tested positive for covid *very long rant*
3 years ago
This is what I have to say~.
sorry for not updating but yes I have indeed tested positive for covid and i am recovering and would like to rest till Im at 100% and ready to go again. But something else happened here and I am not happy about it, in fact it has made me feel terrible and I am just at a loss for words
The reason why I caught covid in the first place is because of my narcissistic sister, she is the living definition of a fucking karen. She doesn't care about anyone, the only thing she cares about is if it benefits her in some way shape or form. She became one of those "OH IM VACCINATED SO I NO LONGER HAVE TO WARE A MASK!" People and low and behold, her very first day of classes and first time being out of the house in over 3 years she catches it. And instead of self isolating in her room till she was better, she decided to sit in the living room, caughing and spreading the virus around EVERYTHING IN THE LIVING ROOM!!!! She is the main reason why I got sick, I was fine until a few days ago, it was then that I got sick and the rest is history.
So now a couple days ago, while I was sitting in here, working on commissions. Her boyfriend whom goes by the name of Travis, then calls me up and tells me to come out to the living room. I go out there and the very first thing he asks me is "How was your test?" Referring to my covid test which I took on Wednesday. I told him I tested positive for covid and he tells me "Sorry to hear that, now that I have your attention there is something I need of you, I want you to look at the blackboard as I have a list of things for you to do now that you have a lot of free time till you have to go back to work." And he points to my sisters black board that they have set up in the living room and on it is a list of chores that they have, and according to it, they are expecting me to be doing house chores WHILE I HAVE COVID!!!!
THAT'S RIGHT, I AM SICK WITH COVID, I CAN STILL SPREAD THE FUCKING VIRUS AROUND AND THIS FUCKER DOESN'T WANT ME RESTING IN MY ROOM HE WANTS ME UP AND MOVING AROUND DOING DISHES, CLEANING AND EVEN WORKING OUTSIDE WITH COVID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He CLAIMS that being in self isolation is not good and that it somehow makes covid worse? Im not sure if this is possible but I do know that it prevents it from spreading. The only person in our house who hasn't caught it is our dad and Im staying as far from him as possible I dont want him getting sick because of me.
Anyway, so instead of working on commissions like I wanted, now I am forced to do house chores for these sleezy disgusting and filthy people. Let me put it like this, the house used to be clean until my sister invited her boyfriend to come live with us and ever since the house has been filthy and its just disgusting.
One of the first things I had to do was the dishes and that took me 2 days to do and some of the dishes have been sitting in the sink for so long its disgusting. Like one of the things I found was a pot that was filled with old mac and cheese that was last made on thanksgiving 2021, it was black and moldy. Of course I couldn't throw away the pot it was in, all they told me was "Soak it in boiling hot soapy water for a bit, it'll be good" Yeah fucking right. So I ended up working for 3 hours and still didn't finish all of them. I ended up finishing up all but a couple the following day. So in all the whole process of doing dishes would have taken me 6 hours to do
because of how many there were...
Now if your wondering why doesn't he clean his own dishes? He claims that he has metal rods in his back and thus can't stand in one spot for so long without feeling lots of pain.
I call BS because of the short following.
1: He does a lot of bending
2: He does a lot of heavy lifting
3: He does a lot fo manuel labor that puts strain on the back.
So what he is saying is, he can do all this for hours on end but he can't stand in one spot and simply spend 10 minutes out of his life to wash his own dishes, pots and pans!?!?
We used to have a rule here which was "If you cook from it, ate from it or drank from it, you cleaned it" Its how we always had clean dishes ready to go in case someone wanted to use something for whatever reason but yeah. Ever since my sister invited him to come live with us, that rule doesn't apply to him and now the house is a fucking mess.
My sister is just as guilty as he is, let me put it like this. She decided in 2019 that she, at the age of 29, is going to reture from work and everyone, her boyfriend, my dad and me are going to be her sole source of income including her unemployment checks as well
So she sits around, all day every day doing nothing but wasting electricity, driving up the power bill and trashing the house and does noting to take any form of responsibility for it.
And now comes the biggest part of it. I am basically forced to clean their messes against my will, reason, they cleaim its because I don't contribute anything to the house and that I just basically live here and do nothing.
Well its kind a hard to want to do anything when you work all day and come home and wanna relax!!!!!
My idea of relaxing is coming in here and being in my own world, working on commissions and even just flat out talking with friends, but according to them "Talking with people on the internet is not the same as talking with someone face to face"
Im sorry for posting this rant journal, its just I've been dealing with their abuse since 2020 and i can't stand it anymore, me being infected with covid and them forcing me to work is the final straw
I want out of here and to move as far away as possible and finally I want to forget that I ever had a sister.
But since I have no RL Friends and worse, no one close enough for me to move in with. Im basically trapped here till Im some how even fucking able to get out...
The reason why I caught covid in the first place is because of my narcissistic sister, she is the living definition of a fucking karen. She doesn't care about anyone, the only thing she cares about is if it benefits her in some way shape or form. She became one of those "OH IM VACCINATED SO I NO LONGER HAVE TO WARE A MASK!" People and low and behold, her very first day of classes and first time being out of the house in over 3 years she catches it. And instead of self isolating in her room till she was better, she decided to sit in the living room, caughing and spreading the virus around EVERYTHING IN THE LIVING ROOM!!!! She is the main reason why I got sick, I was fine until a few days ago, it was then that I got sick and the rest is history.
So now a couple days ago, while I was sitting in here, working on commissions. Her boyfriend whom goes by the name of Travis, then calls me up and tells me to come out to the living room. I go out there and the very first thing he asks me is "How was your test?" Referring to my covid test which I took on Wednesday. I told him I tested positive for covid and he tells me "Sorry to hear that, now that I have your attention there is something I need of you, I want you to look at the blackboard as I have a list of things for you to do now that you have a lot of free time till you have to go back to work." And he points to my sisters black board that they have set up in the living room and on it is a list of chores that they have, and according to it, they are expecting me to be doing house chores WHILE I HAVE COVID!!!!
THAT'S RIGHT, I AM SICK WITH COVID, I CAN STILL SPREAD THE FUCKING VIRUS AROUND AND THIS FUCKER DOESN'T WANT ME RESTING IN MY ROOM HE WANTS ME UP AND MOVING AROUND DOING DISHES, CLEANING AND EVEN WORKING OUTSIDE WITH COVID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He CLAIMS that being in self isolation is not good and that it somehow makes covid worse? Im not sure if this is possible but I do know that it prevents it from spreading. The only person in our house who hasn't caught it is our dad and Im staying as far from him as possible I dont want him getting sick because of me.
Anyway, so instead of working on commissions like I wanted, now I am forced to do house chores for these sleezy disgusting and filthy people. Let me put it like this, the house used to be clean until my sister invited her boyfriend to come live with us and ever since the house has been filthy and its just disgusting.
One of the first things I had to do was the dishes and that took me 2 days to do and some of the dishes have been sitting in the sink for so long its disgusting. Like one of the things I found was a pot that was filled with old mac and cheese that was last made on thanksgiving 2021, it was black and moldy. Of course I couldn't throw away the pot it was in, all they told me was "Soak it in boiling hot soapy water for a bit, it'll be good" Yeah fucking right. So I ended up working for 3 hours and still didn't finish all of them. I ended up finishing up all but a couple the following day. So in all the whole process of doing dishes would have taken me 6 hours to do
because of how many there were...
Now if your wondering why doesn't he clean his own dishes? He claims that he has metal rods in his back and thus can't stand in one spot for so long without feeling lots of pain.
I call BS because of the short following.
1: He does a lot of bending
2: He does a lot of heavy lifting
3: He does a lot fo manuel labor that puts strain on the back.
So what he is saying is, he can do all this for hours on end but he can't stand in one spot and simply spend 10 minutes out of his life to wash his own dishes, pots and pans!?!?
We used to have a rule here which was "If you cook from it, ate from it or drank from it, you cleaned it" Its how we always had clean dishes ready to go in case someone wanted to use something for whatever reason but yeah. Ever since my sister invited him to come live with us, that rule doesn't apply to him and now the house is a fucking mess.
My sister is just as guilty as he is, let me put it like this. She decided in 2019 that she, at the age of 29, is going to reture from work and everyone, her boyfriend, my dad and me are going to be her sole source of income including her unemployment checks as well
So she sits around, all day every day doing nothing but wasting electricity, driving up the power bill and trashing the house and does noting to take any form of responsibility for it.
And now comes the biggest part of it. I am basically forced to clean their messes against my will, reason, they cleaim its because I don't contribute anything to the house and that I just basically live here and do nothing.
Well its kind a hard to want to do anything when you work all day and come home and wanna relax!!!!!
My idea of relaxing is coming in here and being in my own world, working on commissions and even just flat out talking with friends, but according to them "Talking with people on the internet is not the same as talking with someone face to face"
Im sorry for posting this rant journal, its just I've been dealing with their abuse since 2020 and i can't stand it anymore, me being infected with covid and them forcing me to work is the final straw
I want out of here and to move as far away as possible and finally I want to forget that I ever had a sister.
But since I have no RL Friends and worse, no one close enough for me to move in with. Im basically trapped here till Im some how even fucking able to get out...
same reason why taking your yearly flu shot doesn't stop you from infecting those around you.
it teaches your body how to deal with it better
I had a similar dynamic with my brother. When we were both in college, he went crying to our mother that he had barely just enough money to pay his tuition so she would guilt me into signing a one-year lease agreement on an off-campus apartment. After which he dropped all of his classes and spent the whole fucking year doing absolutely nothing but smoke pot and play Grand Theft Auto.
It's a point of pride for me that, after all that and more, HE was the one who rage-quit the family and cut himself out of my life... But I do sometimes wonder how much better things would have been if I'd told him to F.O.A.D. myself a lot sooner.
And after this colossal lump of shit your own sibling has heaped onto you, I would advise you to do two things:
#1: Stay motivated for the day when you can sever all ties with her too.
#2: Never let her fucking forget that she did this to you. Not even if she gets sick again and winds up on her deathbed.
sorry if i sound like a dick , but ....fuck your sister and her bf
hope you get better
I hope you can ask someone to find a way out of living with those bastards during this year. Best thing I recommend is start finding a suitable apartment to go live in, but I can understand saving money is difficult for that. A 1 bedroom 1 bathroom place should at least be affordable enough, cause at this point, I just see getting out of there to be more important than anything else.
I'm so sorry you've got people like that to deal with