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Broke up with GF, but realising myself
2 years ago
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Hi Everyone, hope you are all ok.
Not as sad as you may think from the title. I've broken up with my girlfriend after 6 years together, but it's amicable, and it was evitable. We'll still be friends, but there's an important thing I have come to terms with. I am asexual. Neither of us could give what each other needed, and she understood. I was never good in the bedroom department, and my gf couldn't do the abdl side of me, but she tried so many times. Even though she use to consider herself a little, she wasn't ABDL herself. Also, she had no interest in my furry side, which developed over the course of our relationship. Please don't think I'm painting her in a bad colour. She is a very kind person, and does brilliantly raising her daughter who has ASD.
Being ACE was something I have been contemplating for a few years now. 10 years ago I would never have considered myself asexual, but that's because I didn't know the full meaning nor understood it. I don't have sexual desires for people. I'm still an ABDL switch and that is what makes my flag fly, so to speak. But, its what a little or CG does that gives me the attraction, not how the individual looks or appears. I hope I could still develop that bond with someone who feels the same way, and love again. But I'm in no rush.
I still got lots to think about personally. I need to get heathier, and meet more people. I got Confuzz to look forward to, and hopefully some more things in the pipeline. Plus my father's estate needs to be liquidated, so I can buy own place. So going to be busy!
Take care everyone #^0^#
Not as sad as you may think from the title. I've broken up with my girlfriend after 6 years together, but it's amicable, and it was evitable. We'll still be friends, but there's an important thing I have come to terms with. I am asexual. Neither of us could give what each other needed, and she understood. I was never good in the bedroom department, and my gf couldn't do the abdl side of me, but she tried so many times. Even though she use to consider herself a little, she wasn't ABDL herself. Also, she had no interest in my furry side, which developed over the course of our relationship. Please don't think I'm painting her in a bad colour. She is a very kind person, and does brilliantly raising her daughter who has ASD.
Being ACE was something I have been contemplating for a few years now. 10 years ago I would never have considered myself asexual, but that's because I didn't know the full meaning nor understood it. I don't have sexual desires for people. I'm still an ABDL switch and that is what makes my flag fly, so to speak. But, its what a little or CG does that gives me the attraction, not how the individual looks or appears. I hope I could still develop that bond with someone who feels the same way, and love again. But I'm in no rush.
I still got lots to think about personally. I need to get heathier, and meet more people. I got Confuzz to look forward to, and hopefully some more things in the pipeline. Plus my father's estate needs to be liquidated, so I can buy own place. So going to be busy!
Take care everyone #^0^#
hope things improve for you! :)