The adult industry is very male-focused in terms of the male genital must be sizeable and consume in the male fantasy

Lesbian stuff is more reliable that way. One of them has to take the lead, and at least one of them will come. But if you want straight stuff, yeah that's a challenge.

For animation it seems there's usually a bit of a cop out where they both finish at the same time. Making an animation takes a lot of time and effort so I kinda understand, but I've definitely seen videos where it would've been way better if they focused on her pleasure more, even if it was to show how she was being dominated, humiliated, etc. but they won't even do it for that.

I'm not as familiar with comics but hmm, there's less barrier to entry for that. I would do it but I can't draw lol. Much easier to write it in stories.

Also kinda related, maybe I've mentioned it before, but there's a certain kind of art trope that only seems to go one way. It's usually post sex where there's a guy looking at the viewer with a smug or jaunty smile in the middle of two or more exhausted gals. That's cool and can be funny depending on how it's done. But I'm not sure if I've ever seen it gender reversed. It's probably good I can't draw because I would probably do something silly like make a smug gal on top of a pile of like 10 exhausted dudes.