair blown back as you run with the wind. As far as these people are concerned, you're lucky you've got the best of both of the worlds in which they feel they fail.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
What a great life you have, and a great attitude to boot. You know when to buckle down and push ahead to get the job done, and you do it well. You know when to lay the tools of your trade aside, grab your kite and head for the meadow where you can run with the wind. Many people will see and admire in you this lovely combination of a person who can focus, but who is flexible enough to know when to let the spirit move you in some new and livelier direction.
It's a life they aspire to, and they delight in seeing it played out in your life. They may ask your advice and turn you into a mentor of the full and balanced experience. They will want to know how you do it, what the costs are, and if you get frightened that you're not working hard enough or playing often enough. They may make you think about your own life more than you have, so you can share it with those who want to emulate this balance between flexibility and focus. They may be correct lucky you!
Introduction to Extraversion
Some days you want to hang out by yourself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day you e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something you ate; some days are just like that. In actuality, your desire to be with others or to be alone reflects something deep in your personality. Some of us are more comfortable by ourselves or with one or two friends, while others of us crave the crowd and can't stand it when the house is empty or the phone doesn't ring. The following paragraphs describe your fundamental desires about being with other people; whether you are generally an outgoing person or more reserved, if you seek adventures with others, if you tend toward assertiveness or kindness.
When it comes to Extraversion you are: OUTGOING
Words that describe you:
• Friendly, Gregarious, Full of Life, Unreserved, Kindhearted, Talkative, Emotional, Spontaneous, Vigorous.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
People light you up. In conversations, planning meetings or almost any social situation, you bring your energy and your friendly, outgoing personality into these engagements with other people, and you come away pumped up. You can hardly wait for the next event, as long as other people will be there. And you're good at it.
You know how to communicate. You listen well, the first rule of good communication, and then, when it's your turn, you talk vigorously and with animation; in your uninhibited way you give all that you've got to the encounter.
In situations where you feel very safe, when you know and trust the people you're with, you can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. You let your affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. You're wide open And when you get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, you are deeply satisfied. Because you are so friendly and full of life, these are among your favorite moments.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
As much as you like being with other people, not everyone will like being with you. Hard to believe, but your gregarious and warm manner is not everyone's cup of tea. Some people are more cautious than you in personal encounters; others think the work place should be more formal, more impersonal than is comfortable for you. Still others, who may want more of the spotlight, will find you too much to compete with once you get your lively and outgoing self in motion.
Here's another word of caution. You've been at this warm and open way of relating for a while, but for some people it's a brand new experience. They may be protecting something inside themselves, some fear or guilt or shame, or some private part of their story that they're not yet ready to share. Your openness might threaten them, and they'll take a step back and be reluctant the next time to engage you in the kind of exchange you find so easy and satisfying but they find so dangerous.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room you're in. At work you make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home you keep everyone connected because you engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. You make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there.
You might also be helpful to some people. There are those who need to talk but aren't very good at it. They don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about. You could make that easier for them with your way with words. Some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and get into the greater fun and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, you might be just the right person to make that happen for them.
So almost everyone will be glad to be with you, you make life more interesting for those you live and work with, and you could help some of your friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that you thrive on. Not that you are a pushover; in fact, you are often quite assertive. In taking care of yourself you also make sure that others are engaged and energized.
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So there I hope this answers any questions you have and if you have any more feel free to ask them I will be happy to answer them.
Also if ya want to meet me in person don’t be shy I don’t bit too hard and if you find me to be a potential mate then lets get to know each other. My mate who is Bi and I have been looking for a GIRL FRIEND to hang with so if you’re in the area and interested come over and say hi. We are very loving and randy as hell.
Extra info.
• × • ALL | ABOUT | ME • × •
- Name: Cani
- Single or taken: Mated to very loving woman and we are open for another mate preferably a girl.
- Sex: Male with some female personality traits.
- Birthday: August, 16/83
- Sign: Leo
- Hair color: Black
- Eye color: hazel or black
- Height: 5' 7"
- Are you straight/bisexual/gay?: Straight but as a furry I’m Bi
• × • F A S H I O N | S T U F F • × •
- Favorite place to shop for clothes?: where ever the price is right.
- Favorite designer?: None.
- What is your sexiest outfit?: Utility kilts and pagan out fits.
- What is your most comfortable outfit?: Nude. I don’t know why but I just don’t like wearing cloths even on ice cold days.
- What do you usually wear?: Jeans or cargo pants, and a random shirt.
• × • S P E C I F I C S • × •
- What kind of shampoo do you use?: something form dollar tree.
- What are you listening to right now?: charismas songs.
- Who is the last person that called you?: My mate.
- How many buddies are online right now?: none because I’m not online.
• × • F A V O R I T E S • × •
- Food: just about every thing but bugs.
- Girls' names: I can make some up LOL.
- Boys' names: Mike.
- Subjects in school: Aviation, Art, photography, computer science, IT security, medical billing and coding, massage therapy, Auto and Aviation mechanics.
- Animals: Felines.
• × • H A V E | Y O U | E V E R • × •
- Given anyone a bath?: Yes.
- Smoked?: No.
- Bungee jumped?: Thinking about it beside sky dive.
- Made yourself throw up?: No.
- Skinny dipped?: ummm thought about it until I saw a cop.
- Ever been in love?: yes and still am.
- Made yourself cry to get out of trouble?: No.
- Pictured your crush naked?: Yes, several times.
- Actually seen your crush naked?: Yes and fucked her brains out.
- Cried when someone died?: Yes.
- Lied: Yes.
- Fallen for your best friend?: No.
- Used someone?: No.
- Done something you regret?: Yes. Way too many times.
• × • C U R R E N T • × •
- Clothes: cargo pants, boots and shirt.
- Desktop picture: something naughty.
- CD in player: none.
- DVD in player: Star Trek. Yes I am a big ass Star Trek fan.
• × • L A S T | P E R S O N • × •
- You touched: My self. What you never seen some one scratch their back, perverts.
- Hugged: My mate.
- You kissed: My mate.
- You IMed: none.
- Talk to online: none.
- You sexed it up with: My mate almost a month ago. She is healing form a car accident so our sex lives are kinda sucky.
• × • A R E | Y O U • × •
- Understanding?: yes.
- Open-minded?: Yes.
- Arrogant?: you tell me.
- Insecure?: it depends on what and where do you mean.
- Random?: not really.
- Hungry?: not at the time.
- Smart?: yes and clever.
- Moody?: when am I not nowadays.
- Organized?: trying to be as much as I can.
- Shy?: No and if you give me some coffee I can be very talkative.
- Difficult?: It depends on what you mean. but I’m a sucker for shot skits and pretty eyes.
- Bored easily?: yes and no.
- Obsessed?: I can be at times.
- Angry?: Stupid sheeple and ass holes piss me off all the time.
- Happy?: After a good fucking or talking to someone with a brain.
- Hyper?: Coffee please!!!
- Trusting?: Only with close mates.
• × • R A N D O M • × •
- In the morning I: kicked the clock.
- Love is: a word but what is the connection to that word? My mate, flying, adventures, sex, nature,
Rating 1 though 10 on how do I feel about each question. 1 being (not at all) 5 (somewhat) 10 (very well) also I left some little comments behind my answers.
1. I do things according to a plan. (7) yeeeeeah not all the time.
2. I take time out for others. (9) I’m a carrying person and if anyone has an issue they want to talk about or need help with then I’m here for them.
3. I feel unable to deal with things. (1) Ha more like I’m unable to deal with idiots.
4. I love to help others. (9) Yeah that’s part of being the nice guy that I am.
5. I seek adventure. (10) No kidding I love traveling, camping, and flying along with other things.
6. I often leave a mess in my room. (5) Hey it’s human to be a little lazy.
7. I often carry the conversation to a higher level. (4) I’m not very talkative unless it’s an intrusting topic. I’m more of an observer and listener.
8. I get stressed out easily. (2) I only get that way with college exams and family.
9. I often make others feel good. (10) I love making friends to laugh.
10. I am good at analyzing problems. (8) Years of watching Star Trek has helped me, Laughs.
11. I usually stand up for myself. (7)
12. I am easily discouraged. (2)
13. I can handle a lot of information. (7) It all depends on the situation.
14. I waste my time. (5) I hate letting a day slide by with nothing done though I do have my lazy days.
15. I catch on to things quickly. In worldly situations (7) in bed (10) LOL
16. I usually wait for others to lead the way. (5) Typically I hate waiting for someone to makeup their mined or come up with an idea when it comes to split second decisions and I usually go my own way but if their idea is reasonably sound and logical then I will follow their lead.
17. I love order and regularity. (7)
18. I often do nice things for people. (8) yeah I’m a nice guy and I kinda believe in karma too.
19. I get angry easily. (6) Technically I am a hot head but it takes a lot to piss me off depending upon what it is.
20. Warm (10) yes I am the usual passionate and carrying guy.
21. Clever (9) it all depends on the situation.
22. Dominant (10) I’m in control of my life and that’s how I like it. However, I like equal power between my mate(s) and my self.
23. Ambitious (9)
24. Outgoing (9)
25. Agreeable (6) It depends.
26. Submissive (7) only in bed
27. Introverted (3) Shy? Not really
28. Aloof. For people with more than five brain cells working and thinking with a level head (1) for people that don’t think and have closed minds (20)
29. Quarrelsome. It a (4) but if it’s a pillow fight or a rumble for the last slice of pizza then it’s a (10)
30. Cold. (1) But I am not against giving tough love.
31. Stable. (9) Just give me coffee and no one gets hurt, just kidding.
32. Energetic (8)
33. Spiritual (8) I’m Pagan and I feel more at home in the forest than the city
34. Adventuresome (10) I love the great out doors and traveling.
35. Frugal (8) I try to be when ever I can but food seems to be my weakness. Yes I am a foody.
36. Predictable. (6)
37. Affectionate (10) I love kissing and nibbling in sensual places and I can never get enough of it sometimes.
38. Intelligent (10) It depends on what areas.
39. Compassionate (9)
40. Attractive (8) I try to work out every day to keep fit.
41. Loyal (10) I’m wolf like in personality and I’m very loyal to my mate because my pack means a lot to me.
42. Witty (8)
43. Content (4) Still too many things I want to do in life like fly a plain, building a boat to sail the ocean and see the world, driving cross country to see amazing things, and much more.
44. Spontaneous (9) hey I do have a bit of fox in me too.
45. Sensitive (10) It’s hard to hide ones emotions and thoughts and I can easily pick them up form their body language and the tones in their voice if something is up I will know it.
46. Under-Achiever (4)
47. Generous (7)
48. Moral (8)
49. Adaptable (10) it depends on where and what situation I’m in.
50. Communicative (10)
51. Honest (7) Honestly I didn’t take the cookie.
52. Sensual (10) if you really want to find out how sensual I am then you might as well get ready for long snuggles.
53. Liberal (9)
54. Patient (8) only to a point.
55. Resilient (8)
56. Optimistic (9)
57. Conservative (2)
58. Passionate (10)
59. Reflective (9)
60. Caring (10)
61. Genuine (10)
62. Open (9) I’m open to just about any thing.
63. Self-aware (10) though spiritually I feel like a caged animal in this world of humanity.
64. Over-Achiever (6)
65. Vivacious (10)
66. Wise (9) and still learning
67. Bossy (4) not really unless your not helping.
68. Leader (9) usually it's my way but I do like to share power with my mate(s)
69. Irritable (8) humanity pisses me off. Other than that I’m pretty easy going.
70. Kind (10) I’m an Ass Hole with a golden heart.
71. Calm (9) it depends on the situation.
72. Healthy (9) hey a guy gotta stay fit.
73. Knowledgeable (8) it depends on what areas you are talking about.
74. Aggressive (9) mostly in bed.
75. Outspoken (8)
76. Follower (3) yeah I’m use to doing things on my own think you.
77. Rational (9)
79. Opinionated (9)
80. Restless (8) too many things to do in life.
81. Romantic (10) I love seeing a girl’s eyes sparkle and her cheeks blush when I do romantic things.
82. Well Educated (4) The American educational system fail me so I taught my self by picking up a book to read and watching documentary channels like OPB, History channel, Discovery channel, and others.
83. Selfish (2) only at the dinner table.
84. Shy (1)
85. Stubborn (7) until proven wrong.
86. Trusting (10) but only with those that are close to me.
87. Artistic (9) I like to draw and work with my hands.
88. Competitive (9) I like to race others on bike, kick butts on games, and other fun things.
89. Creative (8) it depends on what mood I’m in.
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90. Imagine that your friends had to choose the best eight descriptions of you from the items listed below. Under line the four items that they would be most likely to pick:
Good Listener
Modest
Respectful
Affectionate
Caring
Spontaneous
Physically Fit
Warm
Outgoing
Optimistic
Dependable
Romantic
Creative
Loyal
Spiritual
Kind
Ambitious
Articulate
Rational
Easy-Going
Generous
Happy
Quiet
Genuine
Intelligent
Hard Working
Thoughtful
Sweet
Passionate
Energetic
Funny
Perceptive
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) absolutely (5) neither agree (10) absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. My personal religious beliefs are important to me. (8) I am pagan (animistic, nature based spirituality) I am a wolf in human skin and nature is my home my spiritual sanctuary.
2. I enjoy a good joke (10) I love to laugh and making others cheerful with corny jokes.
3. I enjoy mingling with people on social occasions. (7) I’m like a wolf, sociable yet not the social type if that makes any sense.
4. I am satisfied with my level of emotional development (8) I’m like a cross between a Vodka Martini and a Pina Colada. I’m smooth and firm yet funny and nutty with a slight hang over in the morning.
5. I am able to express myself in unique ways. (8) drawing and arts and craft are just the tip of the iceberg for many of my hidden talents.
6. I have a high desire for sexual activity. (35) I am very sexually active and the type that would pleasure a woman literally for hours on end just to see her orgasm over and over again. I just love sex.
7. It is easy for me to engage in conversations with people I have just met. (6) Occasionally I get into topics with people that make me wonder of I should become anti-social. But I do like to talk if it is a good topic.
8. I tend to think "outside the box". (7)
9. I view myself as well adjusted. (7)
10. I greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex
(35) I think of a woman’s body as artwork, there are no ugly forms just interesting ones.
11. I often see humor in everyday life. (9) Life is a joke so laugh it up.
12. It is important for me to be viewed by others as a successful person. (8)
13. Being in settings where I will meet new people is an important part of my life. (6)
14. I ask questions in search of information. (10)
15. I think it is important to continually try to improve myself. (11) I’m always trying to better my self.
16. I care a lot about the physical shape I am in. (10)
17. I like to look at people of the opposite sex. (14) Girls are much more sexier than guys.
18. It is important for me to take time to "smell the roses". (7)
19. I need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied. (8)
20. I have an ability to make others laugh (9)
21. I work much better if people follow my lead. (8)
22. My emotions are generally stable. (10)
23. I am proud of my educational background. (2) The United States educational system is a joke.
24. If I am not in control of a situation, it is better if I leave. (0) I don’t mind sharing control of problems.
25. My friends come to me when they are in difficult times because they know I can handle emotional crisis. (5)
26. I am more comfortable being a follower than a leader. (2) not really.
27. I get upset easily. (5) I can be a hot head sometimes.
28. People who are controlling irritate me. (10)
29. I think it is important to express my feelings whether they are positive or negative. (8)
30. I prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings. (8)
31. I tend to either like someone a lot or dislike him/her a lot. (7)
32. I like to be pampered. (5) please no milk bones but I like massages and a good lustful fuck.
33. I generally feel better when I am around other people. (3) I feel better with being in the forest but I don’t know about the whole of humanity.
34. When I get mad I tend to take it out on someone. (0) never!
35. Happy. (9)
36. Sad. (4)
37. Anxious. (2)
38. Confident. (8)
39. Hopeful. (2) I’m not hopeful, I make things happen or let them fall into place.
40. Fearful about the future. (0) If I lived in fear of the future then it wouldn’t make sense to live at all. I look forward to seeing what will or could happen in the future and to look back at how far things have came.
41. Angry. (14) I am totally pissed off at America and Humanity as a whole for destroying wilderness places and driving animals to the point of extinction. Other than that, it takes a lot to piss me off. So usually, I’m a (4)
42. Calm. (8) It depends on the situation.
43. Fortunate. (9) and fortunate to be able to hop on one foot, rub my belly, and pat my head at the same time along with other things.
44. Out of control. (3) I’m not out of control, I just happen to be the child of Chaos and the step son of Order
45. Fulfilled. (5) It depends on what ya mean by fulfilled.
46. Depressed. (0) There are too many things going on to be depressed.
47. Energetic. (8)
48. Tired. (4) Only if I don’t have coffee.
49. Successful. (7) It depends on what it could be.
50. Unable to cope. (0)
52. Satisfied. (5) It depends on what it could be.
53. Misunderstood. (4) I stutter a little when I’m half sleep.
54. Safe. (10) I don’t bite too hard.
55. Plotted against. (0) If I was you tell me about it.
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) Absolutely (5) Neither agree (10) Absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. I am looking for a long-term relationship that will ultimately lead to marriage. (10) I want someone I can share and experience life with. I am not interested in one night stands or the occasional fuck buddy. Truly, I’m just looking for a fun loving and loyal mate.
2. When I get romantically involved, I generally tell my partner just about everything. (9) yeah I like to chat a lot because I believe that if a couple knows every thing about each other then there wouldn’t be any insecurities between them and there for the relationship can only grow stronger but I do like to keep some of my sexual fantasy a secrets just to have fun letting her figure them out.
3. It is difficult for me to let people get emotionally close to me. (0) I’m very open and loving but you won’t see that side of me if you are weird or just out of your mind creepy.
4. A "serious" relationship needs to be exclusive (i.e., monogamous). (8) I don’t care if my girl is having fun with another woman or other women she can do what ever she wants, thing is when it comes to guys (unless they are guy friends) I’m territorial. My fursona is a Wolf and in Real Life my personality runs a long the same lines so you know the fur is going to be flying with other guys.
5. I know I can always count on the people who are closest to me. (10) I have to and my mate(s) should expect the same out of me if not then there is a problem.
6. I don't need to have close friendships to be happy. (8) No and kinda yes. I’m a loner sometimes when I want to try to find my self or be creative but I see that I enjoy life more with my pack.
7. Being monogamous helps build intimacy and trust in a romantic relationship. (9)
8. People often let you down if you depend on them. (5) It depends. I had folks let me down so often that I began doing things my self hints why I’m a loner at times.
9. It's important to me to have close friends in my life. (10) When is it not?
10. Being exclusive (i.e., monogamous) is one of benefits of being in a successful relationship. (7)
11. I sometimes find it difficult to trust people I get romantically involved with. (0) unless they break my heart then it will be a pain to get my trust back.
12. I find it easy to get emotionally close to people. (10) Which is why I chose my friends wisely and don’t have sexual fun with just any one.
13. Being monogamous causes relationships to get boring over time. (5) It depends on the girl, so far I know I have a funny and weird personality, on top of that I’m interested in adventures and a mess load of things sexual or other.
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Please rate 1 through 10 to indicate how important each of the following characteristics would be to you in finding a partner for a relationship.
(1) Not at all (5) Somewhat (10) Very
Important Important Important
1. My partner's personal values. (10) yeah I like to know what she is all about.
2. My partner's energy level. (8) I like to have a girl that is energetic cause I do live an active life but there is nothing wrong with being a little lazy now and then.
3. Enjoying the way I feel around my partner. (10) I want a girl that is confident and comfortable with her self. I want her to be her self and not be up tight around me. That nerveyness over time will bug the hell out of me, really I will love her more just for being her self and the relationship just works better that way with me.
4. My partner's dependability. (10) I want someone I can closely rely on just as much as they can rely on me or else things won’t work out.
5. My partner's sex appeal. (7) Actually I don’t really care how you look just as long as you are healthy and fit but having a sexy body doesn’t hurt either.
6. My partner's love of children. (7) For a guy it’s kinda strange to admit that I do want to have kids but the way humanity and life is I’m not sure if I want to have any. Besides, I’m not sure if I am mature enough to be a father despite what others may say.
7. My partner's beliefs. (10)
8. My partner's fun-loving nature. (22) I want someone I can have fun with or things will get awkward and boring real fast.
9. My partner's physical appearance. You have to look decent when your out side with me I hate to look broke even if I am. I care a lot about appearance in public but at home I don’t really care how you look.
10. The chemistry between me and my partner. (7) I can’t say if it is a myth or fact but if you don’t mind me sniffing ya then I won’t mind you sniffing me, heeheehee.
11. The similarities between me and my partner. (8) It’s not totally important for a couple to have a lot of similarities, it’s nice to have some differences so each other could have fun exploring new things that interest them both. However I will say I want a girl that is interested in adventures, flying, being out doors a lot, video games, science, and Star Trek.
12. The romantic attraction I feel for my partner. (14) She must love long kisses and naughty things.
13. My partner's personality. (10) I do not feel like dealing with dim wits. She must be very bright, very intelligent with a firm grasp on the world around her, fun loving if not a little childish, and have a good sense of humor. I can’t stand a girl that is duller than a butter knife cutting though rock.
14. My partner's kindness. (10)
15. Our sexual compatibility. (24) I would love a girl that wants to have fun exploring the depths of her sexuality and seeing how many orgasms she can achieve in a day. I’m deeply into giving oral and I don’t know how to describe my sexual side so you will just have to find out for your self.
16. My partner's ability to communicate. (10) I can not read your mind so talk to me about what ever that comes to your mind good or bad.
17. My partner's skill at resolving conflicts. (10)
18. My partner's friendliness. (10)
19. My partner's capacity for emotional intimacy. (10) when you are with me don’t bottle your self up, remember sex or love making is fun and should always be a wonderful and spiritual experience between two lovers.
20. The friendship between me and my partner. (14) I don’t look at my mate as just being my mate but as my Lover, Best Friend, Sister, and Mate.
21. Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner. (10)
22. Being able to tell my partner everything about myself. (10)
23. Being able to discuss with my partner how I am feeling
towards him/her. (10)
24. Having my partner be open with me about how he/she feels toward me. (10) If ya got issues please tell me instead of keeping them hidden.
25. Enjoying physical closeness with my partner. (24)
26. Being able to spend as much time as possible with my partner. (9)
27. Doing special things to let my partner know how important he/she is to me (15)
28. Being able to make compromises. (6)
29. Showing my partner that his/her needs are as important to me as my own. (14)
30. Having similar ideas on parenting. (6)
31. Knowing that my partner is usually to blame when things go wrong. (0) wrong so wrong unless she actually did it.
32. Having similar educational backgrounds. (0)
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A.What are the eight things for which YOU are the MOST thankful?
1.My Mate
2. Educational TV shows like Discovery and History channels,
OPB.
3. Gene Roddenberry the creator of Star Trek.
4. George Lucas the creator of Star Wars.
5. Mini skirts.
6. Condoms
7. Computers
8. HBO’s Real Time With Bill Maher.
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Please decide whether each of the following statements is a good description of you. For statements that are NOT at all like you, please type "False." For statements that are at least somewhat like you, type "True."
1. I enjoy many different types of recreational activities. True.
2. I always read ALL of the warning literature on side-effects before taking any medication. True.
3. I sometimes drive faster than the posted speed-limit. True. But only when road conditions allow me, I’m crazy not stupid.
4. If a store-clerk gave me too much change, I might keep it without telling them. False.
5. I generally want to come out ahead. True.
6. I frequently have to work to overcome my shyness. False.
7. I like some people just because they are popular with others. False.
8. I dislike some people. True.
9. I never worry about work-related issues. True.
10. I sometimes waste time when I should be working. True.
11. I would never lie, even if it wouldn't hurt anyone. False.
12. I do not give as much to charity as I could afford to financially. True.
13. At times I have raised my voice in anger. True.
14. I don't care what other people think about me. True.
15. I am sometimes tempted to make fun of people behind their backs. True.
16. There are times when I am envious of other people's possessions. False.
17. My house is often cleaner when I have company coming over. True.
18. I sometimes wish that certain other people would fail. False.
19. I am always even-tempered. True.
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Please use the scale below to rate your interest in the following things.
(1) none (5) some interest (10) very strong interest
1. Live Music. (10)
2. Eating (10)
3. Backpacking (10)
4. Astrology (10)
5. Movies (10)
6. Listening to Music (10)
7. Watching TV (10)
8. Reading (10)
9. Parties (8)
10. Dining Out (10)
11. Board Games (10)
12. Gadgets (14)
13. Traveling (12)
14. Art (10)
15. Participating in Sports (7)
16. Shopping (8)
17. Friendship (8)
18. Hunting (10) for food only.
19. Politics (7)
20. Pets (10)
1. Family (8)
2. Talk with friends (8)
3. Animal Rights (10)
4. Camping (10)
5. Religious Community . (0) Really This whole god thing is a joke along with the people that believe in this so called holly bible. If there is any factual evidence in it then it most certainly proves how dull people can be between the ears and I will leave it there.
6. Playing a Musical Instrument/Singing (9)
7. Science (100)
8. Teaching/Coaching (6)
9. Volunteering (8)
10. Watching Sports (3)
11. Going Out (10)
12. Protecting the Environment (100)
13. Conversation (10)
14. Religious Faith. (0) it’s a joke.
15. Hosting/Entertaining (6)
16. Maintaining a healthy diet (10)
17. Learning (14)
18. Church Involvement (0) never!!!
19. Video Games (10)
20. Exercising regularly to stay healthy (10)
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A.We all have things that interest us: art, sports, music, family, faith, the environment. What are you passionate about?
Nature and one day flying my own plain.
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B. Please describe two or six things that you most enjoy doing with your leisure time.
1. Watching the learning channels.
2. Watching Star Trek.
3. Walking in the woods.
4. Bike riding.
5. Studying aviation.
6. buzzing the net.
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Please use the scale below to rate your skill level in the following things.
(1) not skilled (5) somewhat skilled (10) very skilled
1. Socializing (8)
2. Entertaining in my home (6)
3. Achieving personal goals (7)
4. Using humor to make friends laugh (10)
5. Creating romance in a relationship (10)
6. Keeping physically fit (8)
7. Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis (9)
8. Helping those who are less fortunate or in need (9)
9. Resolving conflict (9)
10. Making art and culture an ongoing part of my life (8)
11. Finding and taking on challenging activities (7)
12. Finding creative solutions to everyday problems (9)
13. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle (8)
14. Making new friends (8)
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Please use the scale below to rate your abilities in the following things.
(1) not at all (5) somewhat (10) very well
1. I try to accommodate the other person's position (10)
2. I try to understand the other person (10)
3. I try to be respectful of all opinions different from my own (10)
4. I try to resolve the conflict quickly (8)
5. I try to avoid disagreement (5) I avoid it more by understanding the other person's situation and coming to a compromise.
6. I am passionate/intense about my position (10)
7. I try to drop an issue once it is resolved (8)
8. I try to resolve the conflict well (10)
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1. How much do you smoke?
Never
2. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to smoke.
Never
3. How important is the amount your match smokes?
Very
Important
4. How much do you drink?
A few times a year
5. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to drink.
A few times a year
6. How important is the amount your match drinks?
Somewhat Important
7. How many children do you have who are 18 years old or younger and living full time in your home?
none
8. Aside from any children you or a new partner may already have, would you like to start a new family by having or adopting a baby?
Maybe, I haven't decided yet.
9. Would you be willing to accept a partner who has children 18 years old or younger living full time in their home?
No
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1. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
My Grandmother she was the one that taught me how to be caring.
3. The four things your friends say about you are:
Caring
Outgoing
Funny
Romantic
4. What are three of your BEST life-skills? Computers, pleasuring a woman, and working with my hands.
5. What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
Intelligence, loyal, a level head, passionate, sensual, fun, adventures, wanting to learn new things, sexual, open minded, and a good sense of hummer.
6. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
My messed up sense of hummer.
7. What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD? Not sure.
8. How do you typically spend your leisure time?
Being out side most of the time or watching the science channels or Star Trek or video games.
9. What are five things that you "can't live without?"
A. Science.
B. Nature.
C. Good food
D. Love
E. Sex
10. Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
A Guide To Owning An Air Plain, it is a step by step guide on finding a plan for the best price and how to keep it maintained. it shows me how can I accomplish my dream.
11. Describe one thing about yourself that only your best friends know.
I’m very kind hearted.
12. Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you? I am a slight germaphobe. Other than that I’m just a silly horn ball of a guy.
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Must Have Traits In my mate type yes next to them.
(yes) Chemistry...
I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to
my partner.
(yes) Communicator...
I must have someone who is good at talking
and listening.
(yes) Sense of Humor...
I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy
the humorous side of life.
(Hell Yes!!) Verbal Intimacy...
I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest
emotional thoughts and desires.
(yes) Emotionally Healthy...
I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy,
and able to share a stable life with
someone else.
(yes) Strong Character...
I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough
to do the right thing.
(yes) Artistry...
I must have a partner who has a passion for music,
literature, drama, art, and the
finer things in life either as a spectator or participant.
Education...
I must have someone whose educational achievements
match my own.
(yes) Exciting...
I must have someone who isn't afraid to take a
risk and who sees life as an
adventure.
(yes) Patience...
I must have someone who can handle life's frustrations
or momentary setbacks with
a patient, steady, demeanor.
(yes) Conflict Resolver...
I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather
than win arguments or
conflicts within our relationship.
(yes) Personal Habits...
I must have a partner who maintains high standards
of personal hygiene,
orderliness, and other personal habits.
(yes) Affectionate...
I must have someone who is comfortable giving
and receiving affection.
(yes) Energy Level...
I must have someone whose energy level matches
my own.
(yes) Intellect...
I must have a partner who is bright and can share
my understanding of the world as
well as enjoy discussing important issues.
(yes) Self-Confident...
I must have a partner who knows and believes in
himself/herself throughout life's
ups and downs.
(yes) Able to Accept Help...
I must have a partner who is willing to accept outside help for personal or relationship issues that are serious and important.
(Yes) Curiosity...
I must have a partner who is hungry for new information and knowledge and who strives to learn as much as possible.
(yes) Adaptability...
I must have a partner who is able to adapt to
life's surprises.
(yes) Kindness...
I must have a partner who is gentle and kind.
(yes) Organized...
I must have a partner who values structure in their life.
(yes) Tolerant...
I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate
divergent viewpoints.
Attractiveness...
I must have a partner who is considered "very
attractive" by most current standards.
(yes) Industriousness...
I must have someone who is willing to work hard
at whatever they do.
(yes) Emotionally Generous...
I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
(yes) Unassuming...
I must have someone who is able to accept criticism, and even admit to being wrong sometimes.
(yes) Loyal...
I must have someone I can count on to always support me.
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Values
(yes) Family Life...
I must have a partner who is committed to marriage,
home, and family.
(yes) Style and Appearance...
I must have someone who cares about the way they look and dress and has a sense of personal style.
(yes) Shared Politics...
I must have someone who has political beliefs which are the same or similar to my own.
(yes) Spirit of Volunteerism...
I must have a partner who shares my willingness to volunteer and support community and/or social causes.
(yes) Autonomy...
I must have a partner who will give me space to be
my own person.
(yes) Shared Interests...
I must have someone who is willing to share my
interests and passions.
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Family
No Children...
I must have someone who shares my desire to not have
children.
Family...
I must have someone who shares my desire to have
or adopt children.
Stepchildren...
I must have someone who will accept my children as
their own.
Parent Care...
I must have someone who is willing to help me take care of my parents, now or when the time comes.
(yes) Parenting Style...
I must have someone who shares my views about how
to raise children.
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Social Living
(yes) Sociability...
I must have a partner who loves to socialize with lots of different people.
(yes) Staying In...
I must have a partner who mainly enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends.
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Spirituality
(yes) Spirituality...
I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
(yes) Spiritual Acceptance...
My partner must accept and respect my spiritual beliefs, whether they share them or not.
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Financial
(yes) Responsible...
My partner must be financially responsible.
(yes) Relaxed...
I must have a partner who is able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life.
Ambition...
I must have a partner who shares my desire to achieve high financial and/or career goals.
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Sexuality
Abstinent...
I must have a spouse who has saved himself/herself
sexually for marriage.
(yes) Sexually Knowledgeable...
I must have someone who is mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner and is able to express himself/herself freely.
Traditional...
I must have someone who is reserved and traditional
in their sexual needs.
(yes) Passionate...
I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding.
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Can't stand to have in a potential mate. Type yes beside it.
Traits
(yes) Vanity...
I can't stand someone who is overly interested in
their physical appearance.
(yes) Dependence...
I can't stand someone who bases their happiness
on me.
(yes) Lying...
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially
to me.
(yes) Cheating...
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
(yes) Anger...
I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
(yes) Rude...
I can't stand someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation.
Unhappy at Work...
I can't stand someone who hates their job and
complains about it all the time.
(yes) Denial...
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
(yes) Workaholic...
I can't stand someone who treats everything in life
as secondary to their job.
Lazy...
I can't stand someone who likes to spend excessive time sleeping, resting or being a "couch potato."
(yes) Worrier...
I can't stand someone who easily loses perspective
and constantly worries.
Intolerance...
While I understand that religious conviction is a positive trait, I can't stand someone who is self-righteous and feels that their particular faith is the only one that matters.
(yes) Victim Mentality...
While everyone has times of self-pity, I can't stand someone who continually sees himself/herself as a victim.
(yes) Grudges...
I can't stand someone who has a chip on their shoulder.
(yes) Mean Spirited...
I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and
is mean to others.
(yes) Fiscally Irresponsible...
I can't stand someone who is incapable of managing
their money.
(yes) Hypochondriac...
I can't stand someone who has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the symptoms of their supposed illness.
(yes) Excessive Overweight...
I can't stand someone who is overweight.
(yes) Gambling...
I can't stand someone who gambles.
(yes) Intruding Family/Friends...
I can't stand someone whose relatives and friends are
constantly calling or visiting.
Depressed...
I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy
about their life.
(yes) Cynicism...
I can't stand someone who generally sees the world from
a cynical perspective.
(yes) Self-Centered...
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is
himself/herself.
(yes) Materialistic...
I can't stand someone who sees material items as a
measure of success.
(yes) Childishness...
I can't stand someone who is not emotionally mature.
(yes) Petty...
I can't stand someone who focuses on imperfection.
(yes) Boorishness...
I can't stand someone who is inclined to rowdy, vulgar or disrespectful behavior when "having fun."
(yes) Drugs...
I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational
drugs.
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Values
(yes) Flirts...
I can't stand someone who constantly flirts with the
opposite sex.
Television Junkie...
I can't stand someone who constantly watches television.
(yes) Poor Hygiene...
I can't stand someone who is not clean.
Gossip...
I can't stand someone who loves to talk about other
people.
(yes) Judgmental...
I can't stand someone who finds fault with everyone and
everything.
(yes) Addictions...
I can't stand someone who currently suffers from
addictions.
(yes) Undependable...
I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is
unreliable.
Foul Mouthed...
I can't stand someone who swears or uses inappropriate
language or humor.
(yes) Extremely Shy...
I can't stand someone who is so shy that they cannot open
up and share with me.
(yes) Political Correctness...
I can't stand someone who censors their thoughts and opinions with a politically correct agenda.
Recklessness...
I can't stand someone who has a careless and irresponsible manner when with others.
Sexually Obsessed...
I can't stand someone who is sexually obsessive.
(yes) Uninterested...
I can't stand someone who does not enjoy having sex on
a regular basis.
(yes) Infidelity...
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a
committed relationship.
Punctuality...
I can't stand someone who is always late.
(yes) Racist...
I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
(yes) Hypocrites...
I can't stand someone who holds a double standard for their actions and those of other people.
Pornography...
I can't stand someone who views or owns pornography
in any form.
Sloppy...
I can't stand someone who is unkempt.
Cheap...
I can't stand someone who is so tightfisted as to be
impractical.
Arrogant...
I can't stand someone who is obnoxiously cocky.
(yes) Pessimism...
I can't stand someone who always sees the glass as half
empty.
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Introduction to Agreeableness
This section of your profile describes your interactions with other people. The ways we communicate our feelings, beliefs and ideas to others are influenced by our cultural backgrounds, the way we were raised, and sometimes which side of the bed we got up on this morning. Some of us are very mindful of others making decisions we hope will be in their best interests, even if it means sometimes neglecting our own interests. Others of us believe each person should be responsible for themselves, taking deep pride in our own character and independence with a firm belief that others are best served by doing the same. The following describes how you engage with others; illustrating the dimension of your personality that determines your independence or your desire to reach out and touch others in meaningful ways.
You are best described as: TAKING CARE OF OTHERS AND TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF
Words that describe you:
Fair, Considered, Collaborative, Responsive, Sensible, Diplomatic, Contemplative, Indulgent, Rational.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
You are important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble. You have a tender heart, but you know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. You are empathetic and compassionate, but you also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able.
You are deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. You strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of yourself.
When someone really is in trouble, you like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, you do yours. You consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together you move through the difficulty.
You seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, you take your time to think through the situation. This contemplative quality usually means that you'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to you. It's frequently a win/win situation.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
For people who are ruled by tender-hearted compassion, your more diplomatic response to problems might seem too cool, too focused on fairness and not filled enough with sympathy and selflessness.
For them, when someone's life is on fire, what is needed is not collaboration but rescue. And the person who experiences their life on fire may resent the time you take to contemplate. "I need you, and I need you NOW! This isn't about fairness, it's about the fire." "All deliberate speed" may seem too deliberate and not fast enough, either to the more compassionate or to people in genuine trouble.
At the other end of the spectrum of compassion, those who believe people should take care of themselves may find even your thoughtful sympathies too soft. They expect people, themselves included, to work their own way out of trouble. They are convinced that the helping hand you lend just fosters dependence and is not good for the development of character, either in you or in the person you assist.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, perhaps the majority, will come to appreciate your balance as a compassionate person. The more they get to know you, the more they will admire your thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways you take good care of yourself.
Those whom you help will appreciate the way you leave them with their dignity by expecting them to collaborate in their own rescue. Those who are more tender-hearted will find in you a balance they lack; when they've run out of energy because they fail to take good care of themselves, you will still have enough compassion left to lift others out of trouble.
Even the tough-hearted, those who believe people should solve their own problems, might come to admire your tenderness which they don't find in themselves. So the people you help will be grateful, and the people who see your balance between self and others will admire you. Certainly, balanced is not bad at all as a way to be known among your friends
Introduction to Openness
How firmly committed are you to the ideas and beliefs that govern your thinking and guide your behavior? Some people trust their current ideas and beliefs the way a climber trusts the mountain; whichever way they move, whether the climb is on a familiar trail or over new ground, there is something solid beneath them, something they count on.
For others, new ideas, new solutions to old problems, new beliefs that replace tired convictions are like welcome wind in their sails. They can hardly wait to tack in a new direction and ride a new idea through uncharted waters. If it's new, it's interesting, and they're ready to explore.
The following paragraphs describe your responses to new ways of thinking and believing. How do you handle new information? Are you more like the climber on a familiar mountain or a sailor with a tiller in hand and a fresh breeze to propel you? How you integrate and process new information about the world and about others is a core aspect of your personality.
On the Openness Dimension you are: CONTENT
Words that describe you:
Sensible, Realistic, Conventional, Sincere, Simple, Firm, Earnest.
A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences
You find that you are usually more comfortable with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time. These values, which for you are tried-and-true, provide you with practical solutions to life's problems, and with straightforward ways of engaging in intellectual discussions and debates. You've tested these positions over time, you know them well, they work for you, and you trust them. You like the way these solutions provide consistency and value to your life.
You've always been teachable as well. Whether in textbooks or classrooms, or through a wide variety of personal and interpersonal experiences, you've explored and tested the values and ideas you hold dear. Along the way you've grown to recognize ideas and beliefs that fit with your life. When this happens, you open yourself to learning what it is that this can teach you. Most of the time evaluating new information strengthens what you know and trust; the "next new thing" usually proves too shallow or too impractical to dislodge you from what has served you so well.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward Your Style of Thinking
Not everyone will be thrilled by your commitment to the tried-and-true, and your practical solutions to problems of all sorts. Some people are in flight most of the time, leaving behind where they've come from and peering into whatever brand-new thought or experience they come across. They live for these flights of fancy. So they may find your commitment to the tried-and-true very trying and even boring. So be it; you won't be a companion on their journey. And that is fine with you. You will likely continue on being quite satisfied with your approach to important beliefs and ideas.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Despite some negative reactions toward your style of thinking, many others will appreciate in you the combination of a steadiness of mind and openness to occasional change. They will find your practical solutions clear and accessible in an intellectual environment that is too often fuzzy and lacking clear values. They will come to trust you as someone who is not swayed by every new intellectual wind that blows, nor tantalized by some imaginative belief or value that seems attractive at first but usually proves in the long run to be unreliable as a guide in life. In a complicated and fractious intellectual climate they will find your clear thinking, your practical ideas and your down-to-earth solutions to problems to be a great relief.
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Introduction to Emotional Stability
We're born with the capacity to feel deeply, so it's as natural as breathing to experience a range of emotions. Fear and joy and sadness, anger and shame and disgust lie somewhere within each of us. Ah, but to what extent do we control these emotions, and to what extent do they control us? How you answer this question of how your emotions play out in your life has a great deal to do with your levels of personal satisfaction and with the character of your relationships with others. Do you manage your emotions well, keeping them in check with your thinking and your willpower, or are you someone who lets emotions have their way, giving in to the wild dance of feelings? The following paragraphs describe your emotional range in terms of being a person who is emotionally steady or someone who is responsive to whatever feelings swell up in you.
On Emotional Stability you are: RESPONSIVE
Words that describe you:
• Open, Accessible, Too Sensitive, Reachable, Candid, Unguarded.
A General Description of Your Reactivity
You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.
Sure there are times when your feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times you may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, you much prefer being open with your emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of your emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but you realize that is part of life. And more often than not you feel enriched by your emotions, by your ability to be open to all that life brings you. You know that even when you have those times that get you down, there will be even more times when you see life in ways that others just can't.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Undoubtedly you have met some people who get uncomfortable being around you because your feelings are so close to the surface. They may keep a bit of distance, especially around any subject that might trigger an emotional topic they are uncomfortable with. Over time, they might even stay away from you more and more. You will find you have decisions to make; do you temper your style for their comfort or do you hope they will find ways to become more comfortable with emotional expressions? Given the richness that seems to stem from your emotional life the most meaningful response is probably very apparent to you.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
You are a cherished companion for those friends who can handle emotions well. They will appreciate the candor with which you express even difficult feelings like anger and fear. Your openness will make intimate conversations even more intimate, and make the connections between you as friends deeper and stronger. Some people who have trouble expressing their feelings might find in you a good example of how to be more vulnerable and more open. Your willingness and ability to share your emotions could encourage them to share theirs, and invite them into ways of being friends that will help enrich their lives.
Introduction to Conscientiousness
It's a work day, breakfast is over, and you're dressed and ready. So how will you approach the tasks at hand? Some people work best with a clear schedule, a set of priorities and a due date for every step in the process. Others are, shall we say, less regimented. They approach a task with as much imagination as organization, and with a willingness to bend and modify in order to exercise some urge of creativity.
How about you? Do you walk in a straight line toward a clear goal, or are you more likely to dance your way down whatever path will get you wherever it is you're headed? The following paragraphs describe ways in which you approach the tasks life brings to you, and to what extent you are focused or flexible in how you choose to proceed.
Your approach toward your obligations is: FOCUSED AND FLEXIBLE
Words that describe you:
• Casual, Informal, Compliant, Reliable, Organized, Solid, Dependable, Uncommitted, Genuine.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
When you take on a task at work or at home, you are reliable; you get the job done. In an organized way, you define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task will take, and get to work "solid and dependable you".
But and this is important you're not a slave to the plan. You're committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. You know that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, you clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred.
Though not happening often, when plans change, you're okay with it. In fact, sometimes you change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. True, the next rainy Saturday will likely find you back in the garage, but for now the work can wait.
What an interesting combination of qualities in you're organized, but casual; solid, but compliant; and dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can rely on you. You take great satisfaction in knowing that people think of you as disciplined and responsible, but you also know that you have something of a free spirit in you, and when this spirit moves you, off you go, following the impulse of the moment. You are rightly proud of your work ethic, but you also enjoy your willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
Some people live like Marines: duty-bound, disciplined and driven. To these people you might seem uncommitted; where they would never leave work for play or change plans in the middle of their life's forced march, you let the circumstance sway you and move in a different direction, and they don't understand.
Others live like kites on a string, attached by thin threads to the solid ground of responsibility and are blown about by every gust of impulse or imagination. To these people you might seem too cowardly, like you'll flirt with your impulses but never give in fully, play on a Saturday but never blow of the entire work-week to "follow your bliss".
While these Marines and kite-flyers might look down on you for your combination of focus and flexibility, others might be envious. They can't free themselves from a sense that they're not doing enough, or from the equally frustrating feeling that they're not free enough.
And here you are with your accomplishments and your pleasures, getting the job done but also getting your hair blown back as you run with the wind. As far as these people are concerned, you're lucky you've got the best of both of the worlds in which they feel they fail.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
What a great life you have, and a great attitude to boot. You know when to buckle down and push ahead to get the job done, and you do it well. You know when to lay the tools of your trade aside, grab your kite and head for the meadow where you can run with the wind. Many people will see and admire in you this lovely combination of a person who can focus, but who is flexible enough to know when to let the spirit move you in some new and livelier direction.
It's a life they aspire to, and they delight in seeing it played out in your life. They may ask your advice and turn you into a mentor of the full and balanced experience. They will want to know how you do it, what the costs are, and if you get frightened that you're not working hard enough or playing often enough. They may make you think about your own life more than you have, so you can share it with those who want to emulate this balance between flexibility and focus. They may be correct lucky you!
Introduction to Extraversion
Some days you want to hang out by yourself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day you e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something you ate; some days are just like that. In actuality, your desire to be with others or to be alone reflects something deep in your personality. Some of us are more comfortable by ourselves or with one or two friends, while others of us crave the crowd and can't stand it when the house is empty or the phone doesn't ring. The following paragraphs describe your fundamental desires about being with other people; whether you are generally an outgoing person or more reserved, if you seek adventures with others, if you tend toward assertiveness or kindness.
When it comes to Extraversion you are: OUTGOING
Words that describe you:
• Friendly, Gregarious, Full of Life, Unreserved, Kindhearted, Talkative, Emotional, Spontaneous, Vigorous.
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
People light you up. In conversations, planning meetings or almost any social situation, you bring your energy and your friendly, outgoing personality into these engagements with other people, and you come away pumped up. You can hardly wait for the next event, as long as other people will be there. And you're good at it.
You know how to communicate. You listen well, the first rule of good communication, and then, when it's your turn, you talk vigorously and with animation; in your uninhibited way you give all that you've got to the encounter.
In situations where you feel very safe, when you know and trust the people you're with, you can be very kindhearted and unrestrained. You let your affection for and pleasure in being with others flow freely. You're wide open And when you get back this same kind of unrestrained warmth, you are deeply satisfied. Because you are so friendly and full of life, these are among your favorite moments.
Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You
As much as you like being with other people, not everyone will like being with you. Hard to believe, but your gregarious and warm manner is not everyone's cup of tea. Some people are more cautious than you in personal encounters; others think the work place should be more formal, more impersonal than is comfortable for you. Still others, who may want more of the spotlight, will find you too much to compete with once you get your lively and outgoing self in motion.
Here's another word of caution. You've been at this warm and open way of relating for a while, but for some people it's a brand new experience. They may be protecting something inside themselves, some fear or guilt or shame, or some private part of their story that they're not yet ready to share. Your openness might threaten them, and they'll take a step back and be reluctant the next time to engage you in the kind of exchange you find so easy and satisfying but they find so dangerous.
Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You
Many people, most probably, will be glad to be in the room you're in. At work you make the environment livelier and the banter more interesting, so the time moves swiftly and the experience is a happier one. At home you keep everyone connected because you engage each of them in the conversational action, and as a result they are more connected as well with one another. You make home a warmer and more interesting place for everyone who lives there.
You might also be helpful to some people. There are those who need to talk but aren't very good at it. They don't know how to begin the kind of conversation that would allow them to share whatever is in their personal stories that they'd like or need to talk about. You could make that easier for them with your way with words. Some people just need an example and a little encouragement to come out of their shell and get into the greater fun and personal connectedness that will make their lives so much more satisfying. Again, you might be just the right person to make that happen for them.
So almost everyone will be glad to be with you, you make life more interesting for those you live and work with, and you could help some of your friends who need just a little encouragement to open up and find in themselves the kinds of energetic and warm connections that you thrive on. Not that you are a pushover; in fact, you are often quite assertive. In taking care of yourself you also make sure that others are engaged and energized.
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So there I hope this answers any questions you have and if you have any more feel free to ask them I will be happy to answer them.
Also if ya want to meet me in person don’t be shy I don’t bit too hard and if you find me to be a potential mate then lets get to know each other. My mate who is Bi and I have been looking for a GIRL FRIEND to hang with so if you’re in the area and interested come over and say hi. We are very loving and randy as hell.
Extra info.
• × • ALL | ABOUT | ME • × •
- Name: Cani
- Single or taken: Mated to very loving woman and we are open for another mate preferably a girl.
- Sex: Male with some female personality traits.
- Birthday: August, 16/83
- Sign: Leo
- Hair color: Black
- Eye color: hazel or black
- Height: 5' 7"
- Are you straight/bisexual/gay?: Straight but as a furry I’m Bi
• × • F A S H I O N | S T U F F • × •
- Favorite place to shop for clothes?: where ever the price is right.
- Favorite designer?: None.
- What is your sexiest outfit?: Utility kilts and pagan out fits.
- What is your most comfortable outfit?: Nude. I don’t know why but I just don’t like wearing cloths even on ice cold days.
- What do you usually wear?: Jeans or cargo pants, and a random shirt.
• × • S P E C I F I C S • × •
- What kind of shampoo do you use?: something form dollar tree.
- What are you listening to right now?: charismas songs.
- Who is the last person that called you?: My mate.
- How many buddies are online right now?: none because I’m not online.
• × • F A V O R I T E S • × •
- Food: just about every thing but bugs.
- Girls' names: I can make some up LOL.
- Boys' names: Mike.
- Subjects in school: Aviation, Art, photography, computer science, IT security, medical billing and coding, massage therapy, Auto and Aviation mechanics.
- Animals: Felines.
• × • H A V E | Y O U | E V E R • × •
- Given anyone a bath?: Yes.
- Smoked?: No.
- Bungee jumped?: Thinking about it beside sky dive.
- Made yourself throw up?: No.
- Skinny dipped?: ummm thought about it until I saw a cop.
- Ever been in love?: yes and still am.
- Made yourself cry to get out of trouble?: No.
- Pictured your crush naked?: Yes, several times.
- Actually seen your crush naked?: Yes and fucked her brains out.
- Cried when someone died?: Yes.
- Lied: Yes.
- Fallen for your best friend?: No.
- Used someone?: No.
- Done something you regret?: Yes. Way too many times.
• × • C U R R E N T • × •
- Clothes: cargo pants, boots and shirt.
- Desktop picture: something naughty.
- CD in player: none.
- DVD in player: Star Trek. Yes I am a big ass Star Trek fan.
• × • L A S T | P E R S O N • × •
- You touched: My self. What you never seen some one scratch their back, perverts.
- Hugged: My mate.
- You kissed: My mate.
- You IMed: none.
- Talk to online: none.
- You sexed it up with: My mate almost a month ago. She is healing form a car accident so our sex lives are kinda sucky.
• × • A R E | Y O U • × •
- Understanding?: yes.
- Open-minded?: Yes.
- Arrogant?: you tell me.
- Insecure?: it depends on what and where do you mean.
- Random?: not really.
- Hungry?: not at the time.
- Smart?: yes and clever.
- Moody?: when am I not nowadays.
- Organized?: trying to be as much as I can.
- Shy?: No and if you give me some coffee I can be very talkative.
- Difficult?: It depends on what you mean. but I’m a sucker for shot skits and pretty eyes.
- Bored easily?: yes and no.
- Obsessed?: I can be at times.
- Angry?: Stupid sheeple and ass holes piss me off all the time.
- Happy?: After a good fucking or talking to someone with a brain.
- Hyper?: Coffee please!!!
- Trusting?: Only with close mates.
• × • R A N D O M • × •
- In the morning I: kicked the clock.
- Love is: a word but what is the connection to that word? My mate, flying, adventures, sex, nature,
Rating 1 though 10 on how do I feel about each question. 1 being (not at all) 5 (somewhat) 10 (very well) also I left some little comments behind my answers.
1. I do things according to a plan. (2) Meh, planning is no fun. XD
2. I take time out for others. (3) I am independant, they throw the hooks, and i'll bite if it's worth my time.
3. I feel unable to deal with things. (4) Depends on situation.
4. I love to help others. (10) I love helping people. I live to make others happy.
5. I seek adventure. (5) Hmm, not sure, depends on the day.
6. I often leave a mess in my room. (7) I'm an artist. Messy kinda comes with the territory i think.
7. I often carry the conversation to a higher level. (7) I'm usually the one coming up with topics, since i don't like awkward silence.
8. I get stressed out easily. (8) I'm easily stressed out, i don't like change, and i'm resistant to it.
9. I often make others feel good. (10) I live for making other people happy.
10. I am good at analyzing problems. (10) I'm highly Empathetic. I read people on first meeting them, and can usually figure out hoe they're feeling.
11. I usually stand up for myself. (9) Depends on the situation, but if someone took something too far and are way out of line i'm not adverse to shutting them up, with logic.
12. I am easily discouraged. (5) Depends on the situation.
13. I can handle a lot of information. (10) Photogenic Memory. it comes in handy.
14. I waste my time. (3) Time isn't wasted. People do nothing, but that's not WASTING time, that's simply choosing something else to do with it.
15. I catch on to things quickly. (9) It all comes down to paying attention in the right situations.
16. I usually wait for others to lead the way. (2) I Lead, you follow.
17. I love order and regularity. (2) Makes life boring.
18. I often do nice things for people. (7) Depends on whether or not they deserve the nice thing or not. I see through people, and a lot of them are greedy and egotistical.
19. I get angry easily. (5) I'm level headed, and i rationalize EVERYTHING. So no i don't get angry, i simply calculate the cold facts and react accordingly to the situation.
20. Warm (4) Not particularily, i'm a bit cold, it depends on the day, as well as who i'm talking to, i hate it when people pry for information, it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
21. Clever (10) Always.
22. Dominant (4) Usually i'm submissive, though if i feel out of control i get dominant, fast. there's a difference between submissive and slave, i'm a submissive. i choose the situation, the dominant decides the outcome.
23. Ambitious (4) Not ambitious, as i lack the willpower to force myself to do things.
24. Outgoing (5) Depends on the situation.
25. Agreeable (6) See 24.
26. Submissive (7) Most of the time, see dominant.
27. Introverted (7) I don't think i'm shy, i'm simply reserved about who i share information with and who i share it with.
28. Aloof. (1) nope.
29. Quarrelsome. (2) I don't cause shit, i end it.
30. Cold. (7) It's easier then being fake and hurting someone later over it.
31. Stable. (2) Sociopath mean anything to you?
32. Energetic (4)
33. Spiritual (8)
34. Adventuresome (5) I thought i've answered this already.
35. Frugal (10) I spend on what's WORTH my money. quality, not quantity folks.
36. Predictable. (5) Depends on the situation, most of the time i'm predictable but ehh i have my moods.
37. Affectionate (4) Not really, i am sometimes but in general i'm not a lovey-huggy-cuddly kinda kitten.
38. Intelligent (10) Intelligence is in the eye of the beholder. If you think that being perfectly capable of stringing together a sentence, is intelligent, then i suppose i'm intelligent.
39. Compassionate (9) Depends on situation.
40. Attractive (7) My personality is attractive, but only if i allow it to be. i'm comfortable with the way i look.
41. Loyal (10) Can't cheat, haven't tried, i don;t have the ability to be polyamorous.
42. Witty (8)
43. Content (2) Comfortable yes, content, no.
44. Spontaneous (6)
45. Sensitive (10)
46. Under-Achiever (8) If it's not broken, why fix it.
47. Generous (9)
48. Moral (4) Lawful evil. Nuff said.
49. Adaptable (3) No.
50. Communicative (5) Depends on situation, and my mood.
51. Honest (8) I don't lie, i do hold back details if they don't add to my defense though.
52. Sensual (10) Sensual in a dark this is gonna hurt, but i'll make sure you like it, way yes..., Sensual in the "let's cuddle, and dust a feather down your chest while you're blindfolded "no.
53. Liberal (3) I'm more conservative.
54. Patient (10) A vurtue, etc.etc.
55. Resilient (7)
56. Optimistic (5)
57. Conservative (8)
58. Passionate (10)
59. Reflective (9)
60. Caring (7)
61. Genuine (10)
62. Open (10) About myself, especially. i don't like illusions, though i'm pretty good at weaving them if i need to.
63. Self-aware (10) Very.
64. Over-Achiever (4) No.
65. Vivacious (6)
66. Wise (10) I should really be an Oracle.
67. Bossy (9) Yes.
68. Leader (9) I may be mostly submissive, but i am always Alpha.
69. Irritable (10) Yes. look it up in the dictionary and there's my name beside it.
70. Kind (5) Kindness is earned. as is respect. If i respect you i'll be kind.. If not you can expect me to introduce your face to the pavement. :3
71. Calm (10) Usually.
72. Healthy (2) No.
73. Knowledgeable (8)
74. Aggressive (10) It's not my fault i'm like this. I'm just not afraid of being assertive o agressive about what i want.
75. Outspoken (10) Yes.
76. Follower (1) I lead, you follow.
77. Rational (10)
79. Opinionated (10)
80. Restless (10) Eternity would be nice.
81. Romantic (10) I prefer the white horse, giant tower, shiny knights, rescued princess stories myself.
82. Well Educated (5) I don't believe in education, i do believe in proper grammar, and writing.
83. Selfish (8) Not gonna lie, i'm pretty selfish, the only time that changes is in bed.
84. Shy (5) i fake it till i make it.
85. Stubborn (10) until proven wrong.
86. Trusting (0) Trust is earned. i'm wary of pretty words and false promises.
87. Artistic (8)
88. Competitive (9) gaming only.
89. Creative (7) it depends on what mood I’m in.
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90. Imagine that your friends had to choose the best eight descriptions of you from the items listed below. Under line the four items that they would be most likely to pick:
FUCK THAT. i'll use *'s.
Good Listener *
Modest
Respectful*
Affectionate
Caring
Spontaneous
Physically Fit
Warm
Outgoing
Optimistic
Dependable
Romantic
Creative
Loyal*
Spiritual
Kind
Ambitious
Articulate
Rational
Easy-Going
Generous
Happy
Quiet*
Genuine
Intelligent
Hard Working
Thoughtful
Sweet
Passionate*
Energetic
Funny
Perceptive
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) absolutely (5) neither agree (10) absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. My personal religious beliefs are important to me. (0) If you sway me, i'll switch.
2. I enjoy a good joke (10)
3. I enjoy mingling with people on social occasions. (3) I feel awkward most of the time.
4. I am satisfied with my level of emotional development (8)
5. I am able to express myself in unique ways. (9) Lighting myself on fire... kidding.
6. I have a high desire for sexual activity. (5) meh i get enough RP, i usually enjoy sex only to get someone else off.
7. It is easy for me to engage in conversations with people I have just met. (10) I'm the queen of icebreakers. "So, what's your fetish?" :D
8. I tend to think "outside the box". (8) I rationalize. if it foesnt work i come up with something that does.
9. I view myself as well adjusted. (5)
10. I greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex
(10) Men are beautiful.
11. I often see humor in everyday life. (5) Don't care enough about it.
12. It is important for me to be viewed by others as a successful person. (2)
13. Being in settings where I will meet new people is an important part of my life. (0)
14. I ask questions in search of information. (0)
15. I think it is important to continually try to improve myself. (5) Don't care.
16. I care a lot about the physical shape I am in. (0) Don't care, the other party should love me for who i am, not what i look like.
17. I like to look at people of the opposite sex. (5) Depends on hormonal level.
18. It is important for me to take time to "smell the roses". (10) I coast my way through life, riding a seperate wave then most people. i move when i want to.
19. I need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied. (5)
20. I have an ability to make others laugh (9) I'm not funny at all.
21. I work much better if people follow my lead. (10) Yes.
22. My emotions are generally stable. (2)
23. I am proud of my educational background. (0) Small towns suck.
24. If I am not in control of a situation, it is better if I leave. (10)
25. My friends come to me when they are in difficult times because they know I can handle emotional crisis. (10)
26. I am more comfortable being a follower than a leader. (0) I lead, you follow.
27. I get upset easily. (0) Rationalize, then assess situation and then fix it.
28. People who are controlling irritate me. (10) See i lead you follow.
29. I think it is important to express my feelings whether they are positive or negative. (5) Don't care.
30. I prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings. (0) Emotions are what make us human.
31. I tend to either like someone a lot or dislike him/her a lot. (10) I see in black and white when it comes to people, i like you or i don't.
32. I like to be pampered. (8) It's nice, relaxing...
33. I generally feel better when I am around other people. (8)
34. When I get mad I tend to take it out on someone. (0) Usually i end up taking it out of myself.
35. Happy. (4)
36. Sad. (8)
37. Anxious. (10)
38. Confident. (3)
39. Hopeful. (0)
40. Fearful about the future. (10)
41. Angry. (10) Anger if just passion felt from a different angle.
42. Calm. (10) It depends on the situation.
43. Fortunate. (9) and fortunate to be able to hop on one foot, rub my belly, and pat my head at the same time along with other things.
44. Out of control. (2) I'm always in control, whether the person likes it or not, kitties have a way of making others their pets to do their bidding. not the other way around.
45. Fulfilled. (2) No~
46. Depressed. (4)
47. Energetic. (2)
48. Tired. (8)
49. Successful. (2)
50. Unable to cope. (0)
52. Satisfied. (2)
53. Misunderstood. (7)
54. Safe. (2) Nope. I'm danger.
55. Plotted against. (10) Comes with being a criminal mastermind. ;3
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Please rate 1 through 10 how strongly you agree or disagree with the following statements using the scale below:
(1) Absolutely (5) Neither agree (10) Absolutely
disagree nor disagree agree
1. I am looking for a long-term relationship that will ultimately lead to marriage. (10) Everyone wants that, does it happen, usually not.
2. When I get romantically involved, I generally tell my partner just about everything. (10) Honesty saves problems later.
3. It is difficult for me to let people get emotionally close to me. (10) I'm a scorpio, 'nuff said. if you make it past the cold exterior, and my questionable logic, then you're one of the lucky ones.
4. A "serious" relationship needs to be exclusive (i.e., monogamous). (10) Boundaries. They exist for a reason.
5. I know I can always count on the people who are closest to me. (4) Count on myself yes, other people no... because if you rely on other people to be there, then you expect them to be. it's easier to rely on yourself.
6. I don't need to have close friendships to be happy. (10) Don't need them at all, they're just nice.
7. Being monogamous helps build intimacy and trust in a romantic relationship. (10)
8. People often let you down if you depend on them. (10) Yes. They do.
9. It's important to me to have close friends in my life. (2) Meh on this one. Friends are nice, but i don't need them to be happy.
10. Being exclusive (i.e., monogamous) is one of benefits of being in a successful relationship. (10)
11. I sometimes find it difficult to trust people I get romantically involved with. (10) Trust issues, they stem from childhood, yes i've been to therapy about that, no it didn't help.
12. I find it easy to get emotionally close to people. (2) Not at first, it takes a while.
13. Being monogamous causes relationships to get boring over time. (7) It's biology, humans and animals only mate then get bored of eachother after time, living together with someone will make you slowly start to hate them regardless of your own feelings on the matter. it's the way humanity works.
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Please rate 1 through 10 to indicate how important each of the following characteristics would be to you in finding a partner for a relationship.
(1) Not at all (5) Somewhat (10) Very
Important Important Important
1. My partner's personal values. (6) I'm supportive, and have a soft hand to guide them by.
2. My partner's energy level. (5) Dun matter.
3. Enjoying the way I feel around my partner. (10) This is a must. if i'm not comfortable it will be straight up sex and i don't do that. it's got no benefits for me.
4. My partner's dependability. (10) I need someone dependable because i myself am not that dependable.
5. My partner's sex appeal. (3) Doesn't matter though i've got to admit if you've got nice eyes or a nice body it helps things out.
6. My partner's love of children. (8) I don't want children now, i DO want them someday, so yes it's important.
7. My partner's beliefs. (10) Important to me, since i love learning.
8. My partner's fun-loving nature. (5) This doesn't matter, i can always adapt to their needs.
9. My partner's physical appearance. (5) It doesn't matter too much but it is nice to be out with someone who wears clothing that isn't ripped, or who's underpants aren't popping though their clothing.
10. The chemistry between me and my partner. (5) Chemistry is just lust. Sex isn't important to me.
11. The similarities between me and my partner. (10) This is a must. if we've got nothing in common, i'm gonna be bored.
12. The romantic attraction I feel for my partner. (5) Not a huge factor, so long as they appreciate that i'm romantic.
13. My partner's personality. (10)
14. My partner's kindness. (10)
15. Our sexual compatibility. (5) Doesn't matter, if the relationship's good.
16. My partner's ability to communicate. (10) I can not read your mind so talk to me about what ever that comes to your mind good or bad.
17. My partner's skill at resolving conflicts. (10)
18. My partner's friendliness. (10) To me this is important, to others i don't care if you're rude or not.
19. My partner's capacity for emotional intimacy. (5) I adapt.
20. The friendship between me and my partner. (10)
21. Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner. (10)
22. Being able to tell my partner everything about myself. (10)
23. Being able to discuss with my partner how I am feeling
towards him/her. (10)
24. Having my partner be open with me about how he/she feels toward me. (10) If ya got issues please tell me instead of keeping them hidden.
25. Enjoying physical closeness with my partner. (7)
26. Being able to spend as much time as possible with my partner. (2) I'm the anti-clingy.
27. Doing special things to let my partner know how important he/she is to me (10)
28. Being able to make compromises. (2)
29. Showing my partner that his/her needs are as important to me as my own. (5)
30. Having similar ideas on parenting. (9)
31. Knowing that my partner is usually to blame when things go wrong. (0) When would be better. (3)
32. Having similar educational backgrounds. (0) They need to be understanding of mine though.
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A.What are the eight things for which YOU are the MOST thankful?
1.Internet
2. Shelter
3. Food
4. Books
5. Cats
6. Birth control
7. Nail Bats. ;)
8. Tea
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Please decide whether each of the following statements is a good description of you. For statements that are NOT at all like you, please type "False." For statements that are at least somewhat like you, type "True."
1. I enjoy many different types of recreational activities. False
2. I always read ALL of the warning literature on side-effects before taking any medication. True.
3. I sometimes drive faster than the posted speed-limit. False. I don't Drive.
4. If a store-clerk gave me too much change, I might keep it without telling them. True. It's their fault for being an idiot. And the Manager's fault for hiring said idiot. And the Store's fault for hiring said Manager. And the Board's fault for creating said Store. list goes on and on and on and on.
5. I generally want to come out ahead. Maybe.
6. I frequently have to work to overcome my shyness. True
7. I like some people just because they are popular with others. False.
8. I dislike some people. True.
9. I never worry about work-related issues. False.
10. I sometimes waste time when I should be working. True.
11. I would never lie, even if it wouldn't hurt anyone. False.
12. I do not give as much to charity as I could afford to financially. True.
13. At times I have raised my voice in anger. True.
14. I don't care what other people think about me. True.
15. I am sometimes tempted to make fun of people behind their backs. True.
16. There are times when I am envious of other people's possessions. True.
17. My house is often cleaner when I have company coming over. True.
18. I sometimes wish that certain other people would fail. True.
19. I am always even-tempered. True.
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Please use the scale below to rate your interest in the following things.
(1) none (5) some interest (10) very strong interest
1. Live Music. (10)
2. Eating (10)
3. Backpacking (7)
4. Astrology (10)
5. Movies (10)
6. Listening to Music (10)
7. Watching TV (10)
8. Reading (10)
9. Parties (2)
10. Dining Out (10)
11. Board Games (10)
12. Gadgets (10)
13. Traveling (10)
14. Art (10)
15. Participating in Sports (0)
16. Shopping (7)
17. Friendship (7)
18. Hunting (0)
19. Politics (0)
20. Pets (10)
1. Family (8)
2. Talk with friends (8)
3. Animal Rights (10)
4. Camping (10)
5. Religious Community . (10) I don't believe in religion, but support groups are nice so yeah.
6. Playing a Musical Instrument/Singing (9)
7. Science (10)
8. Teaching/Coaching (0)
9. Volunteering (8)
10. Watching Sports (0)
11. Going Out (10)
12. Protecting the Environment (10)
13. Conversation (10)
14. Religious Faith. (0) Change me to your side i dare you.
15. Hosting/Entertaining (0)
16. Maintaining a healthy diet (0)
17. Learning (10)
18. Church Involvement (0) If you've converted me, sure.
19. Video Games (10)
20. Exercising regularly to stay healthy (0)
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A.We all have things that interest us: art, sports, music, family, faith, the environment. What are you passionate about?
Nature and one day flying my own plain.
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B. Please describe two or six things that you most enjoy doing with your leisure time.
1. Internet Browsing
2. Reading
3. Drawing.
4. Painting my nails.
5. Planning my career.
6. Sleeping.
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Please use the scale below to rate your skill level in the following things.
(1) not skilled (5) somewhat skilled (10) very skilled
1. Socializing (6)
2. Entertaining in my home (0)
3. Achieving personal goals (7)
4. Using humor to make friends laugh (10)
5. Creating romance in a relationship (10)
6. Keeping physically fit (0)
7. Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis (9)
8. Helping those who are less fortunate or in need (9)
9. Resolving conflict (9)
10. Making art and culture an ongoing part of my life (8)
11. Finding and taking on challenging activities (7)
12. Finding creative solutions to everyday problems (9)
13. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle (8)
14. Making new friends (8)
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Please use the scale below to rate your abilities in the following things.
(1) not at all (5) somewhat (10) very well
1. I try to accommodate the other person's position (10)
2. I try to understand the other person (10)
3. I try to be respectful of all opinions different from my own (10)
4. I try to resolve the conflict quickly (8)
5. I try to avoid disagreement (5) I like to argue, if it's worth it.
6. I am passionate/intense about my position (5) No.
7. I try to drop an issue once it is resolved (6) I linger sometimes.
8. I try to resolve the conflict well (10)
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1. How much do you smoke?
Nothing at all
2. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to smoke.
Nothing at all.
3. How important is the amount your match smokes?
Important that they DON'T.
4. How much do you drink?
A few times a year
5. Please indicate the most that you would accept your ideal match to drink.
A few times a year
6. How important is the amount your match drinks?
Somewhat Important
7. How many children do you have who are 18 years old or younger and living full time in your home?
None
8. Aside from any children you or a new partner may already have, would you like to start a new family by having or adopting a baby?
No.
9. Would you be willing to accept a partner who has children 18 years old or younger living full time in their home?
No.
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1. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
My Grandparents.
3. The four things your friends say about you are:
Random
Crazy
Hilarious
Silly
4. What are three of your BEST life-skills? Computers, Investigating, Problem Solving
5. What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
Silence, Open Mind, Happy, Understanding, Patient, Outgoing.
6. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
That i can actually string two words together without looking ridiculous.
7. What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?
My patience for their ignorance.
8. How do you typically spend your leisure time?
Gaming, sleeping, reading.
9. What are five things that you "can't live without?"
A. Food.
B. Shelter.
C. Sleep.
D. Time.
E. Physical body.
10. Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
The Twilight Series. That people don't like the series because it's popular, and or because it changes the way people view vampires/anne rice's vampires are much better, they made vampires into whiny emo seductive things, and vampires are supposed to be scary, and not able to reproduce BAWWWWWWWWW.
11. Describe one thing about yourself that only your best friends know.
Beneath my shell i'm soft, and rather shellfish-like in texture.
12. Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you? I'm Messy. I like being messy.
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Must Have Traits In my mate type yes next to them.
(yes) Chemistry...
I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to
my partner.
(yes) Communicator...
I must have someone who is good at talking
and listening.
(yes) Sense of Humor...
I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy
the humorous side of life.
(Yes!!) Verbal Intimacy...
I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest
emotional thoughts and desires.
Emotionally Healthy...
I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy,
and able to share a stable life with
someone else.
Strong Character...
I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough
to do the right thing.
(yes) Artistry...
I must have a partner who has a passion for music,
literature, drama, art, and the
finer things in life either as a spectator or participant.
Education...
I must have someone whose educational achievements
match my own.
Exciting...
I must have someone who isn't afraid to take a
risk and who sees life as an
adventure.
(yes) Patience...
I must have someone who can handle life's frustrations
or momentary setbacks with
a patient, steady, demeanor.
Conflict Resolver...
I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather
than win arguments or
conflicts within our relationship.
(yes) Personal Habits...
I must have a partner who maintains high standards
of personal hygiene,
orderliness, and other personal habits.
(yes) Affectionate...
I must have someone who is comfortable giving
and receiving affection.
Energy Level...
I must have someone whose energy level matches
my own.
(yes) Intellect...
I must have a partner who is bright and can share
my understanding of the world as
well as enjoy discussing important issues.
Self-Confident...
I must have a partner who knows and believes in
himself/herself throughout life's
ups and downs.
(yes) Able to Accept Help...
I must have a partner who is willing to accept outside help for personal or relationship issues that are serious and important.
(Yes) Curiosity...
I must have a partner who is hungry for new information and knowledge and who strives to learn as much as possible.
Adaptability...
I must have a partner who is able to adapt to
life's surprises.
Kindness...
I must have a partner who is gentle and kind.
Organized...
I must have a partner who values structure in their life.
(yes) Tolerant...
I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate
divergent viewpoints.
Attractiveness...
I must have a partner who is considered "very
attractive" by most current standards.
Industriousness...
I must have someone who is willing to work hard
at whatever they do.
(yes) Emotionally Generous...
I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
Unassuming...
I must have someone who is able to accept criticism, and even admit to being wrong sometimes.
(yes) Loyal...
I must have someone I can count on to always support me.
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Values
(yes) Family Life...
I must have a partner who is committed to marriage,
home, and family.
(yes) Style and Appearance...
I must have someone who cares about the way they look and dress and has a sense of personal style.
(yes) Shared Politics...
I must have someone who has political beliefs which are the same or similar to my own.
(yes) Spirit of Volunteerism...
I must have a partner who shares my willingness to volunteer and support community and/or social causes.
(yes) Autonomy...
I must have a partner who will give me space to be
my own person.
(yes) Shared Interests...
I must have someone who is willing to share my
interests and passions.
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Family
No Children...
I must have someone who shares my desire to not have
children.
Family...
I must have someone who shares my desire to have
or adopt children.
Stepchildren...
I must have someone who will accept my children as
their own.
Parent Care...
I must have someone who is willing to help me take care of my parents, now or when the time comes.
(yes) Parenting Style...
I must have someone who shares my views about how
to raise children.
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Social Living
Sociability...
I must have a partner who loves to socialize with lots of different people.
(yes) Staying In...
I must have a partner who mainly enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends.
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Spirituality
(yes) Spirituality...
I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
Spiritual Acceptance...
My partner must accept and respect my spiritual beliefs, whether they share them or not.
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Financial
Responsible...
My partner must be financially responsible.
(yes) Relaxed...
I must have a partner who is able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life.
Ambition...
I must have a partner who shares my desire to achieve high financial and/or career goals.
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Sexuality
Abstinent...
I must have a spouse who has saved himself/herself
sexually for marriage.
Sexually Knowledgeable...
I must have someone who is mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner and is able to express himself/herself freely.
(yes) Traditional...
I must have someone who is reserved and traditional
in their sexual needs.
Passionate...
I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding.
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Can't stand to have in a potential mate. Type yes beside it.
Traits
Vanity...
I can't stand someone who is overly interested in
their physical appearance.
Dependence...
I can't stand someone who bases their happiness
on me.
(yes) Lying...
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially
to me.
(yes) Cheating...
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
(yes) Anger...
I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
(yes) Rude...
I can't stand someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation.
Unhappy at Work...
I can't stand someone who hates their job and
complains about it all the time.
(yes) Denial...
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
(yes) Workaholic...
I can't stand someone who treats everything in life
as secondary to their job.
Lazy...
I can't stand someone who likes to spend excessive time sleeping, resting or being a "couch potato."
(yes) Worrier...
I can't stand someone who easily loses perspective
and constantly worries.
Intolerance...
While I understand that religious conviction is a positive trait, I can't stand someone who is self-righteous and feels that their particular faith is the only one that matters.
Victim Mentality...
While everyone has times of self-pity, I can't stand someone who continually sees himself/herself as a victim.
Grudges...
I can't stand someone who has a chip on their shoulder.
Mean Spirited...
I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and
is mean to others.
(yes) Fiscally Irresponsible...
I can't stand someone who is incapable of managing
their money.
Hypochondriac...
I can't stand someone who has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the symptoms of their supposed illness.
Excessive Overweight...
I can't stand someone who is overweight.
(yes) Gambling...
I can't stand someone who gambles.
Intruding Family/Friends...
I can't stand someone whose relatives and friends are
constantly calling or visiting.
Depressed...
I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy
about their life.
Cynicism...
I can't stand someone who generally sees the world from
a cynical perspective.
(yes) Self-Centered...
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is
himself/herself.
Materialistic...
I can't stand someone who sees material items as a
measure of success.
Childishness...
I can't stand someone who is not emotionally mature.
(yes) Petty...
I can't stand someone who focuses on imperfection.
Boorishness...
I can't stand someone who is inclined to rowdy, vulgar or disrespectful behavior when "having fun."
Drugs...
I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational
drugs.
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Values
(yes) Flirts...
I can't stand someone who constantly flirts with the
opposite sex.
Television Junkie...
I can't stand someone who constantly watches television.
(yes) Poor Hygiene...
I can't stand someone who is not clean.
Gossip...
I can't stand someone who loves to talk about other
people.
(yes) Judgmental...
I can't stand someone who finds fault with everyone and
everything.
(yes) Addictions...
I can't stand someone who currently suffers from
addictions.
(yes) Undependable...
I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is
unreliable.
Foul Mouthed...
I can't stand someone who swears or uses inappropriate
language or humor.
Extremely Shy...
I can't stand someone who is so shy that they cannot open
up and share with me.
(yes) Political Correctness...
I can't stand someone who censors their thoughts and opinions with a politically correct agenda.
Recklessness...
I can't stand someone who has a careless and irresponsible manner when with others.
Sexually Obsessed...
I can't stand someone who is sexually obsessive.
Uninterested...
I can't stand someone who does not enjoy having sex on
a regular basis.
(yes) Infidelity...
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a
committed relationship.
Punctuality...
I can't stand someone who is always late.
(yes) Racist...
I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
(yes) Hypocrites...
I can't stand someone who holds a double standard for their actions and those of other people.
Pornography...
I can't stand someone who views or owns pornography
in any form.
Sloppy...
I can't stand someone who is unkempt.
Cheap...
I can't stand someone who is so tightfisted as to be
impractical.
Arrogant...
I can't stand someone who is obnoxiously cocky.
(yes) Pessimism...
I can't stand someone who always sees the glass as half
empty.