I would be curious to know what the movement feels like to her!

Yeah definitely gonna have a movement question or two~

That is the same question I would ask ^_^.

How does it feel to be pregnant? Would you say it's positive or negative overall?

God, that's an interesting question.

I feel like I'd personally be awkward about it because most of my friends know how I feel about pregnancy, but provided I did, I'd probably just ask what it's like to feel them in there.

I literally have zero frame of reference for the feeling of growing another person in my body, feeling the kicks, all that, I'd ask for their perspective.

I'm very happy for you! ^^

Tbh... I'm not sure I could come up with any questions. On the one hand, at this point I'm probably too shy to ask, haha. On the other hand, my curiosity is insatiable and I'd want a whole book on her experiences.

Mostly I'd like to learn what's going on in her head, and her heart. "How do you feel" is super vague, but... yeah. What does it feel like? What is the interplay between the physical reality of having another life in your body, and what feelings does it stir when you're aware of it? What are your fears for the future, and your hopes?

I was definitely pretty shy about it. I really wish she would have known my feelings towards it and how personally touching her offer was to me. I have a feeling if she had known it would have been a bit more.... in depth?

Like not just a passing feel, but an actual sit down Q&A.

Wouldn't this technically be art imitating life?

And I'd ask if I could listen for a heartbeat, too.

Ooo that's a good one! (I just googled and yes it's possible, if difficult)

Oh gosh I could NEVER ask to listen for a heartbeat. I'd be too afraid. Not to mention I would very likely get hard and that's not something I want them to see.

I've never actually rubbed a pregnant belly before in my life, but if I did, I would ask if she would like me to give her belly a massage

Well, not to get too deep or anything, but if they were a good friend, I'd probably ask them how they feel about how people treat them when they're pregnant? And if they appreciate or get annoyed by being treated that way.

AWW!! ^^

What is it like to carry another life? What is one of your favorite parts?
Also man oh man you’re a lucky guy!

An excellent question!

I would probably start by asking "how" to touch a belly like that. Despite my time in genre, I genuinely don't know how someone would approach that irl in a way that she would like/want, and I'd presume most who haven't had that experience would probably feel similarly.

I have a more philosophical question, so I wouldn't recommend asking it unless you are fairly confident that the question would be well received. It is a bit convoluted, but it's one that could be quite thought-provoking: How well do you feel that you know (and will get to know) your baby during pregnancy? That might sound a bit confusing (and perhaps even offensive), so I will try to explain.

Having a baby connected to you within your womb is such a complex relationship. On one hand, it is intimate, the closest you will ever be to them. On the other hand, you still have yet to physically meet the little one. You sense them, and are able to catch a glimpse of them through the power of technology, but there is still an element of wonder. When you try to enter the mind of your baby, does it feel like you projecting yourself and your own thoughts on them, or do you truly feel a deeper sense of knowing--the motherly intuition, if you will?

The cool thing is that both answers are exciting in their own way. The latter (the "I can't explain how, but I somehow just know") is sacred, and that spiritual connection is powerful. The former (the "I don't know") is a thrill; you encounter bonding moments during gestation with a curiosity that comes from exploring, while also accepting and savoring that element of mystery. I love this idea of pregnancy leaving both impressions simultaneously: the expectant mother knows her child better than anyone, yet still has room to marvel at what more she has yet to learn about them.

In my case, I think the first thing I would say to that future mother would be the typical questions of "How do you feel about it?" "Can I hear their heartbeat?" or "What name will you give him" (This last one can vary depending on the number and gender of the children that are on the way). But being honest, I would dare to say that the fact that she let me touch her fertile belly is the best thing that has ever happened to me in my life and that I will never forget this incredible moment (I also want to add "Can I draw a picture of you?" sure, if she is willing to let me use her body as a model).

On the other hand, I'll tell you the same thing I said on Twitter: "Sir, you just earned all my respect." xD

I too would ask what the movement feels like to her and how often she feels it

Does the movements feel reactive or just random?

"Yes"

To see the beauty of life that is created and growing inside the female's bellies! Month after month during the pregnancy, their bellies get bigger and bigger. It's a heavy burden to carry, but they endure it. Because they treasure it! The sensation of life they feel inside their tummy. The movements and the growth, and after the full term of their pregnancy. It won't be long until their babies are born in the world they will explore.

If I didn't get stage fright since I have a kink for pregnancy, I would most certainly ask what it's like to grow another person inside them. Either that or how it feels to feel them kick.

I had two experiences where I was able to touch a pregnant belly. One was while I worked at Dollar General, where a girl that graduated in the same class as me came in and I politely asked if I could feel (since we knew each other). I only stopped touching because despite that I was in uniform, I felt myself getting hard and didn't want anyone to notice, especially not her. I don't think she did, though.

The other was when my cousin was pregnant with her second baby in ten years. Since it was so far out from her first one, she had a baby shower, and I specifically took the day off for it. She had remembered back at Christmas time from the year before that I wanted to feel her belly, and invited me over to her. What didn't help was that the ENTIRE FAMILY stared me down. The baby moved and I pulled my hand back. After everything died down I ran off to the laundry room where my aunt asked what was wrong. I told her that I was absolutely embarrassed to feel my cousin's belly (I absolutely did NOT say why, that's none of her business). She reassured me that it was normal for a guy to be curious on what that's like.