UPDATE! Family update
3 years ago
Well if the news keep coming like this in waves, I'm gonna drown.
Sis got her confirmation letter yesterday for her approval. So she's getting HER paperwork done finally and I am extremely happy about that. The ONLY problem however, is that since I've been through the process like 4 times now, I gotta make a trip to Trinidad to get the finalization done with her. TRUST ME, I would LOVE to give it to someone else to complete this shit for her and I DID do that earlier. (backstory: Dad got a lawyer, and they've done NOTHING for the entire process, except mailing ALL the files that I/ME/MYSELF prepared and STILL, they managed to fuck it up when we got another letter stating one of the documents THEY COULDN'T FUCKING PHOTOCOPY RIGHT was denied. SIMPLE. FUCKING. TASK. Which delayed her shit for another 3 months.) The incompetency of professionals is fucking mind boggling. Now.. if this was a simple "go get your ID kind of thing" I'd tell my sister go fucking get it done and I would continue on my merry way. BUT this is LIFE CHANGING. I want her to have a life that she had on pause for the last 20 YEARS. So taking 3 to 4 weeks of my time is insignificant to her ENTIRE future.
I'm glad everything is happening all at once honestly... As much as I fucking hate it, I rather deal with all of it now, than in bits and pieces over the course of the entire year. I would loose my shit. I'm glad I can rant to you guys too. At least you have insight of exactly what the fuck is going on in my life so you'd have some idea why I am taking so long to do........ anything, honestly and why I'm stressing all the goddamn time...
I'll keep you all up to date with the details and DO MY BEST!... I guess... Just... a bit longer guys. I'll be free...... ONE FUCKING DAY.
Sis got her confirmation letter yesterday for her approval. So she's getting HER paperwork done finally and I am extremely happy about that. The ONLY problem however, is that since I've been through the process like 4 times now, I gotta make a trip to Trinidad to get the finalization done with her. TRUST ME, I would LOVE to give it to someone else to complete this shit for her and I DID do that earlier. (backstory: Dad got a lawyer, and they've done NOTHING for the entire process, except mailing ALL the files that I/ME/MYSELF prepared and STILL, they managed to fuck it up when we got another letter stating one of the documents THEY COULDN'T FUCKING PHOTOCOPY RIGHT was denied. SIMPLE. FUCKING. TASK. Which delayed her shit for another 3 months.) The incompetency of professionals is fucking mind boggling. Now.. if this was a simple "go get your ID kind of thing" I'd tell my sister go fucking get it done and I would continue on my merry way. BUT this is LIFE CHANGING. I want her to have a life that she had on pause for the last 20 YEARS. So taking 3 to 4 weeks of my time is insignificant to her ENTIRE future.
I'm glad everything is happening all at once honestly... As much as I fucking hate it, I rather deal with all of it now, than in bits and pieces over the course of the entire year. I would loose my shit. I'm glad I can rant to you guys too. At least you have insight of exactly what the fuck is going on in my life so you'd have some idea why I am taking so long to do........ anything, honestly and why I'm stressing all the goddamn time...
I'll keep you all up to date with the details and DO MY BEST!... I guess... Just... a bit longer guys. I'll be free...... ONE FUCKING DAY.
And it was over something so simple too. They couldn't just double check everything before they sent it in. Well now it's the embassy's turn and this should be MUCH simpler.
'Get it done, get it out of the way so you can go back to doing you' is kind of the best you can do tbh.