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16 years ago
:/ ... *sigh*
My mother has passed away yesterday. I feel... Lonely and empty. Still in shock.
I miss you, mom...
My mother has passed away yesterday. I feel... Lonely and empty. Still in shock.
I miss you, mom...
youve been caught in action!
We're here for you. You must remember don't dwell on just the person's death you must keep the wonderful times you shared in mind too.
I'll pray for your peace and that the loneliness heal.
thank you for your kind words, I greatly appreciate *hugs tightly*
I hope things look up for you soon..
If you choose to believe me, is up to you, but the truth is that my own mother died a few years ago, and to make it sound even less unlikely, she died from the same illness. So while I will not say that I understand how you feel, I can somewhat relate to what you're going through.
As much as you may not want to hear it, the path ahead of you will be rough and rather painful, so you must brace yourself for that.
You will experience an unmeasurable number of "oh... she..."-moments, seeing or hearing things that reminds you about her, or things she used to do. Don't discard these, let them flow and remember, cry if you must, it will help you through the pain and fear of what is to come. You will also feel a strange emptiness left behind, in the house and everywhere else, this is normal and helps you remember her. Try to remember good things, rather than bad if that happens. The good things she made, perhaps the good cooking she made, perhaps how she took care of the family pet, or anything else that portrays her in a positive light.
If you ever feel the need to just cry, you should do that, don't keep it in. It is natural to cry when you loose someone that is that close and important to you.
You should also be aware that the funeral that is to come will be painful, perhaps even more painful than the actual death, but do not flee or hide, you must attend it or you may regret it for the rest of your life.
The funeral may feel empty and meaningless, but do not feel bad. The funeral is simply a mere gesture of honoring. What is really important is how you keep her in your heart, think about her, miss her, and overall remember the wonderful person she used to be.
After the funeral, things will slowly get better.
The pain will fade away, and slowly you will get a sensation of having her behind you always. Like if she is always watching over you, from wherever she may be, protecting you, telling you that things are alright, illuminating your path in life with a soft, caring light even when you feel as if you are lost in darkness.
The memories will slowly take a turn for the better, but you will always remember the death and your last day together, and it is important never to forget this. In return, all the bad memories of her will eventually vanish, while the kind and warm ones remains forever, so that whenever you remember her, you will always remember her as the good person she was deep within.
Like everything, you will eventually learn to live with it.
The feeling of something missing will however always be there to some extent, but only to remind you about all your happy moments together.
Now, the important thing is that you do not tend to FA, you should deal with yourself, and your emotions first hand. And I'm sure nobody disagrees with me.
And if you ever need support, do not feel bad to ask it from your friends, they are there to help you.
I too will offer myself to you. If you ever need to talk, ever have any questions, ever feel confused, or simply just need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here.
We may not be friends, but we are still brothers in loss.
I know it will feel weird to ask for help, for talks, or for hugs, but my offer stands, and so does all your friends, me and them are here when you need us.
And remember that your mother is no longer feeling any pain or suffering, no worry or heartache. That she has accepted this path, and will be there to guide you throughout your entire life, for as long as you may live.
May peace be with you, my friend, I wish you the best in these rough times of yours. *hugs*
My sympathies, Shubert.
http://www.neopets.com/ntimes/index.....;amp;issue=416
I wasn't expecting this...
I don't know what your whole take on religion and stuff But I will be praying,
Do you at least still have other family?
I'm so sorry.
I can't imagine what it's like to lose your mother, as I have not yet, but I can only imagine...
It'll be ok~
It's best not to linger on the death, but on the moments you cherished with her. Always keep those memories close to your heart^^~
*GALKAHUGS*!!!
I have lost the two strongest women that I’ve known in my life to cancer; my mom and my dearest friend.
The only thing that I can tell you is that the memories of the love do endure… the sadness will fade…
-John