Hi! 🤗💜🦥

I came home from vacation! Well, that was an interesting journey:

💦 it gave you a new YCH on the marine theme - *click!*
💦 and helped me get closer to peace of mind. Finally х)

Okay, what's the news?

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1️⃣ ABOUT COMMISSIONS: information for my customers

During my vacation, I drew sketches for all orders, so within a couple
of days I will write notes to everyone with updates! 💌

2️⃣ ABOUT MY VACATION: my personal drama and a small lifehack

Remember when I said I was going through some emotional problems?
This year we went to the sea together: with my mom and her boyfriend.
Their long-distance relationship lasted about 2 years, and he was able
to move to our city only now. So I met him for the first time just this month...
I got into a situation where I need to live in the same apartment with a man
I don't know at all and who occupies a huge place in my mom's life.

Well, it was difficult. My mom didn't have a relationship for a long time and
I got used to the fact that it's just the two of us (my dad has been living
separately for a long time). And now a new family member has suddenly
appeared, who will soon become my mother's official husband. I felt lost.
I felt that my old world was just lost. My memories with my mom have
disappeared and now everything is divided into three persons....

I wondered, "Why did I come here if these two are busy with their
relationship? I don't belong here..."

Well, I have to admit, I'm a drama queen. I am a very emotional person,
this is my gift and curse. Sometimes it seems to me that emotions are
beyond my control and I react to some things too radically...
Well, it's funny, but now I'm not alone. It turned out that Mom's boyfriend
is also emotional and, haha, sometimes he was just as offended as I was
and feeling unnecessary. It's like we got into a kindergarten branch 🤪💩
In this situation, I feel most sorry for my mother, who was between the
two sides in such situations :с

Well, now everything seems to have gotten better and our emotions have
subsided. On this journey we were a team and experienced many fun
moments. I'm going home in 10 days (now I'm home too, haha, but 90%
of the time I live in a big city, very far from here). I'll probably come back
a little different person 😌🙏


3️⃣ A BIT OF LIFE WISDOM:

On the road we listened to Vadim Zeland audiobook "Reality transurfing"
and I really liked the idea from there.
Zeland says that all our "bad" emotions and problems are due to the excess
importance of any things in our life. If a person overestimates money, then
they will face their lack or drive themselves into workaholism. If a person
overestimates the love they will be jealous of the partner, or will be in an
endless search for the ideal, and so on. This is the main idea.
All we need is to accept the world as it is and seek balance in our perception.

- Is it very important to me?
- No.
- I don't care about that?
- No.

Harmony, not overabundance. This way we won't turn into an insensitive tree,
but we won't give in to emotions either.

I want to read this book in full when I get home, and I highly recommend it
to you, at least for general acquaintance with this idea. At least it resonated
very much for my situation and when I get into bad thoughts I say to myself:
"Oh no, girl, relax! is it really that important?" 😏

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Well, that's all the news for now! х)
Maybe my thoughts will be useful to someone 😌💜
I wish you a good day and pleasant summer days! 🍍🌿