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I Don't Think I'm Meant to Socialize.
4 years ago
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I..just struggle so much to talk to literally anyone online and when I try to, I always fuck it up in some way at some point. Like, for example, I'd joke around in a chat, and it would backfire heavily, making me look like a massive asshole when my intent was to make people laugh or when I talk about a subject and people take it the wrong way and sometimes, I'm just flat-out ignored in general.
I want to talk to people and want to socialize, but it just... seems like I can't. With my current mental state, any sort of negative feedback is highly likely to send me into an anxiety/panic attack and make me want to close myself off from everyone and everything. It often makes me feel like a terrible person.
I just want to let people know that I mean no harm and that I am just bad at social stuff, if anything I said was offensive or off-putting, I am sorry. I don't mean to and generally just wanted to have fun or talk about stuff.
I want to talk to people and want to socialize, but it just... seems like I can't. With my current mental state, any sort of negative feedback is highly likely to send me into an anxiety/panic attack and make me want to close myself off from everyone and everything. It often makes me feel like a terrible person.
I just want to let people know that I mean no harm and that I am just bad at social stuff, if anything I said was offensive or off-putting, I am sorry. I don't mean to and generally just wanted to have fun or talk about stuff.
Like you said, you struggle to talk to peeps, so you aren't used to that and those people need to understand that and return the feedback when per say one oversteps their line. Hell I had done that before many of times but I been told said joke or statement was off timing. You just having people who aren't used to speaking right back when said thing is overstep.