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4 years ago
Hamha!
As most of you know, my wife left me in the summer of 2018. She has been in 6 relationships with her current one seeming to be the one that will last.
As for me, I did not feel comfortable looking for a 'Special Some Pony', because I was still coming to terms with having lost all my physical eyesight, starting a new job that I only took to help our family during a time my, now ex-wife, would not have been able to work as a result of completing her Masters / Graduate Degree, and for how traumatized our son, Peep, was when he saw his entire world shatter into a million pieces.
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Nearly 4 years have passed and, upon sorting things out about how I define myself in terms of success and happiness, I feel it time to see if anyone out there may be interested in sharing time, space, and cuddly companionship with me both on and off the internet.
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Does anyone have any ideas how I may be able to best put myself out there to be considered someone's 'Special Some Pony'? I ask as, given the real me is 100% blind, many traditional ways of finding a companion are not very realistic. There is also the obvious matter of how my ex-wife made it constantly clear that she did not like the Yosh side of me and those whom I associated with who better express themselves through their creative and/or non-human personas.
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Given my Peep is going to be 15 on the 19th, I am not looking to start a new family. I just want someone who enjoys my company, is comfortable with who and what I am on the inside and out, and enjoys being held, cuddled, and loved. We would not even need to share a room together as I respect how we all need space to be ourselves and not everyone wants to be around their special some pony all the time.
Put more simply, I would like someone who 'genuinely' likes me for me. Someone who would not use parts of who I am as 'Weapons of Constant Shaming'. Someone who likes having someone by their side while playing video games and watching television shows and movies.
Wanting / liking to wear and/or use diapers is not a deal breaker / turn off. Truth be told, I seldom felt an explicit need for padding when I had my wife to snuggle, love, care for, and share time with. I'd still be writing the stories and sharing the material that I do, but would not do anything IRL with diapers unless it is something my 'Special Some Pony' would want to do, too.
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If anyone has any thoughts, ideas, resources, etc. I could use to, hopefully, find a companion to whom would not take advantage of my complete lack of physical eyesight, please let me know either in a comment, or PM.
It feels good to desire a companion again. The question now is if there is anyone out there who would be honest and true to a dino-duck butt who is more feminine than masculine, is 100% blind, and who is also more submissive than dominant...
Your Pal,
---Yosh E. O'Ducky ;)
As most of you know, my wife left me in the summer of 2018. She has been in 6 relationships with her current one seeming to be the one that will last.
As for me, I did not feel comfortable looking for a 'Special Some Pony', because I was still coming to terms with having lost all my physical eyesight, starting a new job that I only took to help our family during a time my, now ex-wife, would not have been able to work as a result of completing her Masters / Graduate Degree, and for how traumatized our son, Peep, was when he saw his entire world shatter into a million pieces.
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Nearly 4 years have passed and, upon sorting things out about how I define myself in terms of success and happiness, I feel it time to see if anyone out there may be interested in sharing time, space, and cuddly companionship with me both on and off the internet.
***
Does anyone have any ideas how I may be able to best put myself out there to be considered someone's 'Special Some Pony'? I ask as, given the real me is 100% blind, many traditional ways of finding a companion are not very realistic. There is also the obvious matter of how my ex-wife made it constantly clear that she did not like the Yosh side of me and those whom I associated with who better express themselves through their creative and/or non-human personas.
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Given my Peep is going to be 15 on the 19th, I am not looking to start a new family. I just want someone who enjoys my company, is comfortable with who and what I am on the inside and out, and enjoys being held, cuddled, and loved. We would not even need to share a room together as I respect how we all need space to be ourselves and not everyone wants to be around their special some pony all the time.
Put more simply, I would like someone who 'genuinely' likes me for me. Someone who would not use parts of who I am as 'Weapons of Constant Shaming'. Someone who likes having someone by their side while playing video games and watching television shows and movies.
Wanting / liking to wear and/or use diapers is not a deal breaker / turn off. Truth be told, I seldom felt an explicit need for padding when I had my wife to snuggle, love, care for, and share time with. I'd still be writing the stories and sharing the material that I do, but would not do anything IRL with diapers unless it is something my 'Special Some Pony' would want to do, too.
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If anyone has any thoughts, ideas, resources, etc. I could use to, hopefully, find a companion to whom would not take advantage of my complete lack of physical eyesight, please let me know either in a comment, or PM.
It feels good to desire a companion again. The question now is if there is anyone out there who would be honest and true to a dino-duck butt who is more feminine than masculine, is 100% blind, and who is also more submissive than dominant...
Your Pal,
---Yosh E. O'Ducky ;)
Fortunately, by starting now, I have a good chance of finding someone before I become an island IRL. :)
Thanks once more for your time and well wishes. *Snugs* They are greatly appreciated.
Unfortunately, I think, I'm the worst one to help you out in this situation. I just can think in a couple of websites for uh... brony dates, but I have never tested them and I cannot say anything serious. Sorry Yosh, that's all I can do for now...
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Please do not worry about sharing anything with me in which you may feel worthwhile. My goal in life, in the very least, is to not be one of those people who get all angry / upset over them having physical eyesight when I do not. (In 'The United States', we have a couple of organizations that represent the blind and visually impaired. They tend to attract a very grumpy crowd that take offense to things that, in my humble opinion, are not the core problem for the blind and visually impaired. Anyone with physical eyesight who has never lost eyesight and/or known someone who has lost vision has been taught how to understand, relate, and feel comfortable around someone like me, or with any other notable physical limitation / disability.).
*Snugs and pats your diaper softly* You can say whatever you wish to say to me, Sweetie. I know you would not ever seek to hurt my feelings. I trust you implicitly and hope that I have earned a similar degree of trust with you. :)
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I really am happy that I am able to talk with you again. I have missed our discussions. You have a way of making me feel all swaddled up in the arms of 'The Padded Princess' herself by just being how I have come to know you over these past years. You inspire me and keep me excited for what creative fun I can share with you in your art posts. (The fact you allow me, one who has never physically seen your art, develop stories based on what I remember from 'Friendship is Magic' combined with your strong ability to communicate what makes your picture special to you is truly one of the best things to happen to me in recent years. You proved to me that, just like 'Snowdrop' that I do not need my eyes to find my place in the world.).
Thank you, Sweetie. Now time for crinkle cuddles and padded dreams of pastel ponies and kind dragons from a land apart. :)
And also tell me if you want to know more about those sites. Maybe would you also would want to check a couple of Discord servers dedicated to ABDL and such? Tell me if you want to know more n.n
While you should take my advice with a grain of salt, I feel that casting a wide net and doing your best to socialize both online and offline (with the eventual goal of leaning more towards the latter) will be the path to finding companionship.
If you're looking for someone who will be accepting of all aspects of yourself, I would highly recommend making sure they know about all your interests and kinks once you feel like there is some magic between you, but before things get too deep. Obviously, in your first relationship, the interests came after it.
You could try www.fetlife.com as a possible place to hook up with folks with ABDL interests. I don't think I need to tell you to be careful there though!
*hugs* Best of luck Yosh. One day I hope I shall have the time to visit your neck of the woods.
I am definitely going to be a straight shooter when it comes to all in which makes me who I am. Truly, given how much like sharing time together, I can go without diapers in the relationship. However, I also need to still write and be creative in this area as, to date, it is the only region of cyber-space that has not done anything truly hurtful to me in over 13 years! (There was '1' incident a year, or so, ago. It was more of a horrific misunderstanding that blew way out of hand. Perhaps, if given the chance, I will have the opportunity to patch things up.).
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*Snugs* Thank you, Tacki. I appreciate your advice and hope to, as time progresses, find my 'very special some pony'. :)
Seconding this. Also seconding fetlife.
And if something you're into is a deal0breaker for them, it should be a deal breaker for you, because you deserve to have some one who respects you FOR you and not having to cut off pieces of yourself to try and make yoursellf into something for someone else. There are plenty of people out there.
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Ever since you taught me to not talk smack on myself back in 2010, I have been on quite the journey for self-acceptance without needing much, if any, external validation. I shall not be shamed by anyone ever again. More importantly, I will not feel shame for something that has done no harm to anybody.
(Therefore, I feel no need to identify as anything other than male, the reproductive role I was born with.)
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Oh! I will get you that update to 'Story 1' in just a moment. (I failed yesterday due to having more complexity in sending meaningful work samples post interviewing for a job on Tuesday per their request.).
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Speaking of thoughts, how are things going over on your side of the country? We're in a bit of a super-duper freeze here. I feel bad for the birds that get up early to tweet in temperatures that are in, or lower, than the teens.
Hopefully your animal friends are keeping safe and cozy as another winter passes by. I definitely look forward to hearing more of your adventures when Spring comes and you head out on your aid and rescue missions. (I still get warm fuzzies over how you saved that bbaby bird that fell from its nest.).
I now think of how, if you are interested and have a camera, it would be super fun and adorable if you shared images of your Fluttershy-like activities? You could share tales of critter personalities, like the finch, to make for fun reading and a digital record of all the good you and your mom have done.
Please tag me at yosheoducky when you may post. this way I can ensure I do not miss out on one of your delightful adventures in nature. :)