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Life Update (its bad)(and long)
3 years ago
My dream is to create art & commissions for the rest of my life. As I mentioned in the previous entry, my wonderful grandmother, who I've been caring for these past few years, has passed away. Now my partner and I are trying to get out of a bad situation. Read on for more details..
When I was getting ready to leave the funeral home after making her final arrangements, my step-aunt parked next to my vehicle, jumped out, and opened my vehicle's door. She proceeded to scream at me, and kept yelling "fuck you" and "you're going to meet your reckoning real fucking soon". I thought she was going to attack me (she told me years ago that she keeps a gun in her vehicle), but she stormed off instead. I was already crying before this happened. I've been an emotional wreck and this made it far worse.
She claimed she did this because she hadn't been told about my grandmother's passing, despite the fact that the last time she was allowed in our house(trailer), she screamed at my grandmother, told her to get out, and accused her of using drugs. My step-aunt has never been allowed inside since. (She claimed she was screaming at "my stupid ass", but I wasn't even there at the time, so...)
The day after the funeral home incident, my step-aunt followed me and my partner home in the dark while I was driving home, and parked right behind us in the driveway in front of our trailer. She got out, banged on the doors/windows, tried to open the vehicle's doors, and was yelling that she wasn't going to sign the papers to allow my grandmother to be buried next to her deceased husband*. My partner called the police. As soon as step-aunt realized this, she left.
The officer arrived and I (very shakily) explained as much as I could, including what happened at the funeral home. He said I should have called at the funeral home, too, and to call again if she ever comes back.
Afterwards, we had to scramble to secure a different plot so that my grandmother could be laid to rest. Thankfully, a nice aunt allowed us to purchase a plot from her that she had access to.
Sorry for the long journal, but I want to let everyone know what is happening. We're still stuck here in the trailer that is on the step-aunt's property, and we NEED to move ASAP.
I tried to keep everything here relevant, but honestly, if it seems like I left anything out, or if anyone has any questions about all of this, note me. I'll do my best to answer and update this journal, too. I know this is confusing, but I'm so tired and weary.
*It turns out my step-aunt owns the plot my grandmother was supposed to be buried in, next to my grandfather. I have no clue how this happened, but my great uncle said that at one point, he thinks my grandfather cashed in his life insurance policy and trusted her with the money to go purchase my grandmother's plot. I have no idea what step-aunt is going to do with the plot next to my grandfather now, but at least my grandmother is hopefully at peace..
I keep having dreams that my grandmother is sad or upset because she is not buried next to papa..
When I was getting ready to leave the funeral home after making her final arrangements, my step-aunt parked next to my vehicle, jumped out, and opened my vehicle's door. She proceeded to scream at me, and kept yelling "fuck you" and "you're going to meet your reckoning real fucking soon". I thought she was going to attack me (she told me years ago that she keeps a gun in her vehicle), but she stormed off instead. I was already crying before this happened. I've been an emotional wreck and this made it far worse.
She claimed she did this because she hadn't been told about my grandmother's passing, despite the fact that the last time she was allowed in our house(trailer), she screamed at my grandmother, told her to get out, and accused her of using drugs. My step-aunt has never been allowed inside since. (She claimed she was screaming at "my stupid ass", but I wasn't even there at the time, so...)
The day after the funeral home incident, my step-aunt followed me and my partner home in the dark while I was driving home, and parked right behind us in the driveway in front of our trailer. She got out, banged on the doors/windows, tried to open the vehicle's doors, and was yelling that she wasn't going to sign the papers to allow my grandmother to be buried next to her deceased husband*. My partner called the police. As soon as step-aunt realized this, she left.
The officer arrived and I (very shakily) explained as much as I could, including what happened at the funeral home. He said I should have called at the funeral home, too, and to call again if she ever comes back.
Afterwards, we had to scramble to secure a different plot so that my grandmother could be laid to rest. Thankfully, a nice aunt allowed us to purchase a plot from her that she had access to.
Sorry for the long journal, but I want to let everyone know what is happening. We're still stuck here in the trailer that is on the step-aunt's property, and we NEED to move ASAP.
I tried to keep everything here relevant, but honestly, if it seems like I left anything out, or if anyone has any questions about all of this, note me. I'll do my best to answer and update this journal, too. I know this is confusing, but I'm so tired and weary.
*It turns out my step-aunt owns the plot my grandmother was supposed to be buried in, next to my grandfather. I have no clue how this happened, but my great uncle said that at one point, he thinks my grandfather cashed in his life insurance policy and trusted her with the money to go purchase my grandmother's plot. I have no idea what step-aunt is going to do with the plot next to my grandfather now, but at least my grandmother is hopefully at peace..
I keep having dreams that my grandmother is sad or upset because she is not buried next to papa..
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