Asexuality
4 years ago
General
Listen up, savior!
So! I personally identify as homoromantic asexual, as I have literally no interest in sex at all, but I do like dating and cuddling with cute boys. In fact, I find the idea of vaginal sex downright disgusting, and anal sex is only slightly less gross.
And I know you're gonna be like "but you've written oral sex", and here's where I say "gotcha!" See, if you've paid attention to those instances, you'll notice that neither party is feeling anything even coming close to love. It's always a demonstration of the dominance of the "top", because I have a kink for that kind of thing.
Oh, and before anyone goes "you just haven't had sex with the right girl/guy", I'd like to counter by saying I've had both. I simply found the former gross, and the latter to be more boring than anything. Why shove my dick in a guy's ass when I could just... kiss it? Repeatedly.
I've had multiple people who have tried to argue with me about my own sexuality. One guy outright blocked me purely because of my sexuality, and more recently, someone tried to tell me I'm not actually asexual because... I have dated people?
??????
So, yeah! I just wanted to get that off my chest.
And I know you're gonna be like "but you've written oral sex", and here's where I say "gotcha!" See, if you've paid attention to those instances, you'll notice that neither party is feeling anything even coming close to love. It's always a demonstration of the dominance of the "top", because I have a kink for that kind of thing.
Oh, and before anyone goes "you just haven't had sex with the right girl/guy", I'd like to counter by saying I've had both. I simply found the former gross, and the latter to be more boring than anything. Why shove my dick in a guy's ass when I could just... kiss it? Repeatedly.
I've had multiple people who have tried to argue with me about my own sexuality. One guy outright blocked me purely because of my sexuality, and more recently, someone tried to tell me I'm not actually asexual because... I have dated people?
??????
So, yeah! I just wanted to get that off my chest.
FA+

Honestly, I've never dated irl, I've just never had a desire too so yeah, obviously I've never had irl sex either and I don't plan on changing that. That said, I could see some people not calling me ace because I do like stuff in fantasy on occasion.
Really, people make sex into too big of a deal and an asexual attempting sex and not liking it just comes off as even more asexual to me as you can at least then say you attempted it and still hated it.
Because you C A N