Some random person messaged my wife something like "Her not liking drama but she married an active kinkshamer" but like... I don't know if they confused me with somebody else, are trolling, or are just confused because I am not particularly active, and don't give a crap what somebody has as a fetish? As long as I can opt out of it if it's one I don't personally like. I am allowed to curate my online experience, I can dislike a fetish if I want, but like... I just... avoid it??? Or at least try to, which can be hard at times. I am definitely looking forward to the tag filtering that I believe is planned for fA's future, but I mostly just try to ignore things that seem weird. And even if morbid curiosity makes me click (Come on, sometimes things just... look so odd you can't not look!!!), I usually just click away without commenting or anything. I rarely draw NSFW anymore... and don't really consume it that much either. I just sorta lost interest over time. *shrugs*

My philosophy has always been "You do you, fam" and I rarely comment anywhere online anymore... so I literally haven't the foggiest idea where they could have possibly gotten that from. I am more amused than anything.

The only places I am active and regularly talk and chat are Discord servers I own... and that's always just random stuff, rarely even NSFW related. I just post art and adoptables here on occasion, or (try to) sell adoptables.

It makes absolutely no sense because I can't even think of where they even got it from so maybe they have me confused with somebody else?

I dunno... it's weird. But also, admittedly, rather amusing.

So, apparently, I am an "Active Kinkshamer" or something lmfao

Despite, ya know... not being very active. And not shaming anybody over what they're into. You do you, fam. I don't care what gets your rocks off... If I don't like it, I'll avoid it. Enjoy what ya enjoy. No skin off my teeth. Dunno why you think I'd care what you're into, but... go off, I guess?