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Bad Memory
3 years ago
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I tend to forget things I've done or words I've exchanged with people, to the point where I'll accidentally repeat questions to people I've already gotten the answer from long ago. On one occasion someone thought I was being malicious by repeating a question I asked weeks/months ago and then blocked me before I had a chance to explain myself. It's quite troublesome..
do you remember who that person was?
so maybe you should let go?
Whatever it is, you can always ask me a question even if you forgot or if you think you’ve asked it before. I certainly won’t like be that very mean person you experienced..
It's just that you meet so many people online, I think. And they do not leave such a recognizable impression on us like RL people do. Our minds simply only can remember this much.
I tend to write "key facts" into the the private "note" Discord allows you to write for every user. Annoyingly that's limited to 255 letters.
It's just something ya gotta deal with. If they aren't willing to listen that's their problem.
I don't think it's a condition necessarily, might just be something our brains process differently.
Naturally i had really bad memory before all that 2020 stuff, but after sickness it became a disaster. The only thing i told all my friends: One day i will forget you all. All the good things you did to me, all the kind words you said to me. Forgive me and forget me. As everything goes to oblivion... That's how i feel and what i'm readying myself for. One thing is for sure- i have the same problem: repeating questions, losing details, forgetting learned things...
I hope it will turn better for you.